It's them!!! The old gays!!!

I don't care if no one else ships them! I do!!!

they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

KEANU REEVES | DON'T QUIT YOUR DAY DREAM | FENDER

Apollo is a Mother Hen.

I want you to tell ‘em that you love the way that they don’t stick out like sore middle fingers

[Continuation of this]

omg, babe... babe, I'm so cold, babe... babe, wouldn't it... wouldn't it be funny if... if you warmed me in your chest... babe... your heart is so warm... let me in, babe...

Wishing I was Cecil, the weiner-dog 🌭🐶

If 2023 was the year of crochet plushies, 2024 is already shaping up to be the year I apply my crochet skills to modifying all the sweaters that I find annoying into things I'd actually wear. I already (somewhat successfully) lenghtened the sleeves of one that came up a bit too short, and now I'm buzzing with ideas on how to make some of my other less used ones more comfortable...

Apparently my grandma used to do the same, but with knitting. According to my mom, she disliked sweaters without a turtleneck because she got cold, so she manually added neck extensions by herself. When I heard this I was like oh so I see where the cursed Cold Gene comes from as well as my "I can do it better" hubris 😂

hey friend give me ur hand. yeah it's for Science purposes. for research mhm mhm. of Course I'll let go what do you mean

i wish i had set up a camera when i blew sigurd out with the high velocity dryer today because it was. impressive.

i have a presentation to deliver in around 12-14hrs and my anxiety is criminally high so i am going to ramble about my comfort character mr deezluc ragnvindr <3

been reading your accidentally undercover fic and i absolutely love it! i'm on the reveal arc and things are getting intense, but it's soooo good <33

Gosh yes okay so this has been sitting in my ask box for a week, I hope you've enjoyed the tension!! Writing that arc, the canon reveal, after all the alt reveals I'd been getting into before was a lot of fun, and I hope that it was just as much fun reading about the idiot trio finally figuring things out <3

It’s so cold tonight

Honestly...I just want to be held by BDE. Not even really anything sexual (though of course I wouldn't mind that); I just want him to cradle me in his strong arms, and let me cuddle up to his hairy chest and large belly like a big teddy bear. It'd make me feel really safe.

nonnie, you're reading my mind here ! 💖💖

i mean, it's . no secret that i wanna fuck that big sexy hunk of man into the goddamn mattress, but Also oh man does a long, drawn-out bear hug from him sound SO good right about now.!! it'd fix me i swear.

you can just look at him and instinctively Know his hugs would be god-tier, right?? like he'd squeeze you real tight, totally dwarfing you in his arms, probably rock back n forth some, and keep holding you so close you can't help but be acutely aware of the warm swell of his chest and belly against yours.. and god FORBID he's wearing a jumpsuit or otherwise has his chest hair on display during, or i will fr nuzzle right into it and never leave his arms again !!!

oh svt i hope you know how safe your music makes me feel