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step one: guess which email account i used (that took...awhile)
step two: reset password
step three: delete all comments and posts
step four: peace out on my two year reddit experiment
#i've been on this hellsite for over a decade#attempted branching out for resources and found that was a waste of time#reddit blackout#the few places i poked around it are all active#r/ supernatural screenwriting x-files#fandomnatural is so dead you can't even tell they went private for two days#[ rant ]#supernatural and screenwriting were the epitomy of low effort posting#the lands of LMGIFY
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Okay, wtf does "prev" mean?
I've seen it on two polls now and I'm so confused.
#I've been on this hellsite for over a decade#you can't just go inventing new lingo for me dangit#get off my porch you whippersnappers
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Tumblr user penisinflation420 liked my long and emotional post about Jules Bashir, trauma, ableism and how I as a disabled person relate to all that and I was smirking a bit at the juxtaposition of it. Then I remembered that I am tumblr user quarks-pussy so I guess I shouldn't call the kettle black here lmao
#fr tho i love it#i didn't tag penisinflation420 cuz it didn't feel relevant (more of a funny little post it note for myself and anyone passing by) but yea#why do you think i've been on here for over a decade lmao#hellsite? more like homesite. jk#not star trek#original posts fresh from quark's pussy#personal#administrative#(kinda)
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having adhd is having a hyperfixation on smth but also not being able to focus lol
#like- i'm rereading r/wrb for muse purposes but my brain is also reminding me that i'm exhausted from work and should sleep but also need to#read but that i should also finish making icons for alex and henry but that i should also look up r/wrb content on this hellsite and stare#at it mindlessly for hours on end. also yes hi- i've been unmedicated for over a decade now and having my brain pulling me in a million#directions is making me think that maaaaaaybe i should go see a doctor and get put back on it lmaooooo#ANYWAY- I LOVE THIS FANDOM AND THESE CHARACTERS AND ALSO I'M CONTEMPLATING ADDING THE SIDE CHARACTERS TO MY MULTI LOL#ooc.
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not to have an opinion or anything but.. I would die for fall out boy
#I've been following them for over a decade (I'm 22 for context lol) and I lov them so much#they're just little guys#also#they're just like me fr#me talking into the little hellsite (affectionate)
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If I may ask, what is your gavidaily-main account for? 😅
oh that's because gavidaily is a side blog lol I had this account back when I created gavidaily and then I just turned the main blog into an empty void just so I could interact and follow people and they'd know it's me
#cause it's 2023 i've been in this hellsite for over a decade and they still didn't figure it out a way to make interactions come from#your side blog#or allow your side blog to become your main#anon#ask#gavidaily asks#(my dms on the main are allowed to mutuals only if anyone needs to chat)
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Just a heads up that my usual slowness is gonna be likely amplified for a long while. This isn’t a hiatus or a semi-hiatus or anything, that I can promise! But it is just a note that recently, my crappy laptop seems to have an issue with tumblr’s dash overall, and with spikes in CPU usage just from looking at my dash, I have to be careful how much of that I can do before my computer’s overloaded. My keyboard is shot in several areas, I can’t look at gifs for long without overloading it... I’ve got a crap laptop and it’s starting t catch up with me. XD
Again this isn’t a hiatus note! <3 I just didn’t feel right being so much slower than normal around here, both on replies and answering asks/messages, and not give y’all a heads up to the reason why <3
~Pom
#Out Of Poms [OOC]#Howling Poms [PSA]#I can't even MOVE my laptop when it's not plugged in or it'll straight up just die on me#No warning - Just dead#I'm pretty sure none of that is helping?#But some watching it last night showed the dash is weirdly a major culprit#So I've been working on Shayan's icons and doing some blogwork in the background - And doing replies from my drafts when it's not too bad#And I can't afford a new laptop? So? Gotta make due~ <3#But I AM doing things when it'll allow! The draftbox doesn't seem to have the same effect as the dash#So I'm teaching myself to draft and work on replies there instead of doing them from the dash#...Listen I've been on this hellsite for a decade this wasn't a skill I had to learn at the start XD#Also the next time I decide to redo over 6k icons between Sera Shayan and my mun stuff someone hit me with a squeaky dog toy
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HII !! omg i just wanted to say hello and wish you a lovely day and talk about how much i LOVE your user, it’s perfect omg 😭💗 (YOUR ICON TOO, AND YOUR BLOG AS A WHOLE TBH !!)
