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#Human Connection
flintpunks-mind · 1 year
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A co-worker of mine was standing outside with me during a break from customers to share a cigarette with me, and told me about how he had lost his brother that he was close with some years ago. He told me about how they used to be in a band together with some friends, and how ever since he'd died, he hadn't played any music because he'd been too scared and anxious. I told him about how I'd lost my brother to suicide some years ago.
I went home and pulled out an old tiny wooden box my brother had given me before he'd died. I'd been using it to store guitar picks I'd collected over the years, including one guitar pick that used to be his. I haven't played the guitar since he'd died, my hands are too small to play some of the chords, so I play bass and piano instead.
I went to work the next day and gifted my brothers old guitar pick to my co-worker. I told him that it'd been sitting in a box for ten years unused, and would probably sit there for longer if I kept it there. Told him that I thought he deserved to have it, because I bet he could put it to better use than I ever would. Told him I didn't feel like it was coincidence that me and him would cross paths with each other in our lives, and that it seemed suiting that we had these similar experiences but split in two halves. That somehow, I felt like he was meant to have the guitar pick. I told him that I knew he'd not played guitar since his brother died, but that if he ever decided to play again one of these days, maybe he'd be able to honor both of our brothers by using that guitar pick.
He almost cried. He thanked me. Then he went home that night and for the first time in years he played the guitar.
I don't know what the meaning of life is or what my purpose is, but I do believe that love and human connection is one of the most important things in life. It's finding ways to tell strangers you love them and share experiences with others. I think it's all just about love.
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feeldco · 2 months
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Don’t hold it in. Spit out your deepest desires on Feeld—a dating app for the curious. In this space, you can show up as yourself and make meaningful connections with people who get you. Meet via the app, or find your people IRL at our events —a place where spitting your truth is highly encouraged. Download Feeld to explore yourself and others.
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stardotnet · 2 months
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desire paths are poetic to me, a collaborative effort to create something together, an intrinsic connection to complete strangers even as we echo each other's footprints day after day
you could view desk grafitti in a similar light: a collaborative artwork despite the artists being strangers. an act of creation for the mere sake of expressing one's existence
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reality-detective · 3 months
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The Firmament is likely Earth's Magnetic Field, which is not created by Earth's core, but is actually caused by Cosmic Magnetic Induction from the Sun through ferromagnetic elements inside the Earth that set up the conditions for said induction in the first place.
The visible Plasma / Electro-Static Energy of inertia and acceleration near the vortices of Toroidal Magnetic Reciprocation towards the poles of our planet known as AURORAS, sure would look like flowing waters separating Heaven and Earth to our ancestors thousands of years ago, as it still resembles today.
Which begs the ultimate question :
CAN WE LEAVE THE FIRMAMENT?
Well, if this experiment would shine quite the Light on that answer by working the opposite direction.
Since our Pineal Gland and the cells in our Wi-Fi enabled meatsuits are wirelessly plugged into Earth's Electro-Static /Magnetic Field, what happens if we LEAVE the Resonant cavity of the Field filled with Electro-Static Energy our body is dependent upon to not only function, but attain consciousness?
Similar to a Light bulb moving too far away from a Tesla Tower, would it be LIGHTS OUT for consciousness?
Through this logic, brings another legitimate questionable observation :
Either we physically / consciously couldn't have went to the moon, or Earth's Magnetic Field extends much further than they're telling us.
The sole / soul reason to suppress Nikola Tesla will be 25% due to "Free Energy" and 75% because our species digging into what he was working with and what he KNEW, would lead directly to the suppressed metaphysics related to TRUE BIOLOGY! 🤔
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w-armansky-blog · 2 years
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unwelcome-ozian · 2 years
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lavideenrose · 2 months
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octoberloved · 1 month
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EMBRACE (1982, Robert Mapplethorpe)
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creatingnikki · 7 months
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notes to self: existing delulu land edition
knowing yourself and your needs and accepting then instead of ignoring them or forcing yourself to change is the first step towards most of what you want. once you understand that, you can work around it, you can work with it.
your need is connections. human connections that are authentic and warm and present. you don't like people who are absent and those that are inconsistent in their communication. it makes you anxious and triggers your overthinking qualities. you want to feel secure in the connection you share with the person and presence, consistent communication, and actions aligning with words are the basics of that.
so you don't force yourself to not want connections. you just make sure your life is full of wholesome, fulfilling, beautiful ones. you pick the good ones and you say bye to the bad ones before they develop into sources of unnecessary agony and hurt. you realize how to limit the impact of a connection with someone and how to deal with disappointment.
feeling good about yourself and being at peace with yourself, at least a little bit, is what will help you have clarity about what you want in a relationship and in your life. because then you won't be using people and situations as maladpative coping mechanisms or a way to soothe your insecurities or fill holes instead of fix them.
what do you not feel good about right now? the lack of stability across most aspects of your life? you're working on it, I know. and it's hard, I know. but you have to continue. for yourself. and to also form the kind of connections that you seek the most with others in life.
you have to lower the volume of social media and all these cross connections. meme culture and reels and echo chambers that make you feel like being delulu is the only solulu and that everyone is depressed and everything is fucked and adulting is the worst. because the truth is that it may make you laugh and humour helps but subconsciously you start believing these narratives and then it becomes the normal. but when the fuck did it become okay to normalize feeling tired and sleepless all the time? girl dinner and sad boi hours? situationships and casual dating when such intimacy means something to you? if you were 19 maybe you could let all this be a part of your vocabulary and life. but at 26 when you're seeking a balanced, healthy, good life and future, you have to reduce your consumption of the internet content and really protect your brain.
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quietflorilegium · 3 months
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“A profound love between two people involves, after all, the power and chance of doing profound hurt.”
Genly Ai, Ursula K. Le Guin, "The Left Hand of Darkness"
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broken-college-kid · 2 months
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Yeah, sex is cool, but have you ever felt such a deep and real connection with somebody that you felt like you knew them for years, and you just knew they were meant to be in your life, whether it's as soulmates or friends?
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stardotnet · 4 months
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yes, there will be singing
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amloveabledeathmo · 3 months
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PSA
If you are suicidal or have suicidal ideations and tendencies please find and save your local suicide prevention number to your phone.
If you are having suicidal thoughts that are really strong and you are afraid you might act on them, CALL SOMEONE YOU LOVE.
Don't worry about being annoying or a nuisance. Don't worry about them being asleep or available. Don't give up if one or some of the people you call are unavailable; Call the suicide prevention line. If they don't answer or aren't enough call an ambulance or go to the emergency room.
People that love you would absolutely rather be 'annoyed' or 'bothered' or 'disturbed' and still have you around than for you to be gone. I know it's hard to reach out and can even feel embarrassing but it's a much better option. Even if you just have nightmares that wake you and bother you, most of those who love you would not mind you reaching out when you need to. Many will even be happy or pleased or honored you chose them.
Those who love you would rather you annoy them daily than lose you.
Please chose the option to be annoying or a bother.
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chili-talks-alt · 7 months
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AGH YOU'RE SO COOL I WANT TO RELATE TO YOU SO BADLY
Your perspective of the world is so epic and unique and I want to understand what's going on in your brain world!!!!
Can our fates intertwine already?? For fucks sake
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albertayebisackey · 30 days
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"We are not solitary beings but threads woven into the intricate tapestry of human connection."
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rosieisaloser · 3 months
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sometimes life feels empty and lonely and hopeless but then i see the sun shining through the blinds and i watch an ant carry food to his home and i remember that the world can be kind. it’s okay if you don’t always feel happy. the little things will remind you.
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