Love love love 😌💛💕💞

persona misogyny is so fucking wild. ignoring literally everything else about the entire rest of the games, every single s.link with a female character is like “entirely for having been born a woman i have had to work twice as hard for a fraction of the benefit. even now, i am stripped of my agency in a position i never wanted in the first place” and/or “i’m put on a pedestal by the people in my life because of my looks. men see me as an object to be conquered, women hate me for ‘stealing’ ‘their’ men. if i’m withdrawn i’m a bitch, if i’m friendly i’m easy. because of this, i’m alone” and/or “because of my personality or hobby or lack of cooking skills, i feel like i’m failing at femininity. if being a woman is something i can fail at, then where does that leave me? i’m scared at the loss of my identity and place in society”

like very consistently they present female characters with complex thoughts towards their place in society as women, femininity as a whole, and facing issues stemming from misogyny, and then the payoff is always “my problems were entirely my own fault. i wasn’t strong enough, i was a coward. but now, i’m gonna work hard to be exactly what society expects me to be (which is what i want to be)! i’m gonna do better at femininity (which is still something tangible i can fail at)! i’m going to try hard at making friends (which was my fault for not doing)! all my problems are solved through personal responsibility (that im totally culpable for), effort (which i previously was not putting in), or you, a man! i am Happy and Satisfied with this outcome, can i be Your woman?”

and like hello? why are we here. what the fuck are we doing. why do we keep doing this every single time. can we not do the constant lukewarm attempts at criticizing misogyny so you can jerk off to your own thoughtfulness, while ultimately reinforcing patriarchal systems and brushing off any deeper misogyny-bred issues as a lack of deference to one’s rightful place in society? like maybe don’t do that? for fucking once? just an idea

i don’t think people make matthew gay enough or even feminine enough anymore. like cmon he uses flowery salon-quality hair products and gets manicures and wears lipgloss on first dates! he puts so much into his appearance EXCEPT for his clothes bc he’s clueless!

Celestial sillies

Commission me

imagine that one night while half asleep, annabeth called percy pretty and he blushed so hard, he couldn't form a coherent thought for two minutes. then, the following morning, he expressed his acceptance of terms like pretty and beautiful and handsome and gorgeous and annabeth is super supportive of him, so anytime she sees him, she's all "hi, beautiful" and it drives percy insane in the most wholesome way.

Patrick Kane against the Buffalo Sabres

i love haircuts. i cant stop petting the back of my skull

rohini + marie antoinette (2006)

spoiler warning!

nakshatras as movies i love

Picture the most beautiful girl from high school. Not necessarily the most popular or outgoing, but the classmate who had everyone smitten. Her hair was always perfect, her outfits effortless, and she exuded poise, kindness, and quiet confidence. This hyper-feminine dream girl is precisely what Rohini nakshatra represents.

However, not everything is moonlight and rainbows with this placement. Gossip often follows a Rohini like a bad aftertaste. At some point during their youth, Rohinis felt abandoned for being their authentic selves. Many of the natives I've met were teased as preteens for not conforming to beauty standards (such as their wardrobe or body hair removal). Negatively-aspected Rohinis and Rohini Moons often receive this criticism from their own mothers.

Sadly, even when Rohinis conform under this pressure, they're demonized for it. This "damned if they do, damned if they don't" narrative persists throughout their lives, only easing up once middle age sets in and societal expectations of femininity abate.

As we know, hyper-femininity is both celebrated and punished by society. It's seen as an ideal yet somehow superficial. (Interestingly, even critics of hypermasculinity rarely accuse it of being "fake," but that's a discussion for another time.)

While every Lunar Nakshatra, including Rohini, Hasta, and Shravana, has an inclination towards social anxiety, Rohinis stand out, as when accused of being superficial, they often double down or adapt to secure their societal "shields." Rohinis feel everything physically, often experiencing anxiety in the form of pain, chills, or stomach troubles.

At the end of the day, Rohinis are pure-hearted souls dedicated to their small, close-knit circle of loved ones. They crave genuine connections and experiences after becoming disillusioned with social masks. I highly recommend Rohini placements to stick with those who love them for who they are, rather than what they represent.

🤍 ‿You're constantly on my mind. You've consumed me into your sweet abyss. Each time I hear your, I fall deeper into you. Subdued into you. Into your loving arms where I long to nestle myself forevermore. You're all I think of. You're all I think about. You're all I see before me. Those penetrating eyes of yours lure me into you. You’re touch mesmerize me. It's as if your fingers were crafted for my velvety skin. It's you I long for, I crave for, I yearn for. I long to be draped upon your shoulders. Listening to your melody of our heartbeating as one.⁀🤍

🎉 2023 wrap up 🎉

Any year is better than 2020-21 imo😪 like yall I didn't even wanna exist during that time.. anywho this year has been ALOT of milestones and emotions !

I've made some good friends who I thought would be there for me forever but weren't, I've also enlisted alot of boundaries with both family and friends because I'm tired of being hurt over and over.

I graduated from school and actually had a lovely summer !! Been going to college since and at times it has been stressful because I'm putting myself through school :/ and idk what I'm doing because I'm so new to everything but it's always cool asking for help ! As for relationships w family (me and sibs are real tight) ofc I felt envy because I felt like my mom doesnt spend enough time w me🤷🏽‍♀️ I dont feel that way anymore ofc. I ask my parents for advice from time to time but I dont wanna feel pressured or rushed cus it is my life and I do what I want n I'm on the right track rn.

As for friends, I dont wanna put up with the bullshit anymore of the fakeness , either be in my life or not; your choice🤷🏽‍♀️ cant force people to stay nor will I, I'm not gonna forgive no more either because people kno wtf their doin and I always feel stupid so that's the end of that, apologize all you want but there has to action and not words. Period.

I also discovered alot about myself this year too and what I'm into thus why I changed this blog around :] I still have nsfw accs follow me but that's fine all will be blocked till the day I die or deactivate XD but yes I feel stagnant with myself and will continue being me and being less afraid ☆ thanks to all the kind followers/moots who like my blog ily💜

2024 be kind to us🎉

is there a song that is more 2011 than super bass by la miki minach

hot take but richie is wayyyyy more likely to explore femininity than eddie

Funniest bit of becoming an expert on jungian analytical psychology for the meme (skimming a couple wikipedia pages) was that his concept of the persona amounts to "you need to unmask enough that you have an actual individual sense of self and aren't just numbly doing whatever's socially expected of you. But don't, like, completely unmask. Keep some mask. So you aren't A Freak"

Is he, you know. Blind to the world, a hopeless dreamer. a spectral Cassandra dreaded for his tactlessness and eternally misunderstood

val.kyrie : wrecking spacecraft & killing gods with her own bare hands also val.kyrie : talking to the dead & being oh so haunted by her own survival also val.kyrie : a very very serious king ( lie ) also val.kyrie : giggling & dancing terribly when she discovers re.naissance by be.yoncé 👉👈

Grover and his equally, if not more evil than him girlfriend, Eileen.

I've had this sitting in my drafts for unironically like a month now so TAKE IT!!!!

Kenny has a hippy phase as a teenager and makes and wears flower crowns and wears bellbottoms and button-ups and listens to nirvana and has long blonde hair and gets high