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me, fuming that my mother wouldn't let me wear long skirts or grow my hair much past shoulder-length until my mid-teens but also aware that that WAS how things often went in the late 19th century, wherein I now get most of my aesthetic inspiration:
#personal#historybounding#historical costuming#I joke but the motivation was very different and I actually had a maximum allowed skirt length until I left for college#like we had a screaming fight over me wearing a short skirt to high school graduation; age 18 (she wanted it; I didn't)#she thought if I wasn't dressing at least somewhat 'sexy' I was 'wasting my youth'. let's not get into the Makeup Policies#suffice to say that convincing her that lip balm was makeup made my life much much easier#also frequent threats to forcibly cut my hair herself if I didn't brush it many times a day#BUT I DIGRESS#(she's mellowed out somewhat over the years. also I don't live with her now which helps massively)
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No because Sun does not understand what "no" means.
Ongsa said that she didn't want to do the scholarship program with her and Sun took it the worst possible way:
Then Ongsa was upset that Sun just outed not just their relationship but also that she is not straight to her parents, Sun was immediately defensive and made it about her:
But let's also look at not their literally just started relationship.
Sun decided that Aylin gets hugged because "that's what friends do" even though it's very clearly not what Aylin does.
When Ongsa was still "Earth" and Sun asked Earth to meet up she always said it was fine if he couldn't but would become bitter when Earth never showed up.
Sun is so lost in her own self that she should not be in any relationship. She needs to learn to be a partner and listen when her partner expresses a concern or a hurt. Sun doesn't get to decide that someone's reaction to her actions are more painful and worse. She doesn't get to unilaterally decide things about her relationships with people and be upset when people disagree. She loves Ongsa but she sure doesn't like her enough to actually learn anything about her. Like...oh I don't know...how comfortable Ongsa is with being out. Or anything about her relationship with her parents.
It is okay to be ready for different things at different times. It is not okay to decide someone else's readiness for them and be upset when they're not actually there yet.
#23.5#23.5 the series#23.5 series#in case anyone didn't know i am big mad about this#cause like i feel like ongsa and i have similarish home lives#or my home life in high school#my parents were supportive and i knew they were supportive#i knew i could come out and still have a home and still be loved#but i had a lot of internalize biphobia i had to deal with before i was ready to be out to myself let alone my parents#i can't imagine the pain of someone making that decision for me before i was ready#and i had much more of a backbone than ongsa has#next week is going to hurt because sun decided hurting ongsa by outing her wasn't enough#sun perceives her hurt as far more important and bigger so she hurts ongsa further by breaking up with her#and of course it's going to be ongsa that is heartbroken and fights to get the relationship back#when sun should be begging ongsa for a second chance#but we're not gonna get that because the show has already decided that sun can do no wrong
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The opinion came to me based on a tweet but I actually agree to the point that I like that Amity doesn't have a huge ambition or plot as a character.
You know, she fits her journey well as she just wants to be a free and independent girl,
Read fantasy books, live a corny story of teenage romance, learn new techniques of abominations for the pleasure of doing it and not the obligation to do. And above all, strengthen and fix her family/friendship ties and take care of others.
#the owl house#amity blight#just thinking#toh#toh spoilers#amity toh#I know that her greatest wish would be something as simple as being a primary school teacher#or open a library#let my girl be happy and live a quiet and worldly life#i just love her
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we need more ford haters in this fandom. this dude is a fucking loser. it has nothing to do with him being a nerd, and everything to do with him being a borderline narcissist who has ruined the lives of every single person he's come in contact with
#gravity falls#ford pines#stanford pines#fuck ford#yall i cannot describe how much i hate this fucking dust bag#i hate how much the fandom is obsessed with him too#even alex acknowledges that ford is an asshole whos in love with himself and has no problem destroying peoples lives to get what he wants#examples; stan fiddleford (almost) dipper and mabel (almost) his au self and fiddleford in an au AND the entire dimension of that au#fiddlefords entire family- their parents (specifically his mother who loved stan more than she loved ford and NEVER GOT TO SEE HER SON AGAI#BEFORE SHE DIED BC OF FORDS FUCKING ACCUSATION)#which btw let me just side track slightly to point out that ford DIDNT make a pwrpetual motion machine.#if all it takes is one screw loose for it to stop working it isnt a perpetual motion machine. period.#he wouldve gotten into thr college with a lie and he wouldve absolutely failed to meet the expectations in his 'dream scgool'#(a school he didnt even know about until the day pRIOR. a school he was willing to abandon his TWIN over and... again.#destroyed stans life over.)#theres so so so so so so so many other examples#so mamy#but im getting TOO mad
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Is it just me or does almost every outfit in the sims 4 cottage living just seems like something Toriel would wear?
