I think there’s also a conversation to be had about how people think androgyny is waify and thin and wolf cuts and eyeliner. like some people are butch. some people have crew cuts and body hair and tits to the moon. or beards and hourglass figures.
i feel like everyone is all uncomfortable seeing people who are androgynous in a non tiktok kind of way but thats most of the androgyny i know! i know normal people who arent put together 24/7 who are androgynous in sweat pants and sundresses and first thing in the morning. there is more than one way to be androgynous and it isnt always a choice.
I’m doing a series now apparently <3 we’ll see how many campers I get through before I burn out lmao
For ben I kept a lot of his scrappy vibe, and tried pulling some inspiration from Mae as well, since Ben looks up to her so much. I also went with the brown eyes bc tbh I really like them on him. I don’t know how I feel about the ponytail but it’s ok lol
back before i could grow a beard, i'd always get sad and jealous when i hung out with a friend of mine who has the most beautiful red lumberjack beard, so he started sending me this every time i got down about it:
For Transgender Day of Visibility, I present y’all my first Trevor cosplay (pre-T and op) vs my more recent October 2023 Trevor cosplay (post-2 years on T, hysterectomy, and top surgery cosplay)
guys with patchy facial hair um. you're gorgeous ok? you're literally so beautiful. you don't need full facial hair to be hot, I promise you are so fucking handsome right now. this is for all guys, trans and cis and nonbinary, you are literally stunning for it, I am smooching you all on your scruffy cheeks <3