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crawlingalloverme · 2 years
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Kind of triggering seeing that too cause I was raised in an environment like that. "Let me ask my husband" or "I don't know if my husband will let me" is so stupid to me, I'm my own person and I can do whatever the hell I want.
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pinkmoondoll9shihtzu · 2 months
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hello 💗 wishing you a lovely valentines :)
heres my confession. ..... i wanna put myself out there more.. ive been honestly feeling like a baby, doing badly at college, jobless, aimless, inexperienced compared to friends my age, so..i just want to have more experiences this year, a job,going to places events bars local art stuff etc...., and hopefully those new environments can bring me closer to also new people ....:)
i feel profoundly for my friends..sometimes its sad to have to 'define ' "platonic" vs"romantic".... Do you know what i mean..? Its a beautiful feeling that i do not want to dismiss inside me even if i know expressing that is a whole diff thing
wishing U the best . Ur blog reminds me to stay hopeful. Its so easy to turn cynical.haha. sorry for the word vomit .... i wanna listen to people better too so it feels selfis of me to share so much but i am grateful for your openness to anon confessions i assume you feel similarly about sharing ?
^ yet you always give off a very, genuine interest in others , and thats so valuable
speaking is very hard , saying anything to another person, so i realized when someone shared something, that must be really delicate & Treasurable. Something to take with care
Its always worth it 2 reach out 2 others i think we need community more than ever. Much love 2U and anyone reading this . SPREAD THE LOVE.💗🌍🌎🌏💗💘🩷❤️
- 🌊💫🌙☀️🩷🌈
thankyou for this <3 no need to apologize for "word vomit" , it's all valuable to me, this is the reason i asked for confessions in the first place ^^ every day i am endlessly grateful for the tumlblr anonymous message feature & the way it empowers people to speak in a way that transcends their personal identity. to be able to facilitate a place where ppl trust me with their secrets & i trust u all enough to be able to leave anon turned on without fear of receiving hate. its not st i take for granted <333 i am overwhelmingly interested in everyone on earth lol. i want to help preserve traces of humanity for future gens.
please don't feel it's se;lfish to express yourself! especially when someone is asking you to :] people want to know more about you, im sure. its great to hear ur motivated to put urself out there. "inexperience" is a subjective thing, it's all relative.. for example i never went to college & im a 30 yr old neet w no money, compared to people my age im waaaay "behind", however i feel deeply experienced in emotional matters, death, love, spirituality, etc ! Everyone has something unique to bring to the table.
and dont be afraid to love your friends as fiercely as you would love a romantic partner. treasure them!! friendships can be so freeing when you love each other vastly but there's less expectations & pressure than a romantic partnership. Community is the answer to so many of the world's pronblems rn, we can start small in our own lives to help encourage it. even just by blogging together ^-^
thankyou for this awresome and thoughtful confession anon.. have a wonderful valentines<333333333
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vicariousanti · 3 months
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i don't know how to explain this well and like i don't think there has to be necessarily a deep meaning? but i find it so interesting how like... a lot of my romantic interests didn't work out, right? and even if i don't realize it exactly in that moment, in due time im always like, wow. wait. i actually dodged a bullet!
and i don't mean it in the way of malicious intent or degrading or demeaning the person, no. like i'm not saying that it turns out the people were like horrible people or that in order for me to not be romantically compatible with someone, something has to be wrong with them
but i mean i dodged a bullet in the sense that we are simply not compatible, like. at all. and that i'm actually really glad that those connections were temporary when it came to romance. because despite how much in theory we may have wanted it to work out, it simply wasn't meant to. and i'm glad that it didn't
the reason why i think about it in this way is because of the amount of romantic relationships that i hear about where people end up dating people for YEARS. years of their life, that they won't get back. where it was clear that the relationship simply wasn't working out or, i don't know.
(i also am aware that sometimes things can go amazingly and then later on down the line shit happens and it just simply doesn't work out. but i feel like those stories are more rare vs. stories where people just simply tried so hard to make something work when it clearly wasn't)
i've only dated two people in my life. both relationships weren't the best, and i feel like i learned a lot from them and it didn't take like, 5 years for me to accept and realize and move on. and i'm very grateful for that
i'm also grateful that i'm more of a logic based person because i think that gets me out of a lot of situations where my emotions aren't completely blinding me all the time to the point where i'm willing to suffer and endure extreme hardships for love. i've definitely done that in the past though but as i got older, i started to question more and more why was i even doing that in the first place? (trauma)
and then i desired romantic love less and less and it just made even less sense for me to put myself through suffering for something that i don't even really need, or heavily desire. i'm content with being single and attaining romance in other ways that don't have to equate to a partnership.
