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flowercrowncrip · 1 year

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I’m reporting That Carer on Monday. The fact I’m afraid of retaliation for saying what happened is a major sign that something needs to change.

I deserve to have supportive and empowering care. I deserve to not be afraid of my carer’s emotions.

#That Carer

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chilchucktimbs · 3 months

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aggressively shoves this in your face

#HE IS A CARER! HE CARES SO MUCH! 😭😭😭#dungeon meshi #chilchuck tims #divorce tag

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hell-on-sticks · 3 months

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I think maybe not enough people in disability spaces think about what it's like to need the assistance of a carer.

It's a different experience for different levels of need. Some of us might need only low support, or support with specific tasks. Others need higher support, and there are many disabled people who need assistance with most or all daily tasks.

Dependence is a scary thought for some people, but for many it's a part of everyday life. Some level of dependence is common for disabled people, and needing carers or support workers is not as uncommon as people think.

Disability conversations often don't discuss carers, or don't allow people to bring their carers into the conversation. Some people may need assistance from carers or support workers to be in a physical place for community. Some might need help using online spaces like tumblr. Some might need help communicating. Carers are a part of life for many and talking about carers is important.

Carers can be positive, supportive and good relationships. But can also be stifling or even abusive. Care is complicated, and people should be able to talk about it.

I can only talk about my experience of lower level care. I invite people with formal support workers and full time care to share.

#disability #disabled #carer #support worker #cpunk #cripplepunk #cripple punk #stick talk

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fantastic-nonsense · 11 days

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"Inej is the mom fri—" *loud incorrect buzzer noise* Wrong. You are looking for Matthias Helvar.

#stop projecting mom friend status on Inej just because she's a girl #Inej is the HEART of the group not the CARER of the group #Matthias is the 'born to be a grumpy worrying big brother/mom friend; cursed to be a religious cult escapee' character #look no further than the bit where they kidnapped Alys as proof lmao #six of crows #inej ghafa #matthias helvar

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puppys-tiny-space · 6 months

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🩷How to tell someone about your regression🩷

🧃This is just some tips on how to do it, aka how I usually do it. If another way works for you that's great! This is just some idea on how to do it and be comfortable with it!🧃

🩷videos and online resources, if you are shy about explaining it yourself there are some great Textposts and videos online that explain regression and what it is, I have some myself on my tik tok and Instagram (I'll link the TikTok below) and there is a short film on YouTube called "too little" that's awesome🩷

🧃explain, I like to start by explaining what agereggression is, or even ask if they know something about it already, sometimes they do and that can be a great point to work from🧃

🩷be open, be open about why you regress at least as much as you are comfortable, people are kess likely to react poorly if they know why and can understand it🩷

🧃text message, preparing a text message or letter in advance, maybe even with a friend or cg, can be super helpful, especially if you experience going nonverbal🧃

🩷be sure, do not open up to someone because you feel forced or scared, be sure you feel safe with the person and exposing such a vulnerable side to them, nobody is entitled to your safe space🩷

🧃test the water, I like to hint at regression and test the waters first, wearing jewelry with kiddo nicknames or similar on it or having merch from more well known brands, if someone recognizes them and asks about it you know there is base knowledge🧃

🩷open up, I like to let people know about my trauma and other trauma-responses first, once they are aware of certain things it helps with the talk later on as it won't be as much if a shock that you might have to cope in unconventional ways🩷

Fun fact of the day: it would take 19 minutes to fall to the center of the earth

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chaoticsnowykiddo · 6 months

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Platonic caregivers are so underrated and under appreciated

I love you platonic caregivers

I love you platonic baby sitters

I love you all those who care for regressors without romance involed in the relationship!

#sfw agere #agere #agere community #age regression #age regressor #agere blog #sfw agere blog #sfw interaction only #no kink interaction #boy age regressor #agere caregiver #agere carer

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tsubaki94 · 4 months

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Happy Truce and Happy New Year @auroraphantasma I'm your gifter for the Truce this year. XD

I liked the idea of found family and Danny having role models he can look up to and learn from so I went with the first prompt:

Lost time (mentor/parental Clockwork + Danny), (all my prompts are kinda found family themed bc i love this scrunkly teen ghost getting adopted by increasingly weirder/more powerful beings); i love them interacting, hanging out and joking doing pranks.

