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My Top 5 Recommendations For A Dorm Altar

(Part 1 of my Back To School Series)

1. Set aside some shelf area. If you want, you can get a small shelf specifically to sit on your desk for your altar.

2. Get some electric candles. They are fairly affordable, will not set off your dorm’s fire alarm, and I highly doubt that they will get you in trouble with your RAs.

3. Get yourself a cute teacup and saucer set. You can find them at pretty much any thrift store, and together they work as a great libation cup and offering dish set that isn’t going to weird out your roommate.

4. My personal favorite way to replace incense is to get one of those reed oil diffusers. They’re pretty cheap online and at discount stores, they will make your room smell good (obviously), and I love to use them to replace incense in the dorm.

5. If you don’t have any deity statues, or don’t feel comfortable displaying them, you can draw your own depiction of whatever gods you currently worship, use a symbol of theirs, or simply print out pictures online.

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From one amigo to the next. For college dorms would you pick the really small suite style (bathroom shared by four) dorm with yucky carpet and a kinda ugly sink OR the newly renovated traditional style (bathroom at the end of the hallway) bedroom with a way larger space and nicer closet/ sink? I'm pretty sure that this would be obvious to do the traditional but I need insight from college people

ARE THERE THINGS I AM NOT PICKING UP AND NEED TO HAVE PUT DOWN OVER HERE?!

College Advice needed

Ok so I am a rising freshman looking at making my college packing list, and I need some advice. I'm staying in a double room with an attached bath dorm-wise, and I have a few questions for y'all who have been to college recently (within the past 10 years)...

What's the most useless thing you brought that you could have done without?

What's the one thing you didn't think to bring but wish you had?

What was the stupid thing you kept fighting with your roommate about?

How hard is it to drag yourself to class, really?

What types of activities should I look for on campus?

What activities should I avoid on campus?

Should I get a penpal?

How strict are RAs in general? Is it as bad as pop culture says?

Are classes really like, absolutely fucking massive?

Do you have any other advice?

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i ran out of tags at the end i just content warning not feeling well not speaking well and also stressed out vent content warning but i will fine in the morning if somebody wants to not listen everything is okay im just having trouble and im not speaking well

for ending is just i don’t know i just am stressed out i want to know how to do it right and not being other people have to fix everything for me isn’t fair. and i just want to feel normal good not have complicated on top of everything. and i want to anpolkgize not while being making it worse from not speaking good i don’t know what to do. i hope everybody is doing okay bottom tags is just same but not for from the beginning. i hope everyone is doing well and please be just stay away if makes you not feel safe im not good at when somebody doesn’t say good and it’s not anybody’s fault. i just dont know where for who to tell to i just hope for everyone is okay and sorry for bothering

Do you have any advice for adjusting to living in a small dorm room?

Honestly, I may not be the best person to ask for advice for this. It has been a very long time since I lived in a dorm for any meaningful amount of time. Last summer I was in a dorm for 7 weeks during a dig, but that was a double single situation, which might be a little different.

I think that the best thing I can tell you is to keep your bed and your desk separate. Do not use your computer/do work in your bed. I know that sounds like some very Boring Adult sleep hygiene stuff, but as a chronic insomniac it's one of the very few things that has helped me.

Beyond that, try to be thoughtful about cultivating your space. When you're confined to such a small area, the vibes matter. It doesn't have to have that perfect tv dorm room look, but try to be aware of how your surroundings affect your functioning.

-Reid

(hi hello just popping in to say i’m not dead or ignoring anyone or mysteriously disappeared, i’ve just been busy moving for university)

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College Dorm Room Essentials

College days are definitely among the most fun phases of everyone's life. However, a certain level of discipline also needs to be maintained to succeed academically and graduate with flying colors. Since students spend most of their time in college dorm rooms apart from classes, they must inculcate the value of discipline in their dorm rooms themselves.

When students are packing for college, there's much to think about. They also have to ensure they have a comfortable place to sleep and enough furniture to fit their needs.

Worry not for those confused regarding the essentials that need to be part of their college dorm rooms. Listed here are some items necessary for any college dorm room.

What items should be included in a college dorm room?

Every college student is different, so what items are necessities for one person might not be for another. 

A bed: A bed is one of the essentials students need in their dorm room. Investing in a comfortable mattress is also equally important. This is because you want your back to be well-supported after long hours of sitting and studying. 

A computer/laptop: Students cannot get through college without a laptop in today's time, where everything is digital. The laptop is needed to complete all these tasks, from assignments and notes to presentations and internships.

Some furniture: Having a comfortable chair and a study desk is sacrosanct. A college dorm room will remain incomplete without some furniture. Students should consider buying a chair with lumbar support and an adjustable table. 

Depending on the college and the individual student's needs, other things that may be necessary include:

A fridge and microwave: A refrigerator and a microwave can significantly reduce your monthly food bills. They also help avoid junk food that can make students fall ill and even fail exams.

