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gaiussleechtank · 1 year

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More Arthur returns brain rot.

When Arthur discovers modern (or semi modern) music he finds a few songs that makes him feel stuff. Oh no.

Dead mom - Beetlejuice the musical

Beautiful boy - The beetles

He then sobs about his parents.

#merlin #bbc merlin #bbc merthur #arthur pendragon #merthur #angst #arthur returns #in this essay i will #Arthur has parent issues #Not just dad and mum issues #This man is a therapists field day

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soulreader05 · 3 months

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Pedro Pascal Characters: *Just Existing.*

Me and my kid ocs : That’s our dad.

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talentforlying · 9 months

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time to get pissed about the fact that constantine's father's hatred for and dismissal of him extends all the way down to his fucking name.

like yeah, john is a fine & normal name. he doesn't have any strong feelings about it and neither does anyone else. but john's mother wanted him, loved him, and iirc might have already had a name picked out for him before she died. (his older sister was named cheryl, which wasn't even in the TOP 100 most common UK girl names at the time, so there was a precedent for putting a lot of thought into naming her kids!!) and then she dies, and thomas just. doesn't. care. john, number one most common UK baby name for the four preceding decades. like john smith. like john fucking doe.

how it must feel to him when people say that name with actual affection instead of rage. how rare that is in his line of work. how different it must sound when he's wanted.

#( ooc. ) OUT OF CIGS.#PERSONALS DO NOT REBLOG #wrapping up my rage of caliban obsession with this fuckin thing because AUGH. I'M MAD ABOUT IT #'john doe' is particularly what i think of when i consider name choice bc his dad Confirmed that he wanted john dead as soon as he was born #said to him multiple times in the comics that he wished john had died instead of his mum #almost completely ignored him as a baby until he was old enough to understand being blamed for things outside of his control #GOD. thomas constantine makes me so fucking ANGRY #don't mind me i'm rereading issue 100 and SEETHING #( headcanons. ) I'M JUST LIKE THE BASTARDS I'VE HATED ALL ME LIFE.

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dribs-and-drabbles · 8 months

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Well that was underwhelming.

#hidden agenda #hidden agenda the series #not to belittle anyone who struggles with a lack of encouragement from their parents #but that was it?!#that was the main issue between both joke and zo and their dad and mum respectively?!#i mean. fine. if it had been written in a better way #but 80% of joke's storyline with his family was told through exposition in the final ep #I just...tee! my man. my dude. my babygirl...however you want to be defined...where was the DEPTH?!#(ok. sorry to anyone who feels offended by any of this)

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alavender · 8 months

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I need Hugh Grant to play more snarky, very obviously queer villains. Not only because it’s fucking amazing, but also because I need more fictional characters to get attached to like they are my father

#my daddy issues want a dad #please I just want a dad dude #it’s funny cause I called Forge my dad around my mum #and she even agreed he was better then my dad #hugh grant #forge fitzwilliam #phoenix buchanan #dndhat #paddington #paddington 2

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echoes-lighthouse · 2 months

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Christ alive, just woke up to someone picking a fight with me over the concept of adopting fictional kids, in a very aggressive way: someone who didn't even follow me and thought my fictional f/os were OCs despite their clear sources in my bio.

If anyone actually wants to have a productive and private discussion about how that's handled in my familial selfships and my personal feelings on adoption as a kid who spent years getting bounced around other families (and as a person who's considering being a foster parent in a financially stable future), then that's cool and fine.

For the moment, if I accidentally blocked that person's sideblog and they're still interacting with my blog with a different username but I can't see them anymore, please let me know. I've had that happen before and I'm not 100% sure if tumblr has fixed that ridiculous feature but I would appreciate the help from anyone who sees this post <3

#all of this was over octavia #who literally stays with her dad half the time and me half the time #if you wanna start with trauma let's address her mum trying to kill her dad and go from there #maybe eventually we'll get to my self-insert but i'm not fucking sure #ugh i hate people coming out of left field #there are things i expect to be critiqued for but this is not goddamn one of them #again i am open to reasonable questions and issue-raising #i'm just a bit worked up right now #grump grump grump #vent #adoption discourse #i guess

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dont-offend-the-bees · 2 months

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Fucks sake.