anyways. i'm just very grateful that somehow a lot of my romantic connections ended up crumbling before it could get to a point where we both just wasted each others times or went through hell and back before we decided to break it off. i honestly don't think that is a super common experience. and i think that there should be more of an acceptance to acknowledge that sometimes you simply are not compatible with someone and that it is okay for the romance to be temporary instead of strung along for so long, and no it doesn't mean that either party is a failure or unlovable or that you didn't try hard enough. love is beautiful, it is action-based, yes, but there's so many other beautiful ways you can love people outside of romance and accepting that not every connection that has romance is meant to last can be a beautiful thing
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glitchdollmemoria · 1 year
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relationship pda ramble thing
im coming up on the five month anniversary of dating my partner (not to mention the couple months we knew each other before dating), and im getting all excited about them possibly hopefully being able to visit this summer after they finish up with finals, and as im thinking about this im also realizing that i have so much more trust in them than ive had in anyone else. for about half our relationship, they havent been able to talk often because theyve been putting a lot of energy into studying. at first this made me anxious, but over time ive seen them repeatedly come check in with me when they can. especially when i think back to their behavior before they got caught up in studying for finals, the way they were able to show their trustworthiness esp compared to past partners, the affection theyve shown me, the fact that our life/relationship goals line up so well, and the fact that they keep messaging me when theyre able... theres a part of me that gets anxious and paranoid, but that part of me keeps shrinking.
the more i think about these things, the more i realize that im worrying less and less about the possibility of him being dishonest. which - its not that i have reason to think hes untrustworthy, i just have mega bpd. but things make sense in my brain for once. hes told me before that he struggles with school environments, so of course he needs to spend months focusing on studying. hes proud of the career hes pursuing, so of course hes going to work hard for it. he was the one to bring up the idea of me being a house spouse instead of working, so now that he knows i agree with that plan, i wonder if - and even kind of hope - pursuing that future together is part of his motivation.
plus, as far as ive gotten to know her, shes a very confident person who doesnt seem to keep people around out of pity. once, she made a joke about breaking up and i thought for a second she was serious, and she told me she loves me too much to break up with me, and that if she were to break things off it would be over a call. so, it makes more sense that she really is just busy rather than ignoring me, especially when like i said she does still reach out when she can and she wouldnt need to do that if she was trying to ghost me or something.
this is all just word soup. i have a lot of thoughts right now and not much brainpower to articulate them cleanly. mostly, im just excited that i have such a sense of security in this relationship, because i really do want to believe this will be a lifelong partnership and i dont have any real reason to suspect it wont be, as long as we both keep putting in the work. every time my girlfriend apologizes for being away so much, i want to just gently grab it by the shoulders and tell it how much i really truly adore its work ethic and that im willing to wait as long as it takes if it means we can someday reach the life weve talked about wanting to build together.
sometimes i think about the dream i had a while back, being escorted by angels to a beautiful towering library, and how thats sort of incorporated itself into my religious views even if im not sure what it all means. and the fact that once, during a call, she told me that even though she doesnt believe in any particular religion, her ideal afterlife would be a library full of truth. i think, if anything, its all at least a sign that this is whats right for us both right now. she doesnt know about that dream i had. its all coincidence. but it seems too coincidental to not mean anything. maybe we just have similar ideals. maybe its a sign that were meant to be together, at least for the time being. i dont know for sure. but everything feels right. and im so happy that i can look back on the way past partners have treated me, and i can look at the way my current partner treats me, and i can see such a difference in that treatment, and i can feel so much more secure than i have in the past. it makes me grateful in a way for the suffering ive experienced. if nothing else, it serves to make the difference in treatment obvious. im just glad about all of this, grateful to feel secure finally.
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kara-does-fandom · 1 year
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Rough timeline and notes so far: Digi Au
Warning! LONG READ! This is my 4am Thoughts Dump
This is a digital world where Lucemon had been into terraforming and helping with problems before he fell, and he continued doing so after, only this time gathering supporters and making hi own kingdom far from the Holy Angel areas. He venetually became known as a somewhat Just and Fair dark type ruler, but his kingdom and court are still virus, and dark leaning. At the very least, less vaccine and holy types. Further cementing this is his two trusted generals, Myotismon and Piedmon. All three sometimes go roaming in areas he doesnt rule, to see how feelings are and see who might be coaxed into joining Lucemons lands and who is causing problems that Lucemon can swoop in and solve, and maybe also add to his lands.
His tyrannical tendencies were somewhat kept in check by a DIFFERENT dark virus type, who is all the worst that Lucemon can be, and who's draconic and cruel behavior drives many digimon to seek refuge in Lucemons lands or with the holy angels. Lucemon has no need to be as cruel as other Lucemons can be, because simply being calmer than the other guy means he gets people seeking him, worshiping him and praising his mercy, and he can bask in the adoration and gratefulness of those refugees. Plus like... The other guy was enough of a thorn in Lucemon AND King Drasil'*s side that after several wars, King Drasil summoned chosen human children. *Im still not sure if I want King Drasil to be the Ultimate Power That Be, but they are a good placeholder for now. So Lucemon pulls back and watches what these little non digimon with no real powers are capable of, and he eventually lends his armies and support since its clear the humans are going to win King Drasil's war against the evil one. (Especially after some frankly eyebrow raising Dues Ex Machina bullshit, its very VERY clear the little humans are going to be given every chance they can to win this. So.. big evil defeated, one less opposition Lucemon needs to deal with and he is less surprised to see that while the humans leave, they do come back, as do more. New humans who werent the original set, who gain partners of thier own, and travel the digital world.
Now, digimon tend to stereotype and are prone to "all X are good, all Y are sneaky bad, all Z are grumpy" due to how species traits tend to happen. And humans quickly become "All humans tend to be good, and all digimon partnered to them are therefore better and more impressive than others who arent partnered"
Lucemon has been playing the long game with PR, and after some consideration sends his generals and other minions out to see what types of humans there are, with an eye for how bidable they are, can they make a decent figurehead / puppet, are they any use to him besides being a little token figure for PR and if not, are they woth it anyway? He toys with the idea of having a human of his own, who will nod along and praise him and ensure that digimon see the partner bond and think better of him while he continues his schemes unbothered by further scrutiny.