yeah that's just objectively correct tbh
pretty goat mum 💜✨
#holoskart asks#I gotta draw at least one of these outfits next soriel week for sure :'>#also speaking of cottage living. I swear that pack had something against my toriel sim for the longest time#bc the pack introduced a bunch of new pie recipes and a pie competition every few weeks. so Obviously toriel needed to win that#except the game absolutely refused to let her win for real life months on end#I have a screenshot where all 3 pies entered one time were the same type. toriel's was excellent quality vs 2 townies' normal quality pies#she still lost to them. and then when she finally Did win first place several tries later it happened in the dumbest way possible#she entered a pie. waited for hours until the competition ended. no result appeared so I gave up and sent her home#two in-game weeks pass. frisk is hanging out at their high school's football event. a notification pops up as the event ends#the result from the pie competition finally appears. during the wrong event and two entire weeks late. and then my game crashed#luckily everything turned out the same way and she still got the first place result but god. it was So Much#anyway this kind of nonsense is why I love the sims gjhdsfjgh
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#big gender rant ahead i just need to write down my thoughts#personal#so i think im a he/him trans lesbian??#i think ive been denying my feminine side for a long time now but middle school me was right. well. half right#idk why id built up some weird barrier in my mind about being trans and being a lesbian#but now im like more sure than ever#i still dont know if i could call myself a woman. and i thought i was so adamant about not using she/her again but it honestly?#doesn't bother me that much anymore. its not my preference but its not as soul crushing as it used to be#i have these weird subliminal gender rules for myself that ive been beating myself down with even though i#understand that theyre fake and dont hold anyone else to them. so why have a double standard? cant i have a fun gender?#ever since high school its been an uphill battle just letting myself live freely and having self confidence#i just turned 24. i dont have to be beholden to stupid hormonal teenage self loathing anymore#the world is a beautiful place and gender is just made up anyway. so why cant i be trans and butch? who cares??#i think i worded it well in my last personal post. ive been living a gender of convenience#but fuck that! i want the gender that makes sense to me! that makes me happy! its my life and i should live it how i want to!#...i still have some regrets about my top surgery. i wish i wasnt so weirdly flat chested now.#but hopefully the fat will redistribute eventually and itll look more natural as the years go on..#but i definitely dont regret going on T. i love my deep voice and my body hair#anyway if you've read this far thanks for listening to my mad ramblings#and dont forget you can have a fun gender too!
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#i thought nothing was going to ruin today!#i applied to study political science in January and I haven’t gotten in yet but my mother found out about it today and called me a coward :)#for trying to move on from medical school bc I want to do something I like!#I’ve been applying and interviewing for her for 5 years and I haven’t gotten in and I’m miserable bc of it and she won’t let off#I hate that I can’t do something that I think is meaningful my life is only about making sure she’s happy I don’t see the point of living#my life is just me trying to make it to the next arsenal game it kinda always has been 😭#anyways shoutout to my friends on here I love you I love you I love you. and martin and bukayo and declan and mikel and hector and granit an#literally everyone u all mean everything to me#not to use this as my diary again but 🤷♀️
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I don't like this season
#it has some good moments#but i keep wanting something to happen#like stuff happens but also nothing happens#and everyone is just sad and miserable and hating each other#like last season it was also like that but there were still enough happy moments#now it just feels unbalanced#and i don't like that they fully split apart amerie and malakai#they were so good together#and rowan sucks#like i know he's (spoiler) birdpsycho but he also just sucks in general#and he's so damn boring#we get it#amerie hurt you (or your brother idk) when you were little and never got (in your opinion) proper punishment and now that you're at her#school you wanna make life a living hell for her#i get it now get over it#(i'm still at episode six tho so i could be wrong and also no spoilers please)#also where is sasha's redemption arc?????#i feel like she got even worse#cause she isn't just entitled and selfish now she's also a hypocrite#like season one sasha would have picked that cup up and thrown it in the trash#and she deserved that redemption arc#but instead we get to see how deep spider problems actually are ohh poor baby boy :(( shut the fuck up#why does he get all this characterization and then they won't even let sasha feel one genuine emotion????#also#WHY IS THERE SO LITTLE QUINNI??????#and why would darren scream at her and say such mean things to her#i relate to her so much and all her friends just dropped her like that#like the thing happened at the zoo and then darren and amerie had like one line of 'oh where is quinni i miss her'#and they both didn't even bother to ho talk to her or make up#heartbreak high
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The Teens + Alignment Charts Pt. 3
