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lazykebabvagina · 7 months
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God made me this way because he knew I'd be too powerful if I had social skills
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qwakque · 6 months
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doodlin them (again)
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purpurrock · 4 months
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I'm at Panera and they gave me a spoon. To eat with my mac n cheese. That's a fork food :((
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alpha-rathian · 2 months
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YOU ARE MINE 🗣️🗣️🗣️😍😍😍😍
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lasiras-world · 27 days
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Buchstäblich
Angeblich verstehen Autisten vieles wortwörtlich. Sie haben zudem Probleme Ironie zu verstehen und/oder die Hinweise hinter einer Aussage zu verstehen.
Ich habe schon in der Oberstufe Schulz van Thun mit seinem Vier-Ohren-Model kennen gelernt und war absolut fasziniert. Durch dieses Konzept verstand ich die Menschen um mich herum besser. (Ich wollte auch immer Psychologie studieren und in die Forschung gehen, um die Menschen besser zu verstehen.) Jetzt verstand ich (zumindest, wenn ich das Modell im Kopf hatte), dass „es zieht“ ein Apell war, den Luftstrom zu verhindern. Früher hatte ich den Antwortsatz „Dreh dich um, dann drückts“ geliebt, weil ich schon immer das Wortspiel mit Teekesselchen liebte. (Warum man allerdings diese Worte Teekesselchen nennt, verstehe ich nicht!)
Was wörtliches Verstehen angeht… wenn man wie ich Sprache liebt (und eine bestimmte Intelligenz besitzt), versteht man schnell, dass Redewendungen wie Zuordnung aua Intelligenztests sind – nur, dass man die Vergleiche selber finden und nicht zuordnen muss.
So verhält sich der Spatz in der Hand zur Taube auf dem Dach, wie der kleine Erfolg zum großen Wunsch. Und ich habe schon im Kindergarten diese Vergleiche kennengelernt. Ich war in einem kirchlichen Kindergarten und habe schon früh Gleichnisse verstehen gelernt. Sprichwörter sind doch genauso.
Wenn die Runde aufs Haus geht, heißt das, dass die Rechnung für die Runde auf das Konto des Hauses geht und nicht, dass irgendwas oben auf das Dach klettert. Hier ist es eine sprachliche Verkürzung, die einmal gelernt, Sinn ergibt.
Andere Wörter beschreiben die Gefühle, die ausgelöst werden mit Vergleichen. „Das war hart“ – In mir drin hat sich etwas zusammengezogen, bis es ganz hart war und weil im Körper sonst alles weich ist, ist das unangenehm.
Dass man Kopfschmerzen bekommt, wenn einem etwas auf die Nerven geht, ist logisch. Ob Männer ernsthaft Hodenschmerzen haben, wenn ihnen etwas auf die Eier geht? Da verstehe ich zwar, was sie meinen, aber nicht, warum sie es sagen.
Warum heißt es „Buchstäblich“, wenn etwas genauso gemeint ist? Warum dieser Bezug zum Buchstaben? Ist etwas geschriebenes echter, als etwas gesagtes? Liegt es daran, dass es nicht zu leugnen ist, wenn es geschrieben wurde? Warum muss ich jetzt an Gaslighting denken?
Und Ironie? Ich habe gelernt, dass der Ton in Aussagen sehr wichtig ist und diese verstärken oder sogar negieren kann. Ich verstehe sie und wende sie auch an, weil ich Sprache liebe und es auch liebe, was man mit Sprache alles kann. Aber ich verstehe auch total, dass Kinder diese erst lernen müssen. Denn sie ist NICHT logisch!
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the-gayest-sky-kid · 1 year
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fruity-toops · 9 months
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learning that i cant romance shadowheart, kalarch, and halsin all at the same time has me inconsolable
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unnamed-proxy · 2 months
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Personal Reference/headcannon sheet for R.E :D
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Translation(?) under the cut in-case you can’t read my goofy aah writing
Ruin:
*They/it
*Right side of face doesn’t work (eye can’t fully close, mouth doesn’t sync)
*The theater nerd of the two, but it bled into Eclipse post-cure
*Ruined their hat during a tantrum
*Not fully gone.