One by one, his informants give him promising news, or indifferent news, Most humans are kids, some are adults, not all have partners but tbh they get snapped up quick, not all are bidable most a headstrong, etc. But none came back with so intriguing news as Piedmon who gleefully gushes about some adult human girl he liked so much he gifted her a sword that she could summon to her defense. He doesnt think she will be partnered anytime soon, and his sword should help that along, and Lucemon is now a bit more concrned that perhaps this is true and Piedmon is trying to match make a partnership with this mystery human... or Piedmon is being Piedmon with a much longer prank game than normal.
But, he is bored, so he may as well go beyong his lands in the child form the world hasnt seen in a long long time, and goes out to see the humans for himself, settling in digimon village and town, reading through thier libraries and helping out as he goes under the guise of a goody goody traveling angel. He dons some alternate clothing, calls himself (adjective to be decided)* Lucimon, with an i instead of an e, to take advantage of something similar to how Renamon and Ranamon's names are near identicale if you have an accent, except one is a yellow fox and the other is a blue water imp. *clothing like the PunkAguman disguise optional to verse, he might settle for the vowel change only
And so he watches the unaccompanied humans who come in, and is intrigued, yes. Humans are fascinating departures from digimon, but also dissatisfied with the options he sees.
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flying-mochis · 3 years
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I have some thoughts about Mori and Chuuya's relationship- nothing very concise, but I don't see them discussed very often so I figured it's more than nothing.
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Chuuya is undoubtedly loyal to Mori. He also admires Mori a lot, asking him for leadership advice after he "fails" The Sheep (it wasn't his fault but that's what he believes) And Mori tells him it's to both lead and serve his organization. To be willing to throw yourself in the dirt to protect it.
Something that comes naturally to Chuuya because jfc this boy has no sense of self worth-
After a year Chuuya finds belonging in the PM and even goes so far as to call it his family, declining the opportunity to meet his biological parents. Similar to how Elise refers to the Mafia as her family.
This is an opportunity given to him by Mori. It also came along with Mori telling Chuuya a story about his pencil scar, from before he was experimented on. These gifts are in a way similar to the gifts the Flags gave Chuuya- signs that Chuuya was human. He already knew it but it never hurts to have reassurance that those around you believe you and are willing to defend your identity along side you.
Chuuya says he's grateful to his boss, and Mori smiles.
From my interpretation, I think Mori is supposed to be written as genuinely caring about Chuuya. At least more than he cares about most other people, so not a lot. I see this twice in 15, when Mori's said to look at chuuya with "genuine eyes he had perhaps never shown to anyone before" and then when he looks at Chuuya with "a smile different from any until then- not the mysterious or unreadable smiles, but the completely ordinary smile of when people were happy".
I think these are interesting details to add in- I wonder if this seemingly special place Mori has for Chuuya could play into the story somehow. I wonder how far Mori is willing to push his disposability of his members when it comes to Chuuya.
I wonder how he views Chuuya as a leader. Chuuya is canonically the one who's put in charge as boss when Mori can't be, which I think means he's next in line to be boss if Mori retires or dies. I wonder of Mori came to that conclusion before or after Dazai left, because both scenarios raise questions.
Mori chosing Chuuya to be next in line while Dazai was in the mafia is unlikely. Since it's been said that Dazai would've taken Mori's place by force is he had stayed in the Mafia, and I don't think Chuuya was an executive that long before Dazai left. But it makes me think about how Mori values Dazai and Chuuya more or less or differently.
He probably chose Chuuya after Dazai left. He knows Chuuya doesn't desire leadership, and while Chuuya is a very caring leader, I'm not sure how much of a strategic one he is, so it's an odd choice. And he would've known it was an odd choice. He must know that Chuuya will not and could not ever be the boss Mori was, because he is nothing like Mori. But maybe he does really want Chuuya to be himself as a boss.
And if I were Chuuya, being shown such value after Dazai left would've meant a lot. I'm sure he questioned how much he was worth to the Mafia if he wasn't in Double Black. I'm sure he wondered if he was now a wasted half of a whole to them. But being offered so much trust probably would've been comforting in a way, despite his distaste for being a leader. At least then he'd know he was still important to the Mafia and Mori.
Mori and Kouyou also seem to be Chuuya's only friends. So like- I hope he's happy with them.
but also Mori is a dick.
He withhold important information about Chuuya for a year because he didn't want Chuuya to betray him. Actually he's mostly responsible in the first place for Chuuya losing the Sheep and being forced to join the Mafia, because I'm sure that was his idea. And he forced Chuuya into a partnership when he was way too young without the tools to keep himself safe in that partnership.
So yeah, Mori's a dick.
And I wonder if Chuuya already knows that. Or if he cares. I don't find it hard to believe Chuuya would really mind being mistreated because he let's it happen all the time. Because like I said. Boy has no fucking self worth. But I wonder how he would feel about Mori being a dick to others?
