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sforspoot · 1 year

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Hello I just wanted to say this rn, it’s not a art post but I feel like it needs to be said.

Tw:Talks of Bl*nksshipping/Pro shipping and how I do not accept it on this blog. Long rant(kinda)/info/my opinion. Talks of trauma.

TLDR:Bl*nkshippers/pro shippers will be blocked, and I will use basic human respect. Bl*nkshippers/pro shippers do not interact. Bl*nkshippers/proshippers block me on sight please.

This is not my usual kind of post, and unless I deem necessary I will not post this kind of stuff again.(as this is not why I made this blog) I will not make this specific post again(this is a comprehensive review of my opinions and expectations). I will not reblog this specific post again, I will make it easily accessible through this post.

This is pretty in depth so read at your own volition(I have included a TTS website to help. (This post was made with mobile users in mind as I use mobile. Please excuse anything layout wise that may look weird outside of mobile users. I laid this out to the best of my ability in a way that stays on topic and is easy to read and understand.)

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I will include a Text to Speech reader right here I use this for school, as I have dyslexia and could not imagine trying to sit through something like this reading it. So if you also have issues with reading such as I do but would like to read this, I have included it to help. Just copy and paste into the text box provided on the site, and press play. Or if it will work you can copy the link too this post and insert it into the Webpage URL reader below the main box.

-What I do not accept on my blog

I am not a Bl*nkshipper or pro shipper, I have seen some of my likes and follows are coming from bl*nkshippers and pro shippers.

I do not accept this on my Tumblr blog, and will block anyone I find out is a Bl*nkshipper. I will treat them with basic human respect(I will never tell anyone to off themselves, or do other bad things that I have seen people say in the past too them), and do not think I should be flamed for doing so as saying and acting that way goes against my core morals and beliefs. But as I treat others with respect, I also expect respect.

I will block without hesitation, and I will not be rude or mean about it. And I expect any Bl*nkshipper to show me the same respect and please DO NOT, and I repeat DO NOT! Interact with this blog. I will only post this specific post this once, I do not want to have to comb through all of my likes and followers blocking any Bl*nkshipper I see, because after this I expect them to not interact with me at all(at least I hope). I tend to follow most people who interact with me, and if I accidently follow a Bl*nkshipper and do not realize, please let me know. If a Bl*nkshipper reads this, and respects me, please block me on sight. As my content and art is not made for you. This is the only post that is.(more info in —reiteration(More in depth concise explained here) below.)

-Info and my understanding

I understand that proshipping can sometimes come from trauma, and is a way for some people to come to terms with their own abuse, this does NOT make this kind of behavior okay. Romanticism of trauma is not okay for so many reasons(not only can it harm one’s self, it can harm others), I am not a mental health professional, please seek help from a mental health professional if this is the case for you. I cannot make them do anything, and will not try to, because I do not have the time or the care enough to.

For anyone who their pro shipping does not come from a warped sense of trauma, and romanticism of such to help cope. Seek help, I cannot make them seek help, and will not try to. I do not have the time or care too make them do so.

Outlet info:(I will include a link too a list of all known suicide prevention hotlines for around the world that I know of here, this is not meant to be rude, this is meant to give someone an avenue to seek help. This is all I will provide for this, and I will not to force or make this choice for them.)

-My big opinion on it.

If you are against pro-shipping/blankshipping, and seek out this content, only to dehumanize and attack these people. You are part of the issue. (This statement does not include those who are protecting themselves from these people(as I do not think that all pro-shippers are good people.), but people should do this in a way that shows human respect.) Me saying that I respect them as humans, but do not wish to be around or interact with them. DOES NOT MEAN I support their actions. And it DOES NOT MEAN I will protect them and keep them safe from any consequences their actions may cause. It DOES mean that I understand that they are human, that they make mistakes, and that they can change. And I will accept them back into my blog and life if they change their ways, and become better, this also includes not having any more content of the such in their blog.

I do not believe that mean ostracism is the fix all for this issue, as it creates a echo chamber, where pro-shippers bounce off one another and make each other worse and create issues. HOWEVER I am only one person and cannot fix this issue on my own and will not try to. And mean ostracism creates and echo chamber of people who harass others. Just as I believe not all proshippers are good people, I also believe not all non proshippers are good people. As we are all flawed. What I am doing in this post is not mean spirited ostracism. It is only keeping myself and my blog safe for myself. As to not trigger myself, or those who enjoy my content.

Trying to force people to change for you, does not work, you will get fight back. People will dig their toes into their own beliefs and fight you on it. There is no winning in this situation. Both parties come out feeling worse than when they went into this. The only way to win is human respect, and understanding.

I do not expect everyone to have the same opinion as me, I will not enforce my beliefs on others, but I do believe my way is the right way, as that is how opinions work. I am open to others opinions(more info in -Post info and options, below) with guidelines.

—reiteration(More in depth concise explained here)

To reiterate, I will never EVER tell anyone that they should off themselves, or that they should d*e. I will NEVER tell anyone anything that goes against what I think is basic human respect, I will treat every person I come across with basic human respect.

I will NOT mis-gender, dehumanize, or insult any person on a personal level. I will not seek out this content and i will not attack these people, and I expect the same respect shown towards me. For them to not seek out my Tumblr and interact with it.

I will block any proshipper/bl*nkshipper I see without hesitation, I do not care who they are I will block and cut contact without hesitation. On this front I treat every person the same and give them the same warning.

there will always be outliers as will be with all cases. There will be people who I believe do not deserve respect, and I will show respect any way because I expect myself to act like how I expect an adult to act and to follow my own beliefs.

I will only open up my blog/content/and friendship if these ways are changed. I do not want an apology, I want change.

And by me seeking out these people and attacking them, would be insinuating that I am above them. And that I am more important than them. And that is something that goes against my morals and beliefs. And as an adult, I expect myself to act like what I believe an adult should act like.

-Post info and options

This rant/info post is a general cover through.

If there is anything in this post that you do not understand, or you have questions or need clarification, you may dm me or leave a comment on this post. And I will amend or answer as needed. I am always open to criticism said in constructive ways.

What I am not open to, is trying to be convinced that Bl*nk shipping or pro shipping is okay. Or trying to convince me to change my core beliefs and morals.

I have tried my absolute best to cover every base I could think of in this topic(I am not a professional and what I say is based on research I have done, and opinions I hold), in the best way I can. I have tried my best to avoid too much Redundancy, but as I am human I will make mistakes.

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Thank you for reading through this, this IS NOT what I will usually post, and unless I deem necessary I will never post something like this again. I want to nip this in the butt before it becomes a issue.

If you feel like this post fits your situation on your tumblr, you may reblog it onto your tumblr so people may see this.

-Respectful regards, Spootie boy.

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