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inkskinned · 11 months

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so one of the things that's so horrifying about birth control is that you have to, like, navigate this incredibly personal choice about your body and yet also face the epitome of misogyny. like, someone in the comments will say it wasn't that bad for me, and you'll be utterly silenced. like, everyone treats birth control like something that's super dirty. like, you have no fucking information or control over this thing because certain powerful people find it icky.

first it was the oral contraceptives. you went on those young, mostly for reasons unrelated to birth control - even your dermatologist suggested them to control your acne. the list of side effects was longer than your arm, and you just stared at it, horrified.

it made you so mentally ill, but you just heard that this was adulthood. that, yes, there are of course side effects, what did you expect. one day you looked up yasmin makes me depressed because surely this was far too intense, and you discovered that over 12,000 lawsuits had been successfully filed against the brand. it remains commonly prescribed on the open market. you switched brands a few times before oral contraceptives stopped being in any way effective. your doctor just, like, shrugged and said you could try a different brand again.

and the thing is that you're a feminist. you know from your own experience that birth control can be lifesaving, and that even when used for birth control - it is necessary healthcare. you have seen it save so many people from such bad situations, yourself included. it is critical that any person has access to birth control, and you would never suggest that we just get rid of all of it.

you were a little skeeved out by the implant (heard too many bad stories about it) and figured - okay, iud. it was some of the worst pain you've ever fucking experienced, and you did it with a small number of tylenol in your system (3), like you were getting your bikini line waxed instead of something practically sewn into your body.

and what's wild is that because sometimes it isn't a painful insertion process, it is vanishingly rare to find a doctor that will actually numb the area. while your doctor was talking to you about which brand to choose, you were thinking about the other ways you've been injured in your life. you thought about how you had a suspicious mole frozen off - something so small and easy - and how they'd numbed a huge area. you thought about when you broke your wrist and didn't actually notice, because you'd thought it was a sprain.

your understanding of pain is that how the human body responds to injury doesn't always relate to the actual pain tolerance of the person - it's more about how lucky that person is physically. maybe they broke it in a perfect way. maybe they happened to get hurt in a place without a lot of nerve endings. some people can handle a broken femur but crumble under a sore tooth. there's no true way to predict how "much" something actually hurts.

in no other situation would it be appropriate for doctors to ignore pain. just because someone can break their wrist and not feel it doesn't mean no one should receive pain meds for a broken wrist. it just means that particular person was lucky about it. it should not define treatment.

in the comments of videos about IUDs, literally thousands of people report agony. blinding, nauseating, soul-crushing agony. they say things like i had 2 kids and this was the worst thing i ever experienced or i literally have a tattoo on my ribs and it felt like a tickle. this thing almost killed me or would rather run into traffic than ever feel that again.

so it's either true that every single person who reports severe pain is exaggerating. or it's true that it's far more likely you will experience pain, rather than "just a pinch." and yet - there's nothing fucking been done about it. it kind of feels like a shrug is layered on top of everything - since technically it's elective, isn't it kind of your fault for agreeing to select it? stop being fearmongering. stop being defensive.

you fucking needed yours. you are almost weirdly protective of it. yours was so important for your physical and mental health. it helped you off hormonal birth control and even started helping some of your symptoms. it still fucking hurt for no fucking reason.

once while recovering from surgery, they offered you like 15 days of vicodin. you only took 2 of them. you've been offered oxy for tonsillitis. you turned down opioids while recovering from your wisdom tooth extraction. everything else has the option. you fucking drove yourself home after it, shocked and quietly weeping, feeling like something very bad had just happened. the nurse that held your hand during the experience looked down at you, tears in her eyes, and said - i know. this is cruelty in action.

and it's fucked up because the conversation is never just "hey, so the way we are doing this is fucking barbaric and doctors should be required to offer serious pain meds" - it's usually something around the lines of "well, it didn't kill you, did it?"

you just found out that removing that little bitch will hurt just as bad. a little pinch like how oral contraceptives have "some" serious symptoms. like your life and pain are expendable or not really important. like maybe we are all hysterical about it?

hysteria comes from the latin word for uterus, which is great!

you stand here at a crossroads. like - this thing is so important. did they really have to make it so fucking dangerous. and why is it that if you make a complaint, you're told - i didn't even want you to have this in the first place. we're told be careful what you wish for. we're told that it's our fault for wanting something so illict; we could simply choose not to need medication. that maybe if we don't like the scraps, we should get ready to starve.

we have been saying for so long - "i'm not asking you to remove the option, i'm asking you to reconsider the risk." this entire time we hear: well, this is what you wanted, isn't it?

