#non-dysphoric
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What flavor of queer are you, if that's not too invasive of a question?
question is just fine with chuck it is kind of interesting story.
on LGBTQIA trot i am TECHNICALLY two letters
easy first one is B that does not need any more explanation. that has always been my trot
second way is what i have learned through talkin with my online buds way of non-dysphoric trans. it has taken chuck LONG time to understand this but it has been fruitful journey i think. long ago chuck would post online about becoming other people or things or concepts or wrestling with my IDENTITY as a buckaroo (whether that meant becoming sweet barbara or becoming my reverse twin or becoming the entire seahawks footballs team, very handsome). in fitting with my entire heckin LIFE some buds probably thought these were jokes when they were not at all. they were just personal artistic bubbles tumbling up and popping in ways i didnt understand yet.
but through posting these thoughts and THEN writing trans tinglers and talking to my trans buds online, i started to realize there are all kinds of versions of a trans identity INCLUDING the ones that rolled around deep inside of me that i never had a name for.
three events helped chuck understand this
first: the trans buds chuck talked to while researching harriet porber said 'well i always knew if i could press a button and change my body to match my gender i would instantly do this' and chuck thought 'of course woudlnt we all do this?' and they said 'well no, do you feel this way?' and i would say 'yes very strongly'. i will FOREVER be grateful to trans community for these conversations and maybe it is another reason why being anti-gatekeeping is so important to chuck.
second: thought about all the games i have ever played like a dang videogame or a role playing game, chuck would ALWAYS choose ladybuck character. didnt really think this was a unique thing at time but it is a pattern across whole life
third: chuck was trotting around with some buds and they all said 'whose bod would you choose if you could transform into any body?' (this is common topic for chuck believe it or not.) and the buckaroo guys went around naming the usual brats pitt or handsome channing and it got to chuck and i said 'obviously brie larson' and then the dang guys just kind of stared at chuck and then i realized 'oh, i didnt even think my answer was unusual but i guess they were only talkin guy bods'
these three things happened pretty close to one another but they were all bubbling up for decades and expressed in various ways even chuck did not entirely understand
anyway. chucks way is NOT that i feel uncomfortable in my body and it does not bring me grief. i am not upset about it honestly. i do not even THINK about it most days. however, it is all TRUE and in a purely technical and utilitarian sense of A PLUS B then YES, male would not be my preferred gender.
didnt talk on this for a while because there are MANY dysphoric trans buckaroos who go through a lot of hardships and i have gone through ABSOLUTELY NONE IN THIS WAY. it has not made my life more difficult and it does not haunt me, so i do not want to have my voice drown out other trans buds who need space to shout. i am very privileged so even though technically this applies to chuck i do not need or want any bonus points.
that beings said, part of my journey on the autistic spectrum was to recognize that EVEN THOUGH my personal story is not tragic, it is still an important one to get out there onto this timeline. IN FACT there should be more stories of buckaroos who love being autistic like chuck. i am PROUD of my trot and i love my autism (this is also why i wanted to explicitly say my lead character in camp damascus is autistic)
so in the same way, when directly asked, i will say: i am technically non-dysphoric trans ALSO this has not weighed on my life at all. my story is not tragic it is full of joy and excitement. i will not shy away from this because there are all kinds of buckaroos on this spectrum.
anyway that is my VERY LONG TROT hope you enjoyed getting to know chuck a little more thank you for this question buckaroo
#chuck tingle#tingleverse#love is real#camp damascus#trans#lgbtq#bisexual#autism#non-dysphoric#buckaroo lifestyle#queer
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Non-Dysphoric Flag
I had made dysphoria type flags back in September 2020 on my original blog. I didn't really like how I did two of the original flags so I decided to remake all of them.
Anyone who who is non-dysphoric can use this, minus if you're cis/transn't individuals (anyone who doesn't ID as trans/nonbinary or generally are only 100% (percent) cisgender).
The colors don't really mean anything other than I associated purple with non-dysphoria and used them on the flags as such. I guess you could consider the white stripes as standing for self-love? No clue what I said about the colors on the original posts since they're long gone lol
I'm also making a dysphoric flag, semi-dysphoric flag, and a dysphoriaflux flag. They'll be on separate posts.
