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klausysworld · 1 year

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What about Sub Klaus having his first sub-drop and he kinda freaks out because he shouldn't be feeling the way he's feeling, then Dom reader explains to him what is going on and then they cuddle and Klaus just randomly goes under her shirt and starts sucking on her titty.

Pure submission and innocence

“Nik, puppy, are you okay?” I asked gently seeing his frown and teary eyes as he tiredly leant against the bed frame.

He glanced to me with concern in his eyes as he swallowed thickly

“I-I don’t know” he whispered unsurely.

I got back onto the bed and took his hand in mine

“What’s wrong? Are you sleepy?” I questioned softly, kissing his hand lightly

“Yeah…yeah I think I need to sleep” he uttered as he laid down.

I felt my face soften as I realised his state. I should have expected this night to have been a little much.

“Klaus…my love, you did very well tonight…you know that right?” I asked him quietly, my hand still holding his and giving a little squeeze. His half nod was unconvincing, I let my hand go to his fluffed hair and stroke through it gently

“You were so good my wolf…absolutely perfect. It’s okay to feel like this, it’s all okay” I tell him delicately

“What’s wrong with me? I don’t understand” he whimpered making my heart ache. I pulled the blankets up to keep him warm as i leant forward to kiss his head

“It’s a sub-drop Nik, do you know what it is?” I asked lightly and he shook his head

“I’ve seen it a couple time but not-“ he stopped himself as he looked away and let his eyes shut

“Just not experienced it, that’s okay, it’s normal puppy, it doesn’t mean anything bad” i whispered petting him tenderly “it’s just your adrenaline and endorphin leaving your body too quick is all” I explain. His little whimper of pain only hurts my heart more

“You’re doing so good Nik, we can get you feeling better yeah?”

He nodded weakly as his eyes found mine again, pure submission and innocence in his eyes as he waited for me to help him

I gently lifted him so i could slip in beside beneath him and have him snuggled on top. I reached over to grab the tv remote and put on his favourite movie.

I could feel his face nuzzling my neck and jaw as I propped us up with more pillows.

I leaned over to grab his drink and brought it closer to him

“Just relax my pet, I’ll stay with you until you feel better. This might last a little longer than you think but it’s only temporary, I promise.”

I kept ahold of him as he slowly began to let his body melt to mine, his body warm and his mind fuzzy. My arm were circling him as I felt his nose against the swell of my breast.

My eyes cast down in confusion only to see he had half disappeared under his my top. His lips pressed all over my upper body as he let out little whines and soft sounds. I gently ran my hand up and down his back in a comforting matter as his tongue glided over my nipple and his mouth latched onto it.

“Such a good boy Nik, my precious submissive, you’re so sweet” i whispered, looking down my top to him sucking happily as his hands kneaded the skin around him and he breathed out small noises of pleasure

“You make me so proud, always doing your best” I murmured lovingly

(This is so short?? Dunno what’s up with me)

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sorbetslxt · 2 years

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What's a Sub-drop/Dom-drop?

Sub-drop/Dom-drop is a variety of symptoms (usually an emotional and/or physical low) some feel, that lasts anywhere from a few hours to a few days, caused by the endorphin high an extreme session gives you, slowly wearing off.

These drops can include things like depressive episodes, being overly sensitive, constant tiredness, feeling ill, etc. This is why so many people care a lot about aftercare, because a simple check in with your partner(s) can help combat these drops and make them not last as long.

#❥ educational post #kink education #sex safety #sub drop #dom drop #cw kink #bd/sm community #bd/sm education

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tubbybunnysblog · 18 days

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Sub drop thoughts

I love my hunny bun I just wish they were here. I want to curl up in their lap and be kissed. I would love to be treated like a princess and snuggled until we fall asleep. I want lazy kisses and soft warm naked limbs tangled together. I want a nice bath we squeeze into together. Overall just feeling very soft right now.

#feedee belly #feedee feeder #feedee encouragement #feeding kink #feedist #feed me #fat piggy #fatty #dark feederism #fat rolls #aftercare #sub drop

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callistoscollection · 3 months

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SUB DROP

Sub drop is an emotional and physical low a Sub may feel after a BDSM scene. And can come with feelings of depression, anxiety, exhaustion and pain.

