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enneagramgoodvibes · 2 years

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All instinctual variants explained really well:

Written before I understood what the variants meant, not accurate at ALL

Sp-dom

Pre-occupied with own mortality

Funny in a sad way

Money = way to stay alive

“Special interest”

Thinks they ooze cool

Your anxious friend who never learned how to smile with their mouth open and not look like a milk carton kid/bitch

Sp-blind

Ranges from “silly y un poquito stupid” to “makes bad dangerous choices” depending on how you view their sp-blindness

Burns out and crashes

Your friend who’s gonna fail out of college

So-dom

Can make you feel comfortable

Dumb happy

Sometimes has parental lawful honors program energy

Can be a socialite monster for sure

Would structure personality around their friends

“I need everybody to like me or I’m gonna die”

Cult vibes

Your friend who joined a club and got really down for recruitment

So-blind

Maybe emo or anti-mainstream culture

Weirdo

Might make something groundbreaking and innovative

People = tools that can help fuel the sx or sp

Your friend who hasn’t changed in like six years

I’m not so-blind I have no idea someone speak to this please

Sx-dom

Has some vision or cause that they’re a huge asshole about

Good intuition

“We gotta follow the high!! We gotta go where the high is!!”

Let’s their emotions drive them forward

Addiction prone? Maybe?

Your friend who you’re afraid to say “hey fuckin chill man” because they’re so weird and intense about the high they’re on

Sx-blind

Spends a lotta time thinking “who am I???”

Spends more time thinking “what do I want???”

The NPC of stability

You remember when Robert Pattinson was announced to play the Batman and we all said “oh no absolutely not what the fuck”

Your friend who doesn’t fuck

#sp/so #sp-dom #sp/sx #sp-blind #so-dom #sx-dom #so/sx #sx/so #so/sp #sx/sp #so-blind #sx-blind #instinctual variants

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anime-addictt · 2 years

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Instinctual Variants-2

In the previous post, I did give a brief explanation on why we tag sp, sx, so to our enneagram and what they were, so let’s just go a bit more in depth in that.

Self-Preservation

This is probably the most rudimentary of all the instincts- the need to protect yourself, your materialistic needs, your immediate relation and surroundings. People leading with this instinct are more likely to:

Be extremely concerned about the quality of food they eat. They are the types who would most likely keep track of their calorie intake, solely due to the fact that not doing so would jeopardize their health.

Set up a financial plan/ be stingy so that they have enough money to avoid situations that would put their personal needs in trouble

Stay true to the comforts of their life. These people would focus more on their taste, their space, their comfort zone.

They have a very ‘self-interested’ view. ‘Secure yourself before helping others’ is one of their absolute motto.

BOUNDARIES. YOU CANNOT CROSS THEM TILL THEY CHOOSE TO LET YOU IN.

From the above points provided, you will notice that a huge part of self-preservation is the self. It’s always about what they would get, what they would need, how they would attain something to make themselves secure. It’s not necessary for them to follow all these bullet points. An Sp type can be solely focused on earning money at the cost of their health. Or they could be extremely health conscious to the point that they lavishly spend on the most healthiest protein shake. No matter what they choose to focus on, all of it comes down to protecting themselves by hoarding the resource they believe they lack.

Sp doms can look very different from each other based on their enneagram and their auxiliary function.

Sp/So usually function in a very business-like manner, due to the social instinct. They make use of their social instinct to secure their basic resources by connecting and interacting with the right people. However, unlike a social dom, they’ll be willing to let go of connections that no longer have a purpose. These types would usually prefer to operate alone, but at the same time wouldn’t really mind grouping up with like-minded people, if it helps them gather resources.

Some of the most common traits that I have observed in them are:

They like being with like-minded people who belong to a similar social background. A friend of mine once mentioned how comfortable she was in this group where all of them were the ‘nobodies’ of the class. (Notice that her bonding technique is very focused on finding comfort in people that have a lot in common)

They can easily fit in with a group but, unlike a so-dom, have trouble conforming to everything the group agrees on especially if it is really away from their comfort zone.

Has weirdly accepted the fact that they’re boring (?) and that it’s okay not to have anything unique about oneself.

Cannot handle intensity. They don’t understand why anyone in their right mind would run behind intensity. They also agree that many times, their main source of connection with another person is based on how secure they feel with someone, and not based on some random voodoo energy (that’s what they call sx).

