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wordsifelt · 2 days
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reblog if you support loveless people and aplatonics
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wordsifelt · 6 days
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hey here's a friendly warning
If I hear anyone of you claim that the A in LGBTQIA+ is for allies and you don't mention the Actual Fucking Queer Identities it actually stands for I will teleport into your room and beat the shit out of you
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wordsifelt · 9 days
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I don't really know what's going on, but I'm seeing a lot of negative/aphobic/unrelated stuff on the aspec tags and I gotta say it's kind of throwing me off.
(I've only started seeing it today so hopefully it will blow over soon 💀)
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wordsifelt · 19 days
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Just did this for my blogs. Share it around people, this is important.
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Hey be sure to go to your blog settings, head down to visibility and turn on this little button that prevents Tumblr from stealing your posts and using it to train AI learning models. Good job, fuckheads, great update.
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wordsifelt · 21 days
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I know right? I am yet to find another movie that hits like that 😭
What a masterpiece.
Just watched Nimona.
Cried a lot.
I am now feral over this incredibly queer movie.
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wordsifelt · 21 days
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songs from my aspec playlist
i have a playlist that's for my aroace OCs, so here's the songs from there so y'all can vibe too, and tell me if you have recommendations that I can add :")
Can We Be Friends? - Conan Gray
All We Ever Wanted Was Everything - Bauhaus
Crush Culture - Conan Gray
It's Nice to Have a Friend - Taylor Swift
The Story - Conan Gray
I Lost a Friend - FINNEAS
It's U - Cavetown
Boys Will Be Bugs - Cavetown
Hug All Ur Friends - Cavetown
Ribs - Lorde
I Need To Be Alone - Girl In Red
Generation Why - Conan Gray
Best Friend - Conan Gray
Someone To Stay (Acoustic) - Vancouver Sleep Clinic
Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol
The Ballad Of Love and Hate - The Avett Brothers
Partners In Crime - FINNEAS
Home - Cavetown
Talk To Me - Cavetown
Lemon Boy - Cavetown
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wordsifelt · 21 days
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Seeing everyone make art for International Ace Day made me want to draw a little something of my own hehe
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Edit: I realised I forgot to add the alt text so I've gone and done that.
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wordsifelt · 21 days
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happy international asexuality day to:
[PT: happy international asexuality day to:]
asexual men, y’all are so underrepresented
asexual women, you’re not “prudes”
genderqueer / non-binary asexuals, you exist
asexual trans men, you don’t deserve infantilization
asexual trans women, you’re not “just a f3tish”
asexual cis men, your existence isn’t “sad”
asexual cis women, you do NOT just exist to have babies (but if you want to have children, that’s just as valid)
asexuals who don’t experience any sexual attraction, you’re not a “stereotype”
asexuals who experience any amount sexual attraction, you’re not “faking it”
demisexuals
gray-asexuals
asexuals with a high libido
asexuals who don’t label themselves
asexuals who use many labels
asexuals who use microlabels
asexuals who are shy, you’re not a stereotype
asexuals who are outgoing, you’re not pretending
christian asexuals, you’re not “just celibate”
jewish asexuals, your existence is NOT inherently sexual
muslim asexuals, Allah loves you just as much as anyone else
hindu asexuals, your deities respect you
asexual buddhists, kindness will protect you
asexual pagans, (me!!) remember to cherish every moment
asexuals who are in the closet
out and proud asexuals
alloromantic asexuals
aromantic asexuals
aplatonic asexuals
acespecs who don’t identify with the term asexual
every asexual! y’all are so epic!!
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wordsifelt · 21 days
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My Agenda for International Ace Day
Cake
2 Cakes?
Much Purple
Read Ace by Angela Chen
Very much Purple
Clean all my ace rings
Stargaze
3 cakes (someone stop me)
Dragon
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wordsifelt · 22 days
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To everyone on the ace spectrum, Happy International Asexuality Day!
Wishing you a safe and comfortable day (with cake and garlic bread ofc). Let us once again lay claim to our place in this world.
🖤🩶🤍💜
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wordsifelt · 1 month
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Happy Ides of March everyone!
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wordsifelt · 2 months
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So a free tool called GLAZE has been developed that allows artists to cloak their artwork so it can't be mimicked by AI art tools.
AI art bros are big mad about it.
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wordsifelt · 2 months
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Just watched Nimona.
Cried a lot.
I am now feral over this incredibly queer movie.
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wordsifelt · 2 months
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Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week to all my fellow aros!
Here's to being ourselves, with no pause, in our own ways, and to moving another step further towards a better place.
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wordsifelt · 2 months
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Let's go let's keep the tags trending lessgoooooo
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wordsifelt · 2 months
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TW: mention of romance, sex, valentine's day, a bit of aphobia
This past week has been so frustrating as an aspec person, both in and out of queer circles. Everyone is talking about valentine's day, talking about partners, the usual "oh you're single how sad" like no no stop it shut up.
I hate it. I understand they must not realise what it does when they say stuff like that, but the amatonormativity is hitting me at full force.
I'm glad people are in relationships and celebrating their love, but the expectation of it, of being in a relationship or having partners, is wearing me down. Everywhere I go people say stuff like "oh are you buying something for ur partner?" "Do you have a date this valentine's?" "Are you gonna be in the sad lonely club?" Do people not realise how invalidating that is? They know I'm aroace, but even folx who are usually pretty supportive and great abt this are making comments like this and it makes me want to turn off my phone and hide from everyone.