#sing#sing 2#ok valedictorian ryan lives rent free in my head#that boy is the definition of an overachiever#porsha has never opened a textbook in her life lets be honest here#nooshy would be the kid who never turns in a piece of homework all the way throughout school. from primary to secondary. 1st through 12th.#i ran out of teens again so this time our additions are alfonso and mizuki#who is a teen just not in the main group (the show group) and a really young adult around nooshys age if i had to guess#i am johnny and ash here#i do try but then i realize hours later that i instead have been reading a fantasy book instead of a textbook#honest mistake#sing ryan#sing meena#sing mizuki#sing alfonso#sing ash#sing johnny#sing porsha#sing nooshy#the teens
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Shipping Goggles: On
Nonsense, 100%
Iconique ass TamaHaru scene, yessir like bitch
What do you mean too far? You wanted him close, you just didn’t know it girl 🤣
Indirect kiss, Tama probably didn’t recognize that, her saliva was delicious 🤤🤣 or did and seized the opportunity but because that’s his daughter he doesn’t want to embarrass then it’s fine pffft 💀
Her “I must protect at all cost” levels are off the charts here. Especially after he said that he’s starving, she wanted him to eat right then and there and grew impatient for him. Notice how Tamaki always checks in with her on if she’s eating well! The fancy tuna, the boxed lunches, how she made him and the Host Club all of Tamaki’s favourite meals. That’s love right there, from the OG male wife and girlhusbando. TamaHaru’s love language is food, get on the train fam
Tamaki is who he is, and so is Haruhi judging by her reaction to him regardless (love you, baby girl fr)
Also, like Tamaki is so ready to show her his mother’s photos after he saw hers and Haruhi not immediately coldly brushing him off. Unconsciously despite convincing himself at this point of not wanting to, he’s seized the first sign of genuine, romantic connection with her. Again, subliminating it as father-daughter. He stole everybody’s girl before the men knew they wanted her and before everyone else knew she was a girl.
“He’s a respectable person” aka “he’s adorable, whatever he needs just for tonight I’ll get!!!! Sugoi, sugoi!!! Heart go doki doki” - Haruhi
#I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t Tamaki#he says that everyday and Haruhi begrudgingly agrees even after being with him for half a century by then 🤭#anyways I’m done#ok but her feeding him is so Haruhi but let me live that her first fleeting instance of attraction finally coming out after learning more#about him#like that’s feminine urge right there to feed ya mans some food after a long day#she heard the darkness and pulled him into the light she wanna be his mama (affectionate) his lover his wife his life#she just don’t know it yet 😭#tamaharu#harutama#Tamaki suoh#haruhi fujioka#OTP broskis#ohshc#ouran high school host club#manga#broooooo#they’re so cute
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you meet the worlds most misogynistic person and its literally your mother
#thank god she doesnt have a son her daughter in laws wouldve cried#how she can actively say things like but women have to be lesser than men in some way is beyond me you are literally a woman??????????????#'the womans role is to give birth' maam WHY did u waste dollars to send me to school and university then#im not saying housewives are less they are very respectable!!!!!!!!!! but if both a husband and a wife are doing a nine to five why do u#expect the woman to ALSO take care of the children and ALSO do all the household chores on top of that ???????#men just exist to lay around ???????????#her argument is didnt people in the past do this. maam#the economy is ignificalty worse cost of living is way higher salaries are lower#a modenr family cannot survive on one persons salary!!!!!!!! and what man is completely willing to be the sole breadwinner and let his wife#spend his money as she likes#if u are expecting women to carry out the traditional role then men shouldtoo and be the only breadwinners and stay out for work everyday.#'didnt your grandmother do this? didnt she work as a teacher and also raise all three of her kids alone?' yes and my poor grandmother admits#to me that she wasnt happy about it and that she regrets a lot 😐#poor woman spent her life taking care of everyone#oh my god i hsouldnt get into these arguments with her. its a waste of my time and energy
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hate this DAMN household i will never excape
#on god i will kms if tomorrow goes bad bc i dontcare anymore actually#like idk i think maybe im a person who just isnt cut out for living sorry i just cant do it#everything makes me tired everything hurts i hate everyone everyone hates me lets just cut our losses.#will i really kms over the worst person in the world calling me 'very selfish and intentionally numb and cruel human being'. to be seen#of course i am intentionally fucking numb bc feeling anything here is a death sentence..#yeah genuine posibility. like i know 'life gets better' or whatever but i dont think for me actually 👍🏼#i think i will go from being sad and alone here to sad and alone somewhere else and i cannot actually live like this#ok need to stop crying so i can tell her im not going to school tomorrow
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Iron Man (1968) #104
