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batwynn · 1 year

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Sending love today, in particular, to my bipolar friends. I know it’s hard. I know you struggle, and I know how often people don’t understand you. I can’t promise everyone will, but I can promise that you can be loved. You are loved.

#bipolar #mental health #positive #positive vibes #only pls #no negative comments I will delete #someone I love very much is bipolar #and in the end #it is easy #it is #they are easy to love

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chayannesegg · 2 months

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honestly I think it’s kinda interesting how phil’s relationships with wilbur, tallulah, chayanne & tubbo are all reflecting back into his view of sunny tbh. like he has such complex delicate interwoven dynamics with all of them and it all gets thrown onto sunny, this poor kid who he loves in theory, but in practice is a stranger to him.

like wilbur left tallulah in phil’s care and didn’t come back. even now way after he was initially supposed to, wilbur hasn’t returned (that one day aside). and phil, who had already taken on a big commitment watching tallulah, has been left permanently with two eggs in his sole care. and even though he loves tallulah and wil, and won’t want them out of his life, this is a stress for him. it’s a big undertaking for anyone, to care for two kids alone, but especially since tallulah required a lot of changes in his life.

for better or worse, in many ways phil sees chayanne as an extension of himself. they’re similar in a lot of ways, and often on the same page, and it means phil often struggles to catch up when chayanne’s emotions aren’t on the same page as him. we’ve seen this week, phil having such a hard time understanding the depth and breadth of chayanne’s grief. when he catches on, he usually does a good job empathising and talking it through, but when he doesn’t, he really doesn’t and it can be hard to watch.

the same is NOT true for tallulah. he has, through hard work and practice, learnt how to identify her emotions. he had to. she needed it. she would have been miserable otherwise. she desperately needed asked for the emotional care and birthdays and consideration that chayanne would never ask for. and he’s good at it—tracking her moods, knowing what upsets her & what she cares about in a way that doesn’t come as naturally with chayanne (or sunny or tubbo or anyone else really expect maybe wilbur). but that took A LOT of time and effort, months of work, and I do think he’s a bit wary of the idea of having to do that again, even when it comes to people he loves like chayanne (or god forbid tubbo).

now tubbo is not wil. tubbo is not phil's son. but he’s still not dissimilar to wil in phil’s mind. whatever the backstory is, phil introduces tubbo to tallulah as an old friend of him and wil’s. he makes tubbo his kids’ godfather. he calls tubbo his boy. he looks out for him. but past those first few weeks, their relationship doesn’t progress. they mean a lot to each other bc of their pasts, but they don’t put any work into upkeeping their relationship and phil in particular doesn’t reflect at all on what how that changes their dynamic. and it does change it—this is clear in purgatory, with phil having zero trust in tubbo to protect chayanne and tallulah, and after, with tubbo endlessly poking at phil’s sore spots trying to illicit a reaction he’ll never receive.

it's also clear in the way phil has no understanding of what’s going on with tubbo. if he’s struggling to grasp chay’s emotions, he’s not even touching what’s going on in tubbo’s head. tubbo’s death makes no sense to him. it’s sudden. it’s random. it’s illogical. it’s stupid. he wasn’t joking about having two lives? he still took a death bet with richas? he’s not come back? he can’t come back? he’s left phil with distraught kids for no reason with no warning. he doesn’t see the erratic suicidal behaviour, the unending depression, the desperation to be loved. he doesn’t want to see it. he doesn’t want something to be wrong with tubbo, but he also doesn’t even know how to see what’s wrong. he’s annoyed he’s having to deal with it and he desperately desperately wants to believe this is all happening for no reason.

bc at the forefront of phil’s mind is still his love for tubbo. of course, phil would drop everything to help tubbo (if he could recognize something was wrong). of course, he would care for sunny as his own. of course, he would make the same sacrifices he’s made for wil. and he assumes he’ll have to. he thought that sunny would now be under his care. that he’d have to figure out the logistics of a third egg to care for. with wilbur, phil was the only person who could ever have taken care of tallulah. the only person he trusted, the only person who knew tallulah enough. now this isn’t true for tubbo. it’s a genuinely illogical assumption for phil to make: three eggs would be a genuine burden on him; they've never spoken about it; there’s a long list of people who would tubbo expects for sunny before; and he doesn’t even know sunny well enough to name these people for her as comfort.

but still in the moment, alone with tubbo’s eggs and dealing with everything he left behind, phil can only think that the exact same thing that happened before will happen: he alone will be left to care for another scared hurt kid of someone he loves.

and here we come to sunny. a kid whose dad he loves. a kid whose dad he doesn’t understand. a kid whose dad is suddenly gone like his son is gone. a kid who would need him like his daughter needs him. a kid who his son needs to protect. a kid he cares for. a kid he can’t afford to care for, a kid he wasn’t expecting to care for, a kid he doesn’t know how to care for, a kid he would care for if he needed to, a kid he doesn’t know why he’s been left to care for. a kid who is somehow a reflection of all these people he loves but not someone he knows at all.

idk i think this tension comes out in the a lot of the comments phil makes of and to sunny. he doesn't know them well enough to distinguish them from his relationships with other people. and as long as no one challenges him on that, we'll continue to hear these misplaced comments from him, that come across so insensitively, even as he tries his best to genuinely help them and their dad.