OMG HI HI HIIII, SUGARPLUM!!!! gosh, i'm so sorry i missed this, i had quite the busy weekend, and i hope yours was every bit as lovely as you are!! i'm also so glad to hear how much you like my url, i had it stashed away in my back pocket for the holidays. i'm also just super happy to hear you like my account altogether... like.. 🥺💕
#darling-im-wonderstruck#answered#i've kinnnd of???? been contemplating deleting this account idk#idk i've been a long time fan of taylor and on this hellsite for over a decade...#and i only just recently thought to make this account and try to introduce myself to the swiftie side of tumblr to make new friends#(and also i just really wanted a separate account from my main to blog about taylor/sabrina/other musicians/celebs)#it's been a little more difficult than i thought tho lol i forgot how crippling shy i am so i just... mainly lurk 😅
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Made this blog today. I am not new to tumblr. This is just another alt. account / remake except I'm soooooo dedicated to only posting things that make me happy.
^ Actual Photo of me meeting mads
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gosh i sure do love when tumblr tells me i have emoji (hourglass) likes to go through
#what does this mean????#tumblr#hellsite#is it that i have so many you're having a hard time loading the number and it's wait/load thingy cursors sometimes do?#is it that my likes are strewn across time?#the over decade i've been liking posts to go back too when you aren't broken and will let me reblog again or that i jsut vibe on#is it the eons of mental stair painting and psychic damage i have afflicted and been inflicted by?#tell me hellsite (affectionate) what does it mean and how can i keep it
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Like this is the problem, i don't think Tumblr staff understand that the nickname "hellsite" is not a joke. The only reason why Tumblr users are here is because they don't like the business models of other sites. At least for me, I'm here bc "blocking porn bots every day, dealing with the shitty search function and the most annoying bugs" is what I've decided is a fair price to pay for a website that isn't Instagram, TikTok, Twitter. If I wanted a website like the aforementioned, why would I deal with the drawbacks I do, when I could just. Go to Instagram, TikTok or Twitter.
Competing with those giants will not be a winning game for staff, all they're doing is alienating the loyal userbase they have been building by keeping the same model for over a decade, and the userbase they are trying to appeal to has objectively better options.
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My blog turned 10 🎂🥳
It's so wild to realize that I've been on this hellsite for a decade 😅 But... you know... if you're having fun 😂
Anyway, thank you for all the support I've gotten over the years! 🥰 Maybe I'm not posting the most groundbreaking things, but I do enjoy making them! And I hope you enjoy them too! ❤
I'm certainly enjoying seeing all the community activity here! You all are so inspiring! 🤗
I didn't get to make as many things as I wanted, but I hope you'll like the few gifts I'm gonna share for this occasion! 🎁
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Creating Tumblr themes: Websites or tools you might not have heard of
There are several posts and pages on how to create Tumblr themes. I figured I'd add some links and tools that I haven't really seen on this hellsite. Enjoy!
Chrome Devtools — This is an obvious one to point out to some, but I don't wanna leave it out. Right click and inspect on a website! "live edit" your CSS and HTML and watch it take action immediately. Just remember to copy the html/CSS into your theme before refreshing ;) I've used similar tools on Firefox since 2010, never looked back. devtools is powerful as fuck, but you don't need to know everything before diving into it.
Prettier.io — "An opinionated code formatter." Use the online playground to check your scripts or neatly fix and arrange your CSS. Or just HTML. It can also be installed in VS Code easily, which I highly recommend.
Coolors.co — colour patterns, gradients, create colour schemes from images, check for accessibility, and so much more.
Lucide Icons — the popular Feather icons just got an upgrade, so many Icons! Go here to see how to integrate it in your themes.
Neumorphism.io — What it says on the tin.
uiverse.io — Universe of UI elements to help you stand out. Great source of inspiration as well.
Fancy Border Radius Generator — Because why settle with squares?
Blob generator — if fancy Border radius isn't enough. Generator of much more than blobs, by the way! Check it out.
Open Props: Sub-atomic styles — Supercharged CSS variables.
Modern CSS Reset — better than Eric Meyer's.
Subtle patterns — been using this for over a decade.
CodeMyUI — repository for CSS snippets.
Codepad — a place for developers to share code snippets: PHP, Java, Bash, C, C++, Python and more.
Mesh Gradient Collection — because it's pretty.
WAVE — Check how your website/theme holds up accessibility-wise. Spoiler alert: get into aria-labels.
Feel free to message me more, and I'll add it to the post.
#tumblr themes#resourcemarket#supportcontentcreators#theme hunter#themehunter#plugins#other#codes by me
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"You turned off replies on your desteil meme!!!!" Yes I absolutely did and let me explain to you why
People are stating iver and over to just Google the information. And that is fair. I get that. Look up the stuff for yourself, the meme is just supposed to be a fun header. I know that, I get that, I've been around these parts for over a decade I am not stupid and I'm not trying to make people spoonfeed information.
However, if a fuck ton of people are going to end up learning about a topic first through a meme, then the least the op can do is add the source of where they got said information from. From there, we have easy access to read the information, find more, and form our own opinion.
