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giselleseraphin · 3 months

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This, Is such an important reminder 🌷

Understanding that life isn't fair and that people will not always stand by you when you are on the correct side will take away a lot of unnecessary emotional burdens.

A lot of people act and support exclusively the things that benefit them or that suit their biases. Other people are not able to think critically to assess a situation and will not care to understand where you are coming from because their minds are unable to see the world through the same lenses that you have. Others simply do not share the same values as you and won't come to your aid because it's not in their character.

Understanding this is crucial to keep yourself from constantly feeling betrayed and/or victimized. When you understand that in this world you don't get rewarded for acting right but for acting in accordance with your best interests, and that the assistance of others is only an added bonus but not a need, is the moment you will alleviate a lot of unnecessary resentment and emotional pain. Realizing that you don't need them or their approval makes you free.

So what if they misrepresent, mistreat, or misjudge you? As long as you remain true to yourself and you keep going doing what you know is best for you, standing strong by your convictions, and rising above their reactions you will reach your goals. You don't need their approval in anything, what you need is a solid and unwavering peace of mind and a strong sense of self-preservation.

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giselleseraphin · 3 months

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Get over the shame and the lack of confidence and the fear of failure and the imposter syndrome. Nobody cares. Some people are cruel and mean and love to watch others fail. So what? Do you really want to prove them right? Get the fuck up, we’re chasing our dreams like our lives depend on it because, in case you forgot, they do.

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giselleseraphin · 3 months

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ALL 2024.

CLAIMING IT NOW.

IT IS YOURS.

✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

#2024 vision board #black women in luxury #classy black women #black women in femininity #black luxury #feminine energy #women of god #the black family unit #boss babe #black women in leisure #hypergamous #hypergamy #hyperfemininity

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giselleseraphin · 3 months

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Hi dear! Much love as always~

My best friend and I are doing our 2024 planning and aspirations together so we can hold each other accountable during the year.

We were wondering if you have any suggestions on things to focus on that can help each of us improve as a person. It’s alright if they’re very generic. I mostly just want to know your opinion and advice. ❤️

Hi love! Thank you so much for this kind note––I'm flattered and love the purpose behind this message <3

As a starting point, I think it's great to set 1-3 goals in major categories of life:

Career

Finances

Physical Health

Emotional Health

Relationships (platonic/romantic +sexual)

Self-care

Hobbies

Self Improvement

Joy & Pleasure/Leisure

Hope this helps xx

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giselleseraphin · 3 months

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Get over the shame and the lack of confidence and the fear of failure and the imposter syndrome. Nobody cares. Some people are cruel and mean and love to watch others fail. So what? Do you really want to prove them right? Get the fuck up, we’re chasing our dreams like our lives depend on it because, in case you forgot, they do.

#wake up girlies it’s time to get this bread #and the man and the home and the car and the lifestyle too bitch #high maintenance #hypergamyblr #luxury heaux #black luxury #hypergamy #black femininity #it girl #spoiled gf

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giselleseraphin · 3 months

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what are your goals for 2024?

Go to bed earlier and minimize bedtime procrastination

Regain discipline over my exercise/movement routine

Become more regimental/committal with my self-care appointments

Take French classes and go up 1-2 levels before 2025

Learn the basics of graphic design

Take on more leadership initiatives at my job

Be more consistent/prioritize initiating social plans

Allow myself to relax and remember it's okay to not always be doing something/be productive

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giselleseraphin · 4 months

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☁️ The burn inside when you feel they’ve gotten away with hurting you, the way they burned pain inside of you and walked away untouched. You wanna make them feel the pain they’ve made you feel. You want a taste of that sweet vengeance. I know you’ve felt it.

The rage. Well I’m here to tell you, you must let it go. Free yourself from the chains they’ve confined you to. Find outlets for that rage, scream, break something (not valuable) let it rage, but don’t let them see. Don’t let them see your pain. It could take days, weeks, or months, but it will pass: it always passes. Don’t let that rage burn through your field of lilies, put it in the sky & turn it into the sun that nourishes your land. 🌷

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giselleseraphin · 6 months

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#high maintenance #hypergamyblr #luxury heaux #black luxury #hypergamy #spoiled heaux #spoiled girlfriend #black femininity #femininity #hupergamy

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giselleseraphin · 1 year

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Becoming soft spoken affirmations

I am soft spoken

I have a delicate voice

My tone is soft & sweet

People fawn over me even more once I speak

My voice is highly feminine

Now practice saying these phrases in your most feminine natural voice whilst looking in the mirror.

“Oh really? I think that’s actually quite fascinating!”

“I appreciate your offer, but no thank you. Have a lovely day!”

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giselleseraphin · 1 year

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I attract providers, & the best qualities of a masculine man. I don’t have to beg for a single thing. He gives me anything I want & need without hesitation. If a man feels like he can’t give me what is required he walks away & allows a man who can give me that to easily enter into my life.

Speaking of this, a man just told me now is not a good time to be together because he can’t provide for me & be a man as he finishes college, we are friends for now but Every-time we go somewhere he still pays, opens doors all of the bare minimum stuff. He’s also Slavic which has a lot to do with his traditional values as that’s how it is in his country along with all the other Slavic men I’ve dated.

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giselleseraphin · 1 year

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I want to remind you that having the last words aren’t worth your time, being loud to be seen isn’t worth your softness, having a bad attitude isn’t worth your image, & people pleasing isn’t worth your dignity. 🧚🏽‍♀️

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