Couldn't decide how to illustrate this relationship either so it turned into three moments when Danny appreciates having the master of time around. (Being saved in the nick of time) (Getting help with his history homework) (Finding that Clockwork has taken his time to ensure Danny gets a good night's sleep.)

Now onward to a new year. ^^

#holiday haunt #phandom truce 2023 #phandom holiday truce 2023 #danny phantom #Danny Fenton #Clockwork #Lost time #mentor Cockwork #comfort #sleep #protector #teacher #carer

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bear-momma · 3 months

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You don't have to hide when you're angry, or when you're sad, or when you're afraid. You are safe here and will not be punished for your emotions. It's healthy to acknowledge how we feel, why don't you help me write down what you're thinking? Sometimes it's easier to write than to speak, and that's okay. I won't read it unless you want me to. If there's anything you need to feel better just say the word. I will be here through the good times and the bad, that's a promise.

#bear grumbles #agere #safe agere #cglre #carereg #cgre #caregiver #carer #age regression #dontsexualizemyregression

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tinylullabies · 5 months

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“ can you breathe with mama / dada, baby? deep, deep breath in. now, a long breath out. good job, honey ! can you feel mommy’s / daddy's heartbeat, yeah? such a sweet girl / boy, doing so well listening to mama’s / dada's voice. i know how overwhelmed you feel right now, bubs, but just keep breathing with me, 'kay, little love? momma / papa is going to help, all those mean and big thoughts aren't for my tiny one, hm? let’s count how many fingers mama / dada is holding up. good girl / boy — my baby is so smart ! mommy / daddy loves you so much, baby. you’re mama's / dada's happiness and if i could i would take all of those big feelings and thoughts away in a heartbeat . . . ” — ♡

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mother-athena · 2 months

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Little one, what are you still doing up at this hour? It's past your bedtime now...

Oh, you were trying to finish your show? Okay. No, it's alright baby, but mommy thinks you should save the rest of the episodes for tomorrow. I don't want you to be so tired in the morning that you feel cranky. I promise, you can wake up early to watch the rest, but right now, it's time to lay down.

How about this, can you tell me what your favorite part was while I warm up some milk for you? I would love to hear about what happened in your show. Yeah? Okay, come on precious, let's go grab your sippy.

#sfw age regression #sfw babyre #sfw agere #sfw caregiver #agere carer #agere caregiver #age regressor #agere imagine #agere concept

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flowercrowncrip · 1 year

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Just had a very difficult conversation but the outcome was really positive.

I said that I didn’t want to attempt mediation with That Carer and don’t feel safe having her work with me again. And that’s what’s going to happen!

I don’t have to see her again!

It’s going to be a bit of a pain for everyone to cover and I’m probably going to have to have a few random carers and/or have my parents help out. So the next few weeks will be pretty stressful but I feel so much lighter already.

So there’s a happy ending in sight!

#That Carer

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littledragon1 · 15 days

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Mw want this

#sfw little blog #sfw agere #age regressor #caregiver #agere little #agere blog #sfw little post #sfw little #agere carer #age regression #agere positivity #age regression caregiver #sfw age regression #ageregression #agere community

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uncanny-tranny · 7 months

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The bourgeois or "exploiting class" doesn't inherently include the person who gets their nails done biweekly, or the disabled person who has a carer, or the guy who got a $70 video game for full-price, or the person who relies on medication (yes even the ones you don't think they "need"), or anything else like this. None of these people will, on average, have the ability to exploit workers by means of ownership or whatever.

While you are busy fighting with fellow workers, you are still being exploited by your boss, by capitalism, by (potentially) not having healthcare, by being overworked and underpaid, and so are they.

#politics #feel like this wording isn't satisfactory for me but fuck it we ball #used bourgeois because i think as a colloquial word it's recognized but like...#...i dunno i think some people use it to mean 'person who can do [x]' even if they quite literally own no means of production #like the idea that you're exploiting a worker by agreeing to a service they provide isn't what bourgeois means #if i paid a carer to care for a disabled person they aren't being exploited by that disabled person...#...HOWEVER that carer absolutely can (and probably will be) exploited by the systems of power (eg their boss or capitalism)#perhaps it's too late at night for me to be posting about this but it's something that bothers me!#*especially* when it comes to disability and other groups already exploited by marginalization 👍#if your leftism percludes the disabled (including the terminally and profoundly) or the elderly or the queer or so so much i don't WANT ITTT #saw a disabled person i follow lament how afraid they were to have a carer out of fear of Being a Bad Exploitative Person #and they obviously need one and that makes me so fucking angry to know that they are needlessly suffering

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mama-pigtails · 2 years

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It’s okay if all you did today was play games.