#where's the word woman in this u might wonder if u suck #good news i am nonbinary and have a uterus so that is something that can happen #im also gender fluid tho which means im immune to certain psychic damage bc if u call me a woman i'll be like <3 okay <3 #writeblr #the tightrope of ''ppl need access to this''#and like also #''what the fuck is going on over there'' is like. so difficult as an activist #i was <3 punctured <3 during mine #and almost bled out on the table :) they didn't have anyone standing by bc it's ''just a little insertion''#so i started crashing and i vaguely remember apologizing for the fuss as i heard my heart rate monitor start going <3 tachycardic <3 #she wasn't even a bad doctor tbh #ps btw the reason i even HAD a heart monitor is that i have a genuine heart condition and they knew GOING IN that there was a chance #i'd crash on the table #like my heart just likes to do fun little tricks and <3 stop working <3 (i do not want to discuss the specifics ty i am okay im ontop of it #and they were like 'oh u will be fine' and then she did do a puncture thru my uterus . pop!#and im sitting there dizzy and feeling my heartrate start to drop bc it feels almost. beautiful. like. the whole ground just #woosh! out from under you. and shit is like grey's anatomy. i'm looking up at her grey eyes #she's old she wears this nice shawl she's like got Cool Lesbian vibes and people are sprinting into the room #from other parts of the clinic unrelated to me. while the monitor is like a little aria singing #and shes like hey youre okay stay awake stay with me something went wrong we have to keep trying #and i remember thinking - i was trying to think of nice things. i have so many beautiful places that now overlap #with this terrible memory #i became dimly aware that there was too much on her wrists and hands. like #that was too many liters #and then when they had finished all this. i packed up and drove myself home #i have had (bad thing) happen to me. and the same feeling happened after #that numb almost lamblike bleating. you cry without noise. like. ur body is so shocked and ur mind so empty #you just stare at the road and everything everything is happening behind glass and static and you are standing so far away from it #while you hold ur hands at 10 and 2. and something in ur brain is SCREAMING at you - IT WAS BAD AND IT SHOULDNT HAVE HAPPENED #and ur just watching the alarms in your body going off and youre thinking. a little pinch! ha. i think i just lost something important.

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glassgob · 5 months

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[Image ID: Digital illustration of Chime from Counter/Weight. Cass is the focal point, piloting the Megalophile. Surrounding them are pop-ups of the other Chime members doing various tasks on an assumed mission. End ID.]

ringing in the new year. ting 🔔

#friends at the table #counter/weight #f@tt #cassander timaeus berenice #mako trig #aria joie #audy #the chime #ive had this sitting in my wips for a while and then had a random itch to finish #uhm. i cant draw machines :"D #theres probably a million mistakes but im posting anyway. happy new year

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folkloregirlfriend · 1 year

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girlhood calcifying into this bruised adulthood.

nothing new, taylor swift // @seravph // drop kick aria, sally wen mao // the unabridged journals of sylvia plath // sugar, spice and everything nice, d.s. // girlhood, stevie edwards // jenny zhang // would've could've should've, taylor swift // churching, kristin chang // @nipplering // taylor swift // seven, taylor swift // girlhood is godhood, mimi evangeline @tenderfaery // everything is illuminated, jonathan safran foer

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casteru · 2 years

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toddler hair conversions pt.2 // T.O.U.

100% credit to all creators! all links and creators are below. if you want me to take anything down please let me know!

they’re all hat compatible except for beary nice, brick & rowan (i tried my best)

📁 DOWNLOAD

ARIA HAIR by wms

BEARY NICE HAIR by yooniesim

BRICK HAIR by daylifesims

BRIE HAIR, DUSK HAIR by ah00b

EMILY HAIR by arethabee

RJI HAIR by marsosims

ROWAN HAIR by jellymoo

SCIMITAR HAIR by busted pixels

VEAH HAIR by greenllamas

#s4cc #ts4cc #s4mm #ts4mm #sims4cc #+added the new swatches for the aria hair

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aria-greenhoodie · 25 days

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He was a skater boy… he said see u later boy…. Animal jam fit redraw 🔥

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#aria draws #digital art #digital drawing #oc #oc art #animal jam #animal jam play wild #animal jam phantoms #ajpw #aj phantoms #jamblr #tried a lining style that was new for me. I love the way it looks but it took. WAY TOO LONG TO DO!#prolly not doing lines like this often but hey. now it’s an option for me.#animal jam oc

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incorrect-supercorp · 1 year

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Sam: Look me in the eyes and tell me you don’t have feelings for Kara.

Lena: *Looking lovingly at Kara across the room* I don’t have feelings for Kara.

Sam: Luthor, you are nowhere near my eyes.