A closet and dresser: Students are bound to bring a lot of clothes with them to college that are suitable for different seasons. Cabinets and dressers will ensure that clothes are stored neatly.

How to get organized in a college dorm room

The stereotype of a messy college dorm room is not necessarily true. Students can make their space functional and comfortable with a little organization and effort. This guide will show how to organize the dorm room, from stocking the fridge with healthy snacks to creating a stylish dresser backdrop.

Start by stocking the fridge with healthy snacks. College students are notoriously busy, so having easy access to nutritious snacks is key. Try packing protein bars, pre-made salad packs, or simple fruit and yogurt combos. If you're ambitious, try whipping up homemade granola or veggie bars! Remember, eating healthy and staying fit is crucial for succeeding in classes and graduating with a high GPA.

Keep your dorm room clean and organized using storage options like cabinets and drawers. Also, have a separate section to store towels and used clothes so that they do not mess with the organization of the room.

Create a stylish dresser backdrop with some creative wall decor. You can buy inexpensive stick-on hooks or brackets to hold up posters or photos or use old bed sheets as makeshift wallpaper (be sure to avoid any stains!) if you have more artistic inclinations.

Tips for creating a comfortable and functional college dorm room

Creating a comfortable and functional college dorm room can be challenging, but a few key tips can help. Here are a few essentials to keep in mind:

●   Frame your space with pops of color and prints to liven up the room.

●   Create a dedicated space for your bed and furniture to reduce clutter.

●   Choose soft, comfortable furnishings that will fit the room's overall style.

●   Install blackout curtains to help create a comfortable sleeping environment.

Conclusion

When you first move into a new dorm room, there are a few essentials that you must have on hand. This checklist includes a pillow, an alarm clock, and some snacks. However, don't forget the other essentials that all students need to feel at home in their dorm: bedding and furniture. Make sure to find what works best for your needs and purchase it before your move-in date so that everything is ready when you arrive.

okay how do i decorate my uni room. i’ve never decorated a room before. please send me ideas!!

I will be starting university soon and I am so nervous about finding friends! I really want to make a good impression but I am scared that they won't like the same things! Is college scary? 😭

Oo new chapter of your life ٩( ᐛ )و

Honestly if you survived School you’ll be alright in University since it’s not all that different. Like, people can be spooked to present to the class back then and I thought that would go away in college but nahh everyone’s just as nervous as me. There was a communication major in my class who was nervous to present, even though it’s part of his major. So I wouldn’t stress too much about it, it’s like Highschool+ (or dlc idk)

Omg talking to people & making new friends is Not easy I totally get it. But it’s not impossible even if it may feel that way. I was absorbed into The Girlies friend group because they’d saw my laptop’s Sailor Moon wallpaper & cool stickers <3

I usually wait to see if people show/talk about anything I’m interested in before engaging. Since I’m an art major I figured I’d be more likely to find friends in my 2D Design class because, y’know we already all enjoy art, which means they possibly animation, or maybe anime & games. (See the artist -> anime fan pipeline?)

All of the new experiences like moving away (if you’re living on campus) or having to manage yourself & speak for yourself were definitely nerve-wracking, but it takes time to get used to it and then it may not be scary anymore.

For the first few weeks I kept my head down, just went from class then to my dorm & that was my life.

That can get boring, don’t be afraid to throw some spice into your schedule! Even if it’s small steps like taking a different route to your dorm that day or sit in a nice spot outside. Could try mingling at campus events, but a lot of them could be,,party-like which doesn’t appeal to everyone. No shame on not partying though <3

Joining clubs that interest you is also a good way of meeting new people :D

I had such an awesome evening with my coworkers and kicked ass at quiz night, then I called my bf on the way home and he didn't even pick up because he was in his dorm room 🙄 like we've talked on the phone before while he was there, and we were even on video call and there was no problem. But apparently one time his roommate overheard him talk with me on the phone, and when we hung up he made an observation that we talk in a way that's too affectionate. Like he insinuated that my bf talks to me too sweetly, and he needs to be more distant. This is btw NOT a guy that's in a position to give relationship advice AT ALL. And my bf knows this, and he knows he was talking shit out of his ass, and he still screened my call and then texted me "wait, I'm going outside". Like what the hell do you need to go outside for? And he told me that comment made him feel weird that one time, which also explains why he hasn't been calling me from the dorm lately, which I hate. And he was not in the mood to hear another comment. Like what kind of reason is that to ignore my call at 11pm, does that mean you can't talk on the phone anymore? Like the comment was not even about talking on the phone, but why would you prioritize some loser over your girlfriend of many years? I'm going crazy over this, and he kept apologizing and it's only annoying me even more. You're apologizing for what, you ignored my call, TOOK INTO ACCOUNT some random comment from some slimy asshole, and literally used that as an excuse to not talk to me. And you're saying sorry from downstairs, from outside. Like why is this idiot suddenly making the rules in your relationship!!!???