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babey-lewis · 4 months
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You are still a regressor if...
💓 You don't regress often
💙 You are usually the caregiver
🤍 You only regress to sleep
💙 You use diapers
💓 You swear when little
💙 You smoke while little
💓 You don't have a "little voice"
🤍 You are fat
💓 You are disabled
💙 You use mobility aids
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rosiethelovely · 26 days
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Dealing with a nonverbal pet or little
These are my tips on dealing with nonverbal pets and littles. I know both are fluent on who does what, so I tried to use what seems to be more common. This is mostly for understanding emotions or needs.
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Pay attention to body language.
Littles: negative or positive stimming, angry stomping, being aggressive with drawing or playing, curling into a ball due to emotional distress or for coziness when tired, cuddling up to caregiver, friends, or stuffed animals for affection or comfort, and if they are keeping to themselves or seeking out attention.
Pets: hiding in safe places when feeling unsecure or scared, being too rough with toys or caregiver due to irritation or distress, and pawing when wanting attention.
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Pay attention to what sounds they can make.
Littles: Happy babbling, sad or happy whining (sad whining usually follows distress like crying), sad whimpering due to sadness/fear/any sort of distress, laughing, and incoherent mumbling can mean boredom/spacing out/confusion/etc.
Pets: Making any strained animal sound that they are because of distress, hissing either for playfulness or anger, happy purring, and whimpering due to sadness/fear/or any sort of distress.
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Games or activies
Littles: Playing pretend! Littles love games and playing with their caregivers. Maybe try to pretend to play as animals or teacher and student. Maybe use cards to communicate. Another good way is watching shows or cartoons. Might not require much speaking, and it's a good way to spend one another's company.
Pets: Try and play a game your pet likes playing! Games with pets don't always require speaking. Try a toy on a string for your kitty or fetch with your puppy. Another thing I would recommend is building a nest/bed. Just like littles, pets love comfy things but in their own way. Maybe make a pillow or blanket fort to mimic a pet house or use a ton of blankets and pillows to mimic a pet bed.
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Thanks for reading!
I hope this helps someone. I struggled a little with pets as I haven't interacted with enough, but I think I know enough to put some sort of say. Please let me know if something needs improvement on here or just recommendations!
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mother-athena · 2 months
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it's morning and you're working on something at your desk when your little one quietly shuffles into the room, looking for you. "Good morning, angel. Did you sleep well?" You spin around in your chair as they come up to you.
quietly, your baby whines and lifts their arms up. "Are you feeling too little for words this morning?" You smile. "You wanna sit with me until you wake up a little more? Mommy just has to finish this really quickly and then we can have something yummy for breakfast."
you easily lift them into your lap and they immediately latch onto you, gently resting their head on your shoulder while you went back to finishing your work.
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very-feral-lesbian · 2 years
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wayne has always had to show up for eddie. from the moment that eddie was dropped on his doorstep however many years ago, he was eddie’s person. his biggest (and only) supporter of his sexuality, music, hobbies and generally, just him.
he was no idiot and wasn’t unaware of how eddie was treated. he was always the odd one out and that made him a target from the get go. outside of hellifre and corred coffin, wayne was it for him.
so understandably, he was hesitant as fuck when eddie had brought steve harrington over. he may not have known the boy himself, but he knew of the talk around town about his reputation and his parents. he was not eddies usual crowd of fellow rockers and nerds. but, eddie seemed to like him so wayne allowed it.
the harrington boy seemed to be around more often than not now, always spending the night or dropping eddie off. wayne didnt like to intrude but he knew steve was something special for eddie, so it came to no surprise when he introduced him as his boyfriend officially.
after years of being eddie’s biggest supporter, he slowly saw steve come to step up to the plate. he saw steve support every single one of eddie’s endeavors, no matter how small (like when he entertained eddie by holding onto each and every single rock the boy gave to steve). he even showed up in ways wayne couldn’t due to his work schedule, going to eddies gigs and helping him out with hellfire.
steve may have not been the man he expected, but months of seeing him show up for eddie in the ways that only he did for so many years; he loved him just like he loved his son.
