Thinking about the scene in Feinburg’s “Stone Butch Blues” where it talks about femmes being the strong ones at home, holding butches in their arms and letting them just be, because they’re so visible throughout the day, and they get abused and called harsh names, and they’re never allowed to be soft. And I’m thinking about my trans girlfriend and how when she gets home after spending a day pretending to be a man—just to be safe— and I hold her in my arms, and I am her place to be soft, her place to be herself, and we comfort each other. I can’t think of anything more lesbian than us looking out for each other that way.
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Continuing our series, Lesbian Magazines Through the Decades we have DYKE, A Quarterly published in New York from 1975 to 1979. Liza Cowan and Penny House created the magazine as a space for Lesbian cultural analysis. It was radically political but also extremely personal with letters and submissions from Lesbians searching for community. DYKE was intended to be a platform curated for dykes, the group felt that devoting any time to explaining our way of life to the straight masses was a waste and energy should be put only to strengthening Lesbian culture. In a statement from the magazine this is made clear when they say “Lesbian community – Lesbian culture- means Lesbian only DYKE is a magazine for Dykes only! We will speak freely among ourselves. We are not interested in telling the straight world what we are doing. In fact, we hope they never even see the magazine. It is none of their business.” Here at the June L. Mazer Lesbian collection is open to anyone who wants to learn about Lesbian history.
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Two types of lesbians: Either being a total goth girl with loads of rings and cute black skirts and wearing fishnets and DMs or being a total cottage core witchy girl who wears pretty white dresses and flowers in their hair.
I think I might identify somewhat with femme lesbians, but I have a hard time reading queer theory because it’s too relatable. 😅 I’ve read Anzaldua and Feinburg. Any suggestions for lesbian literature that explores femme-butch culture, but preferably something that will only make me cry a little bit as opposed to something like Stone Butch Blues that ripped my goddamn heart out? 😅
In essence, “time of useful consciousness” (TUC) is when living, breathing beings are able to function with inadequate oxygen. From Wikipedia: “The period of time from interruption of oxygen supply or exposure to an oxygen-poor environment to the time when useful function is lost, and the individual is no longer capable of taking proper protective action.”
If you’re a hiker going up Everest, for example, TUC gets shorter as you go higher. … ….”