Pro tip: if you don't want trans people reclaiming the slurs you literally made up, or stole from fucking 4channers to misgender and oppress them, simply do not fucking call people brand new slurs invented specifically to denigrate them! It's literally not difficult! You don't get to fucking call people slurs invented just for them and then get mad when they reclaim them!

When will truscum and TIRFs learn to stop being bigots.

[ID: A Three panel MS Paint comic, titled, "Reclaiming slurs: 'theyfab'", dated "September 9th 2023". Panel 1 shows a group of three grey figures grinning with evil eyebrows, labled, "bigoted trans people and their transmisic cis friends". They are all shouting together: "Hahaha!! Theyfab!!! You're a pathetic theyfab!!! Just a pathetic woman pretending to be trans for attention!! Theyfab!!! Theyfab!! You think you're oppressed for having a p***y!!! Theyfab!!!" The person they are pointing and laughing at has sad eyebrows and a small frown, and is labeled, "a trans man or nonbinary person who wants equal rights, probably doesn't even use they/them pronouns". The second panel shows the victim throwing their hands into the air, shouting back, "Okay, yeah, I'm a theyfab, and I'm proud to be trans! You got a fucking problem with that?" while the crows of bigots stares in silence. The third panel shows the bigots now colored red, throwing their arms into the air and screaming in all caps: "You disgusting transmisogynist special snowflake!! You can't reclaim the slur we made up to call you!!!!! We're the only ones allowed to call you slurs!!! Stop reclaiming the slurs we call you you fucking faker!!!! You're supposed to cry about it not reclam the slur we literally invented for you!!!! Special snowflake!!! Transmisogynist!! Why aren't you crying?!? Stop being proud of being trans!!!!! You make the real trans people look bad!!!!" The victim mutters, with one hand on their hip and eyebrow raised, "Oh, you're not even being subtle anymore, are you?" Large text at the bottom of the comic reads: "Pro tip if you want to have morals: If you don't want trans people reclaiming slurs used against them, simply do not invent brand new fucking transmisic, exorsexist slurs. It's literally not difficult." End ID.]

Another pro tip: if the people who call you the slur get enraged by you reclaiming it, that means reclaiming it is working. Keep up the good fucking work.

👀 mcc discourse? /gen

okay mcc discourse time everyone strap in

the three things i see people being pissed about most often are the lack of lgbt+ people in the event, the specific lgbt+ creators playing and, of course, technoblade being involved. so, let's break down why all three of these things are fucking dumb.

1) "there isnt enough lgbt+ creators".

this would be a fair argument that i could get behind...if not for the way mcc is set up for this specific event—and by that i mean it is a youtube sponsored event. the ccs involved need to have platforms on youtube to be able to participate to begin with, as it is a charity event. mcc doesn't have a lot of lgbt+ streamers involved this time around because a lot of those streamers straight up could not stream this event and scott literally said this himself.

on top of that, this isnt a "get invited and you can play!" event, it is a "you need to apply to be involved" event, meaning, if people dont meet the deadline, or they dont apply at fucking all, they cant play. that's not on fucking scott or anyone organizing mcc, that is on the ccs (if they even wanna be involved, i could not blame them for avoiding mcc after last times mess) who didnt apply in time/at all.

2) "there isnt enough diversity in the lgbt+ streamers" aka "im erasing people's identities and, again, disregarding the literal qualifications for this mcc which include having a youtube platform"

i keep seeing people bring up how every lgbt+ person in mcc is white and able bodied and neurotypical etc etc (which is an inaccurate statement anyways) as reasons why they "arent good enough" or they're bringing up how there "isnt any of [x] sexuality/gender involved" as if that's the organizers faults and i uh. i hate to break it to yall but, again, this is an apply to get in event. if these ccs that were "more diverse" (bc why the fuck are we referring to these ccs playing in fucking minecraft championship as some weird ass diversity characters instead of real life people who are more than their race, disability, etc.) met the requirements and were lgbt+ but just didnt apply, while a lot of other white, cis, neurotypical, able bodied, whatever the fuck else, did? yeah. nobody can change that. scott didnt just pick and chose who gets to play, there are literal rules for this event and also applications that are involved like?? hello????? and obviously i would love to see some more lgbt+ creators from different backgrounds with different identities in the cast, that would be awesome, but that is ultimately not up to the organizers. they cant force people to play. they cant skip people in the waiting lists. they can't have people who cant stream be involved in this mcc as their first event, both because it would be sad for them not to stream their first mcc and because it is a literal charity event.