#dad's in a&e #not for anything that's his fault and it might be nothing #but now i have to go get mum and look after her #and I've been having panic attacks all day bc if dad does fucking keel over it's just me and mum and tbh I'd rather die!!#this is why i want us to talk about what the fucking plan is if you shuffle off father!!!!!!!#but nooooo you've always gotta be like oooh I'll be fine got a good few years in me yet!!#even though you've always had health issues anyway and we really shouldn't be surprise if thwy go on the increase #but nope lets just toddle along assuming that you'll be around for as long as mum clings on and that I'll never have to take over sure #very helpful for all involved #mr. bees speaks

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ofcowardiceandkings · 9 months

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this is 100% unhinged pre-work thoughts so bare with me ... i know a lot of people are like "weh why is this such a big deal in fandom" like okay, but idk it smacks of weird gender attitudes & expectations to me yknow ?? short Link gang arent the ones making like a 18+ year old have a not insignificant growth spurt so he can be taller than his girlfriend lmfao ,, just let him be a short king

#IDK BRO LIKE AS A SHORT GUY ....#WHOS DAD IS ALSO 3 INCHES SHORTER THAN MY MUM .......#IS DATING AN EVEN SHORTER GUY ...#AND ALSO WORKS WITH SOME PRETTY EXCELLENT SHORT GUYS ...#like IN MY HUMBLE ONION the ones doing the growth spurt rather than using canon heights are the people being weird about it lmfao #IT IS a non issue !! i know because of weird gender issues its harder to find art refs of shorter guys !!!#but listen !!! you dont have to make the guy the taller one actually !!!#i just stan a fellow manlet and so does Zelda lmfao #rory's ramblings

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opens-up-4-nobody · 10 months

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#hello to anyone who happens to b interested in the saga of my life... also maybe the irl person i gave my url to... hopefully my blog #didnt freak her out too much lol. anyway so its been a busy week? 2 weeks? month? year? life? its been a lot. my parents helped me move #across the country from the desert to somewhere that's beautiful and green. my dad is so jealous of me lol its so so so pretty and theres s #so much to do. will i do any of it? that remains to be seen but im gonna try to be better about that sort of thing. try to get some help #with the thoughts in my head that keep me from doing and enjoying most things. its weird like im decorating my new room which i love. the #location and living situation seem ideal and i really hope i can stay here all 5 years of my program but i was picking a lot of bright #colors and now it feel uncomfortable. like if i wear things that r too bright or my room is too bright without dark contrast it feel weird #like if im wearing it it kinda makes me feel sick. idk what thats abt. anyway. ill try to heal my brain and im just so happy to b out of the #southwest. i was so so so excited when we were leaving thr city and even more so when we left the state. i cant believe im here. in December #it felt like a million years away and i really truely could not fathom how i was gonna survive that long. my thoughts were so distorted. but #i did and here i am. and in like a month i should b starting my phd program and my parents were telling me how excited ppl r for me and #jealous of where im living and im glad. im glad they're excited. i think i am too but its under a layer of: if i get excited it wont happen #im not allowed to b excited or it wont happen. which is irrational but ya kno. anyway so that's yeah. im so happy to have a fresh start and #the town seems super cool. a liberal blip in a sea of... not that so theyre very visibly pride forward haha and i think itll b way easier #for me to get around without driving. and im gonna try to make friends. i need someone to tell me where to get tattoos haha. so yea im happy #but exhausted and i dont wanna go back to work and so so greatful to my parents for being wonderful ppl idk how bc both of them had fucked #up childhoods. like my mum will say the saddest shit and im like bro this is y i don't wanna talk to my grandma fuck her and my dads parents #r so fucked. like my nana is the reason im so fucking control freaked out but i kno i have issues and she has no insight and thinks shes #better than everyone. anyway hopefully i can get back to drawing a posting more now. ive been drawing it its been in a sketch book #like an actual sketch book for sketching big ideas thst r gonna take fucking forever to draw 😭#so that's all. just uprooted my whole life. thats all. but in a good way :-]#unrelated

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stcries · 23 days

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think i'm just gonna lurk for the majority of the evening. something came up in my immediate family, so i'm not gonna be doing much until i get a concrete answer.