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beaistiny · 3 months
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Never seen anyone make agere content for the show sweet tooth and it wasn’t something I knew I needed till now. Would you happen to have any agere headcanons for the show? :3
YES!!! I DO!!!!!!
Agere Sweet Tooth Headcanons!!
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Gus:
Baby Regressor!! I know he’s 10, but i think he would regress reallyyyy tiny, 1-2ish maybe
He chews on everything!!!!!
Loves to have his ears pet <3
Definitely chews on whatever he can, hands, clothes, stuffies etc
LOVES sweets and sugary drinks!!!
Wears Tommy’s and Bear’s jackets <3
Trauma regressor :( poor boy’s been through a lot
Thomas “Tommy” Jeppard:
Caregiver but also just Gus’ dad figure in general
Calls Gus ‘Sweet Tooth’ (obviously) but also ‘kiddo’ and stuff like that
Was oblivious to Gus’ regression at first and probably just thought that was how he grew up
Probably very cluelass to how to treat Gus when regressed lol
He also has to stop Gus from chewing on everything
Bear/Becky:
Big Sister caregiver!!
Some of the people in the Animal Army would regress so she knew how to spot it in Gus <3
Reads Gus and the other hybrids stories when she can!!
Definitely the “I’ll help you get into trouble but only if you don’t get hurt” kinda caregiver
Idk I feel like she’d give really nice hugs or something <3
I don’t have toooo many but.. anyways, Gus is literally my Son, i love him
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soapgraves · 3 months
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Greg appreciation & greg & steven stuff.
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havinganfois · 3 months
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Imaging your parental f/o seeing something you're interested in and incorporating it into the way they communicate with you. Watching the shows you use to understand the world. Explaining concepts to you through the lense of your favorite activities.
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cottoncandyfreckles · 11 months
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🍎CAREGIVER WALLY DARLING HCS🍎
🍎he’s a host of a children’s tv show if anyones good at taking care of little ones its him
🍎refers to himself in the third person when talking to little you
🍎 this man spoils you so much he just adores you
🍎 he works best with much younger littles but willing to care for any age
🍎 he’ll definitely call you little names like ‘little neighbor’ ‘my little apple slice’ ‘the apple of my eye’ and much MUCH more
🍎 you’ll definitely have most of your meals be apple related like apple slices apple sauces apple juice ect
🍎 will style your hair into cute little hairstyles no matter what your hair type is
🍎 he mainly trusts barnaby to babysit you barnaby has now the title of uncle 
🍎 he will customize all your paci’s for you
🍎 you two will def draw together alot and if don’t know how to draw then finger painting maybe he’ll even paint your face if your very very good
🍎 in short wallys a very caring and down to earth caregiver
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cosmic-c-kiddo · 5 months
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Cg! Lucifer Morningstar headcanons (pt2)
These are some more headcanons <3
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⭐- his Cg nickname is papa!
⭐- he would be a chaos cg! Who cares about rules! He doesn't! The only rules would be there to keep you safe!
⭐- your his prince(ss) so he will treat you with royalty!
⭐- he carries your drawings with him in his pockets.
⭐- he's old fashioned and has a wallet photo album and he would definitely show it off to praise you/show how adorable you are! (All filled with discrete pictures to be safe)
⭐- he is really dramatic! And it would always make you giggle
⭐- he's way to protective it's actually cute! He would make sure nothing sharp is near you and his heart always jumps whenever you trip a little or gets little to close to sharp corners
⭐-he would never talk you down when you get hurt and is always gentle. After he patches you up he would carry you (even if you feel all better)
⭐- when you babble he always responds with flare.