A friend of mine admitted that she was a bit hurt by my way of connecting with people by sx energy since she believes that true form of connection only occurs when people talk and share their like and dislikes. Just walking away from people purely based on intensity is wrong because you never really see them for who they are.

They remind me of white noise. An ordinary noise in the beginning that grows onto you. Before you realize and understand what it is, you’re comfortably asleep to the softness that it brings. They are weirdly calming.

Sp/Sx on the other hand, is a lone wolf. Being so-blind makes them the most independent instinctual stacking. Their sx helps them have a very intimate connection with others. However, never expect anything more from the energy that they give off. They can be very nice, but ultimately, if you don’t serve a self-preservative purpose to these people, you’ll be dropped. And not in the nice way like an sp/so would do. They do come off as heartless, self-centered and egocentric, due to being so-blind.

Some of the most common traits that I have observed in them are:

Not really interested in the groups around them. Nor are they bothered if they can’t fit in.

Always has an air of indifference around them that is either extremely off putting or excitingly mysterious.

No matter how distant they are, there’ll be a clear distinction in the way they interact with people who they’re genuinely interested in, and in those they aren’t.

When they actually like someone, 1 out of the 10 wall that are built around them will open up.

They’re boundaries are stronger than the nuclear force attraction.

The sp/sx in my life are actually pretty confident about their appeal, but at the same time never really go out of their way to display this appeal like an sx dom would, unless they’re extremely sure of it.

Another interesting thing about my sp/sx friend is that he would never put anything or anyone above his basic needs. For example, if he has a homework due tonight, HE WILL walk out on every single person in that room, without bothering to explain how or why he’s doing it (even if he’s having the most sx-intense moment with someone).

He will never approach me or ask me for anything, till I offer to help him.

They remind me of a pitch black cave. I can’t see anything, but I know there’s a waterfall somewhere deep inside cause I can sense this cool misty breeze. And I eagerly keep searching for it.

#sp/sx #sp/so #self-preservation #enneagram #instinctual variants #sp-dom #anime mbti #anime enneagram

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counterphobes · 2 years

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All spsx look like this, if you don't ur mistyped

#enneagram #instinctual variants #instinct #mine #contraflow #visual typing #personality types #spsx #sp #sp-dom #so blind

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purenullity · 24 days

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CW: spanking, hitting, bloodplay scars, choking, bdsm play, pain play

Puppy had a hard play session today, and got some very pretty pictures out of it. My body is littered with marks from playing, and I’m so grateful for every single one of them. The pain truly melts into pleasure <3

My boyfriend and I started with spanking using a belt, and various other objects. I had my ass and puppycunt hit over and over, and it all felt so good. He let me suck his cock while I was spanked and I ended up moaning and drooling all over him. When he was finally ready to fuck my soaked puppycunt, his cock buried inside me felt so good and hurt so much with everything being so sore. He came so unexpectedly fast when I told him how much it hurt and that I wanted him to hurt me more.

I asked him if he could choke me with the belt, and of course he said yes. At first, he only let me go for 30 seconds being choked but I wanted more. We worked our way up to a bit longer and it felt so good!! I didn’t expect the belt to leave marks on my neck, but I’m proud I have them. It’s a reminder that I’m such a good puppy, and can take anything. After cumming the second time, we started to take things down a notch. I told him that I wanted more, and he told me,

“I just want you to feel good so you can cum for me again, baby”

And of course my reply was,

“Do you want me to feel good or do you want me to cum again?”

@droolypupboy (my very sweet boyfriend)

My ass is still so red hours after we finished playing <3

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sarejima · 21 days

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New day new shenanigan

(My handwriting physically can’t improve beyond this point I’m afraid)

AND I FORGOT TO GIVE KYLE HAIR IN THE 2ND PANEL AHHH *UNHOLY SCREECHING* HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN

#south park #sp fanart #kyman #kyle broflovski #eric cartman #high school au #mild sub/dom????#kenny's parka's too small #its the same coat

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droolypupboy · 25 days

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MDNI

WARNINGS for this post: heavy painplay, sadomasochism, blood, heavy impact play, face hitting, heavy spanking

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in the mood to have an extra mean dom break me because they feel like it. no matter how good i am i want to be punished simply because i look and sound gorgeous when im being bruised and bloodied for entertainment.

i’d be very appreciative & say thank you sir <33 after every single hit. however good it feels to you it probably feels even better to me. my satisfaction comes from the fact that my weeping, slapped raw face makes them feel good.

i want blood to stain the surfaces where i sit after being spanked repeatedly. i want to be licked clean by sir & as i look down at their lips, now stained with my blood, i want the look in their eyes to promise more very soon.

recovery time is a luxury painsluts don’t need at the end of the day <33 all i need is the promise of sir’s pleasure.