and, to make things worse, a lot of people are saying there "isnt any trans people this mcc" which is just. a blatant lie. eret isnt cis and sqiashey is genderfluid, yall just dont like eret so you decide to refer to her as a "cis man" constantly, which is transphobic, and yall also dont know sqiashey so instead of doing research, you started running ur mouths and then didn't apologize when you got called on it.

like. even if eret was truly problematic, which i dont believe they are as they have apologized for every little mistake theyve made and dealt with the backlash from entitled little privileged teenagers online all while not complaining even the slightest bit, that still doesnt give you a right to misgender them and erase their identity as a non cis person entirely because you're mad over a fucking minecraft event like??? how fucking privileged you must be that this is what gets you heated. not any actual homophobia or transphobia, but apparently "lgbt+ people in minecraft not being diverse enough". choke.

3) "technoblade is a lesphobe, why is he in mcc"

tw on this section: i discuss my expierences with homophobia as an afab nblw briefly and reclaim the d slur (if you wanna read this section and avoid the homophobia discussion and/or d slur, skip from "as someone who is nblw" to "techno making a shitty joke").

all of techno's lesphobic comments are from 5+ years ago and were, at worst, jokes in poor taste. as someone who is nblw, i have had men follow me and my friend around and call us dykes for holding hands in a museum, i have had my family members harrass me for my sexuality and casually talk about how im gross and wrong for liking girls and i have been punished by literal teachers for showing "too much pda" with my past girlfriends despite the fact that ive never even kissed someone on campus before, just held hands and hugged. techno making some shitty jokes when he was a teenager years ago, while also having a plethora of examples of him being an lgbt+ ally, which does include lesbians, should not be treated the same way as literal bigots calling queer people slurs. and if you think it should be, you have had it fucking lucky.

yes, it is valid to be upset over these jokes, they're fucking weird and he shouldnt have made them, but to treat it with the exact same seriousness as a grown ass adult showing blatant homophobia in current times? no. fuck no.

extra notes bc there's some minor discourse points i left out: no, dream team shouldnt get to be involved in this event over other cishet ccs involved just because they have bigger platforms because this quite literally isnt about them, it's about lgbt+ people and they just didnt happen to get in. shut the fuck up. stop mentioning ant and velvet as people who shouldve been involved, they're quite literally together rn doing little daytrips and shit and they most likely dont wanna spend their time together playing fucking minecraft. also, stop saying techno should be replaced with ranboo (or anyone for that matter), it breaks ranboo's fucking boundaries and him donating 100k to the trevor project doesnt suddenly mean he gets to skip the mcc waiting list.

in conclusion: twitter stop whining over pride mcc, your privilege is showing.

(tagging @tauntwenthome bc you said you wanted to hear as well <3)

