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Max's selfie at cheerleading day :)
#the sims 4#meet my sims#simblr#sims 4 screenshots#sims 4 high school years#sims 4 teens#sims 4 gameplay#lgbt sims#trans sim#nonbinary sum#sims 4 cheerleader
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also I've seen multiple ppl like "nonbinary doctor confirmed!!" IF YALL WATCHED 12 & 13 YOU WOULD KNOW THEY'VE BEEN NONBINARY SINCE 12. THIRTEEN AND TWELVE CONTINUOUSLY AND CONSTANTLY TALK ABOUT BEING NONBINARY. I'M GOING TO HIT YOU PEOPLE W BROOMS.
#I love tennant but I KNEEEEW him coming back would bring the ppl that dropped off around 11#and they would be....... annoying about it#and they are!#the sum total of doctor who is not the rtd era yall please 😭#dw spoilers#not really considering they've been nonbinary since what like 2018? 19?
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bisexual, but not rly in an "i'm attracted to xyz" way so much as a "whatever the fuck happens, happens" way
#something something abt how sexuality and gender and queerness is 'defined' vs how it's experienced#maybe this is just how my own bisexuality is! idk im a nonbinary guy who's general outlook on life can be summed up as fuck it we ball#i ofc have my preferences and tendencies and attractions but those are broad at best nor am i like. super beholden to them#for instance i'd prefer to date someone who's not cis but if i hypothetically am into a cis person who's chill with my whole Situation-#-then it's like shit. alright!#and obviously anything that's a dealbreaker in a friendship to begin with is also going to be a dealbreaker in a relationship as well#also please don't be weird on this post! this is about my own sexuality and if you relate to it that's epic#but if you don't or otherwise feel the need to 'correct' me on smthin then pls just move on#no i won't shut up#< talking tag#also also its fine to rb this if you want idc
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TIPS FOR ALTERHUMANS WITH A SCHOOL UNIFORM / WHO WANNA BE SUBTLE:
- Make mini yarn tail keycains to hang on your bag
Teachers don't tend to care what kind of keycains you have as long as they aren't too big, and unless it's being worn like one, most people won't realise it's a tail. Of course it isn't ideal, but it's better than nothing.
- Draw the theta delta (therian symbol) on your pencil case/stationary
You could get into trouble for having something drawn on your hand/arm, so drawing it on your pencil case/stationary is the next best option. It still serves the same purpose of showing any other alterhumans that you are one too, but won't get you in trouble.
Of course this won't be for everyone, but if you are fine with your stationary having things drawn on then maybe try this.
- Decorate your bag with therian keycains/keychains that relate to your therio/kintype
This is similar to the first one. If you have any jewlery, it will probably be taken away, so you can't wear necklaces or bracelets with the theta delta or your therio/kintype on, but as I said before teachers don't care too much about keychains.
You might even be able to use jewlery as a keychain if you are able to take the charm off and put it on a clip (only do this if you are sure it will work - if you break your jewlery doing this then don't blame me).
- Wear a hat with ears on
There is a chance some teachers will confiscate your ears if you try to wear them at school, but as long as you aren't inside they won't take away your hat. It's pretty easy to find sun hats or wooly hats with animal (mostly cat) ears on.
The main problem with this is that people might be mean about it, but you can use the excuse that non-alterhumans wear animal hats all the time (this might not always work so be careful).
You could also wear headphones on the bus/in IT lessons that have ears on, but some teachers might not allow it.
Some coats also have ears on the hood.
- Put therian pins/pins of your therio/kintype on your bag
Very similar to the keychain one, you will most likely get into trouble for wearing pins on your clothing, but your bag is fine.
- Make the most of non uniform days
As long as you follow the non uniform dress code, you can pretty much wear all the gear you want. World book day is especially good for this, as any gear you wear won't be questioned as much. Just make sure you have a good explanation ready if anyone asks who you are dressed as.
Some of my favorites are:
"they're from [made up book], you probably haven't heard of it"
"I'm [animal character] as a human"
"I don't know, I panicked and just grabbed some random stuff from [younger sibling]'s room"
The main thing to be aware of is that people will probably still make fun of you if you wear a tail or ears, regardless of any excuses you give, but unless they actually find out about your alterhumanity it will probably die down over time.