#・ ˖ ✦ ⋄ . AUTHOR OF THE STARS ❝ ooc. ❞#in short: my dad called my mum and said he wasn't feeling well #so she's rushed out to go and see what's happening but didn't spare me any details so idk what's happening #i'm concerned. my dad doesn't have any health issues but he doesn't take care of himself very well #so i'm kind of just sitting and waiting to hear back on the situation

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falled-over · 10 months

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i am actually un diagnosing as autistic due to my proficiency at eye contact. i in fact have to remind myself to look away thats how good i am at it. i would get an A+ in eye contact

#for anyone outside of the know i will explain the joke because my sarcasm doesnt always read as such;#autistic people often struggle with disliking eye-contact and many have practiced rituals for the normal amount of eye contact which are so #distracting to perform correctly that they can lose focus on what the conversation is about #i personally was reprimanded for gazing off into space quite young so i have zero issue looking people in the eye when they talk #but i dont know what the appropriate amount is. so i do too much.#i seriously just stare at them intently for the entire time the both of us are speaking and have to manually look away when i speak (normal #way to act based on observation) and occasionally glance off around me #so the joke is i still struggle with eye contact. but most people wouldnt realise that because they think autism is the same for erryone #my overcompensation due to my natural awkwardness makes me struggle in the opposite way #its also a joke about how because people think all autism is the same many people dont get diagnosed. never been an issue for me personally #because i realised at an age at which support is no longer really offered so all it would get me is banned from entry into some countries #(autistic people are barred from becoming citizens in some countries due to perceived higher support needs)#also i once said to my dad i thought i had adhd and he said 'you dont have adhd. you know that'. and my mum regularly talks about autistic #people as a third party to me. and about how she works with them #to be fair to both of them my dad is 100% autistic and knows it (accepted this fact at51) and my mum is probably autistic but i dont want to #talk to her about it so shes just going to be weird forever #oversharing online is important because what if someone wanted to know that

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areyouwho-ithinkyouare · 4 months

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haha people who have normal relationships with their fathers where they didn’t grow up being constantly made to feel dumb/unimportant/annoying…. what’s that like babes hahaha

#autism doesn’t make you a bad parent. unmanaged/unaddressed autism combined with a general lack of consideration for everyone around you…#now THAT will fuck your kid up.#autistic people often struggle with eye contact. that’s cool no problem i can still engage in conversation like that.#buuut when you’re four and super exited to tell your dad what you did that day and he literally doesn’t acknowledge your presence??#and it’s that across your entire LIFETIME? your entire childhood and teen years and fuck it even your adult life????? THAT SHIT SUCKS #and THEN the only times you CAN get a conversation out of him it’s an argument where he WILL not stop talking over you #and scoffing at every single word you say #and raising his voice as he tells you how stupid you’re being #ummmmmmmmmm yeeaaahhhh okie dokie. a lifetime of that might ummm… lead to a few issues.#oh wait i forgot the third category of interaction: listening to him complain about something absolutely meaningless. for 20mins.#just killing the mood of any conversation.#you’re watching tv it’s fun everyone’s having fun!! yayyy yippee isn’t this nice #and then someone on tv will say ‘up and down the country’ (goofy but harmless phrase) and suddenly all you can hear is a rant #about the banality of overused idioms and phrases.#LIKE!! can you fucking lighten up for five fucking seconds. please.#idk man. my mum and i spent our whole morning travelling out to some random shop wayyyy out of our way. requires multiple buses to get there #JUST to get him a birthday present. because we thought it was fun and cute and because it’s very personal to him.#like we built our DAY around this. we spent £120 on this. FOR HIM!! because we thought he’d enjoy it!!!!#and we’re spending all day tomorrow wrapping his presents and hand making cards and planning the cake i will be baking for him #and he gets home from work and. IMMEDIATELY starts picking a fight.#like we had a lovely day. we had SUCH a good day. and a lot of it was about doing stuff FOR HIM for HIS BIRTHDAY!!!#which we were HAPPY AND EXITED TO DO!!!!!#and he fucking ruins the whole thing.#now my mum is sleeping on the sofa because she’s so angry at the way he was talking to me and i’m typing this bullshit.#and. he just. he doesn’t care. he doesn’t get it. he literally cannot comprehend why we’re upset at him.#he can’t see anything from anyone else’s perspective. he can’t comprehend the idea that maybe just maybe HE was the one being unkind.