What Mori did to Dazai. What Mori did to Yosano. What Mori did to Tachihara's brother. At least one of those people is his friend. Maybe. We'll see how the thing with Tachihara pans out but I bet he'll care in the end. I wonder how much Chuuya knows, how much he's willing to forgive, how much he's even allowed to forgive, cuz it's not like he can just defy his boss.
Even if Mori seems to be written to especially care for Chuuya,would he be willing to hear him out about these problems?
ALSO WHY DOES HE HAVE HIS HAT HERE IM SO CONFUSED THERE WAS SO EXPLANATION I-
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this was just a dump of ideas, some of them not even related really- I don't really have an opinion aside from Mori sucks but he's and interesting character and I want Chuuya to have friends. I just never see this talked about so dkdjdnfnf I wanna know other peoples opnionss
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amxranthiine · 3 years
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Hello! I'm the Redhead/Slytherin Harry ask, what I meant is is it possible to do headcanons for Harry with Lily's hair instead of James, and put into Slytherin house, for some reason I am just absolutely obsessed with this concept
omg yes okay lets do it
if harry looked more like lily than james, and was put into slytherin....
he would, in my opinion, definitely be friends with draco and all them.
also snape would have weird obsession with him like sir he is your student not your long lost love
i think he would still do everything in his power to stop voldemort though
and maybe recruit draco to help him with that.
in their younger years draco wouldn't really know what he was doing???? he just thought that he was bonding with his best bud??? because draco grew up with blood prejudice tattooed into his brain and death eater parents so in first - third year he would still be holding on to those views very strongly
speaking of best buds, harry and draco are the iconic duo!!! they go everywhere together!!! (they are 100% more than just friends you cannot change my mind)
snape still hates harry? but because he looks so much like his mother and snape feels so guilty
i really love the idea of harry growing his hair out, like fred and george in gof. like super crazy fiery hair that he just cannot control
if he wasn't the chosen one, he could be mistaken for a weasley
SPEAKING of weasleys
ron and harry are acquaintances,,, like they still met on the train and do get along well but the different house thing really just put a strain on their friendship
especially when harry befriended draco
hermione is also an acquaintance. they don't hate eachother but they also don't go out of their way to seek the other person out.
draco practically has to beg harry to cut his hair. enough said.
harry is on the slytherin quidditch team, but instead of seeker he's a chaser like james. he and draco make the team practically unbeatable.
dumbledore is veryyy disappointed that harry is a slytherin. that put a stopper on his future plans for sure.
speaking of dumbledore's plans, harry is ruthless to the dursley's. he is not afraid to stand up for himself and even fight with dudley if need be.
petunia is also a bit harsher on him because of this, and also because of his striking resemblance to lily - whom she did not have a good relationship with.
when fifth year rolls around, and umbitch is introduced, harry is a part of the inquisitorial squad, however he is also running the da on the side.
he does want to defeat voldy, especially after what happened to cedric.
before cedric died, him and harry were very good friends!! they were put into the triwizard tournament together, they went to eachother for advice and comfort.
because of the da, he becomes noticeably closer to ron and hermione, and there's a slight rift between harry and draco
draco knows whats going on, but because he values his friendship / partnership with harry, he doesn't say anything. not even when umbitch questions him about it.
oh i forgot about sirius and remus
honestly their relationships stay relatively the same as canon. only after they get over their suspicions of harry - with him being a slytherin and close with the malfoys.
honestly theyre just glad he's alive
he looks so much like lily they think it's scary. but theyre 100% grateful the only child of james and lily is alive and well - and actively fighting the threat of you know who.
anyways back to normal programming
because he's the second slytherin prince, basically the slytherin king, a lot more slytherins are in da.
eventually draco joins, much to every other houses dislike.
draco, harry, ron, and hermione are the main keys to fighting voldemort. they all become a friend group eventually, and each have their own roles to play in defeating voldy
everyone supports draco and comforts him when he reveals that he was forced to become a death eater, and the order uses that to their advantage
when the battle comes around, most of the slytherin house is defending hogwarts, even if it means going against their families.
just because they all believe a fellow slytherin- the chosen one at that- is dead, and he was the only one who helped them out of their forced beliefs and they want to repay him for that
after the battle, there is no more house rivalry thanks to slytherin harry, and the blood prejudice is almost completely dropped as purebloods find comfort and even love within muggleborns, vice versa
im gonna end it there just because i feel like there isnt much more to add. but this just makes me wonder what would have happened if slytherin had someone like harry within them to change basically everything? i love slytherins dont get me wrong, but what if a slytherin was in the tournament instead of ced, and they died instead? i think it would have rallied a lot of slytherins against voldemort and against their families beliefs.