#I love the rapid mood change here#from ‘You’re rich- You’ve got a woman who loves you- and you love her!’#‘Let Midas keep Stark International! You’re free- for the first time in your life!’#to ‘I can’t stop thinking about Midas taking away my factory! It… seems like my armor is… all I have left!’#it reminds me of some of the mood swings he’s had about his Iron Man and Tony Stark identities#also intrigued by that Tony refers to losing the company he inherited his father as him being free for the very first time#but he also says he hasn’t been back to Stark House since they died#and that the house is ‘Cold though- uncared for since my parents died! A bit like… me!’#in the one flashback we’ve seen of Howard Stark so far he sent his son to boarding school because he was dating the daughter of a competitor#so prioritizing reputation/the company- and he also insulted his son in the process#this is actually the first time that Maria Stark has been named#it’s very believable that Tony goes from believing that love is the most important thing to thinking that his armor is all he has#he’s so dedicated to running away from good things#the declaration ‘I can’t live only for love!’ is so funny#he’s literally still rich#but apparently he lacks proper purpose without Stark International#marvel#tony stark#whitney frost#my posts#comic panels
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It's becoming just.... blatantly obvious that all this GOP posturing on transgender individuals being about ~protecting women's rights~ is just them trying to save face after they got Roe overturned and that has since backfired massively for them. Like it's so clear they think this is somehow gonna win points with women 'see we really care abt ur rights! We're trying to protect you!' while they still try to pry those rights from our hands not to mention there's no danger cis women face from trans people anyway
#it's just so infuriating to read the news these days like. denying some trans woman the right to live her life and be healthy#does NOTHING to harm my rights. if anything trans women and ppl in general are SUPPORTIVE of my rights#where the GOP definitely is not#I'm also so TIRED of the narrative that we need these ladies only spaces to be SAFE like#clearly you were never harassed in a girl's locker room in high school. by the other girls.#a trans woman in the locker room wants her privacy and security just as much as *I* do#making her go into a different locker room provides nothing for anyone#let's not forget this all also speaks to the government having control over your healthcare and bodily autonomy#which WILL come back to cis women. it WILL. if we don't support trans women they WILL come after more rights we've already clawed for#which I'm not saying like omg that's the only reason to support trans ppl. obv it's not.#but the more they can narrow the whole ~definition~ of a ~woman~ the more women will be excluded. and be in danger.#it is a steady march back to dresses no pants no working no college no money no birth control#this will be#delete later#I'm just so TIRED so FUCKIN TIRED. and I had to rant.#if there's any kind of malcontent clownery it's an insta block#***denying a trans woman rights does nothing to PROTECT mine I may have made a typo in the earlier tags I was in rant mode and mad
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it has been so long since a game has done this level of irreparable damage to my emotional wellbeing
#yes this is about persona 3 i am no longer the same person i was before this game#it has permanently altered my brain chemistry. reorganized every single molecule in my body#it has fundamentally changed me as a person#ive been doong horribly in school bc i literally canmot focus in class#all i can tjink about is p3 and how quickly i can rush tjroigh assignments so i can go back to my room and play persona all night it#is not healthy i need summer break for a reason and thay is to be able to let out all this energy so i can#function properly in daily life#ivr half a mind to make little digital p3 emote sticker thing doodles so that i can plaster them on my notes#i think if i have a drawing of aigis next to my linear algebra notes i will have more motivation to read them#going to make so many aki ones...#all of this is if i have the time and energy tho. i hate school so much#rambling about stuff#literally been listening to tje p3 soundtrack everyday when i study#its that bad. it really is that bad. i need to start taking school seriously i cannot fail my classes i do not jave tje money to afford rep#ating any classes#also coping w how hesvy the p3 story is compared to the other games ithink... idk man im thriving off of tjr everybody lives no one dies au#and imean i get thay that kinda goes against the whole tjeme of tje game but like. let them be happy ;O;#maxing all my social links bc i love them all so much tjey are bffs forever. sees bffs sees bffs i love sees#im not even that far into my playthrougj yet ive yet to meet aigis but that is coming soon!!!#going to hug her so hard when she finally shows up#ryoji too ;w;#celebrating every mochizuki monday so i actually get out of bed and go to class#fuck linear algebra i might actuslly fail linear algebra i have no clue whats going in linear algebra ryoji mochizuki would never
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Rey really said goodbye to the education system and went on to homeschool herself in the ways of the Jedi
#she's lightsabering guys.... she's lightsabering#girl you go right ahead#right now luke is the equivalent of that one teacher who wants to retire but the school won't let him and he's making it Real Difficult#on the kids he's supposed to teach because he's sick of life and problems and stress and just wants to go away and live in peace#or like. the chem profs that my science major friends really dislike#who teach nothing and expect you to know stuff so they practically taught the material to themselves because their profs didn't teach#it's been 1 lesson luke. you gave her 1 lesson. WHERE DID YOU GOOOOO#tlj liveblog
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