Callout post: me

lying, manipulative, hold grudges, constantly paranoid, would absolutely 100% check out a teenager if nobody was looking because "it's a harmless crime", liar, cycle through idealization and devaluation, 'sick of fat people trying to be the next civil rights issue and making it that much harder to get civil rights for people who are ACTUALLY oppressed like gee idk poc and muslims and the mentally ill and queer people', frequently fantasizes about committing violent acts against people I rationalize they deserve it including family members, untruthful, attention whore, pedantic AND pretentious, tells lies, doesn't believe in one sister's claim of sexual assault (went to smoke weed with the alleged perpetrator), UNAPOLOGETICALLY AGAINST ASEXUAL EXCLUSIONISM (LITERALLY FUCK YOU DUMBASS FOURTEEN YEAR OLDS WHO SHRIEK THAT QUEER IS A SLUR, SHUT YOUR GODDAM FUCKING WHORE MOUTHS YOU DUMBASSES AND GO THE FUCK OUTSIDE OR READ A BOOK), would absolutely punch a child over an insignificant internet argument, secretly sought out sexual pleasure from two friendly seemingly platonic encounters with two girls I just met within twenty four hours, overreacts to the slightest provocations and has bitches at or vagueposted at several people who did not deserve it, has used mental illness and physical handicap to evade trouble from being late for work because video games and laziness and excessive sleep, has spent maybe a thousand dollars on fast food in 2018 alone, evades bills for medical care from an actually great clinic, lying sack of garbage, gave up on calling out family's bigotry and is now an accessory to prejudice, despises terfs predominantly for their refusal to fuck me because of being trans and yet meanwhile would not engage in sexual relationship with another trans woman or cis man unless reeeeeeeeally drunk, can and will blame being sexually assaulted as a child which probably didn't even happen because I don't think I remember it, unabashed furry, probably as addicted to video games and masturbation AND LIES as I almost was to alcohol, pretended to have almost been an alcoholic just to "win" facebook arguments about addiction, doesn't give a fuck my dad almost died from heroin JUST because he's a *little* homophobic and racist and classist and xenophobic because of a christian upbringing, would literally fucking murder him if he EVER PUTS HIS HANDS ON ME AGAIN, only slightly depressed because of laziness and a lack of drive and ungrateful to my family because hey they didn't kick me out for being trans so HEY THATS SUPPORTIVE ENOUGH FOR SOME OTHER PEOPLE SO WHY CANT I BE HAPPY WITH THAT, legitimately salty about ~the friendzone~ and just makes fun of incels because everybody else does, takes the moral high ground for not being a misogynist even though I don't deserve a pat on the back a lap dance and a blowjob for not hating women, overly sensitive about stupid things, thinking about faking having a trigger warning for more discourse credit, HUUUGE ASSHOLE to men I deem unattractive for no other reason than every single ugly fat guy I've ever met has been an asshole, rationalizes it after the fact because they eventually say something shitty because all men are terrible, probably a little bit of a cisnormative misandrist because trans men tend to be much better people, finds trans men attractive (specifically and significantly more so than cis men) so must clearly be fetishizing them, relatively okay with people referring to me as deadnamed and the wrong pronouns so probably just lying about being trans to everyone including myself, not 100% okay with the hijab for 'no reason other than all organized religion is evil and opposed to its mandate and the shame it forces on many women in many situations the exact same way I'm opposed to no sex before marriage and wives being subservient to their husbands and treating women as property in the torah and quran alike because ITS ALL BRAINWASHING' so is clearly not unlearning islamophobia and doesn't want to let that go, hypocrite because I believe in the basics of judeochristianity

and loathe atheism and atheists entirely because their smugness and smarm literally sets my blood pressure through the roof of what is safe and normal and yet claim to hate all organized religion, mansplains yet gets so pissed off when other people mansplain to me, judgmental of other cultures because they don't have the exact same values that I have, james gunn apologist, talks and talks and talks about anarchosocialism all damn day but would beat the shit out of a coworker for leaving me to do things because they're lazy because "any job worth doing is worth doing well" and other capitalismisms, literally couldn't give less of a fuck that his mother is dying because people die but it's no reason to make my life slightly harder and making me work hard when I work because BOO HOO MY LEGS HURT FROM THE LITERALLY MOST MILD CASE OF MUSCULAR DYSTROPHY I COULD'VE BEEN BORN WITH, hasn't actually performed real suicide attempt ever but still claims to have done so to attain sympathy that may result in physical affection, countless other shitty terrible things that yeah I recognize are bad but CANT SEEM TO CARE BECAUSE I HAVE DEPRESSION... WHICH IS THE WEAKEST FUCKING EXCUSE IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE GODDAMN WORLD

I am not a good person, okay?

I just pretend to be sometimes.

I'm sick of doing it, I'm sick of trying to do well and earn people's approval by doing and saying the right things only to just be ignored which is a step up from receiving many anons that hey, never actually told me to kill myself, but did take my words out of context to paint me as a racist. I am not the kind of racist who would vote for trump and march with the kkk. that is one of very few good things I can say about myself. but I'm an arrogant, violent, and angry opinionated perverted manipulative judgmental lying asshole. I'm not a good person. I have let myself fall so much and I deserve to be alone. my only connections to people were built on personal gain and I swear to myself that I do love them but those feelings fall away in direct correlation to how much they interact with me. I could love you to the point of obsession and stalking and one month later be completely and totally disinterested. I'm a bigot who pretends to not be bigoted and just parrots what other people say not because I believe it but because it's the right thing to say, and I only say what the right thing is to say because whenever I say a good thing something good will happen to me and if I say a bad thing something bad happens to me. it's all just self preservation, nothing else at all. but now I'm at the end of a road of just trying to do good and I'm alone. out of the only two friends that I can really say that I have left, one is far away and trapped in a guilt spiral that I caused by being too clingy, and the other has been behaving in a way my mind has decoded as defensive around me which makes sense as I have been very... the best way to describe it would be the way a dudebro incel interacts with any person who possesses a vagina/breasts but sneakier. in both relationships I've pushed my own wants and desires in extremis... I can't for the life of me recall the last time I have ever offered something in return other than my own company or paying for a meal at a restaurant or I guess transportation. and instead of sex I just want them to express even the slightest bit of intimate platonic physical affection towards me but that's still a lot to offer someone who has clearly expressed the existence of a sexual and maybe something near the realms of romantic in one of the cases physical attraction because for this aspec it's practically the same fucking thing.