- Wear gloves when you're outside
Fluffy gloves are the best subtle paws, as they feel just like paws and no one will ever question them (unless it's summer). You could even get paw print gloves, but they might be questioned.
That's all the ideas I have, feel free to reblog and add more.
#therian#alterhuman#otherkin#cat therian#therianthropy#therian things#theriotype#therians#feline therian#therian community#therianthrope#kintype#otherhearted#alterhuman identity#just thought id do this cuz i see a lot of tips for therians at school#but just about everything on those lists would get me into trouble in my school#*cries in british*#so yeah#heres sum stuff that wont get yall into trouble#also (and its more pride than alterhuman) with the tail keychain#you could make a pride flag one too#i currently have a nonbinary pride tail on my bag lol#btw if you get into trouble for doing any of these things then please dont attack me#this is based on what i can get away with in my school#so it wont work for everyone
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So, I mentioned yesterday that there was a piece I saw where Stelle was wearing a rather fancy dress, and though I personally adore it because she looks so pretty, Stelle herself was hit with a very strong wave of dysmorphia. (Super brief mention of 1.5 events present! Not tagging spoilers due to it being about two weeks since the update dropped, but I'm giving a heads up regardless.)
Stelle has always, I think, been someone who prefers more neutral clothing, and though she has absolutely no problem with being referred to with feminine pronouns at all, she herself does not like the idea of presenting as particularly feminine. In fact -- and this scares her -- she sometimes does not want to be perceived a physical entity at all. While I do stand by my take and new understanding that Stelle is on the nonbinary spectrum (her disgust was both dysmorphia and dysphoria!), this does go a little deeper: Stelle is very very conscious of the Stellaron housed within her body.
Feeling the weight and warmth of the Stellaron inside, knowing she's artificial, frankly makes her want to tear herself out of her own skin sometimes. In the wake of her possession by Cirrus, I think this feeling only worsened with her horror and disgust at being robbed of her autonomy. That line of thinking became something along the lines of I am (in) a vessel, and this vessel has been tainted. It's very, very awful. And, on her worst days, when the paranoia starts to kick in, frankly? She's not sure if she is Stelle or if she is the Stellaron. Is her dysphoria a factor caused by the Stellaron desiring freedom or having its own thoughts? She doesn't know. There's no way for her to verify the person she used to be before, after all. She has no memories from before the space station. She doesn't trust Kafka.
But she knows the Stellaron speaks. She heard the voice of Cocolia's Stellaron. She knows the one within her pulls towards the desires and wishes of the worlds she's in, too. She's felt it. The existence of the Stellaron within her is why she walks on the Path of Destruction in the first place, its response to the desire of the people of Belobog to survive is why Qlipoth granted her the powers of Preservation. She knows it's why she can adapt to the Paths so fluidly.
She heard its call on the Luofu, too, heard it all throughout the battle with Phantylia.
On her best days, she just doesn't like being seen as very effeminate, because that isn't her. But on those particularly bad days, when she starts to lose sense of where the Stellaron ends and where Stelle begins, she'd really... rather not be perceived at all. Having eyes on her just makes her all the more conscious of the cancer she's housing, stable or not. This ties into her regular discomfort with being spectated by crowds, why she insists she's plain, why she dislikes dressing up.
That being said, no one aside from her twin Caelus (@celestial-narwhal) or Dan Heng would be aware of this extreme discomfort. It's something she keeps extremely close to her chest, and with her resting neutral, straight-faced expression one would find it near impossible to tell what sort of day she's having inside.
