#if u wanna be lesbian call urself a lesbian
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i hate to be chronically online but please dni if you are a space for bi lesbians or whatever they call themselves
#'erm but bi lesbian' No youre like 14 and you need to wash the dishes and do your summer homework.#its grossly invalidating to ME to have to listen to a bunch of people (mostly non lesbians) tell ME (a nonbinary person) what labels to use#and where i do and dont belong#you know what we're gonna do?#not bring back old discourse is what we're gonna do#especially with the new wave of twitter users#that's what we're not gonna do.#if you even remotely gaf about nonbinary people and NOT POLICING OUR SPACES then you will fuck off with that shit#i am a LESBIAN and i am NONBINARY and both of these things can be inherently true and not conflict!!!!!!#and not demand!!!! a thousand new microlabels!!!!!! THANK YOU#if u wanna be lesbian call urself a lesbian#if u wanna be bi call urself bi#if you wanna be nonbinary u can be bi u can be a lesbian u can be gay etc u can be ANYTHING U WANT#and you dont have to constantly reinvent new labels for yourself#you can just. Exist!!#without ANYONE telling you that you dont actually belong in a community#bc you DO. and it is NOBODYS CHOICE whether you get to or not.#especially not some online idiot#also notice how this shit only happens to lesbians#its never 'bi gays'#'pan gays'#i saw a post thats like 'bi lesbians and ace lesbians exist!'#so okay now youre just hellbent on policing people and telling them where they can and cant go.#idk if you find lesbian (as a label) restrictive based on your personal experiences#then thats your problem and your journey#and if you dont find the lesbian label restrictive despite feeling like youre not 'technically a lesbian' or 'you dont belong'#then guess what. youre still lesbian! congrats!#and it is nobodys right to tell you where you do and dont belong!#rant over. ty#personal
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not to discourse bc i rlly dont care about this stuff but it's funny to me that the term ‘mspec’ is the part that annoys me most about the term ‘mspec lesbian’
#like i mean it's just that my general thoughts on things like this is that labels don't really matter but you should examine what causes#you to be more comfortable with one label than another one that would technically fit you and is more common#and i really have trouble understanding any good reason to identify as pan or omni or whatever like. why don't you like the word bi#but like... if you wanna call urself a lesbian when u like guys also then like cool lesbian is also a very swagful word#as long as ur not doing it bc you find the word ‘bisexual’ gross or bc you think other lesbians should be open to liking guys. shrug#but again. this is legitimately not something i spend much time thinking about or something i think matters much#txt
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like i NEED online lgbt ppl to understand that there is a huge difference between “Labels arent completely strict” and “Outright stripping lesbians of our label and leaving us without a label that explicitly Excludes men, by creating oxymoron labels such as ‘mspec lesbian’ or ‘bi/pan lesbian’”
#moon.txt#like.... all arguments in favor of 'mspec/bi lesbians' are easily debunked#if u dont wanna call urself bi then......... Sapphic is right there
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U do not have to use labels if you don’t want to btw ❤️ but if you are going to use a label please use it correctly or I will cry for 1000 years
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Guys here goes a thought. Labels. Mean. NOTHING. Lmao
"Lesbian means nmlnm" bla bla bla SHUT THE FUCK UP LESBIAN IS A WORD A FUCKING WORD AN ABSTRACT ONE EVEN. Lesbian can mean whatever I want and you can fucking suck it.
Same goes for nonbinary, trans, gay, aro, ace, etc etc etc !!!!!!!
If u love fucking man and feel good being a lesbian then guess what......? CALL URSELF A LESBO IDGAF !!!!!!!!!
Words mean fucking nothing, they can mean whatever I want them to mean. Those words have fluid meanings anyways.
I couldn't care less about lesboys or bi lesbians or bi gays or a cis man afab or cis women amab or transfemmascs or whatever the fuck you wanna call yourself...
WHERE MY QUEER FREAKY FREAKS AT?????