and I've manipulated them to attain this goal. at this point my shit brain has considered just fucking going to town on my wrists with a razor blade to draw sympathy so that I'll get a hug or something beyond just a simply hello/goodbye, and finding a way to induce tears to concoct a sob story to reach the same end result, and one time very briefly via threat and intimidation so you can clearly see that I've gone far too into irredeemable territory. I've been playing and replaying cry of fear because it's just too similar to my own issues and the first ending where he just kills everyone he loves and then himself... I see me in that ending. and it scares me so much more than the sprinting screaming twitching one hit kill chainsaw guy ever will. I don't want that to be me, I want to change something, but I just can't get the help that I need. I had hoped to go for a domino effect, where if I could be cuddled for like five minutes or something, I'd have the energy to be more hygienic, which would make me feel capable enough to take on two jobs, which would get me the cash flow I need to pay my bills and take care of my hormones, which would put me in the headspace necessary to effectively use psychological help, which would let me get over my illnesses and actually become a more successful person instead of the pathetic husk I am here in non-fantasy land.

but that won't happen.

I'm just sitting here in the dark angsting about how nobody will touch me in a way that would produce oxytocin, and it's making me so sick, so physically sick, that it's affecting my brain too. I'm in pain, nauseous, vengeful, spiteful, paranoid, judgmental, and lonely. I'm stuck and I can't even kill myself because my mind wants me to stay alive and suffer through all of this because "oh it gets better" people have been saying that for well over half of my life. I was six or seven years old when I asked my mother to kill me, and that same level of desperation and bitterness has only gotten worse as time goes by. when does it get better? I'll tell you when it gets better, after I'm in prison or comatose or forty five years old with a cane and bad eyes and high blood pressure and lung cancer from all the secondhand smoke I've breathed in my life. when my life is over, that's when it gets better. I DONT WANT THAT. I WANT A NORMAL FUCKING LIFE RIGHT NOW. I WANT NORMAL FRIENDSHIPS AND A NORMAL HOME AND A NORMAL EDUCATION AND A NORMAL CAREER AND A NORMAL FAMILY. or at least I want someone to hold me and make me feel like I'm not so horrible and broken that I can't be touched.

but that's too much to ask for.

[Image Description: A screenshot of part of a comment that reads, "someone says 'I'm not bisexual, I'm pansexual' it makes me goddamn crazy because bisexuality as a term isn't limiting. If you're attracted to men and women and androgynes, you're still goddamn bisexual, you are just ALSO this other thing. I think a lot of people want to feel special and unique, which I understand, but I think that can come at the cost of actual progress for us."]

I wish I could remember the link for this, but all I remember is that it was a comment left on an article about bisexual rep, more specifically a character from game of thrones, by the author of the article. but regardless, it's trash. complete and utter anti-pan trash.

- first we have, "someone says 'I'm not bisexual, I'm pansexual' it makes me goddamn crazy because bisexuality as a term isn't limiting."

let's just fix that real quick, what I think they meant is, "someone using a label that they actually feel comfortable with and represented by makes me use ableist slurs because I like to police how people define and label their sexuality."

okay, listen. it doesn't matter if bisexuality isn't limiting, if it can mean two genders or all genders. hell, it doesn't matter if bisexuality and pansexuality had the exact same, word for word, text book definition. people have the right to define and label their sexuality as they please, and you don't get to police or even have a fucking opinion on it. it's simply not your place.

if you're really bothered or confused by someone identifying as pansexual, politely ask them if they'll share why they identify that way, or just read posts by pansexual people who have discussed this topic to death. either way, shut up and listen, instead of spewing bigoted assumptions.

