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akkivee · 4 months

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some more non hypmic content for the ages but the franchise that curated the type of fan i am today is getting an official mini dub after over 15 years to test the waters and i sure as hell am gassing it up so i can get more lmao

#this is vee speaking #like let it be known now if this franchise gets a reimagining/sequel/reboot what have you #this blog will be khr AND hypmic lmao and it’s starting with a liveblogging reread lmao #but everything i like about hypmic had its foundations here lol #chill writing in the beginning but then it ramps up to 💯?????#THE stupidest hijinks lol????? power concepts based on friendship?????#cyclical writing where past shit affects the characters in the long run?????#an asshole of a boy who loves his found family more than life itself????? a lowkey harem of men AND women who love him back?????#and it’s practically codependent??????#character songs that reflect the characters’ mentality?????? the pioneers of lives based off a franchise??????#so much of the concepts in this series walked so others could run lmao #i’ve also been married to tsuna for half of my life LOL

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sysig · 3 months

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i want to go on a big and elaborate date with papyrus SPECIFICALLY bc of the way u draw him bc he’s so bbg cutie patootie

PapyrACE 💚💜 Happy Valentine's Day!

#DDoodles #UT #Papyrus #AroAce Papyrus Supremacy #Lol #I'm actually really delighted to see how much aroace positivity there is around the skelebros :D #I was a little on the worried side since y'know - Sans especially. I've been in the fandom for a while lol I'm Aware #But genuinely there's so much lovely energy towards the bros being aroace which I - unsurprisingly - am very inclined towards lol #Me constantly: And you're ace! And you're ace! And you're ace! Ace for everybody!#I'm tongue-in-cheek about my Projecting Constantly lol but I do try to base my headcanons on The Actual Text haha #I think Papyrus is kind of a no-brainer lol he literally turns you down if you go on a date with him that's pretty textual #And you have the option to completely avoid going on a date with him and he still clarifies platonic affection!#I like him very much haha <3 #As for Sans I know some of it stems from my Handplates filter lol - their codependency points to an interesting interplay with romance #I'll start thinking about the Vargas Dating Sim again if I keep on that train of thought tho lol #But to me it feels more than just ''He's too busy'' or w/e - Feels Different #It's all speculation anyway haha - I'm glad you like how I draw Papyrus! :D He's the sweetest boy and I love him!!#Wanted to try something a bit Extra hehe ♪ I keep wanting to make animatics and the like!#Storyboards - animations if I can swing them lol - but I'm very impatient :P And perfectionistic >.>#So have something a bit more sloppy and silly :) It's good practice for me!#All told it wasn't too bad! :D I had fun making it and I'm fairly pleased ♪#Hope you enjoy hehe <3 Happy Valen's! :D

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risetherivermoon · 4 months

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pov you are Cassandra Swift a few minutes before you lose a hand

Nicky wasn't in Heaven because Willy took one look at his sad wet cat meow meow ass through Cassandra's ring doorbell and decided that he could never pose a threat to him, look at this fuck, look at his big sparkly eyes,

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television-overload · 2 months

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I need to see a fic where (in a post-existence world where Mulder stays and they're all happy) Scully is finishing up with laundry for the first time since he moved in, and Mulder gets all embarrassed about her folding his underwear 😂

#like they’re so close and codependent but i just feel like underwear? he'll get weird about for no reason #and she probably looks at him like 🤨 i've literally seen you naked what's the problem #and he'll say “i can fold them! you do enough!”#and he practically tries to wrestle them out of her hands #and lowkey she enjoys folding his clothes bc she never thought she’d have this #and his discomfort just makes her laugh #txf #msr #x files #fox mulder #dana scully

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byers-bowlcut · 1 year

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Milkvans calling ppl ableist for having the opinion that maybe a 13 year old shouldn't be dating/in a very codependent relationship, when said child spent TWELVE YEARS OF THEIR LIFE (so that's 92% of their life) in a lab as an experiment, being controlled by a man!!