Sub drop can come moments to days after a scene. And can last up to weeks at a time if not properly taken care of. Some people experience Sub drop often and some have never experienced it even after years of play.

Sub drop can be caused by:

- The drop of endorphins and dopamine after a scene.

- Feeling mentally and/or physically exhausted after an intense scene especially ones involving some form of pain play or degradation.

The best way to help with Sub drop is openly communicative with your Dom and make sure that your limits are being addressed and aftercare needs being met.

#bd/sm community #bd/sm kink #mlm ns/fw #mlm nsft #mlnb nsft #ns/fw #ns/fw blog #ns/fw post #queer nsft #bd/sm education #sub drop

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slutforyous · 4 months

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don’t you just love sub drop 🙃

*cues the sarcasm*

#hypnokink #sub thoughts #vent post #sub drop #ugh i hate that im so needy after trance

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softswitchbutch · 1 year

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a random question for you, Gideon: do you have any tips for dealing with subdrop? what are your favourite ways to take care of your sub or be taken care of when you sub?

Okay so I would say for one it can definitely vary, somenpeople will want specific comforts so my first piece of advice us to know beforehand if they have specific things they want/need and to express your own wants/needs for subdrop. (I find many of these can helpin a domdrop too! Subs can and should use this advice to help their doms as well if it can be applied)

With that:

I always start with water. A hydrated brain is always better at regulating. Snacks can also be good for the same reason. (Chocolate is one I used to get suggested a lot when I did reaserch on the subject, due to it's encouragement of serotonin in the brain. I find any soft of sweet tends to make somon cheer up a bit though, since most people like them. Fruit is also a really good one, because it'ssimple to eat and also doubles as more hydration.)

Soft textures (blankets, pillows plushies), or a piece of comfort clothing. Being in a drop can be a vaunrable of a state as being in the initial subspace, and I often like to be covered up and held. I usually do the same for my partners, because being close under a blanket can help be physically grounding.

Comforting words. Subdrops can feel isolating even with someone there, and they can make you feel like you have done something wrong. Let your partner know that it's okay, and even though they don't feel the best right now, they aren't alone and they haven't done anything wrong. Let them know that they're safe with you and you've got them for as long as they need. The space to know that you can still be taken care of is good.

Talk about it. Was it caused by something? If not that's okay, My sub drops are usually not prompted by anything specific, but knowing can help you avoid making it worse if there was a cause. It also means you might have something to discuss later to avoid this from happening from the same cause.

Simple activity. Get them up to clean up, take the,with you to set up a space to cuddle. Some movement of the body will be good for them. Doesn't have to be fancy. I like to follow my partner to get snacks if I'm not dizzy, and keep them in sight. And it does help more then laying there sad and possibly alone. Even for a few seconds when I'm in a drop can feel much longer.

I find that things I use when I'm sad can help with subdrops as well. Listening to music that helps, watching something with my partner, or playing a simple game that doesn't take a lot of brainpower. It can be nice to just spend time with my dom and know that there's no pressure to return to a specific state of mind.

I'm disabled and sometimes subdrops flare my pain. Check in for physical responses to the mental state especially if you're disabled. Pain meds to lessen the physical shit can make it a bit easier to focus on coping and calming dowm from the mental things.

Other suggestions I've seen are baths (I hate baths for sensory issues and so do my partners so not our thing, but the warmth of a good bath can't be beat if you like them), Making and having some tea, Burning candles and doing grounding exercises, Or prayers (If you practice that way together/are willing to do it with them if it would make them feel better).

And through any of these or other things you might try, take your time. It's not a rush to feel better. You're allowed to work through the subdrop like any other emotion, which might not be instant.

[This is in no way a fully fleshed out list or a one size fits all, so do your reaserch and take note of what does and doesn't seem to help you/your sub/your dom.]

#nsft safety #sub drop #dom drop #nsft #lesbian nsft #nblw nsft #wlw nsft #sapphic nsft #queer nsft #anonymous #talking #mine

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annoyinglyobsessive · 16 days

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Day 14 - voice

CW - nsfw content, crying

Words - 386

“Look at me love,” regulus said, his voice smooth and soft, pulling james out of his thoughts. He looked up to see regulus standing infront of where he was kneeling, holding the leash attached to his collar lightly in one hand.