#//about; (VESSEL OF DESTRUCTION)#body dysmorphia tw#derealization tw#ask to tag#just in case#i think stelle really truly and deeply understands dan heng's discomfort with himself and his il form#she feels the same way with the stellaron#and to briefly sum up stelle's gender identity she's definitely nonbinary but she's comfortable with most feminine pronouns/descriptors#she just doesn't want to be perceived as very effeminate or present in a traditionally very effeminate way#frankly stelle feels more comfortable in caelus' clothes than her own on her bad days#give her a suit please oh my god no dresses#she'll take a jumpsuit just not a dress#she and caelus also have v similar builds and heights so they can comfortably swap clothes for the most part#which she is very very grateful for bc she misses her sibby all the time
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noticed a trend in the lgbt community where women and/or sapphics make something that's meant to reflect a community culture (ex: sapphic as a term + flag, lesbian flag, etc), organize and create community projects (trans women doing this and working towards recognition/acceptance) or creating terms meant to describe misogynistic oppression (you know which ones), men decide that they need something like it In The Exact Same Way to the point of piggybacking off of it or complaining about it. like just blatantly copying it even when there wasn't/isnt historical backing for them having the exact same thing . there's a very "what about me"-ism to it all
#like the whole 'it's just a flag' thing set a precedent that laid the groundwork for unchecked misogyny#the problem wasn't *just a flag* the problem was the blatant disrespect even though it didnt seem like a big deal on the surface#* i wrote women and/or sapphics cause emily gwen is a nonbinary lesbian and i specifically mentioned the lesbian flag#does this like. make sense. this post feels very messy#honestly it could be summed up as 'entitlement from men and misogyny'#with a dash of 'i am feel uncomfortable when we are not about me ?'
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can say with 95% confidence that biggus sixus and jazmin bean are on complete opposite ends of the autistic genderless #girl spectrum
#one is minimalist and the other is maximalist. anyways#just did sum digging thru their channel and what I’ve seen so far is pretty damn cool… I love nonbinary ppl#I’m a little sus of who they might be friends with tho >.> besides that they’re based#kramblings
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anybody else feel weird guilt over being a transmasc dyke instead of 'just a butch' because butches are 'a dying breed'. like somehow being too masculine or becoming a male dyke makes you some kind of lesbian traitor and you're contributing to the endangerment of butches or something
#dont take this too literally idk how to word how i feel exactly#but sometimes i get hit with this bizarre guilt#i know logically i shouldnt be feeling it and shouldnt be ashamed but like#sometimes i dont feel right in lesbian or transmasc spaces#like i dont really fit in either one#even tho i can sum up my gender as a transmasc butch dyke#maybe its just a nonbinary experience idk#also i am not trying to imply that anything ive said here is Real TM#as in trans men are men and theyre not quote unquote lost lesbians#i just personally feel like a weird inbetween.
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i don't know if this will make sense to anyone but my nonbinary-ness feels like I am a person the way a tree is a tree. Sure there are more detailed aspects to differ between say a maple and a pine but they're both still trees. Just like I feel my butchness and my occasional desire for feminity are not the entirety of my sense of self. I am a wonderful blend and ever swirling concoction that makes up what the whole of my identity is.
I'm a human being. A person. A me.
#rambling#gender#nonbinary#i wonder if other people feel the same? its an odd thing to figure out and try to explore for myself because i feel so abstractly about me#the sum of the whole is not consistent but it is the whole regardless of the details#idk just bumbling about this crazy world one happy fumble at a time XD
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as a nonbinary person, making up a special word to talk about the oppression of nonbinary people feels so ridiculous. admittedly i don’t think this is a big issue bc i feel like i just saw someone mention it again after like. 5 years of never seeing it but like. for just one dollar. tell me something that effects a nonbinary person that doesn’t also apply to a trans men or trans woman.
#also seeing it used in conjunction w transandr@phobia is especially wild bc it feels like creating a new gender binary off of oppression#which also doesnt super account for the fact that you can be like. transmasc & nonbinary at the same time#but ur experiences will not be summed up as nonbinary experiences & transmasc experiences#meaning you are always experiencing nbphobia or transmasphobia at the same time. everytime u r experiencing phobia#unless you are arguing that the systematic experiences are different#but that kind of assumes that society actually knows what a trans person is#aster speaks
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Apologies for the deviation from what I’ve been posting normally but I saw this lady in a dream last night and HAD to draw with her as my muse.
I’m like 83% sure she was Artemis at the god/god Hunter pool party lmao.
