I'm so, so sorry for doing this but I was wondering if anyone could share any tips or stories of, like, how they found meaning/happiness in their lives. Lately, I've been feeling really empty and like I'm here and not living (if that makes sense) and kind of looking for reasons to not commit suicide tonight

i am rich, hot, and successful.

Secret of the elite woman; you don't secure the bag. You secure the network that secures the bag. Network = networth, if I have to text you this everyday @ 5 am I will.

There are tons of information out there on how to network (I have an ebook on it too on my website) but we barely talk about who to have in your network. Making friends is cool but you need friends that will level you up and keep you up there, power is stored in webs. Well then what kind of friends will make a strong web? As your self appointed big sister let me take the liberties

Finance Barbie. Yeah. You need a bestie in finance, mainly accounting, investing and basically banking. Now much respect if you are good with the numbers queen but for the rest of us mortals we need help all year round. When you build your web find you a finance queen that will keep you up to date with finance trends, the stock markets, currency, help you out with accounting &c.

Law Barbie. You want to never get screwed over? Find you a friend from the law (sector?). My business was literally saved by a thing a lawyer friend said in passing, this is one of the pillars of a succesful person. Eventually you'll have to hire a lawyer don't leech off the homegirls pay what's due but you will pick literal life changing information from this bunch.

Law enforcement. Might be the immigrant in me but being friends with a ranking officer in law enforcement has saved my hide countless times and I overall feel safer knowing a couple of people in uniforms got my back. Plus if you're an immigrant the social navigation that comes with a friend in uniform is Godsent.

A social butterfly. We need socialite friends besties. I'm looking at you introverts. I have an influencer social butterfly friend that has introduced me to most if not almost all of the opportunities I've had. There is a special place in heaven for girlies that know who is who, who is doing what when, which restaurant has the best meals &c. Us introverts appreciate you you have no idea.

A religious bestie (if you are religious) . Honestly this girl I met in church five years ago is probably responsible for my faith still being intact. Get you someone to keep you in line. To worship and pray with. To remind you how it is.

& sis remember relationships are an exchange of value. You need to bring something to their table, don't be leeching okay? Okay.

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Truly all you need in life is a sparkly dress and an equally sparkly attitude.

Online shopping after a long, hard week:

Me scrolling through the reviews that actually post pictures of them wearing the dress and smiling because everyone looks gorgeous:

the urge to make a fashion magazine like these >>>

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

That's amazing, I'm so proud and happy for you! I hope that the rest of this year brings you nothing but happiness!

I know that we're only three months in but how has everyone's year been so far? Big or small, what are some things that you've accomplished?

I know that we're only three months in but how has everyone's year been so far? Big or small, what are some things that you've accomplished?

𝙿𝚛𝚘𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚜 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚢𝚎𝚊𝚛 𝚑𝚊𝚜 𝚋𝚎𝚎𝚗 𝚜𝚖𝚊𝚕𝚕, 𝚋𝚞𝚝 𝙸’𝚖 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚒𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚊𝚖𝚎 𝚜𝚙𝚘𝚝 𝚊𝚜 𝚕𝚊𝚜𝚝 𝚢𝚎𝚊𝚛, 𝚜𝚘 𝚒𝚝’𝚜 𝚊 𝚠𝚒𝚗.

Self-love and manifestation go hand-in-hand. 'Cause how are you supposed to attract what you're running from?

lucky girl syndrome 🎀

anything i want i can have, it’s a constant winning streak

You know what I love? Discipline. Do you know what I admire? People who handle their lives properly. Because I know that takes a lot. Did you get that high paying job and didn't buy an expensive car with your first paycheck? That shit is hard. Do you want to have s** but abstain yourself and don't just sleep with anyone? That shit is hard. Did you stay in shape during the holidays? That shit is hard. I love people being disciplined, handling their finances wisely, controlling themselves and discerning what is actually good for them. You can get offended or you can get better. Your choice. 🖤

I find that when I truly love myself and set healthy boundaries and show self-respect, I automatically get hotter, finer, and sexier. You should really try it sometime, too.