#queer can be anything#queer discourse#queer liberation#queer community#queer#lgbt#lgbtq community#lgbtq#if u disagree ur wrong loooool
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a note to the most wnnoying person i ever seen (i hope you get fwrted on)
jater thinks she's so cool for hating on jo and calling her random ass pronouns.. nro you are NOT cool that is plain obsession buddy.. " she's a pick me she's a that " bro she's a teenage girl struggling with acting feminine are you serious right now mate.. plus nobody cares about your bull shit ass explanation on why jo sucks cuz ur just saying the same thing and ur a massive ass hater!! ur in the total drama fandom but you act like you hate total drama in general like wtf just leave at this point box head
zoke is a good ship and jock is too u just mad u ain't got no love because nobody wants to love ur sorry ass LOL!!!!! and buddy ur not quirky by saying jo is an it and he.. plus i'm pretty sure ur fat phobic so yeah ur canceled!! i ain't never seen someone so upset over a FICFIONAL CHADACYER like go get a fucking life dude jo is a minor it's not that serious? + you wanna be talking abt annoying but literally you probably rewatched ROTI just for jo so you can "point out her flaws." be honest ik you are head over heels lesbian over her dawg. you must hate every other masculine women because you hate jo so much, might as well admit you hate eva too. (which they could both solo you bro) and also, you're not funny either nobody likes ur moldy ass dawg!! if you had a favorite it'd probably be some rare ass characters just so you can make urseld seem special.. cos ur on the "sexy tumblr man" app looking for attention like gtfo that's actually wild we going to war on GANG!!!!!!!
jo and brick, jo and anns maria.. their interactions are awesome did we not see the same season or are you just wonked up in the head? you're stupidity is so annoying it ruins the tdi experience for everyone around you man loke go get a hobby instead of venting on how much you hate jo.. then ur gonna come back at me with just insults and saying jo sucks like find something original for once.. anyways jock4life brick and jo literally competing to see how much affection they can give eachofher you clearly are a partypooper and have no life + you must not have been whooped as a chold go outside you LOSER
and let me explain why all ur points are wrong: despite jo being jn 2 seasons i sk far seen so many people relate to her and she has tons of favorites so i dont know bout you but you acting like she ran over your grandma.. plus jo is a honest and good player bro look at her and cameron's interactions she's so fun to watch and her all stars elimination was so unfair.. plus tomboys are cool and awesome UNLIKE JR PSTHETIC STINKY BUM ASS!!! like miss you aren't special and nobody is homophobic you're literally like misogynistic or something u a massive hater.. also making several long ass post about jo shows how much you actually love her bdo you named urself after her. JO WOULDALSO FLAME YOJ IN AM INSTSNT
jo and brick is a good ship because there are many ways you can headcanon them.. literally brick not caring about if jo is masculine or not and supporting her in any way shape or form.. also you don't know what a pick me is btw :3 jo being hesitant at first but eventually warms up you JUST 👏 ARENT 👏 SEEING 👏 THE 👏 VISION! BECAUSE UR A BLIND ASS BITCH BAIII ;-;
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to ur previous ask abt where u belong in this spectrum: honestly maybe part of the confusion is you trying to put a label on it. i say just go through the motions without putting a label on it first. cos discovering that u may not like men and never wanna be with them ever is new territory. and that brings in new doubts & all the other policing queers in ur chat.
just live your life, also: i understand wanting to put a label on things bc u feel more secure with the identity u have placed on urself.
so call urself a lesbian, and if 10 years from now it no longer applies… so what? go back to being bi. we’re on a floating rock, dont let other people get to u.
what’s important is what u are comfortable with. no one else is living ur life except u. anyone else whos acting like a fuckin snob abt a person’s sexuality on the internet, is a weirdo anyway. dont stress, jus focus on what feels right for you. in this moment.
sorry if i got off track, hope this helps 🧍🏻♀️
sorry i never responded i had gotten a bunch of asks about this specific topic and got overwhelmed, but i know this probably took a bit to type out since it’s a long message and i appreciate you sending it, so i didn’t want to go without responding. a lot of you said the same thing which really did help me come to a conclusion. i think the pressure of labeling something can definitely make things confusing and overwhelming. for now thanks to this message, i’ve made peace with what i am sure about: i love women 😊 so thank you! it did help a lot.
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guys if you’re wlw, sapphic, lesbian, bi, pan, whatever u wanna call urself, GO LISTEN TO “CHOSEN FAMILY”
it’s a great podcast about three lesbians doing a family bit. Alayna Joy, a youtuber with a very sweet and caring vibe is “mommy”; Ashley Gavin, a great comedian that keeps the pod energetic is “daddy”; and Mak Ingemi, the 23yo gay tiktoker is “hot edgy teenage brother“ sike, she’s “baby”
seriously tho this pod is amazing and can go from being funny as shit to very vulnerable and sweet. It starts with the three of em talking about random life stuff, then at the end they sit around the dinner table and answer the listeners’ questions.
