I HATE ATTACHMENT TYPES AND HERE'S WHY.

And so, the post is made based on the fact that I'm tired of hearing people making excuses for these types and increasingly making up new ones.

(Yeah, guys, there's only four.)

HOW DID ATTACHMENT TYPES COME ABOUT?

Most people are not aware of where this all came from, so I feel it is necessary to clarify.

Attachment types were developed by Bowlby to explain the relationship between parents and children, at one point this theory was decided to apply to adult relationships, but no version of the theory has found serious evidence, moreover some experiments disprove it (I believe that any theory has the right to exist, even the most delusional).

SO WHY DOESN'T IT WORK?

The fact is that in different relationships people behave differently, the attitude of parents is simply not accepted by children.

It has long been clear that the attitude is influenced by the environment, temperament, culture, not this innate algorithm of behavior.

WHY IS THIS TOPIC SO POPULAR?

It's very simple, it's easy to justify yourself with this theory. It gives you the ability to cover things like: Manipulation, Trying to change your partner, Not being able to understand what you want, well, and the banal unwillingness to just more thoroughly understand anything.

And yes, you're probably going to ask me.

«You're the one who set your own anxiety-avoidance, so you're also covering it up?»

I want to answer right away so that there will be no such questions: The type of attachment is rather for a tick, because it can in principle relate to the typology, I in no way justify my behavior with it, and archetypes in relationships are more sympathetic to me.

TOTAL

Just stop making excuses for these types, make up more of them, you didn't even delve into this topic by scoring and reading the test, and oh yeah, no one naturally uses them in psychological practices.

Many people say that attachment types don't exist, but I think this error has a right to exist.

Why must I choose 4 am while laying in bed as the optimum time to do research and things (not even school related)

all cats have an insecure resistant attachment type

grace + max + textposts

Another Prompt in Memes?! Yes.

Enstars sure is an experience. Did I miss anything?

The freeing feeling of doing whatever the fuck you want in a fandom is like no other

“He wouldn’t say that”

“In my head he would”

just watched the new ghostbusters movie with my friend and truly, awkward teenage lesbians will both end and save the world.

i think hed just have a bunch of caterpie and maybe a metapod that just kinda. follow him around. i like to imagine hes a major pokemon magnet but has absolutely zero interest in owning a pokemon

Sort of obsessing over the concept of Tim, having been acknowledged canonically as a talented photographer, using these skills for morally gray reasons. This kid doesn't intend to use his fists to win every battle, or even most battles, actually. He's well-connected, fits into unconventional hiding spaces due to being lean and slender and 5'6", and he has a very nice camera. So really, Senator, it's a shame you thought you'd get away with so much. Think of what the Times could do with this evidence. High-definition doesn't lie. So you'll vote to expand funding for public education and Medicaid in the state, is that correct? Of course, you're an upstanding politician, after all. Couldn't have all this getting in the way of your career.

Oop, I realized I never actually posted about this, but!

Anyone remember my separated Donnie au? Code name: Violet skies? Well I'm remaking it! Rewriting it, even !!

Here's Foot Recruit/aka Donnie!

Draxum, quite begrudgingly, ends up raising the four turtles with Splinter: whom saved him when a part of the lab's roof collapsed, while he was holding onto two of the turtles. Splinter brought the both of them to the sewers, and it all happened from there.

The turtles grew up not too different, safe for extra actual training and knowledge of both the hidden city and things mystic; until Leo and Donnie turned 14. Donnie went out one day with Raph, and didn't come back.

Two years after his disappearance, when the series events begin, they find him in the Foot Clan. Now called just Foot Recruit, with no memory of them — and a good 6 years worth of memories of living with the foot clan.

THIS CHALLENGE WAS LIKE WAYYYY TOO FUN. TBH

YOU COULD NEVER GUESS MY TYPE IN FAVES. HAHA. HA. ha 😔

I'm not sure who would say it but this post screams vidow energy and i love it

every saiki k fan has to watch the live action. you dont get it. they had 5 dollars, 3 bad wigs and a dream. the 2 running manga gags around kento yamazaki ("the fortuneteller told me i will meet kento yamazaki!" "omg the fortuneteller told me i will date kento yamazaki" "does she not know any other celebrities") and kanna hashimoto (saiki draws teruhashi using his soul capture power and it her) were possibly the only payment those two got. they went all out on the absurdity by refusing do a single special effect seriously. some scenes look like playing dolls with pngs. saikis mom actually does an "its morbin time" title call joke. saikis dad seems to possess canonical, semi purposeful, semi instinctual power to speak calamities into existence with sole purpose to annoy and burden his son. teruhashi is MUCH more evil and MUCH MUCH more lovable its insane how endearing the portrayal is. it all looks so dogshit tho. still no clue all these famous actors worked on this fever dream of a movie. watch live action saikik.

shirahama-sensei reminded me she has a thing for the teacher from pokemon s/v so i randomly went off on an au where qifrey is the professor. etc