THIS POST IS ABT KINKY T4T MLM ACTIVITY!! read pinned before interacting more extensively than a reblog or comment. if your reblog/comment is going to contain anything personal to me read my pinned.

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dumbmuttgf · 18 hours

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wanf some1 2 spit on m face n smear it all ovr so m makeup gets ruined n i look lik a stupid messy whxre :<

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subconsciousmysteries · 9 months

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I must lament how terribly lacking in CONTEXT most ppl’s typology is.

In an environment of scarcity, war and/or isolation, sp means being aggressive. In civilized societies, and with tribes who meet your survival needs, sp usually means the opposite. Because you don’t want your boss to fire you or to be considered a problem to the tribe that feeds you and shelters you.

All sp-doms carefully track where their resources and survival needs come from. The sp-instinct is wired towards meeting base survival needs. The sp-instinct is wired against doing anything that jeapordizes one’s physical health and survival. Sp-doms will fixate upon these base, physical survival needs even if their base needs are already met and they don’t need to fixate on them. They’ll worry about losing their job, losing their income stream, not having enough income and resource security and health in the future, etc. sp doms will neuroticise about resources, health and base survival even it is at the expense of pursuing what they really like viscerally (sx), or at the expense of carving out their desired social identity (soc).

a person like this, regardless of their second instinct, is not going to be chronically edgy. They are going to fear alienating people unless they truly need nobody for their survival needs to be met, both short term and long term. They are going to fear making enemies for this threatens base survival needs. Sx and soc, on the other hand, have actual incentives to be edgy. Sx has an incentive because being brash can mean expressing what you like and dislike, which is the whole thing sx wants to do. Soc has an incentive to be edgy and rude because polarizing can be a tool in carving out your social identity and your desired place among others. Sp only has an incentive to be aggressive and polarizing if the environment tangibly rewards it with resources… which it rarely does. There are exceptional cases where you can get paid to be edgy and polarizing in this society, but these are the exception and not the rule. Often these roles are filled by lucky sp-blinds anyway, who happened to find themselves in wealth despite not seeking it as their goal.

Why are these such a difficult concepts? Why do I still see people pushing the “soc-blinds are edgy and speak their minds” rubbish?

#Literally no one who characterizes sp as chronically edgy is an sp dom.#enneagram #IV #instinctual variants #typology #sp/sx #sp/so #sx/sp #sx/so #so/sp #so/sx

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counterphobes · 2 years

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Spsx real/fictional examples (part 1?)

Peter Steele

Rust (True Detective)

Darlene (Ozark)

Sandor Clegan (Game of Thrones, even though the spso actor doesn't bring it out as well as the others)

Lisbeth (The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo specifically the 2009 version with Noomi Rapace)

Kanye West

Their look makes you shiver, its like they're planning to kill you even though they're just chilling. Uncomfortable, tired, serious, focused eyes that seem as if their soul is being drained right out of them (contraflow energy)

#all the characters on here have spso actors lmao #so there's probably better examples its just rly difficult to find celebs that are actually spsx and not spsos or sxsp #instinctual variants #enneagram #instinct #personality types #mine #contraflow #visual typing #spsx #sp #sp-dom #so-blind #blindspot #ennea #the characters i think all have the tired dead vibe even if u can't read it on their face 😔

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anime-addictt · 10 months

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Instinctual Variant -4

Social Instinct:

Social Instinct is all about connections. The need to establish a social group and be a part of one where people have similar interests.

Some really common attributes found within people who have the So instinct include:

The need for social acceptance. Don't mistake this for neediness, it's just that they understand the value of community a lot better than so-blinds.