Eclipse:
*They/them
*Their Sun was transfem
*Audh/adhdtistic
*Very talk-to-themself prone
*Ray points are dulled to be more approachable
Both:
*Touch starved
*Pulling stim (clothes, rays, fingers, etc.)
*Defaults to act fully like Sun or Moon when distressed
*The accent was installed into them by the creator to annoy them
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lazykebabvagina · 6 months
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It's so funny how my cat looks at me like "I- she's so cringy" when I got all jump-y and exited about pasta (my safe food) as he doesn't literally do the same with his wet food he has every single day.
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theidioticspirit · 16 days
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now loading james.comᯓ★
meet james !!
Hello there, I’m James and use he/fae! :) I am 16, genderfluid, omni, and ace. I've been on tumblr since December 2021! I have no clue what i post but i try to make it a bit goofy!! My msgs r open so if you're bored/looking for moots send me a msg :D also heres my carrd :3
DNI: basic dni, islamophobic, zionist, anti witchcraft, antishifter, fetishizes mlm/wlw ships, proshipper, below 13 or above 25, christian/catholic supremacist
BYI: use tonetags when interacting w me, dont use slurs around me even if u can reclaim them, self dx'd AuDH, not super active on non irl based socials
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Shifting !!
I have been shifting since mid-August of 2020 and I joined the shifting community (as a creator) in October 2021. I have minishifted 6 times! If you have anything negative to say about my DRs/DR selves or just my beliefs just scroll and block my acc :) Feel free to send me questions, stories, etc. its vv fun interacting with you guys! If you have any questions just ask me I’ll try to respond :D
ANTI RESPAWNERS/PERMASHIFTING DNI!!
Current Main Desired Realities:
BBC Ghosts DR
Dr Who DR
MCU DR
Monster High DR
Better CR
If you are looking for my posts on shifting search shifting :>
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Graphics !!
I've been making graphics in general for almost 3/4 (ish?) years. I mainly use photopea and ibis paint :]
I will post drafts, scrapped and posted graphics. Those can be orders, comp submissions or WIPs! Also will post tutorials on how to do certain things as well as speed edits (mainly on my yt!! :D)
I'm up for taking requests as long as they are not weird or goofy for me to do :)
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intro updated: april 13 2024
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plural-blocklist · 2 months
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Anti endo in plural tags
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meowmanorcoll
Block and move on.
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sobdasha · 8 months
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anyone have any cute ideas
for a new autism tag to use on my blog? my current one feels very unwieldy and no longer cute ("I am autistic and I should say it", patterned off "she is right and she should say it").
I don't want to simply tag "autism" (clear and descriptive but boring), and while "a touch of the tism" is silly and catchy it is maybe TOO popular (what if the algorithm punishes me by actually showing my posts to ppl when I unintentionally make an ill-considered one???), and also maybe vague?
ALSO while we are at it the ADHD spousewife informed me that ppl are definitely using a pun of "the odd couple" for this type of dynamic for extremely obvs reasons, but google is being Deliberately Unhelpful at telling me what it is, do all y'all know what people are using. Audh? Auhd? Audd using ADD instead of ADHD?? Something else????
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boxylic · 1 year
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audhe visits a friends empty house ( AKA @fooltofancy has a crazy pretty house )
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thatgoblin · 1 year
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In Which Emery Sees Discourse and Does a Hot Take on Likes, Reblogs, and Comments.
Hot Take: Stop telling people to not Like your stuff and to only Reblog it.
I will not be replying to people who reblog or message me about this take because I don't want to debate/argue about this. That's why I wrote it down in length.
So, you’re a content creator on the internet? Cool! A lot of people are. I am, even though I’ve been pretty quiet in the last year or so, and it’s a rad hobby. I don’t make money from it in any way, shape, or form. It’s just something fun for me to do.
I’ve been doing it for nearly 20 years actually, around the time fanfiction.net and fanfiction.org (RIP) first popped up. I started writing way back in the first grade, about 7ish years old aka 1996. My teachers always complimented me on my work because it was always creative, much more so than most of my peers. Before I even knew what fanfiction was, I was writing Spider-Man and Backstreet Boys crossover fanfiction because I wanted to see that story and knew no one would make it aside from my depraved prepubescent mind. (Don't get me started on the Might Ducks Animated Show fanfiction. That was a different time and place in the early 2000s.)
