⚠️ sorry rant fueled by that anon you don't have to post this if you want that just really kind of ticked me off. tw fusing and dormancy mentions and lots of angry and frustration about this topic and mentions and descriptions of our personal experiences with fusion and dormancy that was not at all positive, even if as a result of healing

⚠️ VERY TIRED of the "don't tw/cw dormancy or fusion!! its HEALING!!" crowd. because while yes this is OFTEN the case you have to also realize that THIS. IS NOT THE EXACT SAME THING FOR EVERYONE. and both of these, HEALING OR NOT, can be incredibly distressing. both of these things can also happen as a result of extremely negative things. NOT just healing. two introject alters we had who were previously in a subsystem fused as a result of extreme stress and as a result of the other who was formerly a persecutor (janus) reforming and no longer needing the other (cesar) to stabilize and to reenact harm upon. they became incredibly close after the janus recovered and it was an incredibly stressful, painful process for janus full of grieving. tiny's mother in system was in and out of dormancy repeatedly for months as a result of extreme stress and trauma done to her, which horribly destabilized our system and resulted in tiny grieving and grieving and grieving!! fusion and dormancy can be A SCARY THING just because it can happen due to healing and often does DOES NOT MEAN it is always surrounded by and full of happy positive emotions. it can be TRAUMATIC. PLEASE stop invalidating people and what they need trigger/content warned christ

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You can only spew your experiences but others have severe trouble and stress with dormancy and fusion, not everyone wants final fusion either. (/nay ⚠️)

Functional multiplicity is just as an okay a healing path as final fusion.

If people have trauma related to something that might be healing for others, let them take it at a pace right for them. Healing cannot be forced. And you cannot be the one to force it.

If someone is also healing and forcing themselves to get past it, it only makes matters worse. We still struggle with this and it has only made us worse for wear and hardly able to function.

this image is insane what is he doing there

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what a lineup

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ive been thinking a lot about specifically the camerawork in the final shot of this most recent episode and how utterly heartbreaking it is. you're just there looking at shauna head on as most of the others have walked away and shes looking at You the viewer and asking, begging, helplessly over and over. why cant you hear him crying. and then the camera pans away and it feels like the diverting of a gaze. just like all the others, you cant bring yourself to look her in the eyes.

Who is on the side of good, your father or a couple of kids?

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tw thoughts about "number name discourse" and ramcoa/oea mentions but nothing huge

i think number name discourse is especially fucky wucky. besides the obvious "if we only allow ramcoa/oea survivors to use number names it can put them in danger", theres also a few other things i haven't seen people bring up yet in regards to that discourse

for one. you can have dehumanization trauma, even trauma in which your alters were categorized by number, without being a ramcoa/oea survivor

and two. you can be a oea survivor and have your trauma NOT AT ALL include (tb)mc whatsoever. and generalizing oea/ramcoa to JUST (tb)mc is pretty damn harmful. speaking as someone part of a system who,may have went through oea that wasn't ra or mc and looks completely different from what someone would expect

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Yes!!! All of this!!!

RAMCOA looks different for everyone and no experience is the same! I wish more people would understand that! The main thing on the community that I don’t like is that it’s always subjected to just one experience being considered under the umbrella.

RA is different for everyone

MC doesn’t require programming

OA can look different for everyone

Number name discourse shouldn’t exist. It’s causing too many issues within communities and keeping it to one group is terrible for others that have gone through things and also have number names!

You don’t have to be a ramcoa survivor at all to have a number name. It’s a name.

i think it’s funny he has a tie of himself

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