RLY RLY RECOMMEND IT GO LISTEN‼️‼️
#podcast#podcast recommendation#wlw#lesbian#bisexual#sapphic#gay#queer#non-binary#lgbt representation#lgbtq
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I ACCIDENTALLY UNFOLLOWED TRYING TO SEND THIS ASK anyway i know im super late and if u dont wanna talk abt this feel free not to but the fact u got fucking DOXXED over the q word shows that these people dont actually care about community or lifting each other up its just some weird virtue signalling moral superiority bullshit. always has been
like i have always felt excluded as a lesbian tbh but its like. damn im not Exactly Like You so i dont deserve the right to privacy. sorry ur better than me bc u can call urself a slur without feeling uncomfortable. feel like the “i think we should improve society somewhat” guy
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Okay new intro post!
Idk what I'm doing here but I don't think I like the about format anymore and I got too used to twitter so ig this is like a pinned post??
!! Basic stuff: My name is Lauryn, I'm 19, a femme lesbian, white, and my pronouns are she/her!! Pretty reblog-heavy but I might post original content once in a blue moon. Not rlly focused on any one thing but probably a lot of Life is Strange posting bc I love it a normal and healthy amount (lying) with some other stuff mixed in!
!! I’m happily taken (hi @kingofflowers <3) so no like /srs flirting please :) jokes are fine!
!! I’ve had this account since I was like 13 and honestly can’t be bothered to go through thousands of reblogs so there r def opinions on here that I no longer hold, if smth concerns u I have anons on so pls just ask <3
!! (Irt Life is Strange I'm big on pricefield and I pretty openly dislike Rachel (But I don't hate her or think she deserved what happened to her bc I'm not a fucking weirdo))
!! DNI/If u really wanted to u COULD interact but I will clown on u and probably block, I use the internet for fun not to debate random losers lmao. Anyways this applies to racists, homophobes, transphobes, nazis, ableists, you get the idea, as well as pedophiles and anyone who supports them (yes even if u call urself a "map" or "nomap" ur nasty seek help.) Also bi/pan lesbians or ppl who support them I NEED u to fuck off and like read a book or touch some grass idk.
!! (The above has nothing to do with nonbinary lesbians or any lesbian who uses pronouns other than she/her I love y’all!!)
!! If u softblock me and I follow again I swear I'm not trying to be weird I just forget who I follow feel free to sb again or just full on block lmao
!! I tag common triggers as well as bigotry n shit with "cw (content)" I've had this account for a LONG time and my old tagging system was "tw (content)" but I realized when I came back on here that I was literally misspelling a LOT of triggers so I decided to just overhaul it, I will gladly tag content if needed, feel free to message me or just put it in asks :)
!! I write mediocre fanfiction sometimes if u wanna see that it's here! Might post links if/when I write stuff but idk we'll see!
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#/ friendly reminder the word q*eer is still traumatic for some people and online it's regularly used to erase lesians#*lesbians / use it for urself all you want but like. remember everyone has different experiences to you?#theres plenty of discourse around it but uh there are valid reasons why someone doesnt wanna hear it#a good tell is if they hate it being used at all or just doesnt want to be referred to as it#and if u actively ignore someone who asks not to be called it then uh. youre an asshole#im v tired of this discourse ive had enough !!#tbd.#tw negativity
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Lol anyway, butch and femme are in NO WAY lesbian-exclusive and bisexual women should ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOT be expected to refer to themselves as ANIMALS bc someone on tumblr decided we should
#and thats that on that#fight me#like if u Wanna call urself doe/stag whatever go for it but butch/femme are our words too#bisexuals deserve better#butch#femme#this obvi isnt to say butch/femme are free property anyone come use em! but the orig lesbian community was lit all wlw bisexuals included so#discourse#oops
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anyway futch was a joke between lesbians and if you think a person can actually be futch or that its a real identity you just fuckin stupid
#harold.txt#if ur a lesbian i guess u can call urself futch if u really wanna but ANYBODY else callin themselves futch is included here
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Idk if you’re still doing the writing ask thing but if so, 4, 9 and 22
Yet Another Writing Ask
4. Do you have any OCs? Do you have a story for them?
idk whether to call them OCs when they're just characters I'm mulling over for a screenwriting projects outside of tumblr but i can share a few.
so the gist of my current project is a webseries about superheroes with powers that are strange/useless/dangerously uncontrollable and the leader of the gang of misfits is a tough-as-nails lesbian named Beth who is basically Cyclops with Superman's eye beams. She wears a visor 24/7 bc even if she's not shooting laser beams outta her head her eyes are constantly glowing and she doesn't want to blind anyone.
