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ushiwhacka · 1 year

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i don't mean to be controversial by saying this because, yes, men are the main perpetrators of the patriarchy and body standards. but women also can and do enforce these same standards and uphold the patriarchy. at some point you just have to take some personal responsibility and break thei cycle or else we're always going to be stuck here.

#yeah i know the post said it but i mention men in the tags and it's just not really how i feel #i guess i'm a bit sensitive to it because it's mainly been the women in my life that have changed the way i view myself for the worse #like my mom my aunts my grandmas my friends #and i've done so much hard work to unlearn all of these harmful ideals #but i still have to listen to my mother (who's a size s/m) talk about how she's so fat #or my friend make rude comments about other women and their looks #or my aunt talk about how she's taking insulin to lose weight #or something like that it's diabetes medication #my 4 year old cousin who won't eat breakfast because she doesn't want to get fat!!! because she's heard her mother say that a million times #at what point do you realise you too are the problem #sorry lol #it's extremely tiring #tw: body image #tw: discourse

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vivi266 · 8 months

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#love how this is actually about something but it's so broadly applicable i dont want to actually make that specificity clearer #original text: oh you think you're soooo fucking smart. with your fucking convoluted pretentious sentences #anyways the sticker is also extremely relevant and i'm tired of this post being popular

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nickkkdoesstuff · 2 months

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Screenshot redraw :D

#nickkk.jpg #rottmnt #rottmnt raph #rottmnt leo #rottmnt donnie #rottmnt mikey #after 3 years of hiatus i managed to do this im actually kinda happy :)#im extremely tired and rusty on this but hey! i did a thing :DD

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captainkirkk · 1 year

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I want to see characters being taken care of in an explicit and worshipful way. Home-cooked meals. Hair brushed and braided by gentle hands. Little gifts just because.

I want to read about characters who are not used to kindness being bombarded by acts of service. This trope works romantically and platonically. Give me found family and acts of service - all the ways a character is wrapped up in wordless, explicit care after years of cruelty and having no idea how to handle. I need it.

#fanfiction #this is the 'comfort' part of hurt/comfort #but i want to take it to the extreme honestly #not just comfort immediately after a traumatic event #but consonant daily comfort!#being taken care of because you are loved always and unconditionally #this is the real reason why i sometimes read sugar daddy AUs even though i don't like them #i want to read about characters being SPOILED #this is also why i love the mdzs love interests so much #luo binghe is the ultimate worshipful house husband and i love that #my posts #you can tell i'm irrationally tired when i start getting tear-eyed over someone being cooked a meal

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fluentisonus · 3 months

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i've seen several variations on this meme with legolas & gimli but no one but me gets which way around it should be it should be like this:

#POV you just woke them up #thoughts #tolkien #my art #lotr #gigolas #extremely quick doodle but v v important characterisation i feel #ie gimli is the one w the fancy robe legolas is the guy w the night shirt & silly hat But equally importantly legolas is the one to get up #in the night w the candle stick to see what that weird thump was you know? or to take out the spider on the ceiling (size dependent)#<- legolas looks so tired bc it's his first time sleeping properly in 3 months + probably first time seeing his husband in that time also.#and he just got woken up.

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rendevok · 11 months

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“Take my hand” pages 5-11

1 - day 2 - truth - 3

#nmweek23 #narumitsu #wrightworth #phoenix wright #miles edgeworth #i spent all yesterday shading and lettering these your boy is so tired BUT IT WAS WORTH IT #in which i cram way too much into way too little and yet way too many pages for a single day #my sincerest apologies to them on their day but i will make it up to them i PROMISE #‘prove it’ you’ll NEVER GUESS what happens next :^))))) (<-guy who is extremely predictable)#phoenix is so strong because if miles looked at me like that i’d be going crazy and im like a known enemy of edgeworth #see you guys in like 5-7 business days on part 3 o7 #fan art #aa #fan comic #rendevok #OH OH ALSO there’s like a whole fucking essay i could write about these pages esp wrt light and also The Hands but youll have to ask for it #just know that if you see something… there was probably a reason for it!#ok thats it fr this time

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clovergrowth · 9 days

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this is how i imagine barkbeetle in my head

#joking connotation #benart #regretevator #wallter #mark #mannequin mark #pest #barkbeetle #arguably i suppos #not rly romance or anything it was just the conception of this image #i drew the sketch for this at 3 am half conscious extremely tired #forgive me

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sleeplessflow · 7 months

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the last supper

#hopefully no ones done this yet #my art #the amazing digital circus #pomni #jax #ragatha #zooble #kinger #gangle #i would of added more details but i got extremely lazy and tired working on this #tadc fanart

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adm-starblitzsteel-4305 · 1 month

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BRO'S REALLY PISSED TODAY AND SAYS "FUCK OFF YOU LITTLE SHITS"

#BRUHHHHHHHHHHH #TOO TIRED AS SHIT #FOR BEING DO HIS FAVOR #THAT'S WHY #HUMANS GOT THEIR BRAVERY TO GET CLOSE TO HIM #AND GODZILLA LOOKS EXTREMELY GONNA FUCK THEM OUTTA THEIR SHITS #godzilla #monsterverse #kaiju #godzilla x kong: the new empire #gxk

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bixels · 1 month

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quick update on art moving forward:

i'm gonna be switching back and forth between doing more original work/non-mlp content and gg20s art from now on. things may go slower, but that's part of me trying to take care of myself vs. the past couple of months which has been "i need to finish and post at least 2 gg20s artworks every week or i'll die." i still need to finish that utena juri illustration, and i have a neat character design exercise i wanna do on designing 90s high fantasy anime characters.

for full transparency, here are some things i have lined up for gg20s (on my end at least, tulli's still going strong): character designs for nyc characters (coco pommel, coloratura, suri polomare), the disney opening sequence video, more rarijack (obviously), including that one-shot fanfiction, and a daring do comic.

ty guys.

#personal #delete later #the past half year has been great but i need to adjust things to take better care of myself #because i've also been extremely tired all the time #today because i'm taking a break from twitter and don't have pressure to keep making art to post i decided not to draw #and it was nice

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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses · 1 year

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growing up with a perpetually anxious primary caregiver is such a mindfuck. that shit will rewire your nervous system

#not a shitpost #i get that parenthood and modern life in general is extremely anxiety inducing #and that anxiety is a common mental health issue and anxiety disorders exist and do not disqualify you from being a loving parent #but i am begging you PLEASE do not project your anxiety onto your kids #especially younger kids #your job is to make your kids feel safe and secure. that is a primary requirement #that doesn't mean you can't be anxious!#but just like being angry doesn't mean you're allowed to yell at your kids or slam doors or break things #being anxious doesn't mean you are allowed to surround your kids with your own fear and stress or teach them to share your anxieties #your job is to be a comforting nurturing parental figure. that means projecting comfort and love #even when it is hard! even when you are tired or angry or scared!#which is a damn hard job! and you won't get it right all the time!#but dammit babes you gotta TRY #kids deserve to feel safe and comfortable in their daily lives #you CANNOT be teaching them to expect catastrophe lurking around every corner

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ewwww-what · 1 month

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