Connecting with people through ideas, thoughts. This also includes one-one connections. A lot of times, people mistake the need for connection to be an Sx thing, especially when it is one-one. However, the Sx energy is purely attraction. Sx-users crave for a certain "high" that Sx-blinds, or predominant So-users can put aside. So-users connect with people through similarities, unlike So-blinds or Sx users, who don't usually care much about them.

Merging with cultures. A So-user is more likely to merge with the culture that they are surrounded by.

Having a hard time accepting oddballs. As much as this sounds wrong, a lot of so-users do have trouble accepting oddballs. Since their brains are conditioned to accept commonness, and create an environment where they could be with people who have similar interests, it is kind of difficult for them to accept those who don't believe in the same. (But that doesn't mean they are evil)

Understanding social constructs. They are aware that social niceness is a key requirement for a functional society. (Basically, more aware of their surrounding, and their community to make sure that they continue to fit in)

Most people are So-users. Which makes sense, since we live in a world where society, and community is given higher importance.

So/Sp users generally tend to have a more "politician" vibe to them, since they have learnt how to play with their community to satisfy their physical/materialistic needs. Sp being in the auxiliary position here also means that they are going to be concerned a bit more about their materialistic needs to fit within the social circle they're a part of. This means that they are more likely to:

Be more concerned about how much money they have, how they look, what they eat. Especially if it means being in a better social circle.

Bond with people based on their materialistic or financial desires and requirements.

Enforce ideas within their community to make it easy for them to attain their sp requirements.

Are more likely to abide to social rules than So/Sx users, since they lack the need, or aren't really aware of their need or desire to merge, or get fixated on the Sx energy.

They also tend to be a bit more traditional in their way of thinking, and would stick to rules, and ideas that have always worked.

So/Sx user, on the other hand tend to have the "wild neighbor with crazy amount of friends" vibe to them. Thanks to their Sx, they seem to have their own flair. However, they'd use this Sx to merge with people within their So community. This means that they're a lot less reckless than Sx/So users when it comes to pursuing the Sx energy. If a So/Sx user realizes that the Sx they choose to pursue would hurt their position within the circle they are a part of, they would immediately stop. Some other things that I've noticed is that:

Very poor sp. A So/Sx acquaintance of mine choose to party till 3am in the middle of the week with their boss to become his "best friend" and get into the inner circle. An So/Sp would never take this crazy approach, because they value their sp needs.

Their ability to make everyone fit into a community. So/Sx users, for some amazing reason love it when they can fit everyone into the community they are a part of. I think it is the perfect combination of being able to match the Sx energy and communicate and uphold So ideas.

Tend to come off as flaky. I guess this is once again because of their need to merge, and socially connect with everyone around them. And since Sx isn't really their priority, it's like partially digging the ground for gold and then finding a shiny object two feet away.

Struggle with taking care of their physical needs. Like every sp-blind person, they really think they can party till 5am and then get to work at 8, without having anything to eat.

#so/sx #so/sp #social instinct #enneagram #instinctual variants #so-dom #anime-mbti #anime enneagram

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omgvalhalla · 6 months

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1w9 sx/sp.

#sx/sp #enneagram #1w9 #1w2 #instinctual stack #donna tartt #the secret history #the little friend #the goldfinch #sp/sx #sosx #sxso #this is what an sx-dom looks like #Youtube

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mbti-darling · 2 months

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people often mistake self care in any form or shape as inherently equivalent to self preservation instinct. it's not.

sp is primarily concerned with survival and resource needs. most of the time, self care will only become a concern when it's the necessary resource or a tool to resource gathering. otherwise, it's a waste of time and energy and hardly will become a concern.

a sp who doesn't rely on their looks for survival will probably not invest time in money in extensive beauty care. a sp with no signs of illness of fragile health state won't probably be concerned about eating and exercising much. a sp whose mental health do not affect their productivity may not be concerned about health care management.

#instinctual variants #sp dom #sp aux #sp/so #so/sp #sp/sx #sx/sp #enneagram

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twoplustwoequalsfuckyou · 1 year

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Instinctual Variants; Visual (and vibes)Typing:

#by sp i mean sp-dom and etc #some of these adjectives i cant explain just vibe and youll get it #typology #instinctual variants #sp #soc #sx #visual typing #saw this image on pinterest and my brain just exploded #it's perfect #sp-doms have bird vibes soc-doms have dog vibes sx-doms have cat vibes #typo

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