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Trying to be less critical and hateful to myself, did my makeup for the first time in awhile and actually liked how it turned out. Just... didn't remember to take a picture till I was in the bath soooo. Don't judge me.
#my stuff#selfie#tattoos#gamer#shinto#alt girl#gamer girl#bath selfie#bathtub#bathtime#makeup#self positivity#be nicer to yourself#sanrio#sanrio girl
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I love you all so much it hurts my heart.
Yes, I know you've all heard it. Fuck your feelings, you need to hear it again and again until you feel it in the fiber of your being.
You're beautiful, you're fun, you're my relaxing comfort person. You are so important to me, and if you ever question that, I will come to your house and spend 6 hours cooking your favorite dish to prove how much you mean to me.
Be nicer to yourself. Take the compliment, you really are wonderful and you warm my heart. Treat yourself to the thing, because if you don't you'll be mad at yourself later and you still wont have that $5 or $10 or $50, you'll spend it on something else that wont make you as happy.
Give yourself the break you've been dreaming of. I promise they aren't going to fire you, they can get by just fine without you. Cut yourself some slack, take the day off.
Tell someone you care about that they're important to you. Kiss your partner again. Hug your friend. They're here today, but you never know what tomorrow will bring. Make sure the ones you love never have a chance to question if you love them.
And if you need a pick me up, I can always find something nice to say about anyone. And I will make sure it is heartfelt. I really do love you, and it makes me so happy when I get to tell you.
#wholesome#friends#hugs and kisses#mental health#self care#treat yo self#you deserve a break#be nicer to yourself
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i dont call my weirder mouseposts shitposts because i love myself
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you can't gaslight yourself into good mental health
i should listen to this person's advice more often check out their blog
@theholydivines
#motivation#may 2023#be nicer to yourself#i know i'm not following this advice but you should so like go do that#mental health#self esteem#self love#positive mental attitude#mentally drained#you got this#keep going
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pattern is from Etsy shop DirtyCussStitch
Artist is Jessica Huml.
#dumb bitch#me#be nicer#be nice#self confidence#self hatred#depression#anxiety#actually autistic#afab autistic#be nicer to yourself
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A thing I hate about being nuerodivergent (maybe this is specifically autistic?)
I’ve worked for years on being less black and white in my thinking. I have less “hills to die on” and am learning to let things go but my brain still struggles all the time with these impulses.
However ALSO BECAUSE I AM NUERODIVERGENT, I struggle so much to handle the social fallout from standing my ground. The emotional yo-yoing is bad but more than that suddenly having about a dozen new tense social situations to navigate that all have EXTREMELY specific and rigid rules, is so dang difficult even when you are 100% “in the right” (and I am rarely at 100%.)
It makes me feel so much fear around any platonic interaction for months because I cannot handle any more fallout. So my fawn trauma response takes over and that never ends well either.
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I’m starting to think that no one actually has their life put together, bc we all have all aspects of our life, and every thing that isn’t going right in our brains
while other people only really see people looking nice/their house looking nice and they only know about certain future plans or goals and so those people seem put together
Because everyone always seems to say “oh I’m a mess” or “Oh I need to get my life together”
#be nicer to yourself#it’s hard I know#but we only see certain aspects of other people but we know all the bad things about ourselves#but we can’t let those bad parts over take the overwhelming good parts#accept your own flaws#work to make them better#know that no one else will judge you as harsh as you do#and learn that your still lovely#and people will still love you#💚💚💚#self love#self lov#peach’s random thoughts#self love help
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#self compassion#self forgiveness#self compassion and accountability can and must coexist#talk a little nicer to yourself#self care#healing#recovery#you are not your past#you are not your mistakes#letting go
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Be nicer to yourself. That doesn’t mean letting yourself off the hook. It means being honest upfront and owning your mistakes.
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Y’all please.
Your f/o’s, your blorbos, your selfships think you are hot and love you.