- to follow that up, we've got, "you're [pansexuals] still goddamn bisexual, you're just ALSO this other thing."

this one really pisses me off. stop telling pansexual people that they're bisexual. whether you’re saying they’re just bisexual or also bisexual. start fucking respecting their label and why/how they identify with it.

stop forcing bisexual as an umbrella term to mean multisexual, because it isn't one, multisexual is. and let's not forget that plenty of pansexual people have repeatedly expressed that they are not okay with being called bisexual. (and that's not because we think there's anything wrong with being bisexual. it's just not our label, it's not how we identify, and again, you need to respect that.)

for the fucking record, my pansexuality isn't some afterthought or minor detail of my identity. it is my identity, on its own, not as a subset or runner up to anything else. and just so you know, if you spew hate about pansexuality/pan people, but “just also” happen to be bisexual, you're still fucking trash. being bi doesn't excuse you from being a bigot, or being called out on it.

- next up is, "I think a lot of people want to feel special and unique".

is that the "polite" way of calling pansexuals "special snowflakes"? well, let me tell you, I don't identify as pansexual because it makes me feel cool or unique or special. I identify as pansexual because, shocker!! I actually relate to it, in a way that I don't with any other label. (aside from queer.)

I have never felt connected to the word bisexual. it was close, in that way where before I identified my sexuality, I fiercely supported bisexuality, because I felt a sort of kinship with bisexual people. but I never felt the word described me.

when I learned about pansexuality, though. it just immediately clicked and felt right. so, honestly? who the fuck do you think you are, to try to erase or diminish that by saying I call myself pansexual just to feel special? like it's a fucking fact? like you fucking know me and my feelings? kindly go fuck yourself.

- and lastly, "I think that can come at the cost of actual progress for us."

okay, identifying explicitly as pansexual is not, in any way whatsoever, hurting bisexual people or the bisexual movement. and I'm really interested in who you're referring to with that "us", because while you seem to believe that pansexuality and bisexuality are the same, you don't seem to hold any kind of respect for pansexual people, and that leads me to believe that progress for you and progress for me mean different things.

progress for me is celebrities publicly identifying as pansexual and discussing their pansexuality, characters being canonically pansexual, people fighting for pansexual rep, people bringing awareness to pansexuality, people acknowledging that unlabeled multisexual characters could be pansexual, pansexual people not being forced under an “umbrella term” that they didn’t ask for and get lost under, pansexual people finally getting their seat at the table.

if that isn't progress to you, if you think any of that is somehow hurting bisexuality, then there definitely is no "us". I just really cannot imagine being so ignorantly self-centered that you truly believe that the visibility and support of a sexuality that isn't yours is detrimental to that of yours.

pansexual and bisexual people and support/acceptance/visibility CAN coexist, and the only people hurting progress are those like you, who act like it’s one or the other.

all in all, anti-pan bisexual people make no sense and are actual human garbage and they really need to reign in their bigoted shit because I feel like people are gonna start accusing me of hating bi people for always calling bisexual people's anti-pan shit, and that is something I am not here for, seriously lmfao don't even try me