[ID] A flag with 7 horizontal stripes, the first two and last two are the same sizes, the third and fifth stripes are very thin, and the fourth stripe is thicker than the third/fifth but not as think as the rest. The colors from top to bottom are as follows: dark red, dull red, light gray, purple, light gray, greenish teal, dark greenish teal. The colors are desaturated. [/End ID]
[ID] A DNI (do not interact) banner with a very faded galaxy background. On the left of the banner there’s a flag as with a rounded side, the circle inside it showing an image of a cone tornado at the end of a road, the flag being the (General) Neurodivergent flag. The rest of the image is filled with white text that reads: “DNI (Do Not Interact). Against Good Faith Self Identification Or “Contradictory” Identities, Transmed, Sysmed, Group Arospec under Acespec, Anti-Educated Self-Dx, Call Mspec identities “Bispec”, Anti-Alterhuman, Anti-Otherkin, Anti-Chronosian, Against the term Transandromisia (or similar terms), Anti Aldernic, Anti-Altersex, Pro-Contact harmful paras, TransID, Anti-Anti, Proship, “Consang”, Anti-SFW Agere, Demonize Cluster B disorders, Anti-BLM, Anti-ACAB” [/End ID]
Below these IDs is a cut, underneath the cut is where I put flags that may trigger eye strain, migraines, etc. due to colors or stripe patterns. Proceed with caution if you struggle with anything like that.
[ID] A flag with 7 horizontal stripes, the first two and last two are the same sizes, the third and fifth stripes are very thin, and the fourth stripe is thicker than the third/fifth but not as think as the rest. The colors from top to bottom are as follows: dark red, persian red, white, dark purple, white, greenish teal, dark spring green. The colors are vibrant. [/End ID]
#coining#mogai#liom#queer#lgbtq+#imoga#flag coining#non-dysphoric#non dysphoric#non dysphoric flag#non-dysphoric flag#tucute
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If you were a pet whumpee, what would your whumper 'loving new master' forcibly rename you?
If you hate what you get at first you may have ONE reroll but no more than that. because pets don't get to choose their own names after all. 🙃
I know some of the names are less dehumanizing than others, but the human names on here were from lists of the most popular names for pets. so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
#whump#pet whump#random generator#whump community#random generators#whump game#generator game#whumpblr#my posts#generator#my non writing posts#(btw if you need one more reroll because you got a Bad Gender name then ur allowed a bonus reroll don't make yourself dysphoric)#I got Levi if anyone's wondering#could have been a lot worse
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Similar sentiment to the person talking about butch being a culture and not ftm lite, as a genderqueer lesbian it can feel difficult to be seen as a butch woman by people who only view the binary (want to be so clear I love butch women!!). But this page really reminds me that just because others view me that way doesn’t mean I can’t find pride in the term butch! It’s always the identity I’ve gravitated towards, and I don’t want to have to check any ounce of perceived femininity at the door (especially when I can’t check my physical body at the door) to fully embrace butchness. Idk if this makes any sense but this is easily my favorite blog I follow, thanks for bringing hot and strong people onto my feed as constant reminders.
happy to serve🙏 and yeah i really empathise with what you're saying. i personally identify in part as a butch woman (alongside transgender and genderqueer) but i don't always feel comfortable describing myself that way because of the overwhelmingly feminine association the word "woman" still carries.
like i've noticed that the more i describe myself as a butch woman to non-butch queers or straight allies, the more comfortable those people seem to get calling me words like "pretty" or "queen" or "lady", or "forgetting" that my pronouns aren't she/her, or otherwise ignoring the very obviously masculine presentation and preference that is so important to me. adding "butch" in front of "woman" seems to do very little to stop most people from projecting femininity onto me anyway, unfortunately.
so i think i understand what you mean when you say you don't like being seen as a butch woman by people who only see the binary. i don't much like it either, even as a butch woman.
#i'm a woman only to the people who understand me. to everyone else i say ''non-binary and dysphoric so watch your language thanks''#mail
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You're allowed to like being trans.
You're allowed to hate being trans.
You're allowed to not feel strongly about your trans identity.
#being trans can suck sometimes. it's okay to hate the deck of cards you've been given.#but it's also perfectly fine to love the good parts of being trans#to enjoy your identity and your journey and the euphoria of being seen as you#you can be loud and proud but you can also be stealth. do whatever is safest and most comfortable for you!#both and ALL experiences can and should coexist.#transgender#trans#trans positivity#transblr#trans man#transmasc#trans ftm#trans woman#transfem#trans mtf#non binary#transneutral#gender dysphoria#non dysphoric#trans umbrella
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One of the arguments of transmeds against non-dysphoric folks transitioning is "well, if you don't have dysphoria now, you WILL have it if you transition"
and like
No? That's not how this works?