#qsmp #qsmp philza #qsmp sunny #suicide #philza neg #qphil neg #i guess i'll tag out of an abundance of caution even if i don't intend this analysis meanly #that said he is absolutely being unfair to sunny and hurting her bc of this and he doesn't even realize #and won't realize unless someone else talks to him about it #lest sunny just snap at him some day which i do think is what we're currently headed to #fun fact: i intended to do more analysis of his actual comments but it got too long so instead you just get this :)#even tho i think this covers too much in too little time and could reference more canon events lmao #but it's already a behemoth #oh well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯#also nothing is ever going to justify the 'maybe i won't look for your dad as hard' comment fuck him fr for that #cw wilbur soot #won't delete this but warning he's mentioned here

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sonyshock · 3 months

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*takes a nap while Faust rambles about the war, like he's some kind of messed up ASMR vid*

Faust ASMR......

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voydhund · 5 months

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the mini-culture shock i got from going from Reddit to Tumblr was so much

When i first made my acc i was really hesitant to post anything Byler related because i was afraid the Byler Community was like 30 people and everyone else were Mexicanfoodtruck shippers

I fully expected to be like, cursed out and sent hate for posting Byler stuff :( Reddit sucks man :( why are they so mean

#reddit is mean #not even kidding #i was fully prepared to just delete my acc #the second i got any negative comments #which def says smth abt me #thank you guys #for being nice :)#stranger things #will byers #mike wheeler #byler #mike x will #will x mike #void's dumb shit

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ghostclowning · 8 months

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question, and how do you finish a fic. like, ok, here I start...I am all so excited and full of ideas, grand plans and vigor. three chaoters later...I am not so vigorous anymore....and the original plan i had for the fic doesn't seem as good anymore...it's been few months...does that mean it's that kind of "later" that equals "never"...

#i am not in that age anymore when I could work without regular ego boosts lmao #when i was like 13 i wrote 50+ chapter(pure graphomania) but istg I kept going only bc my friend was reading all that bullshit #and now i delete fics just bc i get one(1) comment that cannot be defined as certainly positive(it's not negative either)#(tbh I still don't understand what did that person even mean but i was so confused and lost any wish to continue lmao)#(...in retrospect #me: im normal about critics #also me: spends months thinking about that one comment the person who wrote it probably forgot next second

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ghostlypawn · 1 year

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do u ever go crazy thinking about how the team never intended to ostracise lupe and it was literally greta that planted the idea of her being up doves ass in their heads..................

#'should we tell lupe' 'no way shes up doves ass'#subtitles say its carson who asks but i think it sounds like shirley #in the deleted scene carson asks and jo replies the above #EITHER way it was greta/jo leaving those seeds to doubt her ://///////#afaik no one makes a negative comment towards lu until this point

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dreamertrilogys · 3 months

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going into instagram comments is crazy it’s like seeing into a (much MUCH) worse alternate reality like You ppl live such unfathomably terrible lives to me….

#aside from the general everything they’re just so boring and miserable. Btw #sorry it’s just i’ve had insta on my phone lately (unfortunately i can’t delete it until the party ☹️) & every SINGLE time i see some sort o #reel and i’m like HA yknow what i think? and then everyone in the comments is saying the complete opposite thing #every single time without fail #the other day i saw a reel where a bartender dumped all the leftover stuff from the thing (idk what it’s called) into a cup and every1 in #the comments was like ugh yucky disgusting / yk ppl put even grosser stuff in their mouths like genitals. besides if it’s cleaned regularly #enough it should be fine / that’s a big IF. meanwhile i’m like Yum jungle juice 😋#also one time i saw ppl talking abt how they sleep in binders at sleepovers COME ON reddit is free transtape exists. please #<- these r like the worst examples ever but it’s ok #also like the insane casual misogyny. it’s so bad out here guys #.txt #ppl arguing in the comments like ‘that’s like 2k calories’ / ‘why r u being negative besides it’s only like 300 at max’ / ‘it’s not #negativity’ GUYS. WHAT THE FUCK. CALORIES ARE GOOD I <3 ENERGY???? YOUR BODY ALSO LOVES ENERGY. COME ON. BUTTER 4 LYFE BITCH #OH AND ONE TIME someone made vanilla extract and the comments were all panicked muslims like oh no im rethinking all my vanilla extract #buying GUYS do you or do you not eat bread. great now figure out the alcohol content of fermented yeast vs a drop of ethanol in a cake (that #is being baked anyway!)

