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lesbian-vmin · 2 years

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Just sharing, as a long time army & months into shipping, I rewatched many contents, read blogs to weigh how I view things. & I do agree that vmin shippers are more rational & sensible. I read tk & jk vids/blogs, all of them believe/push the narrative of the members kissing/even having sex in a professional setting, which makes my blood boil. I bet u heard about this tk lives channel w 400k+ subs & mil views. I think that she perpetuated this idea w/ the 2017MAMA manipulated hickey analysis.

I want to preface this answer by saying that I agree. It really urks me when people say that such things happen in such a professional setting. I'm going to go on a little tangent here, but I want that to be clear. I'm not interested in finding out with or when something could happen in such a setting. I just wanted to say that make such claims is pretty bold and invasive when it comes to professional settings. I would never make these kinds of claims myself, and I don't like it when other people do it. A lot of the time it's falsified, and the original source is rarely supplied.

Anyway, for the rest of this response, keep the above paragraph in mind. Because I do agree with that these claims are a little outlandish and quite invasive most of the time, but I also want to point some things out. Offer a different perspective, if you will. Related to this ask, but possibly unrelated to the boys themselves. (though it'll still relate to them, so please don't let that anecdote chase you away.)

(BELOW THE CUT!)

Let's start with the hickey thing. I'm not sure if this has anything to do with my unbelievably fair/pale skin tone, or if this is a thing that many people suffer with, but hickey analyses get on my nerves anyway. For me, if I so much as brush a hand over my neck/chest area, I get big red marks on my skin. I don't know why. It's just a thing that happens. They don't ever look like hickeys, but I've often had people tease me about it and question who did it to me. So anyway, there's that. (And not to mention the obvious with people editing screenshots to make it look like someone has a hickey, which happens all the time...always view the original source.)

Anyway, moving on from that. While I agree that it's a little ridiculous, outlandish, bold, and obviously invasive to point fingers and say that they'd do such things in professional settings, it's not impossible. I've had to have several discussions with my team members because we found evidence that a couple of people had snuck off together and got a little handsy. I believe that this had to have been other teams (because I trust my team and believe they are more responsible than that), however, I've still had to have the discussions regardless. It is, without a doubt, highly unprofessional and extremely irresponsible to do things that like, but people still do it. (NOTE: I do not think it's okay to make these assumptions about the BTS members with each other or any else for that matter. I know, I am stating that this kind of thing is possible, and I know that people are going to do with that information what they will. I'm just hoping the people reading this are mature and responsible enough to understand that I can point these kinds of things out without condoning the assumptions. And if you're not that mature and responsible, please get off the internet. It's no place for you.)

Another note. Let's say that some hickeys did show up during a vlive where two members were together. Of course, this isn't the case in any scenario. Again, it would be a pretty unprofessional and irresponsible thing to do. While I don't believe the BTS members themselves would do anything like this, it's still a possible thing to happen with a couple. People who want to lay claim and ownership over their partner or want to have physical evidence on their partner can do this. There are couples that do things like that all the time. Of course, a lot of that is going to depend on many things. Such as where someone works and how much they can get away with. You definitely wouldn't mark up a partner and make them go to work with evidence if it would get them fired from a job (which can and has happened to people). In the case of BTS, yes. I don't think the company would be very happy with the members doing something like that. Not that I necessarily think they would get fired over it or anything (though it could be possible), I am so sure that there would be some sort of repercussions.

So. In short, while the things that people say are technically possible, I don't think it's okay to make those kinds of assumptions. And, even so, I don't think the BTS members would do something like that. And even even so, making those kind of outlandish claims is pretty disrespectful if I'm being honest...

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btskive · 5 years

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