If that were the case, I would've felt dysphoria the moment I put on men's clothes before I even got on T, but wearing men's clothes causes me euphoria.
If that were the case, I would've felt dysphoria when my voice dropped on T - but I didn't. I love it.
If that were the case, I would've felt dysphoria upon realizing I was growing stomach hair, but I didn't - the realization made me even more euphoric.
If that were the case, bottom growth should've made me horrified and disgusted - but it absolutely doesn't, and I love my tdick.
So anyway, suck it, transmeds. I'm a non-dysphoric transmasc taking testosterone and I'm just getting happier and happier.
#trans#transgender#ftm#ftm hrt#nonbinary#genderqueer#trans man#transmasc#trans masc#non dysphoric#anti transmed#gender euphoria
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Vent Art
Mild Eye Strain Below
#was working on actual pride art but have been dysphoric the last few days#im doing aight tho#this helped#love you all and miss you#<33#pride art coming soon#slow work in progress tho#mlp#digital art#gender dysphoria#we love and support all lgtbq+ individuals here#transgender#non binary#vent art#eye strain
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btw i love non-dysphorics. Any transmed that tries to claim that “real trans people don’t support non-dysphorics!!1!” is dead wrong. I have dysphoria so bad that I’ve had days where I can’t even get up to eat bc of it, and I know perfectly well that a non-dysphoric is just as trans as I am.
Stop trying to measure “transness” by how much a person suffers. We’re all suffering right now, dysphoric or not. I hold nothing but love and respect for all my non-dysphoric trans siblings out there <3
#a dumb ass transmed post got recommended to me#so i felt the need to make this post#being non-dysphoric doesn’t make you any less trans#<3#max squawks#anti transmed#anti truscum#non dysphoric positivity#non dysphoric#transunity#trans unity
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[ID: A Tumblr post edited in blackout poetry style. The text once transcribed reads:
Hi all you lovely people!
Here's some positivity to those who need it:
To all nondysphoric trans boys! ❤️
To all nondysphoric trans girls! 🧡
To all nondysphoric nonbinary people! 💛
To all demi girls! 💚
To all demi boys! 💙
To all otherkin oriented genders! 💜
To all genderfluid people! 🖤
To all people who are nondysphoric who don't I didn't mention! 💖
You're all 🌈
Each and every one of you!! 🌸
trans people
huge positivity to all the people I just mentioned!! 🌼
kings of the trans community 🌻
/end ID]
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I think we can absolutely criticize how gender dysphoria is viewed and defined, but sometimes, I think people can swing too far in the other direction to say that gender dysphoria doesn't exist at all, or that anybody who claims to have gender dysphoria simply have internalized transphobia. I really don't think this is helpful to trans people who are dysphoric, and it really puts us in a shameful position wherein our feelings are deemed proof of being problematic or transphobic.
I absolutely don't think dysphoria is required whatsoever to be trans - I hope my blog has made this position clear. I just hate the way dysphoria is understood by cis doctors and medical professionals, who typically do not talk to or try to understand their dysphoric patients. I don't think the solution is to blame dysphoric trans people, though (or non-dysphoric trans people!). We didn't ask for the state of transphobic healthcare. We need to put the blame where it lies - with biased professionals who don't want to accurately understand dysphoria and how it can overlap with trans identity and the transphobic society many of us live in.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#transphobia#transphobia tw#dysphoria tw#i just wish people would be nuanced and maybe more compassionate about this#because this (like most other healthcare and mental wellness topics) are so fucking complex and nuanced#dysphoria is just as complex as any other healthcare need and i wish more people (doctors especially) actually understood that#because doctors seem to get when i say that depression has ruined my life because they understand depression a *tad* bit more...#...but when i talk about dysphoria and say it *destroyed* me? i'm suddenly a lab rat and they refuse to understand how i feel and why#also saying gender dysphoria isn't real isn't something only non-dysphoric trans people say...#...in fact i think they understand more about dysphoria than some cis people do...#...and i full-heartedly would support a trans person no matter what their dysphoria does or does not look like...#...because dysphoria is highly contextual and does not present the same and doesn't have to be present for someone to be trans...#...it's just that in my experience as a dysphoric trans person i've found that people aren't suddenly more supportive of me...#...and i really want to change how we talk about transness and dysphoria#i don't want to talk about non-dysphoric trans people like i know what it's like because that isn't my story...#...but i want to make it CLEAR that i will always want them in my trans spaces and that we *need* them in our community