⭐-when you tell him drama from your stuff animals. He acts all offended like "how dare Mr. Sniffles push Mrs. Bunny!"and would ask if you wanted him to show them a lesson (which makes you giggle)
⭐- idk if I put this is part 1 but he spoils you.
⭐- he now sports painted nails thanks to you and he loves it!
⭐- in public he allows you to hold his hand(or finger) and finds its adorable
⭐- if someone is being mean to you he fiercely protests you then takes you out for ice cream
⭐- he would spoon feed you if you say please and don't stop asking him! (He rolls his eyes when he does so but has a tiny smile because he feels needed)
⭐- he would make sure you are always drinking water
⭐-if hes at work while you are small he would text you a lot! And he would tell you to do things! Like get dressed, eat, drink, and watch tv or color or play!
⭐- he would allow you to join him in pranking Dan (or if it's season 3 Marcus) but takes all the credit so you don't get any heat from it!
⭐- he would wear any friendship bracelets you make him even if it doesn't match his outfit because he knows it would make you sad if he doesnt
⭐- he loves to tell dad jokes and puns!
⭐- if he really needed someone to babysit you the people he would most prefer in order would be: Ella, Chloe, Linda, Maze, Amenadel
⭐- he gives out sticker rewards! Rewards for what? Whatever he deemed good! Finished your food? Sticker! Finished your water? Sticker! Wasn't being a brat? Sticker! Was being a brat but apologies? Sticker! Being adorable? Sticker!
⭐- he starts trying his best for you.
⭐- he would remember every stuff animal/toy you have
⭐-loves to play pretend with you
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babey-lewis · 4 months
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Hello, little love! What's going on, baby? Do you want cuddles? Oh, of course! Come sit on my lap, little baby, get nice and comfy, hm? All better? That's good, I'm so glad! Do you want me to read a story to you? Yeah? Yay! Let's do it, sweetheart! Once upon a time....
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rosiethelovely · 16 days
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♡ To all the sensitive and traumatized littles and pets ♡
You are not annoying to your caretaker or friends
Your feelings and trauma are completely valid
It's okay if you need some space
It's okay if you need to be held by your caretaker and friends constantly
You deserve all the nice, loving, and patient treatment
It's okay to be scared of your friends and caretaker during scary episodes and moments
It's okay to be scared and sensitive to small things
It's okay to be scared to regress completely or be nonverbal and babble
All of you traumatized and sensitive littles are adorable and deserve all the love no matter what.
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tinymoonlight · 4 months
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i guess this is a thing now when i get out of depression episodes i just draw gabriel again..!
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rebellum · 1 year
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I feel like... Perhaps... Arguing that transphobia is defined by murder and that anything other than murder doesn't even matter... May NOT be conducive to fighting for trans rights.
Like... people want the right to exist as they are. They want to have access to hrt and surgeries and prosthetics. People want access to clothes that fit them and reflect how they want to be seen. People want access to medical care (eg. Getting screened and treated for sex-based forms of cancer can be impossible if you have the "wrong" sex listed to receive those tests). People want to be respected and treated well. People want to not be sexually assaulted and beaten and abused. People want to have access to housing and jobs, and the protection to not lose those things for being trans. People want access to shelters for homeless people or survivors of domestic abuse. People want name changes.
Acting like all of those things don't matter because at least they weren't murderered by an individual (and instead die of suicide or state violence, or survive and suffer) isn't okay.