“Are you going to be good for me today love?” regulus asked, and jamess nodded slowly, already deep in subspace.

“Good boy,” regulus said and the words went straight to james dick. “Open your mouth for me love,” regulus continued and james obeyed, letting his mouth loll open. Regulus leaned down a bit letting a large drop of spit fall into james mouth. James swallowed it apreciatlivly before opening his mouth again.

“Hold still now darling,” regulus said before slowly sliding his dick into the warm wet cavern of james mouth. He groaned at the feeling as james ran his tongue against the length of it. Regulus grabbed james said, pulling a moan out of his as he tugged it. Then with his hands in james curls he began thrusting lightly into james mouth. James continued moaning, even as he gagged a little. Regulus let go of james hair with one hand, wiping the tear running down james face and bringing it up to his mouth to lick off.

“Im close love,” regulus said and james tapped hi leg twice, the sign that he wanted regulus to cum down his throat. Regulus did, comming with a cry before pulling out of james mouth. James swallowed the mouthful happily before looking up at regulus.

“That was lovely darling, now do you want me to help you with yours?” regulus asked, wiping the corner of james mouth. James shook his head looking down.

“You dont want me to help you?” regulus asked, taking james chin and softly tilting his head up. James averted his eyes.

“Its taken care of,” he said quietly.

“It is?” regulus asked, surprised.

“Im sorry,” james said sadly, and regulus dropped down to kneel infront of him.

“Hey its ok,” regulus said, cupping james face gently.

“Your not upset with me?” james asked, cring softly now.

“No, no darling,” regulus said, kissing james’s cheeks softly. “I could never be upset with you,”

James nodded softly. “Lets get you cleaned up and in bed ok?” regulus asked and james nodded again. “Alright lets go.”

@jegulus-microfic

#jegulus #jegulus microfic #this was supposed to be smutty but then got angsty #sorry #angst #smut #sub drop #sub space

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royaltransfae · 3 months

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Well Subdrop fucking SUCKS

Who the fuck came up with that shit?

Who thought this was okay?!

Didn't even know why I was having a literal meltdown until my fiancé figured it out and told me.

Anyways, aftercare is important, guys. And keeping an eye on your partner afterwards very much is as well!

#t4t #t4t nsft #t4t mlm #ftm #mlm #ftm mlm #nsft #ftm nsft #trans #sub drop #aftercare

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tubbybunnysblog · 1 month

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Be kind to yourself

As a person who drops quicker than the speed of sound sometimes. remember that you can do aftercare for yourself even if you just masturbated. There is some lovely yet intense shit on here remember to take care of yourself. Especially if you’re person is not awake to help you deserve it even if you aren’t doing a scene.

#feedee belly #feedee feeder #feedee encouragement #feeding kink #feedist #feed me #fatty #fat piggy #dark feederism #fat rolls #aftercare #sub drop #dom drop #switch drop

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noty0urtype · 4 months

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Genuinely crying because I read a post about aftercare and I realized I’ve never really gotten aftercare….

I used to be in a relationship where we did some very intense things but he would only hold be until I caught my breath and then he would ignore me. I see now how absolutely terrible that is but at the time I thought it was normal.

Even now I’ve never had anyone care for me after. Never been held and told I did good. Never been kissed softly and protected. Never had my bruises tended for. Never been cared for….

And I get some really bad sub drop. I have sexual trauma and I hate feeling like I was used and not loved but that’s always how I feel without fail… I feel like that might change with the soft aftercare I read about…

It could be that im bad at asking for care. Entirely plausible but recently I haven’t been with anyone that I’ve been perusing romantically and physically so I guess I didn’t think it was appropriate… I don’t know maybe I’m crazy

Shit.

#aftercare #sub drop #little

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pulluppuddles · 7 months

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[cw: subdrop, mental illness]

idk if its subdrop or just normal (for me) brain drop but wowie do i not feel so good rn 😢😢😢😢

#sub drop #blaze babbles #mental illness

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