Opinion: SJWs and OSWs there is a differences

So I want to talk about the difference of Social Justice Warriors (SJWs) and Online Shaming Warriors (OSWs). I have two different Facebook pages. One where I am mostly political (which is this one on my personal account) and one where it is mostly performance related or randomness which is my performer account. I have seen posts by some of my friends who talk about cultural appropriation, intersectionality, racism, homophobia, transphobia, and also how we should be politically correct and I agree with majority of the these statuses and these statuses often piss off the white cis patriarchy to the point where cis white men usually heterosexuals will start calling these advocates "Social Justice Warriors" and make it look like a derogatory slur. Then you have people who think EVERYTHING is offensive. You post a statuses calling Anti Vaxxers idiots and say they should be charged with child neglect and you got people who are so offended by your stance on Anti Vaxxers that they will go after you and say you are being bigoted and you are intolerant to others. You make a post about how transracial and transgender can NOT be compared and how they are NOT the same thing and how it is a far right conspiracy and how comparing Rachel Dolezal to Caitlyn Jenner is transphobic, and all of a sudden you got people who freak out over that status calling you a hypocrite and a racist all because you said transracial and transgender are completely different and can NOT be compared. You even got people who get so offended when you share a video of a Life Hack of doing your own stick and poke tattoo which the way they are doing it is WRONG and the way it is being done is NOT SANITARY and you got all these comments saying the exact same thing you are saying and then there is always that one person who will say that everyone is being ignorant and being all of the different -ists and then they delete you as a friend because you made the post. These same people get called Social Justice Warriors. There is something wrong with this picture. You see True SJWs DON’T get offended by every single little post or every single. Yes they do call out when something is not right but they do it when it is actually offensive or wrong. OSWs will call out on people for anything and everything. Yes we know that low tech tattoos are performed around the world. However, regardless if it is high tech or low tech the safest way to get a tattoo is for a professional to do it with special tools. If you do it yourself with a sewing needle and stuff laying around your house you can risk getting tetanus. You can even get HIV, Hep B or even Hep C if your tattoo is NOT done properly. It does NOT matter if it is high tech or low tech. We know that some kids can not get vaccinated because of allergies or because of actual medical conditions limiting them to get vaccinated, however that doesn’t mean that  children shouldn’t be vaccinated all because of a very small number children can’t get vaccines. Science shows that there is ZERO evidence that vaccines cause Autism. Science shows that vaccines HELP prevent serious illnesses. Yes there maybe a few children or people over all who CAN’T get vaccines but even those people believe that children should be vaccinated if they can be vaccinated, and one says that parents who don’t vaccinate there kids should lose their parental rights and be charged with child neglect that doesn’t mean I am being “offensive” to a small minority. For goodness sakes even people who actually can’t get vaccinated agree with me on vaccinations. There are even people who get offended over a joke about a debate. Yes there are jokes that are offensive and people making those jokes should be called out. However, if I were to make a joke about the abortion debate or about PETA than the OSWs will automatically say “That’s offensive” “You’re bashing a group of people.”  Seriously I really don’t understand why people would label just anyone as a SJW. There is nothing wrong with being a Social Justice Warrior. There is something wrong however being an Online Shaming Warrior and getting offended over every single little thing and over reacting to every single thing. Seriously there is no need to call every single a Social Justice Warrior when they are just being ignorant themselves and just wanting to censor everything. 

"Rjalker is calling minors racist!"

Well then just stop being racist. It's that easy. Do you think kids of color don't exist? Do you think your racism has no impact on anyone but your reputation? All you have to do is stop being racist.

I love how the ML fandom keeps pointing to the fact that I'm white to say that all the times I've called people out for their blatant racism is false, while they conveniently ignore all the people of color in this fandom who have been calling them out for the exact same shit.

Remember when these racist shitheads were pretending that Alya is a horrible vicious bully who's worse than Chloe and suicide baits and beats the shit out if Marinette while stealing millions of dollars from Marinette's parents? And Marinette only has Chloe left to comfort her because Chloe is herone true friend? And these people were trying to claim that this is her genuine, real personality? They didn’t think this was OOC or bashing, they were genuienly convinced that Alya is the fucking spawn of satan who is physically and mentally abusive to Marinette, who is, and I quite, “terrified of her”.

They’re probably still fucking doing it to this day, but at this point I have them all blocked and reported.

This fandom is filled to the brim with racists.

And yes, some of those racists happen to be children.

They do not get a free fucking pass on being racist because they're children, because the children of color that are targeted by their racism don't get a free pass to not be harmed by it.

If your argument is literally that I am calling children out for being racist and for being misogynist and victim-blaming and abuse apologists, maybe instead of trying to pretend that children are incapable of harming anyone, you instead fucking educate the bigoted children in this fandom so they don't have to be called out in the first place.

Also I love how these people keep claiming I'm “harassing” them when the only time I ever call people out by name is on the summary, two sentence post where I am warning people to block them to avoid their bigotry, and if they are have posted something so fucking truly heinous that I have to respond by reblogging so that someone at least is showing up in the notes not agreeing with it.

Like that time a self-proclaimed 45 year old man told children in this fandom that if you are upset with someone for abusing you, and the person abusing you was, themselves, abused, you’re victim blaming them and are a horrible person who should be ashamed of yourself.

A literal 45 year old man came into this fandom and told children that they have to stay in abusive relationships, and if they don’t, they’re horrible people.