sorry if this wasn't what you wanted anon!! this is just how i see it happening! i havent watched the movies in a while so im sorry if its lacking details you wanted :)
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Hiii i saw your matchups/cakes and I LOVE THEM. English is not my first language so i am sorry for any wrong spelings and grammar use lol. Can a Get a boy from Hq?????? I am a capricorn, with a lot of fire sign in my chart. ISTP. Tall girl, 175cm. Dark blond hair to under my shoulders, blue eyes. Lean bulid, but mby a little broad shoulders and waist. Enything else is normal ig. I indeed have cheek bones and jawline, a caps face traits a think. Stretch marked on my ass and things. Im just gonna keep my personality short cuz i dont know how to talk about myself. Im Shy and intro and first, then i will open up and become a messy and late-coming person. Im never on time to anything. Once you know me and logical thinking, feisty, dark humor type of funny, sly, stubborn, determind, strong minded, oberetiv and a daredevil. I will do enything for somthing in return. Nobody can hold me back. I am also a Clumsy person, a will let a word og two slip and offend somone, will break or forget somthing. Im always there my friends, help them out with everthing and my door is always open for them. Street smart all the way, i Can talk about enything and give tips and trix on enything. Im not the Life of the party, in a party im either outside or taking care of Ppl or i am sipping for other ppls drinks. I listen to pop/rock but i Can vibe to anything. I also love pasta. And cats, but im allergic): I overthink a lot, tend to bottle up on my emotions and then just let it burst when im alone. I got bullied as a kid, thats why i keep to myself and have Some close friends and then friends i dont trust that much. I like long lasting realtionships and friendships. I wont settle for somthing that i dont belive will work. I just want to feel safe and loved and held, lol. Am i rly ugly cryer btw so i wont look into another persons eyes. I train a lot, do sport shooting, wresle a lot with my friends and dad in a safe way ofc. I love to have a friendly and funny wtesle. I lough a lot. I said i do sport shooting, and i hate it when ppl take it the wrong way and starts to compare it to illegal activity. That my biggest pet peeve, and loud chewers. I LOVE CHEES AND CARD GAMES. Also late night means and snacks. My favorite time is like late at night, after sundown. Late night walks. Laser tag or paint ball is a must, Water and pillow fights AGH my dreams. Also, just to chill in a bathtub👌🏻✨Pfffff Idk what more. I would like a boy form Haikyuu, whos taller than me. Would be up to my randome and mby dangerous ideas, but also calm and relaxing when it fits the mood. Dosent need to know how to comfort a crying person, just like do the basics and ill be fine. THANK YOU SO MUCH😘
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Romantic Matchup
Tendou Satori
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How Y’all Met
Ahhhh
Y’all had a class together
And EVERY SINGLE DAY you would show up late
Every. Single. Day
It doesn’t matter if you we’re 5 minutes late, or 15 minutes late
You never showed up on time
This peeked Tendous interest...
So, he asked you about it
You then explained how you never try to be late, it just always happened
Then one day
Satori was walking to class
The bell was going to ring soon so he was trying to hurry
Then he saw you
You were also just trying to get to class ON TIME for once
But you tripped...
And you fell...
And ALL of your papers went everywhere 🥲
You silently cursed to yourself before rushing to pick up your things
And you we’re startled when a certain redhead began to help you
You guys had gathered all of your things before RUNNING to get to class
And you guys were still able to make it on time 😃
The teacher made a remark that maybe you should hang around Tendou more often if it gets you to class on time
Little did he know that you would do just that
Apparently you both had similar interests
So you guys became really good friends
And feeling began to bloom over time
Poor bb was to scared to confess to you tho :(
He didn’t want to scare off one of the only friends he had
Of course he told all of this to Ushijima
And of course Ushijimas LOUD MOUTH
spilled the beans
Unintentionally of course
But still
He just didn’t get the gist that all of this was supposed to be a secret
So one day when he and Tendou were walking together
They saw you
And Ushijima was just like “ah your that person that Tendou likes correct?”
You:😳
Him:🙂
Tendou: 🥲
Tendou then took you aside and properly confessed his feelings
He was 100% sure you were gonna reject him
“I like you too Tendou”
I’m sorry what????
He was SHOCKED
Baffled
Beguiled
But SUPER DUPER HAPPY
he pulled you in for a bone crushing hug
And promised to be the best bf ever
Awww my boy luvs ya
What They Love About You
Ight I’m just gonna say it...
Mans ADORES your stretch marks
He thinks they’re so cool!!!
He often compares you to a tiger because of them
Oof
He LOVES your sense of humor
He also has a darker sense of humor
So you guys mesh very well when it comes to that
Loves that you have the combo of being sly and a daredevil
If there’s one thing satori loves...
It’s pranks
So those traits of yours make pranks so much easier to pull off 😩
He loves how he can talk to you about ANYTHING
He knows that if he’s ever distressed about something he can go to you
So he’s vv grateful for that 🙏
Favorite Things To Do Together
Oh he LOVES to play card games
His favorites is slap Jack
WARNING: he gets REALLY into that game
So he hits HARD
So be prepared...
He 100% swoops you away to stores in the middle of the night
Have you guys been caught sneaking out?
Yes
Was that the last time you did it?
Absolutely not
LASER TAGGGGGG
YOU WILL GET DESTROYED
MANS IS THE KING OF LASER TAG
So just take that L
Also paintball
He’s not that good at paintball
Mans aim is booty
But he still likes to play!
Random Hc
You’d actually be quite shocked on how chill he could be
Like sometimes he just reads his manga sin silence
If you want to talk then sure
But those are the moments he prefers to be quiet
The reason he’s so good at laser tag...
Is because kids used to target him 🥲
So he had to adapt...
And now he’s a pro!
If you ever want to talk to him about your bullyed past
ON GOD mans is always there for you
He knows what it feels like
So his goal is to comfort you when it comes to that
Honestly
Mf chews loud...
So that’s something you’d have to work on 😃
But he’ll try his best to stop if it bothers you THAT much
Astrology
Capricorn + Taurus
When Taurus and Capricorn come together in a love match, it’s a practical, sensible partnership.