The more I wrote though, the more I wanted to share these stories. My friends were always in the stories somehow and I would print them out for them to read at school when I got to 5th grade (aka 2000 when I finally got a computer and printer at home.) They liked them and while, yes they were fuckin' wild, they wanted more like this.
So when I discovered I could write stories online and post them for others to read, I was blown away.
You mean people can just write ANYTHING and post it? Fanfiction about Power Rangers visiting Lord of the Rings and fighting Barney? Sign me the fuck up fam! I was also an avid reader of the fanfiction as well, trying to find specific tropes that I loved was hard though. I am a huge fan of the ‘I was sent to my favorite imaginary world and now must save everyone with my knowledge’ plot and was when I was younger too.
Except I didn’t find very many of them. Maybe a handful depending on the fandom or none at all. It was sad and I was frustrated because I wanted to read things I liked as well, so I started my journey into posting fanfiction. I was 12 at the time so while I was able to grasp grammar in general, I didn’t always know how to make words flow or convey an image. It didn’t stop me though. I kept going and slowly but surely was able to write better and better with each post.
Mind you, this was all on fanfiction.net, which is still up and running but a nightmare on mobile, so you could see views, likes, and comments. I would see the views and be disheartened a bit by the single digits after months and even years of the fics being up.
This is the heart of where my Hot Take begins.
I never thought I was owed views, comments, or likes to continue creating.
Yes, I was sad no one read them, but I read them. I still read my own stuff because I wrote for me and continue to. The fics weren’t made out of a need for people to share my work or get poplar or feel included (cause let’s face it, undiagnosed AuDH me did not care if I was included because I could make my own world and was perfectly find with it.)
I wrote because I wanted to write stories I couldn't find, anyone else liking them was just a cherry on top. While I liked sharing my work, including my art, I didn’t do it with the notion that I would suddenly become this well renowned author online. It wasn’t planned to be a steppingstone to anything either. It was an outlet to be able to express myself in ways I was not allowed to out loud in the real world. (again, undiagnosed me in the early 00's with a brother in the military and middle child syndrome was in a WEIRD place.) I wrote for me and me alone.
That’s what I think was lost when people started to become anti-Like on Tumblr. People stopped caring about if they liked their own work and that being enough. If you like your story or drabble or song and no one sees it or reblogs it, you still made something that you like and that’s the point of fanfiction/fanart. It’s for you and you alone.
That doesn’t mean it’s wrong to want reblogs more than likes, but to come out and say ‘Do not Like my story/art, reblog instead because it kills creativity of content creators’ feels entitled to me and sends the wrong image of what creating is.
I want Likes on my things because then I know someone read it or saw it. They enjoyed it. If they reblog it as well, even better, but to come out and push back on Liking posts doesn’t sit right with me. As much as it might suck to hear, you’re not owed reblogs or likes or anything. This isn’t a career or a way to gain status with followers, it’s a hobby that you share with others should you choose to post and even if it was a career you’re still not owed anything because you post it for free. Hobby’s should make you happy in the creation and creation process itself and if people see it when you share it, that’s cool, and when they like it, even better! They shouldn't be discouraged from that and told it hurts the creators to Like something.
Side Note: Tumblr also isn’t the best place to post things and get reblogs/comments/attention. AO3 is the best place for that. Tumblr is fine and it works okay for writing and art, but it’s not made to have an archive of fics or art at your finger tips in a coherent list to show and search like a library.
While yes, it can be disheartening to not get recognition for something you poured hard work into, that doesn’t mean you have to rely on that recognition to continue to create. Your art, writing or other, is not about that, it’s about you and the relationship with the story you’re telling in your chosen medium. The focus on how people will react to or like it should be secondary rather than primary.
If no one reads your 100,000 word fic on Steve/Tony finding a time machine to fist fight a dinosaur or your 100 hrs of work on you digital painting of Harry Styles as a hyper realistic centaur, it still exists. That work you put into it still exists. Your love for that project still exists. Go back and redraw it or reread it yourself, find the enjoyment in the story/art that you had when you wrote it because at the end of the day, everyone else be damned. I love reading my own fics, even if no one does. That’s what matters, not Likes, Reblogs, or even Comments. Just keep creating and yeeting into the abyss and maybe it’ll find someone or maybe it won’t because you found it when you made it.
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