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phykoha · 10 months

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when the internet zeros in on a single tiktok video of a lady (possibly) going through a psychotic episode and making it into either a conspiracy theory or her being drunk

really rubs me the wrong way

#blah blah blah #she reminds me of my mom #which is saying something bc she had episodes where she sounded and acted like that #funny how greenisnotnick deleted/privated his video on it of him ragging on that lady for like 20 minutes :)))#and the only consideration of her even POSSIBLY being mentally ill was a pinned comment #like. it's not a good look when you immediately dismiss the possibility that she could be going through it #and then make a pinned comment like “oh woopsie people are say she could maybe possibly probably be mentally ill oh what if oh man” please #just because she “looks clean” doesnt mean shes mentally sound #ugh.#/neg #multiple youtubers I watch are doing this #like. come on

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floral-hex · 4 months

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hi it’s my birthday tomorrow

#had to redo this since someone left a comment that bummed me out a lot #well… didn’t HAVE to but I didn’t like seeing the notification #guess I could have just deleted their comment… shit… didn’t think about that #hey uhhhh please don’t be mean to me about my birthday. I’m just a sad lil guy 🥺#I already dislike my birthday. I hate feeling older. like I’m wasting my life.#it’s already usually an afterthought since it’s Christmas Eve #but with my mom’s surgery it’s even more of an afterthought and I’m so stressed and I have to take care of my bros and I’m just not great 😬#like… what do I even want to do tomorrow?#I’d love to just sleep in and eat junk and maybe go see a movie #but I have to go drive 40 minutes to see my mom and if I try to cut the visit short I’ll just feel guilty #so… I guess I’m spending my birthday watching my mom shake and cry in pain 🤷🏻‍♂️#which can be okay! I mean not okay but I can 100%… well… 85% live with that. it’s okay. it’s just a day.#but fuck does it hurt when people just ignore it or downplay it or make jokes about my birthday this year #people don’t have to care about my birthday. strangers online don’t have to care. it’s whatever.#and I’m not even mad at anyone in particular. I just… yeah.. I just can’t take negative jokes about it right now.#I’m trying not to be specific! I don’t want to be mean! nobody is being mean to me! it’s okay!#im just a sensitive baby that just wants people to be nice to him for the next 24 hours #…. I’m sad!#I think I’ll just be mean to everyone tomorrow #…. lol like I could do that. pfffttt I’ll bend over backwards for my family and I’ll be glad to do it. mostly.#it’ll be okay #days are 24 hours. I’m sure I can squeeze some good stuff in between the bad. that’s life babyyyy #and I love you and I appreciate you to no one in particular and I’m sorry I’m so sensitive #my mutuals are great #you’re all great. unless you aren’t. but we won’t talk about that.#ok you can ignore this #text

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thefreshprinceofjunes · 1 year

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some of you mighta scrolled through the comments of the soriku comp before and thought, ‘oh wow, pretty cool all the comments on here are positive!’

the thing about that is. i delete the negative comments. bc Its My Video and i dont think its the place for that bullshit! its a video celebrating a ship!

HOWEVER, i still have a record of all the negative comments in my gmail cuz i get emails about each one

so here they are together so we can laugh at them

THANKS FOR 30K+ VIEWS AND HAPPY 21ST ANNIVERSARY KH/HAPPY FIRST BIRTHDAY SORIKU COMP!! ✨👑💗🗝️✨

(view this video on youtube)

#kingdom hearts #soriku #kh meta #ali's kh meta #ali's amvs #video #‘but youre not allowing the space for an open dialogue’ THATS NOT WHAT THIS VIDEO IS FOR M8 #theres also smth rly satisfying about ppl putting all this effort into their comments #only for me to just delete them without engaging #like was it worth it #and i know the third one isnt technically negative but #smth about watching a video celebrating a ship and going 'i love their brotherly relationship! :)' is just. not good #dont ask why i used the what makes you beautiful laughter vid. i couldnt think of anything else to go in the bg #(besides the curb your enthusiasm theme once again)#im not even a fan of one direction lol #just showing my wrinkles as a tumblr elder ig

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jupitermelichios · 8 months

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so in the ongoing saga of the worst people on AO3 being the only ones to read my MCU rewrite

woke up this morning to a comment accusing me of plagurising MCU canon by writing fic about it

the fic is locked to registered users only, because the comments have been so overwhealmingly horribly I needed to be able to potentially block every single commenter

which means that this person is a registered AO3 user. they have an account. and somehow they think writing a canon divergent au is fucking plagurism

how?! and how do these people keep finding me?!

