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thenumberonelistener · 6 months
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the only men i trust are aizawa shota and his husband
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andvys · 6 months
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one thing about me, i have never kissed a guy in my entire life. i’m a proud girl kisser
(eddie please come and give me a kiss i’m dying)
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This post will be be different from my entire page. It is an information point mainly discussing girls:
As a once perceived female, I have anger. Today I walked down the streets of my beloved town and I remembered the first time I went down it on my own. I was terrified and walking quickly because I heard horror stories and I felt sad about being separated from my family (I got a little bit lost). The FIRST pub I quickly walked past I was a scared object. I don't remember what they said, but it was something about being on my own and a pretty girl and just general catcalling. I was that sort of age where I didn't have any dislikes in food or in people. That must've been the first thing I disliked. I was so scared and it took me a long time to go out by myself.
This wasn't the first time I was sexualised, nor the last. It hurts me the disparage between men and woman, or more apt between men and girls.
May I iterate at this time that there is so much good in this world. Mostly reiterating to me so I don't throw something.
Dance took up a lot of my life when young. At the age of maybe 6 I learned to "sexy dance". Couldn't have been more than 4 when I started this sport and I remember so clearly being told to suck everything in. Ballet does rely on core strength, and I thought there was something wrong with me for having a bum or having a tiny tiny stomach that stuck out in revealing leotards. I was teased by the teacher for having breakfast.
It's one of my earliest memories.
I thought for years this was the fault of the leotar, that girls shouldnt wear such things. Turns out it's the people, the teachers, our unwanted observers.
Today, my boss walked behind me centimetres past me and I froze. His towel brushed my arse a little bit that could have easily been a genuine accident. What wasn't an accident was how close he was to me than his male co-workers. All shift he treated me like an idiot for asking questions about the workplace that I'm new to. I know for a fact that if it was a man asking the same questions that he would be inquisitive and wanting to learn, but I perceived his responses to mean that I am shrill and annoying.
We are taught from a very young age that men are dangerous and it proves to be right. We are taught to fear them all. Never during lessons was I surprised to hear the horrors of the world because it's ingrained from birth.
Half of our population is scared of the other.
Half of our population feel scared when a man is behind you.
Half of our population can't deal with this fear anymore.
We have been crying out for centuries to be taken seriously.
Since women being able to vote, there has been a shift of "women have all the rights already, why do we have to change because of one bad thing that happened?"
We need to change because grown women are afraid to be alone.
We need to change because children get cat called.
Legally, we are equal.
To you, we are equal because we can do the same jobs as you.
We see the ways you treat us differently but we are AFRAID to speak up.
We can't lose our jobs over this. Many do. I was replaced by a boy in my first workplace because he would be stronger than weak little girl. I lost my next job because I spoke out about feeling not safe.
I feel afraid when there's only men in the room. I feel that I can't say anything and I'm helpless. I feel that I'm the idiot, no matter what. One man can make a room full of girls/ women feel threatened.
A 16 year old today was told off because her legs were on display and it wasn't professional. I've seen men bartenders wear shorts all of the time.
There are different standards for you and for i, all because you presume me female.
We don't want to anger you in case you strike out and hurt us.
Because we've all been hurt by people like you.
I implore for the women/ former women to find a single woman who hasn't been scared of a man just waking down the street, just being looked at for too long.
Reply if you have never been scared of men.
Reblog if you have never not been scared of men.
A poem to end this speech.
Men.
I don't care who you are
I'm scared of you.
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borderlinebelle · 2 days
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“the duality of a wounded man”, April 26th, 2024 🙂
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princessefemmelesbian · 8 months
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Earlier when I first joined Tumblr I spoke about the horrific misogynoir on the r/unpopular opinion subreddit. Now get ready for part 2: the lesbophobia.
Just searching “lesbians” in the search bar on that dumb subreddit gets you results like this:
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I checked out one of the few positive lesbian posts, which was even written by a lesbian, who is also a trans woman to boot! 🤗
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And lo and behold, the RESPONSES. To be fair, some of them were positive:
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But that’s it. The rest?
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Cishet men are basically begging me to hate them. And so I will. I’m going to start killing these men. Who wants to join me?
