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#but it's fine 'cause it's gay
dlartistanon · 2 years
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Ugh, they’re so cute
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butchfalin · 6 months
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the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again
#yeehaw#1k#5k#10k#posts that got cursed. blasted. im making these tag updates after... 19 hours?#also i have been told it should say speech loss bc nonverbal specifically refers to the permanent state. did not know that!#unfortunately i fear it is so far past containment that even if i edited it now it would do very little. but noted for future reference#edit 2: nvm enough ppl have come to rb it from me directly that i changed the wording a bit. hopefully this makes sense#also. in case anyone is curious. though i doubt anyone who is commenting these things will check the original tags#1) my friend did not do this on purpose in any way. it was not intended to distract me or to hit on me. im a lesbian hes a gay man. cmon now#he felt very bad about it afterwards. i thought it was hilarious but it was very embarrassed and apologetic#2) “why didn't he use 🫵🏼?” didn't exist yet. “why didn't he use 🆗?” dunno! we'd been using a lot of hand emojis. 👌🏼 is an ok sign#like it makes sense. it was just a silly mixup. also No i did not invent 👉🏼👌🏼 as a gesture meaning sex. do you live under a rock#3) nonspeaking episodes are a recurring thing in my life and have been since i was born. this is not a quirky one-time thing#it is a pervasive issue that is very frustrating to both myself and the people i am trying to communicate with. in which trying to speak is#extremely distressing and causes very genuine anguish. this post is not me making light of it it's just a funny thing that happened once#it's no different than if i post about a funny thing that happened in conjunction w a physical disability. it's just me talking abt my life#i don't mind character tags tho. those can be entertaining. i don't know what any of you are talking about#Except the ppl who have said this is pego/ryu or wang/xian. those people i understand and respect#if you use it as a writing prompt that's fine but send it to me. i want to see it#aaaand i think that's it. everyday im tempted to turn off rbs on it. it hasn't even been a week
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knifearo · 2 months
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ultimately when it comes to shipping and fandom space treatment of aspec characters i just don't accept "aro/ace people can still date/have sex" as an answer from nonaspecs. like yeah. mhm. okay. now i think we both know that you're not saying that out of real interest in the diversity of aspec experiences. so you can turn in your seventeen-page essay on why and how you plan to examine this character's aspec identity within the context of a romantic or sexual relationship complete with evidence from canon and peer reviews from multiple aspec people within the next week or i'm putting you in the pit from the edgar allen poe story
#you know. the one with the pendulum#'hey. why are you as an allo person shipping this aspec character like this'#'oh aspec people can still date/have sex!'#'yeah. now can you answer the question that i actually asked you'#like goddamn just say you don't care they're aspec and you want to fulfill a sexual/romantic fantasy with them. that's Fine#it like. sucks. for sure. lotta aspec people will be unhappy with you. but everyone is entitled to their own wants and experiences.#but i'd prefer you just be honest with it rather than using our community's conversation points as retroactive justification#and ONCE AGAIN. you guys are real fucking cavalier with this shit and it shows a real fundamental lack of respect for aspecs#when most of you would NEVER ship a canonically gay character with the 'other' gender. cause again. it would suck.#you can do it. nobody's Stopping you. but it would suck.#and we understand that putting a queer character in situations that erase that queerness is shitty! until it comes to aspec characters!#and whoa... there it is again... people don't consider aspec identities to be queer... crazy how it always comes back to that#anyway. you all know what i'm talking about. have seen many posts about this lately#it is [ long sigh ] unfortunately a very hot button issue with the advent lately of alastor hazbinhotel#which. again. god i wish there were other canon aspec characters to be having this conversation about.#but we'll have to do our best with what we have#aromantic#aromanticism#arospec#aroace#talking#aspec#asexual#asexuality
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robindaydream · 8 months
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A Few Days After A SLARPG fancomic
minor SLARPG spoilers contained within
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supercalime · 1 month
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Just thought about sharing this frame right here
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Do with it what you will
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sentientsky · 5 months
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googling 'how long is a hyperfixation supposed to last' and then sobbing profusely into my hands
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"Nine is homophobic" this and "Classic is homophobic" that
WRONG
They're literally both gay
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that-bitch-kat3 · 2 months
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marauders era characters by my daylist:
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remus lupin
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zer0point5ive · 4 months
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lawrence and adam post trap. or whatever you get it
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Love how toxic zelink shippers keep screaming on and on about how not liking a fictional character is misogyny but call real breathing woman and queer people fujos and bitches over mlm ships buring pride month. Truly the pinnacle of fandom feminism.
Yona can't hear you but the sidlink and revalink shippers yall are accusing of wanting to destroy women rights or whatever cause they want to have some gay representation (even if it's just fan made) in a largely straight franchise sure can
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saaraofthesand · 8 months
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I guess I just think that ranpoe would get together with the most minimal theatrics of any of the bsd couples. Poe might hem and haw a bit but Ranpo wouldn’t. He’d just be like “I’ve decided you’re my boyfriend. We’re dating now, Poe-kun” and Poe would be like “eh??!!!?”
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sophie-baybey · 5 months
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It's really weird how "hey maybe we shouldn't call real life complete strangers gay or trans-coded because that's kind of a weird thing to assume about someone and also you could be putting them in a dangerous position if they're still closeted" has turned into "why do people think trans women are trying to pressure people into transitioning, that doesn't make a lot of sense"
Yeah it doesn't make sense cause it's not what people were even arguing in the first place
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p4nishers · 8 months
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someone has to say it stede never looked better than he does in the s2 teaser rip to ed but im built different i would take him back without hesitation
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detox-two-retox · 1 month
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anybody else thinking about it saying "mon cheri" (french masc ver of "my dear") in irresistible. cause what was that about
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dagwmeno · 7 days
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Sup gays it's easter time, time for the Easter gays amirite
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mummer · 5 months
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sadly i do have to hand it to the rabid good omens fangirls from 2019 cause these guys actually are friggin gay. Theyre gay guys who want to have gay sex. and neil gaiman was sitting around being like “Actually it’s queerplatonic virginal friendshiplove from genderless stardust beings so check your privilege” i would petrol bomb him
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