What I mean is that my life has been irreparably damaged and healed by her creation and she treated me in tender ways no one never has before and I would destroy nations to be held by her again okay byeeeeee
#my art#Artemis#oc#original? character#I think she sums up how I want to love and be loved by women lmao#I am one revalation closer to realizing I’m a lesbian#i forget how to tag#nudity?#queer nsft#this is for the eyes of women and nonbinaries ONLY#I might draw her again and make an oc out of her#don’t ban this drawing PLEASE!!!
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every day the impulse to embrace clowncore grows stronger
#i just like the symbolism tbh.#like.. as an autistic and trans/nonbinary person#ableists and transphobes already see me as a clown#so like.. might as well own it#why not throw on a ruffle collar and poofy jumpsuit and paint colorful shapes on my face?#next time a transphobe comes at me about pronouns i can just say yes actually my pronouns are clown/clownself thankyou#plus everything is so goddamn heavy these days#the world needs more lightheartedness#clown shit is so bright and happy and colorful and fun#idk. just sum thoughtssss <3
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the virgin mary and jesus' bond wasn't as strong as the one of a little girl who will in the future realise she's not a girl at all and her fictional man
#I'm looking at you rufio from the fucking peter pan movie#i am but the sum of the fictional man i liked as a little girl#queer shit#queer#lgbt#enby#trans#nonbinary
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"binary trans women could never understand my crazy nonbinary identity" is such a weird take. Like yeah there ARE binary trans women that don't know shit about being nb I guess, but in my experience most trans women are some flavor of nb. There's an entire history of women, cis and trans, exploring and playing with gender to such a crazy degree that to the average cishet man onlooker we aren't identifiable as men or women, fused with the fact that trans women are viewed as a subhuman monstrosity (not as men as women) and you'll find such wild gender identifications that are just summed up as "trans woman" cuz it's an easier statement. People that harp about "binary trans women" strike me as disconnected from trans women communities, LGBT history, and or just transmisogynistic.
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as a nonbinary person the thing i enjoyed a lot about the Barbie movie is the little marginalized group of: Weird Barbie and Allan, and how they inherently fall out of the strict and oppressive gendered dynamics once patriarchy is enforced; how that is summed up as "You're either brainwashed, or weird and ugly, there is no inbetween". Weird Barbie living on the outskirts, fully excluded; Allan feeling intrinsically out of place in the Kendom.
rly like it as a very subtle nod to how gender essentialists will claim the gender binary is entrenched in the fabric of the universe and gender characteristics and assignment are inherent and in-born, but then will define binary genders in such a narrow, strict and exclusionary way to make them an ultra-specific performance of arbitrary roles; how gender binary is inherently heteronormative, how gender roles with all their oppressiveness are still reserved for the privileged majority who even has the option to perform them, how gender expectation is inherently murkier and gender conformity less attainable when one exists on the intersection of multiple marginalized identities; etc. just neat!
upd hey we should all read this also
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Step kid worries that her confidence/ ability in math means that her career options are limited. I figure she's probably not unique in that view.
As your official internet nonbinary parent friend and Actual Professional Engineer, please believe me when I say this: you don't have to be good at remembering formulas. You don't have to be good at working polynomial factorial square roots or love writing proofs.
If I need to use advanced math, I use a computer.
My math education gets used for two things: Google search terms so I can find the formula that I vaguely remember existing, and having just enough of a clue what the answer should be that I can tell if I maybe possibly set up the equation wrong. (Volume isn't negative. If you ever try to find the volume of a real, solid object and come up with a negative number? You did something wrong.)
My father was an engineer, before everyone carried a calculator with access to the sum total of human knowledge around in their pocket. He actually really liked math and was very good at it.
He called calculating Square roots in his head a "party trick." He never used that level of math professionally.
From this, you could deduce a couple things:
1) my father was a real party animal.
2) for most of us mere mortals, that level of math capabilities is unnecessary
Now, before any angry mathematicians and/or math educators turns up, there's an important addendum.
Doing math is about more than just learning to do math, it's like bicep curls for your brain.
Regardless, please don't let the math scare you away from something you like doing
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