Finally felt well enough today to like, stand up and move around and actually do things. Deep cleaned the upper floor (open floor plan living room + dining room + kitchen) and did some meal planning. Partner helped, of course! He’s been a superhero during this pregnancy, but I was glad to finally do something useful all by my fucking self haha.

Kitchen looks nice and tidy for cooking in, which is key for managing my fatigue and ADHD. Nothing stops me in my dysfunctional tracks quite like one single fucking crumb on a counter. I’ll be like, “oh no, I can’t possibly clean that, it’s too much work” and then I won’t cook for two weeks. But also key for managing fatigue and ADHD is eating properly, which involves cooking…………. And thus my conundrum. So. I’m very glad the kitchen is once again spotless.

Gonna make chicken buldak soon 😋🔥🌶️🍗

Here's to anyone that tries to keep a clean kitchen😅 As you can see, this apron has been through hell and back and needs a wash..

but hey I made peanut butter molasses cookies🍪🙃

ADHD kitchen!

Just emptied the entire pantry (plus some utensils for easier point-of-use access) onto the new kitchen rack! We've been here only 1.5 months and already I'd managed to forget that about 1/2 of this stuff existed. Hopefully this will help my struggle with "out of sight, out of mind" and we'll use up some food instead of accidentally stockpiling like we used to!

The pantry will now be home to the holiday dishes, and cookware we only use when cooking for more than just ourselves, since we have few friends and our families are on the other side of the country that won't be very frequent. Fingers crossed this helps keep the kitchen organized this time around!

haiiiii i really loved the kitchen wips do you mind if we seen another tiny tweeny pic!

another tiny tweeny pic

girl math this, girl math that, what about girl physics?

Any witches wanna join a discord coven?

I want to create a community for witches, especially ones that are mentally ill and have a hard time staying on track with their practices due to their mental health struggles.

I'm gonna try and find bots I can use to help keep folks on track, and we can help each other as well. Please comment on this or dm me and let me know if you're interested in helping me out with it!!

ABORT MISSION I SPILT MAC AND CHEESE ON THE FLOOR

IT IS HOT

STEAM EVERYWHERE!!!!!

MAC N CHEESE EVERYWHERE!!!!!!

Genuine question, what’s the kindest way to tell the person I’ve been dating for a few weeks that they desperately need to clean their apartment?

I feel so validated by the way Phil multiplies.

Getting the first 18+18=36, then thinking 36x2 which also means 36+36 and if we break it down into easier numbers to add, so we do 36+30=66. Finally is to add the last 6 by counting with fingers= 72

THAT IS EXACTLY HOW I DO MATH, I was doing the same operation in my head with Phil. I love him for that, It makes me feel less stupid.

When I moved into my first apartment I was given some oven pads from my parents’ kitchen, and since then I’ve never actually gone out and bought my own, they’ve always been gifts or hand-me-downs. I finally wore out some and got tired of the rest, so I ditched them all and bought four new ones -- two plain square oven pads and these two mitts. 

The amount of joy owning a STAY FOCUSED oven mitt has given me cannot be measured using earthly means. Both of them make me happy but my STAY FOCUSED mitt is possibly the thing in this kitchen that brings me the most joy. (It has strong competition in my Kyocera black-bladed ceramic knife, but that thing bit me this morning so it’s in Time Out.)

[ID: An image of two oven mitts lying on a cutting board; one has stylized green graphic avocados on it, and lying on top of that one is a blue mitt with light-blue accents that reads Stay Focused in huge yellow swirly letters.]

People joke about ADHD all the time, even swear up and down they totally think they also have it, but then if you ask for an accommodation, to please please please provide things in fucking writing, EXACTLY what they want and need, you will even work it out WITH them, like they promised they would do — repeatedly over and over, and then you don't get it people really will fucking be like:

I am using the incorrect bathroom (TM) to place my shelving and store my things. Homegirl literally removed various sundries and toiletries from a CLOSED CABINET and SHELF because she's interested in boundaries and accountability for my mess.

I said months ago I wanted to improve things for her comfort level and needed a written list of what precisely that fucking looked like in order to achieve it and not miss anything she deemed important. I explained how ADHD works, why I needed a written reference. Why I had to have it laid out, and if something needed changing we needed to write it all out. I would've made the list myself, but they said they would make it for the whole house to hold up their end of things. And, thinking this was a very reasonable adult solution to keeping the house in good shape, I said okay, come up with the list of expectations and what is needed and that way we can update how we handle chores. Awesome. I will do that to uphold my end.

No list ever gets made or drafted or anything despite my bringing it up, knowing we need to do it, but I DO get berated for failing to meet expectations and boundaries that were never fucking provided or delivered and include "don't store toiletries in this particular bathroom because I don't like it."

I can't believe I am a goddamn adult who gets treated like an idiot child for expecting adult communication instead of snide ass passive aggressive bullshit and basic respect for my things.

Because when I fucking get home, my shelving has been removed and a cabinet emptied of my things and placed in the "correct" bathroom.

🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

Oh shit she solved it, this doesn't look cluttered at all!

What a vast improvement to storing things in appropriate storage!

Happy first night of Hanukkah!

your f/o lovingly listening to you infodump about your special interest 💖

you lovingly listening to your f/o infodump about their special interest 💞

(no proship please)

having adhd means every time you leave your room to perform a task you accidentally complete three completely different tasks instead before finally doing the intended task. and what that means is you do a side quest task, go back to your room, realize you fucked up, leave your room again, only to find another random cool side quest task you wanna do first AGAIN. SURELY this time you’ll remember to do the ACTUAL task you need to do after. rinse and repeat

I simultaneously want to take a bite out of Donnie but at the same time want him to bite me back. Just take a big old chomp on his shoulder. nibbling is good too. I need him to be my personal chew toy

oh this is such a fuckin mood, anon-chan.

i can just see it now. you just walk past while he's working and. chomp his shoulder. and he snaps his head around to look at you like ?!?!!? when you walk away.

then later you're. i dunno. waiting on a bag of popcorn in the microwave. scrolling through your phone. not paying attention. then next thing you know you've got your cheek pressed to the counter and a set of teeth flesh deep in your throat from behind

my therapist really saved me….