I am not joking.

I don’t harass people in this fandom. You know what I do? I block people. And I warn my followers about them. I don’t fucking bother to waste the energy arguing with these assholes anymore and do you know why? Because they literally will not listen to reason, and I’m tired of being called all manner of slurs and told I wasn’t ever actually sexually harassed because these people think that as long as the guy doing it is hot, it can’t ever be sexual harassment.

The people in this fandom literally think that because Adrien has a tragic backstory, then that means he can do whatever he wants without consequences, and it’s perfectly “”valid”” for him to sexually harass Marinette, because, and I quote, “She said no, but that doesn’t mean she’s not consenting”.

These people are mad that I’m calling out this fandom for spouting rape apologism, when they literally say the above literal quote in endless variations. They will argue day and night that Marinette has absolutely no problem with Adrien’s harassment towards her, despite the fact that she’s told him to stop countless times, despite how absolutely fucking miserable she looks, despite the fact that he literally admits multiple times that he does it specifically to piss her off because he enjoys seeing her genuinely upset.

People in this fandom will literally spout rape apologism, but then pretend to be the victims when they get called out for it. They will literally say Adrien sexually harassing Marinette is “valid” and then pretend to be the victim when they’re callled out for it. They will victim blame Marinette for “not doing enough” to stop Adrien from sexually harassing her, and then pretend to be the victim when they’re called out for it.

Most of them won’t even fucking admit that what Adrien is doing is sexual harassment, because they literally have no idea what sexual harassment actually looks like in the real world. They think only “ugly” “creepy” men sexually harass women. They cannot fucking grasp the fact that Adrien, the pretty white blond sad boy, is sexually harassing Marinette, because the show tells you it’s okay, and they don’t have enough critical thinking skills to not just go along with whatever the writers tell them.

And yes, some of the people doing this are kids. And that’s not an excuse. Because guess what? If they aren’t corrected, then they’re never going to stop doing this. they aren’t just going to magically wake up one day and realize that they’re being a victim blaming misogynist.

If no one ever calls out the victim blaming, yes, literal fucking rape apologism, and racism in the Miraculous Ladybug, it will literally never fucking get better.

where was I? I’m getting distracted.

Anyways.

I am not harassing people. 90% of the time I literally won’t even call people by name when I’m discussing the problem.

I block these people as soon as I find them, and then I make my own post explaining what it is that people are doing that is racist and that it needs to stop. I don't link to anyone's blogs, I don't link to their fanfictions, I am literally just calling out the behavior.

But then again, the same people in this fandom who think being called out for racism is harassment also think that blocking is harassment, and yet don't even hesitate before block evading.

If you are a kid in the miraculous ladybug fandom, and you have been informed that something you did was racist, your immediate response should not be to go "I'm a child you can't call me out."

If your immediate response to being told that something you did is racist, is to deny that you are racist because you are a child, you are racist.

It really is that simple.

Just because you are a child does not make your actions harmless. Just because you are a child does not mean you get a “get out of consequences free” card. Your racism is no different from the racism of an adult. It still reflects your morals, it's still enforces racist views, and it's still actively harming the people of color around you, and yes, that includes children of color.

You don't get to be a bigot and then try to use the fact that you're a child as a shield as though the other children being harmed by your bigotry don't literally exist.

If you think you can’t be held accountable for your actions because you’re a child, then get off the internet until you learn what morals are and can trust yourself to be a good person.

Either you think it’s impossible for you to behave like a decent person who has morals because you’re a kid, or you think you’re responsible enough to interact with people responsible. You gotta pick one. 

Yes, I am white. And I will call you out for being racist if I see you being racist. That is literally the responsibility of white people. Are you really going to argue that white people should just sit by silently and not do anything when blatant racism is happening right in front of them? Is that really the hill you’re gonna die on? That only the people of color that you are harming are allowed to call you out? Really?

This fandom is racist as hell, and you cannot use the fact that you are a child to excuse your behavior. You cannot use the fact that I happen to be white as an excuse to ignore your racism. I have absolutely no doubt that people of color have also fucking called you out, but because I'm white, you've decided that the rest of it doesn't matter because you think you can delegitimize the harm caused by your actions by singling me out because you’re gonna pretend being called out for being racist by a white person means you aren’t actually racist.