Tumgik
#sfw middlespace
baby--charchar · 28 days
Text
Social-Emotional Checklist for Age Regressors
This checklist can help you figure out a specific age that you, an OC, or your little one regress to, based on how they communicate, express emotions, interact with their caregivers, and socialize with other littles.
To complete it, highlight or check off any of the descriptions that apply to you or your little one. If you highlight ALL or the vast majority of the traits in one category, then your little is OLDER than that and is past that phase. If you highlight about HALF of the descriptions, then that is exactly where your little one is at when regressed. If nothing in that category applies to your little one, they are younger than that given age. Some littles may have a mix of multiple developmental ages, especially if they're neurodivergent, and that's okay!
I'm gonna do this for my age-regressing OC Rhea, and feel free to copy/paste this wherever you'd like, or just use it for your own reference! [original source]
You'll see that for Rhea, I could check off almost everything in the infant category. She has her favorite caregiver, she's anxious around strangers, and she's aware of other people's emotions and tries to respond!
Once I got to the toddler category however, things got a little more shaky. She throws tantrums and has some complexity to her emotions, however she's not playing with peers at all and doesn't care for pretend play. Once I reached the gradeschool level, nothing really applied to her so I stopped there.
This tells me that Rhea is about 2 years old, although this can shift a bit because age regression has its own natural ebbs and flows. Try it out with yourself or your little one, and see if it helps you understand them or help them out a little bit better!
Infants and babies
By 2 months
• Cry to get needs met ✅️
• Occasionally self-soothe by sucking on hands and fingers ✅️
• Start to smile and look directly at you ✅️
By 4 months
• Cry in different ways to show hunger, pain, or being tired ✅️
• Smile in response to caregiver’s smile ✅️
• Play with toys by shaking them✅️
By 6 months
• Are more aware of which people are familiar and which are strangers ✅️
• Can respond to other people’s emotions by crying, smiling, or laughing✅️
• Enjoy looking at themselves in the mirror❌️
By 9 months
• Start to show stranger anxiety✅️
• May cry when familiar faces aren’t around✅️
• Start to prefer some toys over others✅️
By 12 months
• Play favorites with familiar people✅️
• Are more interactive (like handing over a toy or a book, or making a specific noise to get a caregiver’s attention)✅️
• Enjoy simple interactive games, like patty-cake and peekaboo❌️
Toddlers and preschoolers
Ages 18 months–2 years
• Have more temper tantrums and become more defiant as they try to communicate and be independent✅️
• Start simple pretend play, like imitating what adults or other kids are doing❌️
• Become interested in having other kids around, but are more likely to play alongside them (parallel play) than with them (cooperative play)❌️
Ages 3–4 years
• Start to show and verbalize a wider range of emotion ✅️
• Are interested in pretend play, but may confuse real and “make believe”❌️
• Are spontaneously kind and caring❌️
• Start playing with other kids and separate from caregivers more easily❌️
• May still have tantrums because of changes in routine or not getting what they want✅️
Grade-schoolers
Ages 5–6 years
• Enjoy playing with other kids and are more conversational and independent
• Test boundaries but are still eager to please and help out
• Begin to understand what it means to feel embarrassed
Ages 7–8 years
• Are more aware of others’ perceptions
• May complain about friendships and other kids’ reactions
• Want to behave well, but aren’t as attentive to directions
• Try to express feelings with words, but may resort to aggression when upset
Ages 9–10 years
• Share secrets and jokes with friends
• May start to develop own identity by withdrawing from family activities and conversations
• Are affectionate, silly, and curious, but can also be selfish, rude, and argumentative
Middle-schoolers and high-schoolers
Ages 11–15 years
• Start thinking more logically
• Are introspective and moody and need privacy
• Value friends’ and others’ opinions more and more
• May test out new ideas, clothing styles, and mannerisms while figuring out where/how to fit in
Ages 16–18 years
• Strive to be independent and may start emotionally distancing from caregivers
• Start trying to discover strengths and weaknesses, at times seeming self-centered, impulsive, or moody
• Show pride in successes
• Spend a lot of time with friends and may be interested in dating
53 notes · View notes
aliencatastrophe · 4 days
Text
Tumblr media
❥ 25 days of agere moodboards day 12: favourite kid's movie!
27 notes · View notes
pink-crayon-princess · 3 months
Text
There are two wolves inside of me and they are best friends
Tumblr media Tumblr media
42 notes · View notes
Text
Agere fic!
It's a Canon part of the UTMV agereverse! It's about Little!Dust, Middle!Killer, and Caregiver!Nightmare and Cross! (Horror is there too!)
21 notes · View notes
jacks-kidding-around · 11 months
Text
more tips for middle regressors
public edition
🖍do you want to do coloring pages but a coloring book isn’t exactly what you want to be carrying around with you? print them out and put them in a binder! or do what i did and print them out and bind them into a book w/ thread (there are youtube tutorials for that). You can also get an old book cover and bind the pages into that 
🖍do you have some comfort characters you really like but are from kids shows? make a kandi bracelet/necklace of them (kandi is good for stimming when you can’t bring anything with you)
🖍feeling bad about yourself? remind yourself that if you were a chimpanzee in an enclosure doing the same things you would be considered highly intelligent and a miracle of evolution, as well as emotionally developed. there is no such thing as childish stuff it is all just Stuff and also you are doing your best and just because that doesn’t look like someone else’s best doesn’t mean you aren’t doing well
🖍are you waiting for something and have brought absolutely nothing with you to entertain you/calm you down? imagine your comfort character is with you/talking to you. idk if this will help but yeah
135 notes · View notes
12twelve12 · 2 months
Text
Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media Tumblr media
Yesterday was fun! I couldn't buy everything so I took pics. I love bright colors and soft fuzzy things. The first picture shows what I bought. Stickers are a must! I use a variety of journal types for different regression ages and projects . Have an awesome day. Always be yourself 💖💖💖
20 notes · View notes
sfw-regression · 3 months
Text
Tumblr media
Day 12 of sunflower-stella's 25 Days of Agere Moodboards
Things That Make Me Nostalgic!!!
