"Obviously Americans don't have a real culture, so in order to heal yourself spiritually you have to find another more exotic culture to become a part of. But ONLY!!! if you have a genetic connection to that culture!!!! Whether you are being respectful or appropriative depends not on your actions but only on whether you have the mystical Blood Connection or not. Again, you HAVE to heal yourself spiritually, because I know for a fact that you are spiritually damaged by not caring about your heritage as much as I do, and specifically you have to return to your ancestor's traditions and reject any culture other than your own. This is progressive."
Bestie this is starting to sound a lot like blood and soil nationalism with extra steps
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Nico saying that Lewis gives his daughters boxes of presents every Christmas just got caught in my mind.
Imagine you were a mixed race boy born in Hertfordshire, different from everyone else around you. Bullied in school, being raised by your father to compete in a sport where money is very much of essence and you and your family do not have a lot of it. And then you meet this other boy who comes from the kind of life you dream to live one day. You're friends and fierce competitors. You find solace in each other. You visit Monaco for the first time with your friend, dreaming up the life you will have when you make it, when you beat out of the mould that the world thought it could capture you in.
And then you two grow through the ranks and you're at the pinnacle of your sport and you have what it takes to win and the world recognises that you can win. And you win. You win with your friend and fiercest competitor by your side fighting with you for those wins, and this fighting ruins something something that was valuable to both of you when you were still innocent and unsullied by life.
But despite everything that went into the doing and undoing of this relationship, you still realise that this person you once called a friend has a life and family beyond your bitter dynamic. He has children, and children need love and affection and good memories. And you're a better man now so you understand that. So you make sure the kids get gifts on Christmas. And you make sure of it every year. Afterall, if you met someone you loved deeply when you were both kids, wouldn't you feel a pang of nostalgia when they had kids. Wouldn't you try to extend the warmth that you couldn't find for your friend to his children. Afterall, whatever happens during childhood basically remains with you forever.
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Machete and Vasco are so pomegranate-and-the-hand-that-slices coded. To me.
Pomegranates are seen as messy, bloody, inconvenient fruits. You slice or tear or bite and in return for your effort you come away underwhelmed, disgusted, and stained too deep to wash. The consumption of a pomegranate is a violent act of defilement, for both the fruit and the eater.
But that is because most do not understand how to open a pomegranate. They have little patience for the precise carving. They see no point in coreing the fruit gently, no reason to be reverent as they pull the quarters apart. When done correctly, opening a pomegranate leaves little mess. Your fingers will still stain, your knife will still slick, but there will be no pool of crimson drowning both you and the fruit.
The seeds are only sweet to those who understand the merit of a light hand and intricate slicing. Why put in so much effort for a food so bitter and clearly armored against consumption? Surely it must not yearn to be eaten.
(^insane about silly catholic dogs)
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I am so happy with the conclusion of BBC Ghosts.
There were so many things I loved about the final series that I can't even keep it all straight in my brain, I'll have to rewatch it all (and the Christmas special, of course! Must remember it's the not the true end yet!)
But something I can immediately say I loved was what they didn't do. See, that line in the trailer that turned out to be from episode 5 - about there being a pattern to when they move on - worried me. One of the best things about the show, to me, is how there truly is not any reason at all to why the ghosts are there, or when they go. It's something the creators have said over and over, and that the show has always backed up; we saw so many times that, unlike in most ghost media, addressing unfinished business or achieving emotional resolution changes absolutely nothing. Pat hit some sort of emotional resolution three times. And Julian realised the importance of family, and Robin saved someone’s life, and Thomas discovered the truth of his death, and so on and so on. Finding closure isn't the end, and equally, the end isn't predicated by a climatic conclusion. It just happens. And the same is true for why people become ghosts. It just happens. And you exist, and fill your days, and then you’re gone. And no one knows why.
It's kind of the most agnostic television show I've ever seen.
