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walkawayinsin · 1 year

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Dear monogamous people

Before you start dating a non-monogamous consider this: We're not your go-to when you're single. We're not into casual automatically. It's not always about the sex - doesn't even have to involve sex overall. It's about connecting. It's about love. It's about the freedom to love.

Being interested isn't enough. You need to understand your own responsibility when you're dating someone who isn't monogamous.

Dating with the purpose to convert someone from non-monogamy to monogamy is as bad as if we were forcing non-monogamy on you guys.

Be clear about your intentions, your boundaries, your view on the relationship. Communication is the key.

If you've had bad experience with non-monogamy reconsider how much it affects you in the present situation. Are you truly desiring to try out non-monogamy again (knowing the situation might be different) or are you just purely ignorant about it at the moment because you're on cloud nine? Falling in love with someone doesn't equal you're practically going to work as a couple. Just because they are poly it doesn't mean that they're okay with simply cuddling and sex.

Don't date or even be involved with non-monogamous if you can't handle their choice of relationship-lifestyle. We deserve commitment, respect and honesty as much as monogamous counterparts.

#dear monogamous people #don't trust the monos #non monogamy #non-monogamy #nonmonogamy #nonmonogamypride #relationship advice #relationship issues #polyamourous #polyam problems #polyam dating #poly life #polylife #relationship anarchy #relationshipanarchy #open relationship #non monogamous #non-monogamous

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throuplesdating · 2 months

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Non-monogamy is more about connecting with other people emotionally and romantically than about sex in general.

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mystorii333 · 4 days

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#Polytips

When the couple wants to find the right person to complete the poly triad they want, firstly, you have to set boundaries on what is and isn’t okay for one another. Every dynamic will be different due to what both people in the couple want but you know what you want and don’t want, so voice it as frequently as you feel & vice versa, open, honest communication is what’s needed in a polyam relationship.

Secondly, dating them separately so you can get to know them individually. it’s a red flag if the couple or joining person only wants to date or have physical encounters together. In a poly triad there are individual relationships between the three along side all involved being in one together also.

#polyam dating #polyam culture #poly lesbian #polyam pride #polyam relationship #polylife #poly triad #polygamy #polycule #polyamourous #polyamory #polysexual #polyamourus pride #lgbtq #lgbtq community

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bad-and-brujii · 1 year

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#PolyLife #EducateYourself #CommittedN00b #EthicalNonMonogamy #ENM #JoyfullyMarried #Polyamory #ItAintForEverybody https://www.instagram.com/p/CmkHBdOuuQ2muGQqPteYUoN3Okd7HxWyPiLORg0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#polylife #educateyourself #committedn00b #ethicalnonmonogamy #enm #joyfullymarried #polyamory #itaintforeverybody

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polyamorydating · 2 years

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Love is kissing each other madly while holding hands no matter how many lovers you have.

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poly-pervz · 1 year

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My mornings

#polysexual #polylife

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administratumadept · 2 years

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I have such gorgeous friends and I want to kiss them all

#polyamourous #polylife #vaguepost #thirst #desires

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ramblingsofanewb · 2 years

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Since i last posted, my partner has been going through a mental health crisis and needed to feel safe and secure. We agreed to have all non monogamous and relationship work pause for the time being. Im maintaining a platonic relationship with this other person. Its difficult. I feel sad about them slipping away. Im definitely working through some feelings about it. Mostly I just feel lonely. And horny lol. But Im sure thats just the T.

#polyamorous #polyam #polyamory #dating #poly #poly advice #non monogamy #polylife #nonmonogamy #poly questions #nonmonogomous #non monogomous #crushes

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westsidedonniepiccardi1977 · 2 years

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Many think #PolyLife is 3 lovers when in reality #PolyLife is 3 business partners and lovers family over all! https://www.instagram.com/p/CgW6l0oOOt-fTolWs66CTm1dAg8d--VPUFy8Sc0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#polylife

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hmshermitcraft · 1 year

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At the end of all things, at the end of All Games-

They can all leave.

The watchers want them to all go, so their admins get off their backs and because the same old players have gotten terribly boring.

But Grian has to stay. Their wayward brethren is here to be punished and he will continue to be punished until they see fit.

The watchers expect the Lifers to accept this, maybe with some shouts as Grian’s true nature is revealed, but they’d accept it and leave. To be fair, Grian was also expecting that.

Instead, the Lifers go feral, because even at the end of It All They are trying to keep one of them. Its not pretty, but the Lifers want everybody home.

Everybody will come home. Everybody.

-TeratoTomato

Grian always knew his betrayal would come out eventually. Hell, he's already felt the looks Martyn would give him when the guy thought he wouldn't notice. If there's anything he knows about this lot, it's that they don't take betrayals well. And this isn't a silly game betrayal where the negative emotions are snatched away after. This is... This is 'lose your entire trust in somebody because they've been lying to you all this time' betrayal.

Yet... They still fight for him. If there's anything these games have taught them, it's, shockingly, teamwork. When push comes to shove, everybody would trust each other with their lives (outside the games, at least) even if they wouldn't trust them work a trust fall. Grian is one of them. They leave together, or not at all.

Even Martyn, free from being blinded by the Watcher's influence, can see that.

It turns out, when you keep the same group of players in continuous death games for an extended period of time: they become very good at death and destruction.

Now, with their freedom achieved... They just need to figure out what comes after.

#trafficshipping #ask #grian tag #martyn tag #polylifers #teratotomato #mod 🎀#weekly theme: trafficshipping takeover

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throuplesdating · 2 months

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Poly relationship rule No.1: Good relationship comes down to good communication.

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mystorii333 · 3 days

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“Kiss me like it’s the last time you get to taste me” 💋

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polyamorydating · 2 years

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Create relationships based on deeper and more real notions of trust. So that love becomes defined not by sexual exclusivity, but by actual respect, concern, commitment to act with kind intentions, accountability for our actions, and a desire for mutual growth.

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thetorturedarchives · 2 years

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"After years of searching, we finally found our unicorn. We are so happy to welcome Josh into our marriage and we look forward to renewing our vows with our new thrubby next month. #polyamorous #polyamory #consensualnonmonogamy #enm #cnm #throupledating #nonmonogamy #polygamy #openrelationship #loveislove #polylife #polyamorousrelationship #lgbt #bisexual #throuple #lgbtq #lgbtqcommunity #triad #polylove #openrelationships #nonmonogamous #polysexual #polyam #polygyny #pansexual #relationshiptips #relationshipadvice"

#why are all the promo shoots like this #thg #the hunger games #jlaw #liam hemsworth #josh hutchinson #jennifer lawrence #not ship

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ao3feed-hitoshi-shinsou · 6 months

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#AO3 Link #🔞#AO3 Inakirishin Plus #♧#Inakirishin #⚣#R:E #A:Radmoe #ABO AU

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msfoxxylove · 10 months

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https://www.thefox-den.com/post/a-beginners-resource-guide-to-swinging-lifestyle-and-kink

A beginners guide to ethical non-monogamy- my favorite resources to get started…

#enm #ethicalnonmonogamy #polylife #solopoly #relationships #couples #swinginglifestyle

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