I think what I want to get into with the "Anyone can do harm." thing that I keep beating yall over the head with is that literally anyone, anyone at all can do harm it's not "in your DNA" to be an abuser or written in the stars that you'll be a predator.
Whatever image you have of an abuser in your head, drop it and replace it with your favorite person in the world and you'll probably be closer to the truth than you realize.
It's easy to address harm when it's coming from someone you already hate.
I see it happen all the time. Someone you couldn't stand for no real reason does something heinous then all of a sudden here comes the avalanche of "I always knew they were a fucked up individual."
No, you didn't.
There is no possible way you could have known, you just already didn't fuck with them before they started doing something you could use to justify your hatred of them. I'm guilty of it too! I'm petty, mean, vindictive, and yes! I'm way quicker to believe something bad about someone I hate versus someone I love because I'm human. Still, y all gotta learn to move past that initial "Well, they were always nice to me!" gut feeling and understand that nobody truly knows anyone and anyone can be capable of anything. Even victims. Even you.
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Multiverse crossed lovers...?
There's something that bothers me about the whole multiverse thing regarding the canon and the fanon – mostly the "angst" plotlines of Said Character that lost their lover but after a while they found out that Their Lover is also a spider person on this random universe.
Like, don't get me wrong it's a great plot to explore but I personally feel like everyone does it wrong... Bear with me through this;
I'll use Hobie as an example for obvious reasons, anyway- Think that the whole plot of the story is Hobie and Reader (or whatever OC/spidersona/sona) are each other's canon event and of course they find another version of one another after a while of the canon and blah blah blah, it's pretty obvious at this point of how it develops.
They see each other, stand there like two sticks until one runs for the other and they're soo all lovey dovey.
I don't think that's how it would work? Because, think with me, you had a lover who was your perfect partner and they were the love of your life, you wanted to marry them, have kids and die together from aging etc but that was snatched away from you.
Then suddenly there's this slightly different version of your lover who's alive and well and for as much as some people think that they'd rush to their arms I think that an internal battle would take place.
This isn't yours. It's not the one you spent part of your life with. It's not the one that took care of you all those years. It's not exactly the one you miss every damn day and night.
So when I see a story with that plot were the couple just gets back to each other I go 🧍 because to me it doesn't make much sense.
Anyway that was today rambling and real angst because I'm in the mood to cry about fictional characters. ✨️
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okay so you know when takeda manages to get ukai to come watch karasuno play for the first time and kagehina show off their freak quick and ukai is like "sensei how long have those two been paired together" and takeda is like "oh kageyama and hinata? they just met this year i've heard it was rocky at first but they're getting along well now" and ukai is like "what a shame". do you think he goes home and looks into them and finds out that kageyama's the lonely king and that his teammates abandoned him. do you think he looks and looks for hinata but can't find him until finally he stumbles across a no-name school that barely had a volleyball team and their only match lasted 31 minutes. do you think he wonders about how lonely they were. a coach can't replace teammates but do you think he decides to try and make sure that no one on his team feels lonely again.
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Thoughts on Leon? Met plenty of people that like the ship idea 🤭
//I LOVE THEM BOTH SM,, LIKE AHGHRAG G RGRRN GRRR BUT I JST KNOW THAT CHERYL WAS TEACHING LEON ALL ABT HOW TO SURVIVE WHEN HE FIRST SHOWED UP !!! U CANNOT CHANGE MY MIND,,, andikivebeengone4solongthisblogdied:skull: BUT YK WHAT I HAD TO DO THIS ASK BC LEON N CHERYL !!!
also have this lil doodle !! it was supposed to b the answer to this ask but i forgr :c (idk what i was on when i drew leon hes so-)
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Society if the qsmp eggs stayed as a temporary Easter-themed event instead of a staple of the server like they were very obviously originally intended to be and if the server didn’t have constant mandatory events every other month that moved everyone all over the place, completely upending their lore and projects on the server
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