#'hey people are forcibly detransitioning you and raping and beating you and you lost your job and are going to be homeless and#probably die of infection from being stabbed for trying to go to the bathroom. but at least you arent part of a demographic that has a#higher murder victim rate! shhh just ignore that we dont actually have data on the murder rate of your group.'#do ppl like. forget state based violence exists. and that thats most violence minorities face.#idk man im just. mad about people on here acting like youre only oppressed if youre a perisex trans woman who was AMAB.#cause i exist at the intersection of multiple minorities and being told hey u experience violence but at least you wont be murdered by an#individual feels like a slap in the face.#like it doesnt matter if i have to mask my neurodivergent behaviour bc if people see they could assume im on drugs and call the police and#i could potentially be really hurt but not die but hey at least i wont die just be horrifically traumatized by police brutality!#there are millions of people with mental illnesses similar to my own around the world who are institutionalized and forcibly medicated or#living on the streets or dependant on horrifically abusive caregivers#but hey at least they arent being murdered!#like. the way the transphobia discussion on tumblr rn discusses (and doesnt discuss) race and ability and class and health makes me#feel very invisible.#like if people had to choose who to believe about my experiences between listening to me a black/mixed mentally ill maybe disabled (used to#be disabled) hella nd trans nonbinary person#or listen to a white middle class trans woman's take on my experiences that theyd choose her. its such a weird weird microcosm.#its like a monkeys paw like people are finally listening to trans fems and finally recognising the violence they experience and finally#actually caring about them but for some reason decide that in order to do that its necessary to throw every other minority under the bus#like fuck man have you seen how 'anti transandrophobia truthers' discuss race? its NOT okay#we all matter we all are so similar and are part of the same groups and same communities we need to stick together#stop using trans fems as a battering ram to hurt other minorities challenge#cause like. yes its some trans fems. but its mostly NOT?#like its non trans fems telling other non trans fems that they arent oppressed#and even when many trans fems are like what the fuck dude of course other trans ppl matter whats wrong with you#the group of like 80% non trans fems 20% trans fems are like 'hmm if you are defending other trans people you must not really be trans fem'#like. denying trans fems their identity bc they disagree with them?? dude someone doesnt stop being a trans fem cause they recognise#people other than trans fems matter and exist#its just all so WEIRD its a weird little tumblr microcosm#i wanna stress. for those of you who dont have access to other lgbtq+ communities. how much it seems to be primarily a tumblr thing. to
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n4talia-chaparro · 5 months
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SNEEDBORG DUMP CUZ WE NEED HIM AND HIS ENERGY-
My AU may have a scary and cringy theme but it has few characters that are (friendly and safe!🌸) cg and regressor coded and I'm not ashamed of admitting that :ppp
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everybodyshusband · 7 months
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Help, food for thought, little Phantom with joint pain (wrists and ankles) so it hurts to do anything. He constantly is rolling them and pulling on them but nothing feels better and he's too little to remember how to use his magic. So eventually he just gives up and has a meltdown because he's in pain and can't cope in any other way feeling this small while being in so much pain. It isn't until Dew finds him laying in a ball, no tears left to cry does he finally get some soothing. Gently, Dew takes his wrists and ankles in his hand one at a time and holds it, using his heat to try and ease some of the pain. It works enough for Phantom to relax some before eventually drifting off for a nap due to how hard he had been crying.
It's literally me. I'm the little crying over joint pain
ohh, i love this idea so much !!!
dew would be sooo kind and gentle with phantom while he's so small and in so much pain. speaking to him with a really soft tone. he's got a lovely quiet and soothing voice and is more than happy to give phantom lots and lots of gentle cheek and forehead kisses to help breathe a bit of life back into him
dew using his heat to slowly warm phantom's aching joints is absolutely genius by the way :D maybe he fetches a heatpack (or five) to place around phantom's ankles while he massages some gentle warmth into his wrists. and you just know they're bundled up under a nice fluffy blanket with some kind of simple documentary playing as background noise so phantom has something else to focus on rather than his pain
and of course, once phantom wakes up from his tear-induced nap, dew would definitely be pressing a sippy cup of water into phantom's hands to get him to replenish all the fluids he lost from crying
ohh, i'm so sorry to hear that :(( with your permission, i'm bundling you up in a soft, fluffy blanket of your own and smothering you in heat packs <3
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extremely self indulgent disjec agere board
i’ve never made one of these before be nice please..
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