I love that. Every other afterlife show I've ever seen has some kind of reward and punishment system. Or at least says that there's a reason for things, some kind of higher power at play, not necessarily a god but something like it. Even the American adaptation felt the need to bring Hell into it, which is why I need to specify that I'm only talking about the British version here. And I feel like a lot of fans wanted there to be reasons too, or felt like there simply had to be, that it wasn't even a question. I get why - it's not just because it's the standard for ghost narratives. It's really uncomfortable to think about the randomness of life and death. But Mary didn't go because of anything that happened before that day, and Cap was never going to go because he came out, and one day, when they've all gone, there won't have been a reason for it.
Because the real point of BBC Ghosts is that there is no point. You’ve just got to make it through the days, surrounded by people that irritate you, trapped in a confusing world where you’re mostly powerless. And it sucks, and you're angry, and sad, and bored as hell. And you also find happiness in the mundane chaos, and you get really good at chess, and watch the ants in the garden, and write bad poetry, and read terrible romance novels, and gamble money you don't have, and go camping, and play games, and learn French, and watch reality TV, and have sex with a decapitated Tudor nobleman’s body, and dance to old music, and look at the stars, and find that you actually really love all those annoying people after all, and that’s the point.
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winter / christmas / holiday themed prompts
♛ — [sender] brings a gift to [receiver]
☁ — [sender] throws a snowball at [receiver]
✧ — [sender] bumps into [receiver] under mistletoe
✰ — [sender] and [receiver] stroll around the city/town looking at holiday lights
❐ — [sender] gives [receiver] a festive sweater
♬ — [sender] sings a christmas carol at [receiver]'s door
⇧ — [sender] and [receiver] drink hot cocoa at a diner
☃ — [sender] and [receiver] attempt to make a snowman together
● — [sender] and [receiver] decorate a christmas tree
❆ — [sender] and [receiver] get trapped indoors during a snow storm
╳ — [sender] encourages [receiver] to make a snow angel
⍋ — [sender] and [receiver] pick out a christmas tree at a farm
△ — [sender] and [receiver] try to chop down a christmas tree in a forest
☜ — [sender] and [receiver] attend a white elephant/secret santa party
✔ — [sender] and [receiver] make small talk at an office holiday party
☺ — [sender] and [receiver] get tipsy at an office/school/community holiday party
♞ — [sender] and [receiver] watch silly hallmark holiday movies
☎ — [sender] and [receiver] put together a gingerbread house
◎ — [sender] and [receiver] decorate and bake christmas cookies
— [sender] and [receiver] cook a festive meal
☮ — [sender] brings [receiver] some fruitcake
✂ — [sender] and [receiver] craft handmade ornaments/decor
♤ — [sender] and [receiver] try to string popcorn garland
☀ — [sender] and [receiver] go ice skating
☂ — [receiver] sees [sender] fall from a roof/high place while putting up christmas lights
☾ — [sender] and [receiver] go shopping for gifts together
‼️ — [sender] and [receiver] take holiday themed photos together
♡ — [sender] and [receiver] cozy up by a fireplace
⌘ — [sender] and [receiver] visit an outdoor christmas/holiday market
♣ — [sender] and [receiver] make mulled cider
◑ — [sender] gifts [receiver] a pair of matching pajamas
✚ — [sender] and [receiver] volunteer at a soup kitchen
➊ — [sender] and [receiver] attend a local theater production of a christmas carol
✿ — [sender] and [receiver] attend a ballet presentation of the nutcracker
★ — [sender] and [receiver] attend a holiday orchestra
♜ — [sender] and [receiver] play board games by candlelight
♨ — [sender] and [receiver] roast chestnuts on an open fire
♯ — [sender] and [receiver] wrap presents together
☠ — [sender] and [receiver] play a holiday themed drinking game
⁑ — [sender] offers [receiver] coquito or eggnog
✗ — [sender] and [receiver] attend a nye black tie gala
𓋼 — [sender] and [receiver] discuss resolutions for the new year
✈ — [sender] and [receiver] count down to midnight
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