When I first conceived the series I was more dead set on poking fun at various superhero comics tropes so unfortunately Beth's parents did not stand a chance at staying alive. Even with where my brainstorming sheet is now Beth's backstory is: "Bio parents died, found a loving foster family, then accidentally killed her foster mom when her powers emerged and got disowned by her remaining family."
I don't really play it for laughs in the actual script but that's basically the gist of it.
Don't worry, there's lighthearted characters in this thing as well. The role I scripted for myself is AJ the sassy nerd of the group who can emit electricity from her hands. It sounds cool but she has to wear rubber gloves 24/7 to not taser people or short out electrical appliances. She's cool about it though, she jokes that she's like Sailor Jupiter from the discount bin.
9. Thoughts on cliffhangers.
@ anyone in charge of showrunning TV shows plz make sure you're green lit for another season BEFORE you end the current season on a cliffhanger thank u
and @ anyone who just writes fanfics in their spare time for funsies don't worry updating after cliffhangers. take yo time. live yo life.
22. What is it about watching the same two idiots falling in love over and over again?
I think it's just about comfort and familiarity. Considering the state of the world I totally get how ppl just wanna roll up on ao3 (or ff.net if ur desperate or wattpad if u hate urself) and read a few words about people falling in love knowing that it will (maybe) have a happy ending.
I actually write fanfic to help me calm the hell down and feel productive, aside from it being creatively fulfilling and good practice for my craft. I'll fully admit that the sudden spike of DC content in December was me trying to fight off a mid-holiday depressive episode bc Christmas stresses the shit outta me and I needed something familiar to comfort me.
Also random tangent but I love the phrasing of "two idiots falling in love over and over again" when in actuality I'm pretty sure most of the dynamics I write between characters tend to be more "two idiots becoming even bigger idiots by virtue of knowing one another"
#ask box memes#miadearden#you know what's cool? i'm friends with some people who've created DC fan films#and i'm like...#plz let me join ur writers room i'll work for free#altho i'd roll up and pitch short ideas about characters who aren't batman lol
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asexuality and aromanticism is a thing sure but that doesnt inherently make u lgbt and it doesnt give u permission to be homophobic or even comment on inner community issues
#if youre lesbian and ace sure talk about this shit call urself homosexual#but if ur a straight ace i dont wanna hear a peep from u#and if ur any ace dont call me homosexual jesus christ
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no i totally get it gjjfjf i just saw you edited your answer but i dont think you were confrontational at all in the original either, and i understand your point regarding gs discourse. i dont rlly understand most of it anyways, it just confuses me, so i dont wanna take a side on it. i know it sounded like i was defending them, but i just said it like that because gs discourse appears to be like more logical (?) than this new weird blog lol, even if it could be wrong itself
(not sure if this is anon im sorry ive been using this app for too long and still not sure how it works)
im glad u don’t think so, tone can be lost over text & i feel like i can come off aggressive sometimes even tho in actuality im just scatter-brained and ramble passionately about things sometimes 😫 when i reread it i realised maybe you’d think i was attacking u or smth when i was moreso tryna just say “im not taking it to heart (thank u for reminding me regardless) but i do think it’s stupid and disgusting regardless of how genuine it is”. im glad u didn’t see it as confrontational tho 💕
and tbh i think from what ive seen, lots of ppl just stay out of it. i don’t blame them. i try to do the same myself. when i first saw it, i got involved bc i was baffled by the mindset & i saw it coming from a mutual & i was surprised seeing it from her. but i soon realised, partaking in that discourse does nothing good for me and these people clearly are just going to repeat their same talking points and say “well IIIII didn’t do anything with a man so how can any lesbian?” “oh sure many women that called themselves goldstar lesbians for decades ended up coming out as bi & being w men but ummm goldstar status shows who’s a Real Lesbian or not anyways!” or “well i just can’t imagine being able to put urself thru that so clearly it wasn’t so bad and there’s SOME attraction there!” etc. it’s pointless. and for many lesbians like myself, such convos are triggering. i don’t like to sit there reminiscing over what i put myself thru & how i traumatised myself as a teenager, having random flashbacks is bad enough.
ANYWAYS sorry for rambling again, but you don’t need to defend urself. i wasnt trying to assume where u stand & i do agree that blog is on another level of ridiculous in terms of that discourse. at the same time, troll or not, i find whatever they’re trying to do completely repulsive so regardless of intentions…. 🤢
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