These two Signs share a certain down-to-earth logic and interest in efficiency.
Taurus is not interested in risking more than is necessary in terms of emotional connection and involvement, and Capricorn is similarly disinterested in risk, but more in terms of money and career.
Capricorn’s career is one of the great focuses of their lives; they’re interested in scaling the heights and tend to set very high standards for themselves to adhere to.
Taurus has high standards as well, but regarding love, relationships and possessions.
These two signs admire ones dedication and strength, but, while they have this in common as well as a dependable, realistic, somewhat conservative approach to life (Capricorn more than Taurus), a love relationship between them can go stale fast.
The problem? They’re actually rather different at their cores.
Taurus may begin to find Capricorn too conservative and restrictive
Capricorn may start to think Taurus is too lazy and doesn’t care enough about career and status.
If Taurus can encourage Capricorn to relax a little and appreciate the fruits of labor, and if Capricorn can help motivate Taurus to achieve goals and make dreams a reality, their union can be smooth, happy and long-lasting.
Overall Aesthetic
Chaotic Teenage Romance
Songs
Electric Love- BØRNS
Line Without a Hook- Ricky Montgomery
Scrawny- Wallows
Hey Lover- Wabie
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butchwere · 2 years
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Ok for the ask me anything….how is your new house, what do you love the most about it, and HOW did you do that?? Like it gives me so much hope to feel like someone like me (i.e. not from a huge amount of money) could achieve that huge dream and I’m so impressed with you and would love some insight about how you got it done
Ok so IM personally on my own not in any position to qualify for a loan to buy a home. And I dont have a savings or wealthy parents. But I have a traditional job with health and other financial benefits that set my partnership up with Corissa to “fit the bill” so to speak. She, who is a bit older, has better credit and an established career and income, worked her ass off to get us an FHA loan. We worked with a realtor and a financial planner. It was hell for her and watching her suffer with her gallbladder and shit at the same time was super rough. I think it really comes down to finding a way to make the system work for you which is a privilege in and of itself - but even then you’re best bet is to plan a LOT and save a LOT and dont accrue much debt anywhere else beforehand!
Also - I fucking love our home. Neighbors arent too close. My dogs have space to roam and play outside. There are multiple comfy hangout spots. I wake up pretty much every day and can’t believe I co-own this magical little spot. Theres lots of work that needs to be done but Im excited about it. I have a garage? Tools? How use? IM the man of the house? Wild shit! Im very grateful.
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awenvs3000w21 · 3 years
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We Humans our own worst Enemy
Nature underpins our economy, society and our very existence. Our forests, rivers oceans and soils provide us with the food we eat, the air we breathe and the water we drink and irrigate our crops with. Nature is free and for that reason, we often undervalue the impact it has on our very lives. Without nature and life around us, we would cease to exist.
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I want you to think back to a time you can remember that made you feel happy. Most likely you will think of something where you were outdoors enjoying nature. For me, it would be on a family vacation to Mexico where my brothers and I were riding the waves into shore while sand coats our light blonde hair. We giggled and looked at one another as the waves scooped us up and crashed us back to shore. I always have been amazed at nature and especially bodies of water. Even now I love to ride the waves while surfing and always have to stick my hand in the water when I see it to feel its cool embrace. Even when I was a baby I was nicknamed “fish” because I never wanted to get out of the water once I got in. Doesn’t help that I am a Pisces!
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Retrieved from: https://www.nps.gov/im/medn/sandy-beaches-lagoons.htm
As research has proven time and time again nature makes humans happy, less irritable and more creative (Mayer et al, 2009). I think my love for nature started when I was a child. I loved discovering the world in my very own backyard and am very grateful that my parents gave me the freedom to do so. I grew tadpoles, identified trees and played in the river and there was never a time where I was happier. Even now I love to go for nature walks, am an avid gardener who took on growing cannabis plants this summer and plan on doing it again this year. I also grow vegetables and have developed an obsession with houseplants. I think quarantine has given me more time to develop hobbies, I want to know if you have found any pastimes to do over the lockdown?
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Photo from: my indica GDP plant I grew this summer. Photo taken 10/10/20 right before harvest.
As a future early childhood educator, I believe I have a personal ethical duty to provide my students with a rich understanding of our world. Children love to explore the outside world and offering them time and resources to expand their knowledge about the ecosphere is one of the most beneficial things we can do for their development (Kruger et al, 2010). Nature can provide countless opportunities for discovery, creativity and problem-solving. Exploring the natural world allows children to learn through play and experimentation because it allows children to think the question and make hypotheses developing inquisitive minds. Spending time in nature is also essential for cognitive development and executive function (Kruger et al, 2010). Children will also develop a sense of love for their world and want to continue to be stewards of the earth by protecting it when they grow up. We know climate change is the biggest issue humanity currently faces and we need to make a change NOW to avoid irreversible damage for not only the future inhabitants but are. It is probable that in our lifetimes we will see even more devastating effects of climate change so it is up to us and future generations to make a change right now.