#ao3 #my fics #mcu fanfiction #i know there are nice people in the mcu fandom #but oh my god have my experiences with the fandom the last couple of years been overwhealmingly negative #i literally nearly deleted the comment without even reading it because i was so sure that it was going to be bad #i have written not!fic in other fandoms and had nothing but possitive responses #i've written canon rewrites and divergences in other fandoms and had nothing but possitive responses #but for some reason this specific fic just attracts assholes and trolls #and i genuinely have no idea why

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swordalt · 1 month

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Fully believe they are just some people who just go through the Wilbur situation tag all day every fucking day, liking ever single post they agree with.

Theses are the same mother fuckers who will tell other people to go touch grass when their more chronically online than the people they target.

Getting off to the thought of being better than everyone one else because 'I believe the victim", while spreading a shit tone of misinformation.

I'm not gonna have to misinformation talk with y'all again, we've been over this, fact check everything.

How are y'all gonna be like "we don't have to investigate, we may not know the full story."

Then talk with the confidence of a thousand suns. And of course since they're right that means everyone else is a disgusting Domestic abuse supporter.

Let me remind y'all that supporting the victim doesn't mean attacking anyone who doubts it, IT MEANS SUPPORTING THE FUCKING VICTIMS

it means kind words to shubble it means sharing any post she makes on the matter, this however y'all are pathetic..

The fact that I've literally seen copy past comments like, y'all ain't even original?!

I'm so sick of you people I'm so done being nice to y'all.

#i will delete this later #but i digress #vent #any negative comments will get you blocked don't try me #wilbur situation #qsmp discourse #ace says stuff

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oldbookshop · 7 months

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on the verge of orphaning my post s2 fic

#aiden text #been seeing a lot of negativity abt post s2 fics and like #ok fine but then there was one post specifically calling out a trope ik i put in there #and its like #i dont wanna delete it bc im sure somebody liked or has liked it #but i don't want my name associated with a fic i'm sure plenty of people have thought negative things about but are too nice to comment abt

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ad-astra-per-aspera-1389 · 8 months

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Hey, while we're appreciating our fanfic writers, let's also respect them, yeah? I don't know if this has happened to anyone else, but I once received a very long comment detailing a very long, somewhat disturbing fanfic the commenter wanted me to write for them. Don't do this. Especially not if it contains uncomfortable topics. If you're going to comment on a work, say things about the work and leave it there. Write it yourself! What you do with your ao3 account is YOUR business. You're free to write whatever you want there! It's everyone else's responsibility to tailor their own online experiences to what they want to see, meaning it's on them whether or not they see your posted work. Leaving things like this in the comments of someone else's fic means that 1) less people will see it and 2) you're subjecting people to topics they didn't want to read about.

I won't say what the disturbing topics were here, but this is just a PSA. Be respectful, be mindful, and remember, this is a shared space and a shared community.

#this has been a psa #ao3 etiquette #because dear god some things are just basic respect #id actually rather have had a negative comment ngl #dont be gross in the comment section #i mean...unless the work has gross stuff in it and you're talking about it #keep it kind and relevant #anyway I deleted that comment #the fic was rated g come on now #fanfic #writing #ao3

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i-am-dulaman · 10 months

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So I've never really used reddit before until this week when I started using it specifically just to ask questions about a game but I figured while I was there I'd check out some other subreddits and holy walnuts is the r/socialism subreddit a nightmare literally the definition of dysfunctional

#glad i know actual socialists in real life #even the socialist community on tumblr is so much better #goddamn #i made a post saying armed revolution isnt the only path to socialism and it will hurt/kill a lot of people and probably not even work #and the post had so many negative comments by people salivating at the idea of armed revolution #and the whole thread was deleted by mods in literally 10 minutes

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udurghsigil · 10 months

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can't stress enough that you guys don't have to answer every single ask you get. in fact you can just delete them. especially if they are causing you psychic damage.

#x #re: last reblog and that one post that critiques the idea of not responding to anon hate #if someone is trying to bait you in your asks then delete it you are not obligated to answer every stranger's questions #especially if they're extremely fucking probing questions #and if u get hate its better to just let that shit go by deleting it #i cant think of a single person who has benefited in any way from responding to hate.#it doesnt make you look bad like that one post implies but it definitely exacerbates your own negative reaction to it #at random sometimes ill get a guy sending me a bunch of hate at once and guess what. nobody ever knows bc i delete it #and as a result i dont remember what the guy even said in the first place. out of sight out of mind #but back to the baiting shit - ppl bait me sometimes too and its so easy to just delete an ask taking ur comments in bad faith #very few ppl will continue to take ur shit in bad faith so if u just delete the annoying anons then it doesnt become a bigger issue

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