#lena luthor #sam arias #supergirl #incorrect supergirl #incorrect quotes #supercrack #source: new girl

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ariapmdeol · 2 years

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ITS BEEN TWO WEEKS SO!! here's my piece for the @saioumota-zine !! i had so much fun working on this project! <3

#danganronpa #new danganronpa v3 #ndrv3 #drv3 #shuichi saihara #kaito momota #kokichi ouma #kokichi oma #saioumota #danganronpa v3 killing harmony #my art #aria draws #zine stuff #theyre ghost hunting <3

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briannakitty · 10 months

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Tamamo Aria am I right (affectionate)

#fate #fate samurai remnant #meme #bris stuff #my edit #eepy sleepy #Tamamo Aria #I love her so much dude!!! new daughter

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aria0fgold · 1 month

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Venus sitting to take up as lil space as she possibly can but during her transformation, it became the exact opposite due to having wings, so she ends up taking as much space as possible instead.

Neptune remaining mercilessly fashionable while watching the other groups but during her transformation, she's the exact opposite of that due to the black ichor dripping down her chin, making a mess as she walks. She became one you will watch instead of her watching the others.

Jupiter pulling her legs up, liking the security of holding her whole body but during her transformation, hands reach out instead, being the exact opposite in that she wants to hold someone, touch someone, pet someone, hurt someone.

Each of the girls' transformation reflecting on what they really want from the way they normally act is a theme scattered around throughout the game ever since the beginning and I am being very Normal about it again. Venus wants more space for herself, she wants to stop making her world so small, Neptune wants to stop putting on a facade, she wants to be seen as herself no matter how messy that'd turn out to be, Jupiter wants to be closer to someone, she wants to stop being so touch starved but is too afraid to reach out.

#aria rants #wktd #replaying wktd again and learnin smth new despite the many times ive replayed this game alrdy #i love this game so much tho its just sooooo good with everything. this game is everything to me fr

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zipmode · 10 months

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Aria returns from Big MT. sans hair.

#zipmode art #fnv #fallout new vegas #arcade gannon #veronica santangelo #courier six #my ocs #aria strong

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giggly-cloud · 23 days

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° ʚ ᐢ. .ᐢ₎っ Cloud's appreciation ‹3 !!

꒰ఎ ♡ ໒꒱˖࣪ ¡ I did one so long ago when I joined the community but I feel like doing another one since I made more friends and met more people <33 !

@thecutestler I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND ENJOY EVERY TIME WE TALK, CALL, ROLEPLAY OR ANYTHING !! You never fail to make me smile <3

@daisylovestickles Love you so much and I'd love to get closer with you !!

@ticklish-potato Becca you're so adorable anc cute and I'm so glad we're friends <33

@the-shy-ler SHYY <33 i really enjoy talking to you and everytime we call even tho I get flustered like crazy cuz of your teases but sdjfjkd

@giggleesblog We started talking recently and ngl, you're such a cutie and I'd love to get closer with you <3 you also know so much but uhm...

@blushy-tigerrr TIGERRR <3 Love you so much and I'd love to get closer with you, still sobbing everytime I remember you sang I love you by Billie EIlish on call bc I joined,,, sweetest thing ever omg :((

@littleleesblog LOVE YOU BESTIEEE AND TYSM FOR INVITING ME TO THAT SERVER OMGG also ahem ahem GET NOOBED *runs away*

@flusteredandgiggly I really like talking to you and your teases are so silly and cute omg- I'd def love it if we talked more

@franceseclipse NOTCH BESTIEE <3 we dont really talk but LOVE YOU SO MUCHH /p

@sizzlerseth Ooga booga bugs bugs bugs. I still remember when I saw ur reblog I was like :0 new friendd LOVE YOUUU <33 /p

@wheezylee-jay Tvmbh. I wanna tickle hug you so bad you have no idea <3

@idk791 I don't really know what to say uhm- Poor you you had to handle a hyped Cloud over getting tickets for Billie's concert and random lyrics spam

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Also, I don't really know what to say from you but I stil want to include y'all here cuz y'all matter to me <333

@applesyaboi @ali-the-weirdo @kikibumblesqueaks @ticklishsquish @ticklishpuppyem @kasey-writes-stuff @yourgigglebugmaya @axie-axo @mochamuff1n @kawaiihaille20 @thejellyfishgentleman

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Me when anyone mentioned here:

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thatsnotmygunflash · 8 months

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Are there any Professor Snart fics out there? The thought came to me and now I'm lying on the floor trying to get my brain to reboot.

Think about it. The gossip surrounding the hot new English professor. The casual but professional outfits. The captivating lectures. The charming smiles. The corny jokes. The starry-eyed students. The never-ending string of faculty friends and students visiting when he's in his office. The abundance of award-winning books he's written (James Patterson who?). The Dean is ready to offer him tenure if Len agrees to add another class or two to his roster because they have so many students begging to be in his class. He goes to his students' poetry slams to encourage them and has a writing workshop for inspiring authors. He sponsored a scholarship in his name for LGBTQ+ students. He volunteers to help with the theater department. Not long after he's hired, Professor Leonard Snart seems to be the only thing anyone wants to talk about at Central City University.