That's also a good way to ensure if the thing they credited to is actually a good source to get info from. From there people can let the op know if the website they got the information from isn't legitimate if it happens to not be. The Logitech Sue desteil meme being fake, but people blindly believing it anyway, is a shining example of why we need those sources. Not everyone is going to look up information, it's just a reality that some people don't seem to like to accept.
Im not trying to encourage people to only get their news from hellsite dot com, that is the worst thing you can do tbh.
What I am encouraging is the share of useful information on a site that claims to absolutely love when things are sourced back to the original material or credited properly
And all it would require is for the op to make like. 4 extra clicks.
With that said yeah, I don't like hearing a broke record. I don't expect this to get as seen as the meme, so I know I'm still gonna get backhanded comments, which is fine. But I just wanted to clear it up for the people who actually listen and understand what I'm trying to say.
Anyway have a nice day, add sources to things, please and thanks
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This may not end up being the most coherent ask, and don't feel a particular need to publish it if you don't want to, but I wanted to reach out and thank you for the way you talk about your documentary project. A little while ago you talked about how you can get into an in depth conversation immediately with queer people by asking about their clothes, and my gut reaction was "oh, I mean, I wouldn't have anything to say to the sex witch about my clothes, I really don't dress very interestingly at all."
Anyway, the natural part of this was for the tiny sex witch who lives in my head to ask me a few insightful follow up questions, and I got into a very helpful conversation with myself about coming out late, internalized repression, body insecurity, and the feeling of a lack of agency over how I present myself. After this entirely imaginary interview with you, I've allowed myself to buy clothes in bright colors, with interesting prints and patterns, and am reconsidering the sorts of things I wear with strict instructions to Have Fun With It. So, thanks! I'm excited to see the documentary when it's finished!
I actually am gonna publish it just because I want you to know how much this meant to read, for both me and my creative partner on the doc. I sent them a screenshot and they responded like this
and it's just. very very cool and humbling that whatever I've been doing on this hellsite for the last decade has resulted in people having the ability to What Would The Sex Witch Say so hard that they can, like, have really productive conversations with themselves and make happier choices. that's just genuinely really amazing and I really appreciate that you wrote in to tell me about it :)
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Hey. I saw you deleted all the excitement/nonsense from the other day, wanted to check in on you. I realized that while I've been on this hellsite for 12 years and seen and experienced a great deal of my own anon drama, I forget how overwhelming & terrible it feels when it first happens to you.
I failed to notice that, in addition to being very new to this site, you're also only 18 (please note that this is not meant to sound condescending - tone is impossible to convey via text). I was a couple years older than that when I joined here, and I carried just as much excitement and energy into everything I posted and reblogged and quickly gained a reputation for myself. From what I've observed from your blog though, mine was decidedly...less fun & positive, so I got a LOT of anonymous messages telling me what they thought of me. I would spend a lot of time thinking about those anons and the terrible things they said to me, constructive or not, objective or not. It didn't matter how many support messages I got from friends or mutuals, or how much we mocked the anons or made light of the situation - I was angry, embarrassed, felt like nothing I did would fix it, and sometimes didn't want to log onto this site anymore, despite it being the only outlet I had to express myself in this way.
It is normal to focus on the small negative in spite of the overwhelming positive - healthy? No. But normal.
My point is: Please do not let this nonsense deter you from being you. Not everyone is going to like you, and that is totally fine. Not everyone is going to like how you post/reblog on your blog. Speaking solely for myself, I generally keep a more contained dashboard I can scroll through quickly at work, so I don't follow your blog, but I don't translate my personal feelings on how you blog into my personal opinion of you as an individual. Everyone blogs differently on this site, which is what keeps it interesting. I'm also not so chronically online to go out of my way to send you a 5-paragraph essay about consent or being hypersexual in a fandom for a gay Satanic band. Instead I'll send you a 8-paragraph essay trying to comfort you and to tell you not to despair, lmao.
I LOVE your enthusiasm about how you express yourself in your posts & reblogs, and it seems there's a shit ton of blogs around you that feel the same way & express themselves the exact same way. Don't lose that spark! Don't let them rain on your parade! [Insert another cliche phrase here]!
Take time if you need a break, but please understand you did nothing wrong. Everything said to you was someone's opinion they wanted to force on you to control how you behave because they themselves are terrified of the world around them and don't understand they cannot control others. Hopefully one day they'll realize how sheltered and, quite frankly, stupid they are. I did.
My advice: if you ever reopen anons and start getting those messages again, delete them and don't engage. Most of the time they're just looking for attention, to rile you up. Classic bullying tactics.
Or print out their messages and use them as firewood. Or toilet paper. Whatever works.
Lastly, you don't have to acknowledge this or publish this message if you don't want to. Genuinely, I just wanted to reach out and make sure you're okay and to attempt to longwindedly impart some advice from my own experiences over the decade.