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clarabow-mp3 · 7 months

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fighting demons (the urge to buy a new copy of return of the king bc mine is a different edition to my copies of fellowship and two towers)

#i have the 50th anniversary editions of fotr and tt but the movie tie-in of rotk and they don't match #and that doesn't matter but also it very much does #i got the first two as a birthday present and then got impatient and couldn't wait for my dad to buy me rotk #so when i found it at an op shop i was like hell yeah and i bought it and now they don't match #i did a similar thing last year w thg actually i was waiting on my boxset that i ordered online but then i found cf at an op shop #and it's the same edition so i just have two copies of catching fire.#i have three copies of mark of athena bc my dad bought copies for himself and me when it came out and then my mum also bought me a copy #so i've got three of those now. anyway idek if they're still selling the 50th anniversary editions of lotr they might not be #in which case this is not even an issue

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froggi-mushroom · 10 months

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A lot has been happening recently which means I had a little bit of an emotional moment earlier and my mum’s been so gentle to me for the rest of the day I just

#not a reblog for once #froggi rambles #so my thigh is hurting and I’m loving the new job it’s just a drastic change so my body is having A Response to it all #so I had a little cry earlier and my mum came in worried and all and we had a cuddle which was nice it’s been a while since I’ve just #let myself enjoy someone else touching me #and I was all frustrated cuz my dad keeps making fun of Bonny’s anxiety issues and I can’t help but feel like he’s aiming them at me but my #mum reassured me and we sat there for a while and my mum brought up us seeing the Barbie movie together and making a whole girlie day out of #it and having something to eat and drink afterwards which was lovely #and I know she’s worried about me because she came up before mg bath specifically to check on me and make sure I was alright #so I’m feeling very delicate tonight but I’m gonna head out tomorrow and get some fresh air

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atlas-the-bastard · 1 year

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Sometimes i think my parents either need to fuck or get divorced. Now is one of those times

#i have daddy issues #but its actually just my dad who has issues #and my mum who somehow hasnt figured out how to placate and not anger him in all their years of marriage #which i had to learn ages ago #anyway #family

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majimassqueaktoy · 1 year

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The end.

#jess plays yakuza #Hoo boy.#Okay: Haruto is an angel even if im still iffy on the entire plot of this game #I missed Haruka the whole time Im so sad they didnt get more time #Loved the Hiroshima boys- Yutas on think fuckin ice but thats just my issues with men talking <3 #THEY DID A FAKE OUT FOR KIYOMI AND IT WAS STUPID BUT IM SO GLAD!!#so happy she got her baby back so happy Haruka gets to keep a mum figure in her life 🥹#Wish Akiyama did more #thought they made koryu extra stupid in this game to a frustrating degree #Daigo and Majima and Saejima were sorely missed #The end letter to Daigo was sweet though #he loves his dad <3 #all in all the plot? a mess.#the ending with him leaving- poetic?#haruto takes his first steps kiryu takes his last as kiryu etc #but i just wanted him and haruka to hug :(#im SIMPLE i want a happy ending SUE ME #Date is kiryus very tired down trodden wife #YEAH #this was surely a game #hostess stuff in this was eh compared to 1 and 2 #cam girl shit was funny. loved the cat cafe.#yeah not much more to say really!!

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