“But we’re not compatible.” “It’s out of character for them to like me.” “They wouldn’t go for me.”
Shh. Shhh. Gently I hold my finger to your lips as I reveal a new frontier of thought to you.
In character is a matter of what it takes for a character to act different. What love and gentleness can you give your blorbo to make them yearn for you? To trust you and open their heart to you? How are you the one that catches their eye? All of these questions can be answered positively.
Expand your horizons. Scrutinize if the world they come from really would have our same beauty standards. Really think if your crush would even care that you have back rolls or acne scars or wrinkles. Then think on what it would take for them to stop seeing the parts of you and instead see the whole, beautiful, wonderful person that you are.
Love can change a person so much. How would it change your f/o?
#based on a trend I’ve seen in a certain fandom#my fellow simps-fiction is meant to be played with#explore past what you think is possible and find the answers you want!#it’s fiction you can make it happen you can do anything!#also confidence does wonders#please be nicer to yourself#love someone who’s been fighting their reflection for over 20 years#f/o#self love#self ship#x reader
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welcome home tfd
#aj#animal jam#jamblr#ajc#animal jam classic#saw some people going 'i finally have a reason to play again' and. wow.#i know its the only adventure with a good loot table and all but like#its grind hell. please be nicer to yourself.
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#supportive sokka#I have a lot of feelings today (wow what a shock momo has lots of feelings)#be nicer to yourself 2k22#like seriously#ur doing great sweetie#atla#avatar the last airbender#sokka#trashbending#avatar: the last airbender#a:tla#avatar
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Team Conrad-ers are so funny because they’ll hate on Jeremiah for calling Conrad out for being a stupid asshole because “poor Conrad he’s going through a lot :((“ Yeah? SO IS HE! this is also the same brother that makes decisions for him without even TALKING to him, like be FOR REAL.
#txt#‘Jere needs to be nicer to Conrad’ okay counterpoint ‘Conrad needs to get a grip’#my man is going through it. I get it but the dude isn’t TALKING to his own brother. and Jere is FED UP. like be fr#Jere is a real one this season because he’s fucking tired and fed up but he’s trying so hard. I want them BOTH to literally just be HONEST.#JERE WANTS THAT SO BAD LIKE GET OVER YOURSELF CONRAD FOR GODS SAKE…..BE FR#the summer i turned pretty#tsitp#team jeremiah#it’s always poor Conrad :((( but Jere always gets pushed aside like okay.#GET THE MF IN THERAPHY BRO….SCREW THE DUMB LOVE TRIANGLE GET CONRAD THERAPY PLEASE
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when it's written that way because it's a patented chuck dixon -ism but it unintentionally creates a really interesting potential narrative for the character-
#still thinking of steph and class and knowing that dixon made her lower middle class on account of he's a classist#but how placing her in that nebulous position of between the have and the have nots#where they're too poor for comfort or stability and too rich for benefits#lends a lot to steph's anger at her situation#her desire to fit it and move up and separate herself from her origins#her showcase '95 story where she has a veneration of what she feels must be the comfort of the true middle class#and her veneration of her coach who she insists can't be anything like her mom#her anger and shame at her mom coming to her gymnastics meet because she doesn't like seeing that part of her life#interact with the better life she's trying to carve for herself#her activities as spoiler being so linked to her desire to throw away the legacy her father left her#that for everyone to say she's not good enough or shouldn't do it is for them to say#you are already where you belong and that thought terrifies her#a steph who grew up hearing sarcastic remarks about those welfare recipients who can afford nicer food than them#while her mom works and gets no help and and struggles for it#a steph who internalizes that no one is going to help her and if she wants it she has to work for and take it#which leads to some bitterness when she sees everyone else such as tim and cass receive the help and support she's always denied#but also only motivates her to keep going harder. if no one will help you you have to help yourself.#what ugly biases might she potentially have as a result of this upbringing#it's like i hate it it's such a conservative story of bootstraps#but i love it because gives such potentially interesting things to play with in steph's arc
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