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justcoziwantto · 11 months
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He’s actually the only man with rights. All other men please pack it up and return to the ninth circle of hell you crawled out of. You’re not the fun kind of spooky.
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spoiledsummerdasies · 8 months
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Me: men are scary
The system: *is mostly masc aligned*
Me: … except you losers, as if you could ever hurt me I’m the princess of this system and you know it
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got7 · 5 months
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men legitimately piss me off and scare me so much, i genuinely don’t think i can ever have full trust in a man for as long as i live
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blisscoretrash · 9 months
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if men weren't so terrifying and uncomfortable to be around and unsafe in nature, i'd definitely consider being a cute gf who makes her boyfriend pastries and paintings every so often just because i love him. but that's going to have to be reserved for my future girlfriend. she probably (definitely) deserves it more.
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rakkikuroba · 10 months
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So the other day i was a video on the endings in Silent Hill 2 because I wasn’t going to do the other ones lol and the next video title was "Silent Hill 3 : a tale of womanhood" or smtg. Didn’t watch didn’t wanna get spoiled.
And that’s so funny because the first thing that happened to Heather is that she’s getting stalked by a creepy older man who refuses no as an answer to the point where she had to hid in the bathrooms. AND IF THAT ISN’T WOMANHOOD IDK WHAT IS!
I haven’t played more because i had a violent meltdown (as autistics do lol) and im unable to play anything else than House Flipper because im tired
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etherealal · 1 year
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it makes me sick that this body has endured so much, created so much, loved so much, and still crumbles at the voice of a man.
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keyki421 · 2 years
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The scary thing is a lot of men watch Game of Thones and House of the Dragon and wish women today were treated like how we were treated back then. Like I don't understand how you can have a mother, sister and daughter and then think they should have less simply because they are a girl.
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curlycue216 · 1 year
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So on SuperBowl sunday, i went to a restaurant with my grandma almost 2 hours before the game. The bar already had a couple groups in it, but the dining room was damn near empty, so that's where my grandma and i sat. It was just the two of us. Note, I'm a woman in my mid-twenties, she's in her mid-eighties.
We had just ordered when a man on his way to the bathroom stopped at our table and offered to pay for our meal. I had never met him before, so i said thank you but no thank you. The waitress chased him off.
Coming back from the bathroom, he approached us again and started getting more insistant in paying for our meal. When i visibly started getting uncomfortable, he called me out on it and asked why i was uncomfortable, and what was wrong with having him pay for our meal, and taking care of us? I answered that i didn't know him and would rather he leave us alone. He looked quite offended by this, but he left us alone. We got our food a few minutes later, i told the girl who dropped off the food as well as our actual waitress when she stopped by to ask if everything was okay, and both promised to watch him.
He came by a 3rd time as we were finishing our food and got even more insistent on paying for our food. Like, "i'm paying no matter what you say." I again asked him to leave, stating that i'd already asked him once, and i was asking again, to please leave us alone. Again, he looked offended and angry, but walked away. As we were done with our food, i waved over another waitress, explained that he had approached again, and asked for the check. I payed quickly, and this waitress (a third girl) watched to make sure he didn't follow us.
I texted my oldest brother the guy's name, and it turns out they had gone to high school together. Now, i graduated 9 years ago, and this brother is 6 years older than me. He said that this guy was an asshole back in school. Apparently, he still is.
I sent a message to the restaurant's facebook page explaining what had happened, and this was their response. Clearly, these "conversations" they've had with him did nothing to dissuade him. I'm apparently the latest in a who-knows-how-long line of people who have been harrassed by him, and they refuse to do anything but "talk" to him. How far are they gonna let him go before they finally ban him? All i know, is that i'm not going back any time soon if they knew he was doing this and did nothing to stop it. I've gone to this place a ton as i grew up with my family, and the one time i go without a man, this happens.
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grvyrd-drms · 2 years
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forgot tumblr existed for a second. i went outside. guys it is NOT nice out there there are men.
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friendlychaos · 2 years
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Dude I’m at a concert and some random lady just pet my friends hair and some random man just came and talked to us. We’re very uncomfortable.
Update: we met some cool ladies in the bathroom who gave us life advice, and I am surrounded by pride flags at a restaurant that my friends mom took us to.
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theethlezprincez · 23 days
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