This pairing, if you actually step back and think about it if it happened in real life, is a bit messed up.

If the Duffer Bros truly wanted them to be endgame and make it make SENSE, it would've been a slow burn relationship, with El slowly discovering herself, her identity, her likes and dislikes, and THEN becoming self aware of how her feelings from Mike has grown from friendship and being thankful he saved her, to something more as she MATURES. Not being kissed as a 12 year old 1 week after she escaped from being a prisoner/experiment in a lab, and is desperate for safety and human affection which she's literally never had before.

#anti mileven #stranger things #mike wheeler #el hopper #will byers #byler #honestly in my opinion 13yos shouldn't be dating point blank #so the notion that a 13yo with that past is in a deeply codependent rs is insane #if you think about it practically / realistically

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aro-culture-is · 1 year

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Aro culture is not understanding why people break up if they had been swooning over each other.

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#gayundertaletrash #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod axel #tl;dr sorta explanation: two people can really like each other but find that in practice they cannot maintain a healthy relationship #that can be due to problems with (for example) codependency / life events / difficulty when constantly around each other #and many more things that are largely specific interactions of those #sometimes you really like something but it just isn't meant to be #(if it helps to conceptualize it: i fucking love ice cream... but i wouldn't feel good if it was all i ate (codependency ish)#i might not be able to access it / have an upset stomach / etc (life events) even though i like it #and even if it wasn't everything i ate i might struggle if it was part of my every meal #just... liking =/= good in a relationship

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vizthedatum · 2 months

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This is something that I'm trying really hard to be mindful of... when I use labels/terms to describe other people, at the very current time I'm living in, I'm only trying to do so in the context of MY OWN healing.

So when I use accepted terminology based on the literature or professionals I subscribe to, regardless of the criticism that these people face in various communities, I'm doing so because it's helping me heal. It's helping people I know heal. It's helping people in a community heal.

If this is coming at a cost to someone's mental health, then you don't have to engage. My abuse recovery posts are specifically for people who are undergoing those types of abuse.

It's not to put down anyone else - I am not running a smear campaign. Please believe that I wish the people from the past... healing, peace, love, and fulfillment. I am angry at them and grieving all the various losses, but I do not wish them harm.

I am expressing what's happened in my life and how I feel about it. I deserve the space to do that, AS DOES EVERYONE ELSE.

I think it's ridiculous that I'm literally in therapy for the type of abuse I've gone through from my parents and several exes (something that's an established pattern for people with codependency tendencies like myself (including many autistic people like myself)), I'm working through literal "narcissistic abuse" recovery workbooks, I'm exposed to literature and sources from ALL angles of the issue, and then there are people who don't even know me or my health history claiming that I'm ableist.

I'm not taking away anyone's rights or voices.

It's extremely harmful to come after survivors and try to tell them how to make sense of their own abuse.

Let survivors actually try to find their voice again, using the tools that are available to them. Targeting survivors is not actually going to cause systemic change.

(My stance on the matter - DNI if you don't agree - you can literally block me and the tag)

#this is definitely in regards to the term “narcissistic abuse” which I will not justify my usage of any longer #dni if you do not agree #healing from narcissistic abuse #is not the same as the diagnosis #healing #healing from codependency #healing from trauma #healing from not having access to medical and mental health care in my cultural practice #neurodivergence #i acknowledge there is a divide in the community #narcissistic abuse

