If he was genuinely upset he would speak about it.
Sorry but I am still on this matter and this statement rubs on me like sandpaper.
To be clear, I understand what boundaries are as much as the next person. I however also understand the term “evasion” which is what I keep coming across lately.
I would like to point out a double standard I took note of recently. A member of a different K-pop group has been the subject of various body shaming jokes and fans took note and requested that the members stop and reflect on their actions as such behaviour is harmful and unhealthy. Some of stays I interact with also agreed to this matter, and this has happened before with so many other different groups.However in the case of Stray Kids, it is suddenly viewed different because according to some “Changbin is a grown man and if he was genuinely upset he would have just said so and they would have stopped and it’s their relationship and we cannot meddle, and we should all respect our boundaries”, interesting perspective I have to point out. Very very very interesting.
I would like to then ask a couple of simple questions for reflection.
* Are the ‘jokes’ they have made considered a form of body shaming?
* Do you think these ‘jokes’ ridicule?
* Do you find these ‘jokes’ funny?
* Would you like your appearance to be compared to an elephant, pig or walrus?
* On occasion how often do your closest mates laugh at you/about you in front of large crowds and does that make you feel good and jolly?
* In instances when you’ve found yourself uncomfortable how often have you spoken up?!
* If ever you have spoken up, how often have you been heard and understand and the matter resolved?
* Do you find joy in being the butt of a joke?
* Do you often feel the need to ignore toxic/ unhealthy behaviours simply because they don’t involve you, even though you may be able to contribute to their change?
* Do you recognise that acknowledging that the people you admire can make mistakes can be viewed as healthy behaviour?
why is it easier for people to point out the faults of other people/groups but not their own faves…it would appear as if boundaries only exist on one side of the room and you lot want to talk about un-biased opinions. If you do not find the whole issue problematic that’s fine really, good on you but don’t try to make it seem like everyone else is out of pocket for feeling some type of way.
As I stated in my previous post, aside from just Changbin these jokes are awfully tasteless and mean and are possibly impactful on a lot more people than you might be aware of. It’s not funny and most importantly it’s not behind the scenes, it’s in front of thousands if not millions of varied crowds, with different ages and different minds, upbringings, habits and capacity. No two people are the same and no one is absorbing this at the same extent. Respectfully it’s not lighthearted to everyone’s ear.
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