like... sorry, im maybe having a hard time phrasing this but, it's like no one sees nontransmasculine ftx enbies as being really trans. ftx enbies are always "nontransitioning", "fem-aligned" and lumped in with cis people, when conversations about queer-on-queer bigotry happen. even other nonbinary people will do this. like... yeah, obv no ones immune to being transphobic. but so so so often transneutral ftx's get scapegoated as the primary issue. even from other people who actively understand that lateral bigotry comes from a different place than transphobia from cis people do. yknow. they get lumped in with cis people. those annoying transtrenders.

it's just that so many people will talk about how we cant judge transmascs as an entire group of people for a handful of terf transmascs, and then in the next breath do just that to ftx enbies. it's that so many people will have full and nuanced understanding of transmasculine oppression, and in the next breath claim that ftx enbies are privileged. transmedicalism has seeped into and rotted much of the foundations of our understanding of gender politics; nonbinary and cisgender are spoken of hand-in-hand. i dont know if other people realize how thoroughly they disrespect transneutrality, how often they treat "non transitioning" enbies like their claims to their own transness are nonexistent.

we will always be here.

happy pride <3

the fact that people on this website's first thought when they hear abt pregnant men is omegaverse shit rather than trans men never fails to make me feel extremely exhausted

A naru sketch page. Because he is surprisingly fun to draw.

Inspired by a VERY GOOD TRANS NARU HC FROM @jelliefeesh (who also draws VERY good narus n also jus has super good art in general go check his stuff out)

The stickers are available for free download in both English and the original Japanese. If youd like.

Society if SOME trans people stopped thinking being trans gives them a free pass to be transphobic to other trans people they don't like or agree with:

Yes I could definitely search this on my own but does anybody know anything about facial hair transplants for ftm affirming surgeries??? I grow some hair but not a lot and I know that they can do hair regrowth surgeries on scalps n things so I assume there's something that can be done to help facial hair growth??? Or at home stuff I could try. I know minoxidil hasn't been approved to be used on the face but I have tried it a little, I'm not super consistent with it and ik it's more meant to bring back hair that was prev. there n I never previously could grow hair on my face. Idk !! My biggest transition goals ever since I knew I was trans was to get top surgery and have my name/gender marker changed, and now that it's over I've started to look into other things I think I'd like. Idk ! If anybody had any input, or sites I could check out I wld rlly appreciate it!!! Or if anyone just wants to DM and talk about transition stuff I would love that. Or u can send asks abt it. Whatever is cool

yall are willing to die for trans women and not trans men and we should talk about it actually

If you take nothing else from me yelling about gender. Please take away that categorizing men as the 'predator gender' and women as the 'victim gender' (yes, even if it's trans men/trans women and not cis) is at best gender essentialism and at worst giving bad men a free card because 'men are like that, they can't help it' and gives a cover for bad women to enact abuse and violence of their own under the cover of being 'the good guys'. You do not have to like patriarchy or trust strange men, just understand that someone being a woman does not preclude them from being a predatory puppet of patriarchy and someone being a man does not preclude them from being trustworthy and safe.

demotivated a bit to draw atm, im still working on my Big Project but apart from that im mostly making music. heres a silly little ref sheet for a new character/fursona of mine

y'all she/her ashe so much that i didnt find out she's canonically a cis he/him dude until nearly a year of her appearing on my dash. like transfem people dont exist in jrwi so i assumed she was a cis chick but Nope full dude holy shit

diversity win! ashe is cis-passing

i think everyone on sunnytwt needs to be sat down so i can explain to them what basic human empathy is. and then maybe i put them in a blender until they agree to write meta about the characters instead of whether or not charlie day got facial reconstruction surgery.

What a horrible way to live, believing your trans brothers are your enemies.

'binary' isnt a slur, it isnt a mean word, it isnt a bad word. there are differences between how binary trans people are treated by others both within and outside of the trans community, between how you move through Cisiety and are harmed within it, and how nonbinary trans people are. there are things binary trans people are benefited by that actively hurt nonbinary trans people, and ime, whenever i bring those things up as being harmful to me, binary trans people wave them away because they are beneficial to them as binary people.

i dont need to coddle or comfort you and say things like "ohhh yes of course your gender is just as multifaceted and complex as minee!!". i don't need to justify myself when i point out that being or passing as a binary gender brings can give you certain situational advantages that being nonbinary bars from me. i dont need to continuously capitulate, i dont need to be constantly scared over whether or not im hurting your feelings by asking you to acknowledge my experiences as a nonbinary trans person.

I'm definitely not the only queer person who's kinda wary of Christian ppl they encounter online right?

Like I see a profile that clearly states they're Christian and they post like Bible verses and shit and I'm just. Hoping they're not queerphobic. Or saying some dumbass shit like "hate the sin love the sinner" or whatever while pretending that's not queerphobic

If they're interacting with me first it's pretty safe to assume they're not gonna be like that bc I'm very obviously queer (🏳️‍🌈 + pronouns in bio) but if it's someone who hasn't interacted with me at all I kind of instinctively avoid interacting with them out of fear of them being that way. Y'know

you stop shaving as a woman and people just dont know what to call you anymore huh

You guys really need to stop saying "transmisogyny" when you really mean "transphobia." Trans women aren't the only trans people who experience oppression. TERFs don't *only* target trans women. There's a reason a TERF wrote a whole ass book about how trans men are indoctrinating little girls into their cult.