It’s okay if all you did today was sleep.

It’s okay if all you did today was get dressed.

It’s okay if all you did today was wake up.

We all heal in different ways, and there are days that are harder than others. That doesn’t mean you didn’t try, or that you’re lazy, or that you’re worthless.

Everything you do on a hard day is an act of bravery. Everything you do is wonderful, and I love you for it.

#positivity #agere #mama talks #agere carer #sfw agere #agere caregiver #sfw age regression #age regression #reminders #agere positivity

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puppys-tiny-space · 5 months

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🩷shops for smols and bigs🩷

Just a small selection of shops I can recommend (mainly) from personal experience!

🍼pacis and similar:

🐰 @pacisbybunnie (insta, Tumblr, website) bunny has pacis, bottles and chewie bracelets, they have super cute items and great customer service, plus u can use my code "bunnybab for a discount" UK based

🧸 @cozypacicorner (insta, vinted, website) milk has incredible products, they sell pacis, paciclips and chewie bracelets, their customer service is great and she is just the sweetest, u can aslo use my code "bunnybab" here Based in France

🌸 @dreamydecos (insta, TikTok) Lily has super cute pacis, bows and sensory jars, their customer service is great and shipping time is fast! Based in Netherlands

🧃 @punkiepacis (insta, website) punkie has super cute products, great customer service and fast shipping! They sell pacis and bundles! US based

🩰 @florameow.co (insta, website) em has super cute pacis, I didn't buy from her yet but when I had questions in the past she was very nice! Also she is having a huge discount on a lot of pacis rn! UK based

🩷onesies and clothes:

🦕 @onesiesdownunder (insta, website, resellers) onesiedownunder has amazing products with a high quality and great sensory feel, they sell onesies, bloomers, paci-clips, bows, dungarees and dungaree dresses, they are 18+ and not all of their designs are sfw so keep that in mind! Australia based but resellers in europe and other countries

🩰 @babyyourdollco (insta, website, Etsy) babyyourdoll has super cute products, they have plain pacifiers, onesies, bibs, clothing and reusable fruit squeeze pouches. They are 18+! US based but some non-us shops offer customs with their bases

🚀 @everkidcouk (insta, Etsy, website) they have adorable products but I didn't try them (yet) their shop is completely sfw! They sell onesies and other clothing articles. UK based

🖍️stickers and art:

👑 @moomis_didney_castle (insta, Kofi, Patreon) moomi sells adorable stickers, their customer service is great and the products are amazing and durable! UK based

🧃 @nymphsgarden (insta) nymph makes adorable commissions usually based around fursonas, they r rly sweet and fun to work with! Online based

🦕 @littlessproutart (insta) sprout makes super cute commissions, they work fast and are super kind! Online based

🍼 @tny.preschool.bun aka me (insta, TikTok, Tumblr) you can always message me about commissions and find examples of my art on my insta and here! Insta is 18+ but non-sexual for personal reasons(The stuff in the picture at the bottom is also from me!) Online based

Fun fact of the day: artificial banana flavoring is based off of an extinct kind of banana, which got wiped out in the 50s

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lunarharp · 1 month

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scribbles... pre-relationship onsen trip

#witch hat tag #orufrey #partial nudity /#cause i miss the onsen. it feels silly to say 'pre-relationship' bc you just know their anniversary is going to be the date oru moved in #ignore my weak attempt at painting qifrey's face. i want to get better at that style lol..better at everything..oh god i am trying #might be getting the hang of it at least #i feel like zozah has european mores in that being uhh naked around ppl is probably a bit like. Whats all this then #but sensei purposefully puts in japanese flair - sake bowls - sitting on the floor - they are japanese men. To me. Get in the bath :)#but to oru it would feel more normal and to qifrey it would NOT - they do have those public baths at the assembly #but he was surely in the corner wanting to die and splashing himself once and then running away hating everyone #beldaruit will have a private bathtub with claw feet that his carers help him into - good god let that kid use it too

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