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mushroomjar · 1 year

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is it lesbian friday yet

It's always lesbian friday if you believe

#i don't know if lesbian friday is a reference to something sorry #tristan tag #cat answers #lesbianposting

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clever-and-unique-name · 1 month

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As someone who's been through a lot of DID tumblr community, especially because you used to make infographics and talk about your DID and such here often... IDK, I don't want to ask if you regret talking about your DID or your parts so much, because that's too broad, but like.

[internal grumbling and vague gesturing]

Liiiiike... Hrgh. As a slightly adultier-adult than me, how do you balance having all this DID stuff online and also just like, being a 'normal' person in the world and having a good life where you're married and happy and all that?

For me/us, I feel like a lot of thinking and over-analyzing about DID has been detrimental overall, but it also got us to this place where we *don't* (need to) do that most of the time, and we're able to be pretty blurry and really only talk about DID/'parts stuff' if it becomes A Problem or something Comes Up.

I guess we're asking for your #HotTakes about this, if you'd like to share :)

(If you don't, that's totally okay, don't worry about it. Or you can tell us privately if you like! Just figured we'd ask, because like, nuance and we like your opinions/worldview a lot <3)

Hi Anni ilu :>

I'm answering this at work because I just Can't Resist but I'm not sure if the guys at home will feel the same so uh. That's a disclaimer I guess

Yearsss ago when we made this blog, we were specifically trying to #Figure Ourselves Out. That's explicitly what we made this blog for, to record and try to recognize patterns as we came to terms with having dissociated parts. And we were unemployed at the time (and also out of school? I think?) so we had a LOT of free time to be occupied with this stuff.

Which, as you mentioned, led to us reading a lot of books on the topic of dissociation and making Content about it. And also writing a lottt of more personal diary-like posts.

I don't regret that era per se; we went through a lottt of growth in that time, and it's nice to have it as a time capsule to look back on now (especially with the like, memory issues, ya know.) I don't mind it being Out There "publicly" either; we're pretty strict on what doxx-able info goes here, and our online presence is kept strictly from our irl one, with only a couple highly trusted exceptions.

HOWEVER

I do regret putting so much personal information here without fully understanding how vulnerable it made me. I didn't understand that talking about the struggles certain parts were going through would leave those parts open to people (with mostly good intentions) approaching us with commiseration and comfort--things our younger parts especially were starved for.

At that time we were quite isolated. We didn't have the skills to identify when we were fawning, or set boundaries when we did realize it. (This was before therapy.) And not everyone we let emotionally close to us should have been--something we unfortunately wouldn't learn until much later.

So like. Posting about DID in a general, informative way was pretty chill, and I wish I had the time and energy to do some of that again. But as far as publicly exploring our parts? We now have a pretty hard rule about only sharing things that have been resolved, or setting boundaries when needed.

But I feel you so much about mostly just being blurry unless something is a Problem or needs addressing. (Although it doesn't have to be big, it can be as simple as like "Why do I feel sad...oh, Reki is nearby and needs cuddles, got it.") It's just not as important now to Figure Everything and Everyone Out. I got a job to do and bills to pay. ;)

- Tris

#personal #answering asks #tristan tag

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domirine · 4 months

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gonna be posting my avpol doodles individually!

this one is from a lil AU that takes place in a small ghibli-esque seaside town, avdol owns a flower shop and temporarily fosters iggy. polnareff does jackshit but helps at sherry's bakery every now and again (yes she's unfridged!). it's a wee wholesome summer story.

#art #avpol #jjba #jean pierre polnareff #mohammed avdol #OR WILL I holy shit tumblr lets see dont snipe this i swear.#if you like the last doodles please say 'thank you tristan' bc my friend is my fandom and we curate this brainrot together #flower shop au #there you go it has a tag now

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creachureweachure · 6 months

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they would lose on night 1 lets be real

Og screenshot under the cut:3

#yugioh #joey wheeler #duke devlin #tristan taylor #tea gardner #yami yugi #ygo dm #im only tagging this w their dub names sorry LOL #my art

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ayanarts-01 · 6 months

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yarrystyleeza · 1 month

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Me and the girls on discord came up with this new aesthetic tag game idea!

Place your dream cottage/cabin/castle/home, view, pet, activity, food, outfit, flowers/plants, and the character you'd love to share this life with. Just literally make the (fairycore/witchcore/cottagecore/etc) life of your dreams!!! <3

For a Kickstarter, here's mine:

Tagging my lovely moots @galaxies-and-moons-and-cox @floral-charlie-cat @bellaxgiornata @babygirlmurdock @1988-fiend @mattmurdocks6thscaleapartment @chvoswxtch @c-mrdck @loveroftoomanyfandoms @shiorimakibawrites @munsonownsmyass @saltedlays @shouldbestudying41 @itwasthereaminuteago @lazyxsquirrel and everyone else is welcomed to join!

Note: vampirecore is also welcomed! <3

#yarrystyleeza #aesthetic game #tag game #cottagecore #cottage aesthetic #tristan thorn #cats #cottagecore aesthetic #cottagecore style

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shelbyxhughes · 4 months

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