Sunsets, dress-up and interior design games online, Polly Pocket, Littlest Pet Shop, Webkinz (especially going to the store to get them), bead curtains, Silly Bandz, stars (I had glowing sticky stars on my ceiling), reading books, and so so much more!
19 notes · View notes
utmv-agereverse · 5 days
Text
Fresh! Flip!
Tumblr media
Transcript beneath cut! (Also a thank you to @nightmareishomophobic for pitching some ideas!)
Fresh! Flip! (Middle/Babysitter!)
Babysits Error! Little age 13 - 16! Absolutely will take you skateboarding. No swearing policy! Calls Littles 'Little dude/dudette'! Makes sure you stay hydrated. Gives out smiley face stickers. Not much known on him… Randomly pops up.
9 notes · View notes
scarypony · 2 years
Text
“About”
I’ll make a proper “about” page later, so for now here’s a brief post to introduce myself and this blog (since it’s still so new).
Tumblr media
You can call me Jovi, Snow, or Moon. Welcome to my little agere/chire and nostalgia blog.
Pronouns: they/them/theirs + he/him/his Physical age: over 21 Regressed age range: 4-15ish ID: always questioning!  approximately aro-spec & fluid nonbinary Fictionkin and monsterkin, not “kin for fun” and likely won’t post too much about kin stuff here. I’m autistic and mentally ill and slowly recovering from emotional abuse and neglect.
Ahoy!  I’m an autistic tumblr vet who’s finally caved and made a little agere blog.  I spent my whole childhood trying to act “mature”, and completely missed out on getting to be a proper teen, so here’s to making up for lost time!
I’m a lifelong “weird kid” and aspiring “edgy older sibling”.  I’m hyperverbal and low-empathy.  I love drawing, music, gaming, comics, and the late 2000s-mid 2010s internet!  I also still love a lot of the stuff my ex-parents introduced me to, so there’s a few random things from the ’60s and ’80s that I’m nostalgic about as well. I’ve always been very mixed-tolerance on “scary” content, and like a lot of “creepy”, “edgy”, and even “grimdark” things, so don’t be too surprised if I post stuff like that!  Some of my special interests and fixations aren’t fandom, either.
Some (not all) topics I like/may post about:
My Little Pony (gens 1, 3, 4, and maybe 3.5)
Brony culture and Pony Music
Web animations
Comics
Star Wars
PS2 games
Old computer and browser games
Pokémon
Sailor Moon
Music
Toys (including action figures)
Stuff you’d see at Hot Topic
Obligatory “Would Prefer That You DNI If...”
Typical DNI criteria (homophobes, antisemites, TERFs, etc.)
REGs (anti-MOGAI, ace/pan exclusionists)
Radinclus/Pro-Para (pro-MAPs, zoophiles, transracial, etc.)
Anti-nonbinary and/or anti-xenogenders
Anti-fictionkin
Pro-lolicon/shotacon
ABDL or CG/L kink
You demand trans people disclose their AGAB (even if you’re trans)
You call yourself “anti-anti” or “proship”
Vent and traumacore blogs can interact!
I hope we can all get along well enough, here 💜 Feel free to send me asks, I love to talk!
6 notes · View notes
the-edgy-fuckerz · 1 month
Text
Foe me being middle means eating a lot of tasty snacks and watching YouTube :3
1 note · View note
baby--charchar · 28 days
Text
Ur fave is a permagressor: its me.
I'm in my late 20s but for some reason got stuck at 14. Trauma? Maybe. Just vibing. Although I do feel out of place in the real world, despite how "successful" I supposedly am at it.
9 notes · View notes
aliencatastrophe · 5 days
Text
Tumblr media
❥ 25 days of agere moodboards day 11: things that make you nostalgic!
12 notes · View notes
Text
things that make ME feel small bc y'all too cutesy and aesthetic about it:
Tickle monster/"I'm gonna getcha"
Wrestling or play fighting
Science, especially demonstrations
Snack plates with raw veggies
Being active outdoors at dusk
Eating while wet from the pool
Rewatching movies
The plastic smell of my Halloween pumpkin that I've had since I was born
"Setting up" a scene instead of actually playing with the toys
Harry Potter
Doing a pre-portioned craft kit
Third grade worksheets
Plain or weird food. Frozen peas, dry oats, Too Many Olives, perhaps a pair of prunes, the odd bowl of Just Tomatoes
Animals and veterinary stuff
Dad playing guitar
Doing stuff that everybody else is doing, but by myself instead of in a group (this could be a bad one tho)
Swing sets
My childhood stuffie
Wearing glasses
Low ponytails
"Wow, what are you making?"
Seeing certain outfits and accessories my mom held onto
Riding roller coasters
Owl City
The Walmart toy section
Christmas Eve, in the middle of the night
Being with my friends, because they bring out a side of me I haven't seen in 15 years
13 notes · View notes
mommasboyjoe · 2 months
Text
i love my mommy :3
Tumblr media
1 note · View note
jacks-kidding-around · 9 months
Text
the second i become an adult and move out i am going to decorate everythng like i am a Child because,, that is my destiny
34 notes · View notes
12twelve12 · 3 months
Text
Are there any permanent middles here? I'm always somewhere between 8-14
7 notes · View notes