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Teaching future leaders and citizens about the planet I have a responsibility to allow scholars to explore nature in their own way to build their sense of place. By exposing children to nature early it will help imprint a love for the natural world, which is increasingly more important as the earth is dying. Humanity is barrelling towards a ghastly future of mass extinctions, climate crisis, health issues and more. Events that can only be prevented if world leaders take environmental threats more seriously. From forest fires, oil spills, overfishing, deforestation, overhunting, gas emissions to massive garbage piles, increased use of fossil fuels etc. these are all human-made creations that are killing a planet that has thrived for over 4 billion years. It is only in the past century that we have begun experiencing this crisis fuelled by the industrial revolution breeding greedy capitalistic ideologies.
Amazing video by 16yo Greta Thunberg that explains the importance of acting NOW for climate change.
Retrieved from: https://www.ted.com/talks/greta_thunberg_the_disarming_case_to_act_right_now_on_climate_change/up-next?language=en
Although it may not be appropriate to talk to children about how humanity is going towards the path of extinction it is important to teach them about climate change and what we can do to help. If we want to make a change it has to start now, scientists predict that by the year 2050 the global population will reach 9.7 billion, which is 2 billion more than today (Kossin et al, 2020). New historical climate data project the earth's temperature will cross a threshold for dangerous warming (+1.5C) between 2027 and 2042 if climate change efforts are not in place to reverse the damage humans have caused (Kossin et al, 2020).
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Retrieved from: https://www.nrdc.org/stories/your-guide-talking-kids-all-ages-about-climate-change
Researchers predict the best path to limiting warming involved cutting net human carbon dioxide emissions to net zero by 2050 if we want to stop the damage we have caused. In order to do this, we all need to work together, when possible walk or ride your bike to avoid carbon emissions, carpool and use public transit, drive low carbon vehicles if possible. Other ways to reduce CO2 emissions include taking fewer and longer aviation vacations, fly economy, don’t fly on private jets, insulate and seal your home, make energy-efficient a primary consideration when choosing a new furnace, AC unit, dishwasher, or fridge (ensure an energy star label), turn off lights when not using, add solar panels to the roof of your home, don’t set the thermostat too high or low, eat local food decrease beef and dairy consumption, be conservative of water usage and reduce reuse and recycle. High-temperature extremeness, heavy precipitation, glacier and snow and shrinking and sea ice are retreating. Seas are warming, rising and becoming more acidic. All this leads to an imbalance between earth and the live that inhabitants it
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Overall, the world is an amazing place full of wonder but in recent years we have let the planet down. A once thriving full of live biospehere is now dying because of habitat destruction, distribution of invasive species, hunting climate change and overall humans. I want to educate the future by instilling a sense of wonder and lust for nature and a need to protect its beauty. I hope humanity finally learns we are our own greatest enemy and are able to come together to make changes before our untimely demise.
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Work cited
Kossin, J. P., Knapp, K. R., Olander, T. L., & Velden, C. S. (2020). Global increase in major tropical cyclone exceedance probability over the past four decades. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 117(22), 11975-11980.
Kruger, J., Nelson, K., Klein, P., McCurdy, L. E., Pride, P., & Carrier Ady, J. (2010). Building on partnerships: Reconnecting kids with nature for health benefits. Health promotion practice, 11(3), 340-346.
Mayer, F. S., Frantz, C. M., Bruehlman-Senecal, E., & Dolliver, K. (2009). Why is nature beneficial? The role of connectedness to nature. Environment and behavior, 41(5), 607-643.bye
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llycaons · 3 years
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finale!!!! quick thoughts. Heavy spoilers.
flint was near tears speaking about thomas this episode. it’s been what, 11 or 12 years? and there’s still that longing and grief (lwj parallels....gay people....)
freedom in the dark speech AND reunion scene made me tear up. toby stephens’s performance my GOD have we ever seen flint that happy or relived or grateful. the way they were just holding onto each other....flint’s hand cradling the back of thomas’s head, his face buried into his shoulder...true love, true love. husbands separated for such a long time...
i do wonder - did flint romanticize thomas a little in those intervening years? did thomas romanticize james? in a series with such complicated and fraught interpersonal relationships, thomas and james have barely any development and very little screentime. they’re. well they’re objectively boring. BUT I love them together, I think they were each other’s true loves, their depths of feelings were obvious, and they are like, a very profound and comfortable and tender couple in my mind.
and I can’t see james happy with anyone else (silverflint shippers, I see it but i don’t really get it, also im sorry)
silver repeating his a day/a month/a year speech to madi is one of the many parallels he draws between his explicitly romantic relationship with her and his intense and undefined partnership with flint
but the POINT of the finale to me is. it’s love. silver was supposed to kill flint. that’s the way the story was supposed to play out. EVERYONE told him to, he could have, he had ample reason and opportunity and aid and every time he could have, he put it off, and vice versa
because he genuinely cared about flint and loved him even! and finale interpretations that do not take that into account and say oh no silver killed/enslaved flint seem to me a wildly inaccurate reading of his character, someone who put so much effort into saving flint and making it so flint would choose to walk away? which he did in fact choose to do?