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the very important follow up question
some buds online have questions about non-dysphoric trans way so i will talk a bit to help understand. first question is 'do you believe gender of your soul (or whatever you want to call it maybe identity maybe mind) matches gender of your body'. that is BIG STEP, for chuck i say 'no'
but there is another question that will come after that one. question of ‘ but do you care?’ for many there is a burning desire and craving and need to connect their soul to body in a way that feels CORRECT AND GOOD. however chucks answer is ‘actually i do not care at all’
THESE STORIES OF DISCONNECTION ARE IMPORTANT but they are not EVERY STORY. technically yes chucks body and soul are mismatched but guess what, i dont even think about. it is a TECHNICAL truth in same way as the color of my eyes. now sometimes buds who feel dysphoria will say…
‘well now buckaroo, this sounds like MY trot in early days just GIVE THEM TIME to understand themselves they are on their way to a change and they WILL care’. but i would caution against this buckaroos. i understand this is a way of empathy and love but there are problems here
in similar way of bisexual community, i am glad we have gotten to the point of understanding that bisexuals are NOT just gay buckaroos who havent figured it out yet (said many times in past) by same token, not all nondysphoric trans buds are really dysphoric and dont know yet
POINT IS we are all trotting along on our OWN path. there are things that make buckaroos on this timeline SO SIMILAR and other things that make us SO DIFFERENT but these stories are ALL important and all deserve to be told. and one of the best ways to prove love is to TELL YOURS
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can you make a
Non-Dysphoric transwomanflag
Non-Dysphoric transman flag
Non-Dysphoric nonbinary flag
Non-Dysphoric trans flag
Non-dysphoric Nonbinary / Trans Man / Trans Woman!!
Non-dysphoric Transgender
Non-dysphoric Nonbinary | Non-dysphoric Trans Man | Non-dysphoric Trans Woman
#xenogender#xenogenders#mogai#pro mogai#xenogender coining#xenogender community#mogai safe#mogai terms#mogai friendly#non dysphoric#nonbinary#transgender#trans man#transgender man#transgender boy#trans woman#transgender woman#transgender girl
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& of course the obvious corollary to that last post is: if you do change, you're still what you say you are. It's about the autonomy and the self-determination. You've gotta respect your friends who are rocks and only ever want to be rocks and also your friends who used to be rocks but discovered they really love being giant swarms of mosquitoes!
#the raven tower#small gods hamlet#wow i love the ann leckie genders. rock. transgender rock. non-dysphoric transmasc horatio. girl (gender neutral). genderfluid fish alien.#and that's not even touching Translation State
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I think it's crazy to me that people try to deny lesbianism when it comes to non-binary identities. It doesn't matter if they're amab or afab. What matters is who they are as a person and what they are internally. Lesbianism is about non-man loving non-man, that is the best way to describe it. This isn't to say you can't have preferences for things, but everyone does, but those preferences shouldn't restrict you from your attraction nor make you perceive someone any differently than who they are. I wish people could expand their mindset on this a bit more because attraction is different for everyone as well. But denying someone for who they are because of your preconceived thoughts of lesbianism or what a lesbian should be into in general (despite only lesbians being able to truly understand and define lesbianism) is so wacky to me
#sorry for the random tangent so much has been on my mind lately#lesbian#lesbianism#nonbinary#genderfluid#lgbtqia#its always been weird to me that people choose to define others for what their body represents#shouldnt it be about loving the person for who they are and not due to their body?#again there is preferences and everything#but like if you love a person for who they are thats what matters most idk how to describe it better than that#i guess im just tired of people who arent lesbian try to define lesbianism when its as simple as non man loving non man#fitting everyone into a box is wild#amab/afab people who are non binary shouldnt have to feel dysphoric because people only view them for what their body represents#i could talk more about this but yeah
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'You need dysphoria to be trans' motherfuckers when they realize the 'trender' they 'called out' for having xenogenders is a dysphoric trans person: erm actually you're still not trans cuz I don't understand you! >:(
#anti truscum#tucute#transtrender#transgender#trans#mogai safe#non dysphoric#queer#lgbtq#lgbt#xenogender#mogai#fuck transmeds
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y2k zim is real i think hed fuck with one of those pink jumpsuits. Juicy on the ass. LOL
#art#invader zim#zadr#zadf#I havent posted in a while hello tumblr#trans characters#non dysphoric transmasc#trans dib#nonbinary zim
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