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dq1 · 2 months

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#hate avpd man i hate that ill never be able.to be close to people the way they would want me to #exgf literally left me also because i went through a phase of not really wanting to be touched and needing alone time bc of said avpd #like how could i ever have a relationship when i need to have my own room even in a relationship sometimes...or spend time separate #and its on and off bc sometimes i will b up someones ass but then 2 days later i need to not really talk much and be totally alone 4 a week #like idk ! i am not ! a lovable person !#back and forth from hypersexual to nearly asexual sometimes. clingy to wanting to b alone. needing my own bed and stuff #half the time I'm not even good at cuddling without getting overstimulated #qpp and i basically codependents but i dont even know if either of us have the ability to have a closer relationship than that w a partner #we r only 20s but i feel like we have practically given up #add weird spiritual beliefs i have on top of that like how could someone love me when im insane and delusional and avoidant and whatever #cant believe exgf got annoyed when i would just wanna play ovw alone or something instead of sitting in bed watching her watch yt videos #like idk i need space sometimes too im just frustrated rn omfg #like am i destined to only being ok at ldr ... but even then i dont text well when j want to be Alon #kill me omfg....... this is ridiculous

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michiganmerchant · 9 months

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god they make me so sick

#ok what if i wrote the 90k jamietrevor ice dance rule 63 fic WHAT then #what if i wrote the second most toxic codependent sport relationshionship in the history of the universe #it has to be girl trevor because what was the point of everyone comparing jamie's edges to a figure skater if he's NOT scott #mostly ive been thinking about codependency and watching two people curl into each other tighter and tighter around each other #i want that for jamietrevor i want jamie to be obnoxiously overprotective of trevor and i want trevor to REVILE in it #i want trevor to be extremely territorial of jamie i want him to like it so much #i want the both of them to be obsessed with each other #i want the borh of them to fuck in the small janitors closet while practicing roxanne because its bleeding a little too close for reality #i want them to have gold medal sex about it too. like. hold on do you see my vision #i want everyone to be horrified and slightly jealous of their relationship #literally 'you're perfect for each other just never involve anyone else in your relationship'#thinking. perhaps even thoughting. thunking.

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batnsons · 5 months

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just started dating someone (for the second time, technically. we dated for a month three years ago, before we met in person) who’s been my best friend for a while now. I never ever thought words of affirmation was one of my love languages until dating this man. my goodness, the way this man showers me with praise and affection is unreal, and the way it makes me melt is entirely unexpected.

I don’t think I realized just how starved I was for this kind of affection until he started giving it. I’ve always been told I was too much, too loud, too dramatic, too extra, and now to have someone constantly just out of the blue telling me how amazing and smart and wonderful I am is just… wow. and that’s not to say he didn’t do this already, but now it’s new. this whole relationship came out of nowhere and hit me like a fucking train but now I don’t know what I’d do without it, or him. it scares the shit outta me but it also feels so right

#he’s just #wow #he was already one of my closest friends #we were practically codependent #and now?#i don’t know what I’d do without him #it’s terrifying and exhilarating and so so wonderful and new #and yet at the same time it feels so familiar and comfortable #rey rambles #delete later #maybe #relationship tag #love tag #boyfriend tag

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kinnoth · 1 year

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Ok but think about how fucking horrible Loki would have turned if Thor had managed to become king. Like, even when they were only princes together, there was basically nothing Loki couldn't get away with: bullying the patriciate, being a flagrant wizard, spending extravagant amounts of money on absolute tat. And then, he was only the third most powerful man in the empire. With Odin gone, and only Thor who could possibly curb him? Dear fucking god.

Bc when has thor ever showed an interest in curbing anything loki has ever wanted or done

#thor has to get married at some point but i really dont envy the poor woman he eventually shackles to the position of queen #like just openly blantantly he doesnt love her as much as he does loki; he doesnt listen to her as much as he does loki #the fights they would have had about thor disregarding her opinions and priorities in favour of Loki's #and loki just ......the bitterest and most resentful version of himself #hatred for the woman who is in the spot that he -- by all rights and practicality -- occupies #to be fair i think Loki would have stuck around a couple of years after Thor became king and then fuckin bailed to vanaheim #he's too proud to stick around watching himsef and Thor getting further and further from one another #it would hurt too much to watch thor getting swallowed alive by the layers & layers of responsibility til he couldn't recognise him anymore #until thor couldn't recognise himself anymore or see Loki for who he was #anyway fun thoughts #internal thor tag #the woman who agrees to marry thor? definitely not sif.#sif is way too aware of the psychosexual codependent fucking trash mess that is thor and loki's relationship #she grew up around it and was in the middle of it throughout most of her young adulthood #she has too much self respect to subject herself to a lifetime of that #she's already long gone and far away by the time the subject of thor's marriage comes up #if she's married it's been to a nice man who loves her more than she loves him #if she isn't its bc she's not sure if she really wants to be married #she's having a pretty good time being a free agent now that her brother baldr has grown up and inherited their father's house