You do you, dude. Fuck the haters.
Thank you so so much for this incredibly kind and comforting message ♥︎ I really appreciate it more than you could imagine, it even made me cry reading it. I feel like this message is a good closer for this situation, so I’m also going to use it as an opportunity to give a little PSA about how my blog will be operating from now on.
First of all, just thank you again. I’m honestly astonished because every single thing you mentioned is exactly how I feel. The hurt of it all despite getting so much support, the empty feeling of not wanting to go on tumblr anymore despite it being my only outlet. Tumblr was supposed to be my safe space, my escape, my home, and it really sucks because it honestly doesn’t feel like that anymore.
I think the thing that hurts the most is that literally no one reached out to me as a friend in the dms to tell me that I was bothering them. I’m not a mind reader, so if no one says anything then I assume I’m not bothering them. But I do pride myself on always being approachable, I’m ALWAYS open to people messaging me with their concerns.
It’s different when it’s some faceless anon who comes off as slightly passive aggressive. If someone would have just DMed me, I definitely would have put more thought into it and taken their suggestion. Since I haven’t been on tumblr long, I didn’t even know the difference between reblogging with a comment or reblogging with tags until literally just now during this whole situation.
I just feel like I’ve been serving spaghetti every night for dinner. 9 people say they absolutely LOVE it, but then I come to suddenly find out the 10th person doesn’t. But they never said anything all this time, so how was I supposed to know?
I’ve had two people block me who I thought were my friends. One who, during this situation, even said she’d always be there for me. Basically, she informed me that our mutual friend had been upset about my comments and apparently never said anything before this, so I reached out to that friend and apologized. She apparently got triggered by my apology, and they both blocked me. That hurt. A lot. And if I’m being honest I’ve been fighting so hard not to self harm during this time.
I feel like I’ve been treated like a malicious criminal over this, when in reality everyone should know damn well I’ve never done ANYTHING to deliberately make people feel bad.
And don’t worry, I definitely did not take the comment about my age to be condescending. In fact, I wish more people would have taken it into account. And the fact that I’ve only been on tumblr for 6 months, so I don’t really know much about it.
I have a life outside tumblr. I’m a student, and I’ve had to be a full-time caretaker to sick relatives who have now unfortunately passed away. I’m grieving. My father abandoned me and my mother, so I’ve had to take over doing all the things that he used to do.
I come on tumblr, I scream about everyone’s favourite satanic antipopes, I post some fics, and then I close the app and go about my life. I don’t research the history of tumblr and what’s deemed acceptable by certain groups of people. I’m a human. I’m a real teenage girl, with feelings. I’m able to be hurt, and triggered, and everything else. I know I’ve created a personality for myself on here, and I think people often forget that I’m a real girl.
I wish I could say I’m okay, but right now that spark definitely feels dampened into a sad little ember. Since this has happened, I’ve almost stopped eating entirely, and when I do eat, I immediately throw it right back up. My Mom took me out to eat and I threw up in public. This has honestly had my stomach in knots.
Today was the first day I actually didn’t feel nauseous. So hopefully time will heal this wound. I wouldn’t wish this on ANYONE, but I’m glad to see you got through it and made it out ok. I’m hoping for the same outcome for myself too.
Now for the PSA portion of this message (everyone please read):
Will I stop being unhinged? Hell no. But I will be moving any horny comments into the tags, as suggested by the people who had complaints. The absolute last thing I want to do is alienate people and make people uncomfortable. (I still have questions about reblogging with comments tho, for example, if I say something not horny should I still put that in the tags or is it ok to comment that?)
Secondly, my best friend suggested that I should just start taking my unhinged comments and making them into posts of their own, so I’ll probably do that too. I think I might tag them with some cheesy tag, probably a pun on nsfw (not sugar for work?) so that if you’d like to blacklist that tag, you can, and then your dash will be safe for scrolling at work or wherever. And you can just click ‘view post’ if you want to view it.
So, rest assured, the horny party will never stop! But since I’ll be putting my stuff in the tags, you probably won’t see it circulating as much as reblogged comments, so if you want to see me being unhinged, just come to my page and scroll through!
Also, I’ve gotten so many other supportive messages and I want to thank everyone for sending them in. I won’t be answering them, because I don’t want a lot of stuff about this situation on my blog. And this is going to be the last time I talk about this situation on my blog. But the supportive messages really do mean a lot to me, so thank you all ♥︎
I feel malaise, so I might still be absent for a little while, but I’ll try to get back in the saddle as soon as I can. I haven’t been in the best mindset to write, but I’m really going to try because posting fics and running this account genuinely make me happy.
Thank you for taking the time to read, and I hope to see you all again very soon
Love always,
Sugar <3
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