i know people hate silver (and I dont like him either) but flint ALSO ended up making the choice to live with his love instead of fighting a desperate and unwinnable war
i guess silver could have lied about thomas and still sent flint to that plantation but the idea that he wouldn’t fight to the death after having his war taken away from him AND having no thomas is too improbable to me
did they really stay in that fucking plantation? there’s not much support to the contrary, but god. that’s bleak, for thomas if not for flint. such an active mind, I’d hope this ‘humane’ plantation has like, books and shit. I like to think the place collapsed on itself or they stage an escape with everyone or something. but that defeats the purpose, doesn’t it? flint is not flint anymore, he’s not driven by that rage and grief and steely violence. he’s just old, and tired, and wants to live out his years with the man he loves
flint is odysseus, on a long journey to his spouse at home. and we are meant to know that he lives his later years with his loved ones, in peace, and passes naturally in the fullness of time (based on the book, that’s about 10 years postcanon)
so for me that means leaving that planation and establishing an inn under false names in savannah. but whatever people think happened, we are meant to know how james ended and it was not in violence and it was not on skeleton island and it was not in desperation or misery or despair
and this is JUST flinthamilton whew I want to talk about madi and anne tomorrow but I have to go to bed
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hugsfromdad · 4 years
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USELESS GAY BOY RANT INCOMINGGGGG
aight. So I am gay. But also prefer women. But also asexual. I swear it makes sense when explained.
ANYWAYS
There is this EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE cashier at my local supermarket whom I noticed like a month or so ago because she was STARING at me.
I was dressed verrryyyy gayly (I have pics if desired) and was hanging with a very straight female friend and she even noticed her staring at me from 3 aisles over.
She is like Cali beach girl gorgeous. I have NO IDEA how she got stuck in my town, but I'm grateful for whatever bad luck she has.
ANYWAYS
So I noticed her that first time and was like WTF SHES SO PRETTY AND STARING AT ME AND IM STARING AT HER AND SHE PROBABLY THINKS IM GAY OR WITH My FRIEND UH IM JUST GONNA STARe BACK AT HER AND MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS I NOTICED.
and then i went in another time and specifically went to the aisle behind her so that she noticed me but then we didnt have to sTare at each other for so long while i panicked in line.
And then today I was shopping with my parents and she was there and i chose the aisle right in front her hers cause I'm a LiL BITCH and dont know how to talk to women, and she and i made eye contact throughout that experience and i looked hot and kinda straight today and was like feeling myself and then totally outed myself to the gay cashier at the pet store when he asked where i got my "practice safe sex" hat by telling him that I found it on TUMBLR and thought it was cute so I Google searched and found it
SO NOW IM A MESS AND CONSIDERING GETTING DATING APPS AGAIN TO MAYBE FIND THIS CUTE CASHIER BECAUSE SHES SO CUTE. BUT THEN I REMEMBER THAT IM ✨GAY✨ AND SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO 👿MEN👿 BUT PREFER 💖WOMEN💖 BUT HAVE ZERO DESIRE TO BE 😳SEXUAL😳 WITH ONE AND THEREFORE HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO PRESENT MYSELF TO a 😭WoMAN😭 and ask for her hand in partnership
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME
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readymades2002 · 3 years
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What happened with cr?
oh its just bad
okay there are specific things i could point at about the campaign itself (whatever the retcon with beaujes was but specifically how it was decided that a masculine brown lesbian was just Lusting After her str8 bestie, everything with their official campaign 2 artist being kind of a shithead, veth being an alcoholic thief and then becoming human and turning out to weirdly enough be native coded in the official art, ALL of the goblin shit, smaller things like the post-hiatus weirdness or whatever is going on with yasha’s relationship with zuala or whatever the FUCK the age stuff with jester was or liam......liam) 
or the cast (matt’s dumbass “if only cops were like the cobalt soul :(” tweet, nearly everything liam and sam have ever done, the entire cast being just kind of ineffective liberal types and like whatever that’s a lot of media but it does grate on me!! especially with the story theyre telling ostensibly being about the empire being Evil and how its probably going to come down to A Few Bad Actors and i cant stomach that) 
or how they’ve run it (the weird boundaries with the fandom, the fandom being INTEGRAL to the show’s identity while also crying about how It’s THEIR Game We Are Just Being Allowed To Look if you say anything mildly critical abt it, the complacency+participation in whitewashing beau or just making her orange or whatever to the point of iirc including a fan illustration in an artbook that had originally been whitewashed only to be revised into the most atrocious racist caricature ive ever seen and THAT being the version that made it into the book,  raising 11 million dollars for a show and then going into an amazon partnership for it) 
but like genuinely 1) there is a lot and 2) mostly it was just a lot of petty grievances that accumulated over time for me fhdskj. like i hit a point listening to it where if i had to hear another sam ad i was going to become frenzied and i just wasn’t enjoying myself knowing what was to come so i stopped listening
i know a lot of people dropped off after the latest art update specifically if you want a specific incident but i don’t really have one. it’s a bunch of storytelling issues+annoyances+overwhelming just kind of. airheaded careless racism accumulating over time into something that is no longer just eyeroll worthy but something that gets steamrolled whenever its discussed, brushed off with an “at least theyre trying!” or a “wow it sounds like you’re forgetting to love each other :///” which doesn’t speak well to the community cr has created i dont think. i dont know! theres. theres a lot i could say Happened with critrole but ultimately i do think it comes down to. i just don’t think it’s very good, and i don’t enjoy it. there are elements i have liked but i have to divorce them from context to still do that and frankly i do not think there is enough i enjoy to make it worth it! maybe other people feel differently i dont know but personally im just bitter haha
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wonderlyshyah1995 · 4 years
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