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devilfruitdyke · 7 months

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im so good kisser coded but was born a bad kisser. injustices

#chick who is sososo fucking nervous and kinda just wants to cuddle #does anyone wanna hear the weirdly avoidant relationships ive had #theyre kinda funny #ok 1. stage kissed a couple times i thought she was straight for embarrassingly long. stage kissing was not in a theatre context btw #2. immediately got quarantined after we realized feelings for each other through a m.cr based groupchat #did Not kiss mostly texted #3. one or those classic gay codependent relationships that lasted for a year but it was a middle school year so that means more #she left for a dude who threw up during the hard sets at swim practice. blow to my self esteem #4. barely happened i just felt obligated and they text me to do their homework all the fuckin time #5. nothing happens we are too shy we just listen to metal together #do you know how fucked it is to overshare this bad and know ill never be able to blame drinking ☹️ jkjk #edit. 5.5 someone who liked me at work but then his homie contacted me and i said i didnt really like him #never saw him again and i think he got fired 💀

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butchdykekondraki · 9 months

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hi. thining about davesport again. look at my ramble boy

#[ren]#they are So.#just. absolutely abhorrent for eachother. TERRIBLE.#i cant think of a single universe where these men would have a positive effect on each other let alone a HEALTHY effect.#its awful. nothing good comes from it. they're both codependent monsters who refuse to get away from each other for their own sake #and everytime someone tries to show them how awful they are for each other it pushes them closer together whether they like it or not #they have done terrible shit to the point that they're practically unloveable in any other circumstance that isn't dating each other #they both have guilt associated with eachother that never goes away and yet they persist #they try and try again to make it work but it falls apart over and over while they refuse to admit how bad their situation is #okay thats all i just think theyre neat :-)#obligatory dsaf tag

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garf-kinnie · 9 months

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the cutie mark crusaders have cute cutie marks, you just don’t believe in the magic friendship

#mlp #mlp cmc #mlp cutie mark crusaders #’what if they stop being friends’ they live in a magical society and thats where you want to draw the line on logic snd practicality #the mane 6 literally all got there cutie mark from a singular event at around the same time #it makes sense for their cutie marks to be the same/similar with a subtle difference to match them individual #‘their cuitie marks should be more unique’ first off there are so many ponies with similar marks who don’t even know each other #secondly some bitches are just codependent #their collaboration with each other is important to who they are #i can see thr marks themselves getting some revisions but the matching idea is solid #mlp fim

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enbysiriusblack · 9 months

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young justice are the marauders of dc btw.

#extremely close friendship that is practically codependent and they all go insane when one of them dies #also all queer. and silly. and angsty.#marauders era #marauders

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chaoticnerdsstuff · 10 months

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My brother told me if I was watching porn cuz I shut my laptop fast and- HOW DO I EVEN EXPLAIN MY PHONE IS DEAD AND I WANTED TO SEE JACKIESHAUNA EDITS WITHOUT SOUNDING WORST OFF

#Brother have u heard about these two homoerotic codependent best friends that were seperated by death but one kept the other alive by living #the life that was meant for her and in the process she practically died the same day her bestfriend did #HE ALREADY THINKS I'M CRAZY BECAUSE I EXPLAINED HANNIBAL :(

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