I don't even know how to bring it up to people, because I know I'll get accused of ruining everyone's fun and being hateful.
Well atleast arospec awareness week is from Sunday, so I've got something to look forward to. But this week has drained me in every way possible.
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wordsifelt · 3 months
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I want to elaborate even further on why I think Alastor’s breakdown in the finale was (at least in part) motivated by the fact that he has come to care about the people at the hotel. A few people have responded to me saying they don't believe he actually cares or asking me about my opinions on certain counterarguments against the interpretation that he cares and I figured it would be easier to just make one post in response. (this is just meant to expand on my thoughts. You don't have to agree. That's half the fun of media interpretation.)
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The consistent throughline I keep being told is that his breakdown was purely motivated by pride and loss of control and I do think these were massive parts of the breakdown.
Alastor is very aware of the fact that the situation around him is spiraling out of his control. That the notoriety he had cultivated as an unchallengeable overlord is crumbling. His time away allowed the fear he sowed to dull. He keeps coming face to face with beings that rival or surpass his strength. People who wouldn’t dare question him before are banging on his door. His foothold in the world isn’t secure like it once was and that has him reeling.
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Alastor's pride is a driving factor in his actions, but, like I said in my last analysis, I think this is only part of it. I think this breakdown is motivated by the fact that he feels like he’s losing control of himself on top of the situation around him.
I'm going to start with the points/questions I've been asked first then expand on my thoughts after.
The first one I was asked about is the interpretation that Alastor was mocking the very idea that he would sacrifice himself for someone else when he says "Great Alastor, altruist, died for his friends." and I think that would work if it wasn't for the visuals paired with this line.
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He literally looks like THIS when he is speaking the line. This isn’t the face of someone mocking the very idea that he would do this.
It was actually this shot that convinced me there was some truth to the words he was saying because it looks like he’s beginning to have a breakdown over the fact that this is almost exactly what happened.
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The second one that I was asked about was the idea that he was forced to fight and protect Charlie by whoever owns his soul. But if he was forced to fight in this battle due to his contract why not describe it this way when alone? How could he even leave if he was forced to fight and protect the hotel? I doubt there was a caveat that he could leave the fight if he was seriously injured if he was ordered to fight and protect Charlie and the hotel.
I do think he's at the hotel because of whoever owns his soul, but I don't think it's why he fought or why he helped Charlie get Cannibal Town to aid them through his connection to Rosie.
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And the last one that I was asked about was the idea that the demons had to be fighting for love like Carmilla said to Vaggie to defeat the angels and the reason Alastor didn't win was because he was fighting purely for his own interests. Freedom, power, and control.
And, while I think the base idea of this is really interesting (This is a genuinely cool idea!) and could challenge Alastor's more selfish motivations, the show itself doesn't really back this up.
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Charlie is the literal embodiment of fighting to protect those she cares about-- she has the biggest heart out of anyone at the hotel-- and yet she doesn't defeat anyone in this battle.
Before she faces Adam all she uses is a shield to protect herself and the other residents. She apologizes to those she hits, while Vaggie finishes them off. When she does face Adam she doesn't beat him. She gets in a good hit, but she isn't able to finish him off. She would have been killed if Lucifer didn't step in.
Plus, Alastor's shield killed multiple exorcists before Adam destroyed it, so I don't think this means he hasn't grown to care about the residents of the hotel or that there wasn't some part of him that was fighting to protect them.
Now to expand on my own thoughts now that I've answered the questions I've gotten, it's not just the final battle/fallout that brought me to believe he had come to care about the hotel and its residents.
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The show itself seems to want us to think he is starting to grow “accustomed” (In Alastor’s words to Niffty) to the group with little moments that are played straight like when he sends Mimzy (possibly his oldest friend) away, telling her she can stay if she truly wants to try for redemption, but if she just wants to put the hotel in danger then she has to leave.
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When he says he believes in Charlie and wants to mentor her in cannibal town. He even gives her his microphone which is a literal extension of himself to help her.
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When he talks to Niffty (who he is clearly fond of) and admits he finds the group enjoyable to be around. He says he could grow accustomed to them after Niffty says she really likes them almost in agreement with her.
There is no sinister undertone or hint of the usual facade Alastor puts on in these scenes.
Like I said above I don't think that the fact that Alastor has come to care about the residents is the only factor in his breakdown or the only reason he fought in the first place (Alastor's blatant overconfidence in his fight against Adam makes it clear pride was a factor. That overconfidence is why he lost that battle). It's a combination of multiple things (his pride, loss of control, desire for freedom, etc), but I do think it's a valid reading that it was a part of it considering all the information the show has given us.
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This isn't to say I think Alastor is going to melt and be a team player for the hotel from now on. In fact, I think he's going to lash out against this internal change.
Alastor has always put himself first and in the finale he almost died trying to protect this hotel and it's rattled him. It's challenged his entire self-perception. He doesn’t like that it’s being challenged. That he’s losing control of himself on top of the situation around him. So, he doubles down on his initial goals.
I think this internal conflict is fascinating. I wouldn't have written so much about it if I didn't. I genuinely can't wait to see what they do with it in season 2.
If you feel differently feel free to send an ask, message, or respond to this post. I'd love to hear what other people think! Differing views and connections to characters is what makes media so impactful and fun to consume.
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