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a-study-in-bullshit · 9 months

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#webweaving #web weaving #the human condition #sisters #sisterhood #i love my sisters #on siblings #on sisters

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fianne-0123 · 3 months

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My sisters do not look at me as much as I look at them.

She thinks that I am my mother’s favorite but they are each other’s favorite and I have nobody if not my mother. But my mother does not listen to me, so in reality, I truly have nobody.

My elder sister will not know how I make my fried rice. She will not know about my 6th grade unrequited love, about my favorite authors, and my talents. She will not know.

But I will know her like the back of my hand; I know how she loves watching true crime, I know how much she adores dogs and how particular she is about her stuff and I will take all of this to the grave.

(I do not want to, I think, but I feel more than that.)

I know how she’s still hungry after, in a fight with mother, she says she isn’t.

I know she is so I will stay behind and eat a little bit slower. I’ll whisper to mom hushedly, “I’ll wipe the table and wash the dishes” to get her off my back, even if I don’t want to, but because I want my sister to eat.

I see her and she doesn’t see me. Or, she does see me but she doesn’t understand me. She looks at me like I’m darkness looming through her and she looks at me like I’ve somehow ruined her life and I don’t know what I’ve done.

I haven’t done anything but it’s almost like I’ve died in my mother’s womb, and I am now just a ghost haunting them for when I speak they respond but their arms dig past my heart and instead of feeling through me, they feel past me.

I’m here and they’re choosing to ignore me.

I’m here and it’s like I’ve never been.

I stand on my right foot and contort my body into a woman when I am barely a teenager, and I would do so again and again just for her to see me.

I would tear my body in half for her to see me for me.

I am afraid that she will only do so when my body has long decomposed in its casket and she receives my folder of files just like this one, detailing how I’ve felt.

Shivers may pass through her veins, and instead of satisfaction, she will feel guilt. She will feel rotten and disgusting. I do not want that.

I am torn into bits and pieces and my lungs have been removed and yet I am still breathing and I am already inexplicably dead when I feel shame for dying out of guilt for living.

#poeming #pem #poem #potry #NOT POTTERY #poetry #man #family issues #youngest sister #i crave validation #estrangement #trying #trying to be a good sister #(somehow failing.)#i love my sister #i love my sisters #kinda vent #this is a cry for help #banana phone

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mos-twin-mattress · 5 months

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I LVOE BLACK WOMEN OK?

I love hood black women

i love nerdy black women

i love dorky black women

i love high femme black women

i love stud black women

i love ratchet black women

i love loud black women

i love black women

i love fat black women

i love twiggy black women

i love THICC black women

i love trans black women

if youre black and a woman, i love you so much

I love mean black women (they have their reasons)

WE are the BLUEPRINT, dont get it twisted!

ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE CELEBRATED HERE!

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canadian-pug-cartel · 9 months

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Making your own food < stealing food from your sisters

#pug cartel talks #I love my sisters #I love stealing food from them <33

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anawkwardgalnamedtarazan · 1 year

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Dude. I think me and my sister, @frootychick ,are time travelers🤯⏰️

#time travel #unbelieveable #supernatural #family #i love my sisters

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enby-hawke · 2 years

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Had a really good talk with my sisters last night. My middle sister told me that she was disappointed I stopped updating my fic and I was like girl, it’s at 210k now, and she was like @_@ where’s the link? And now my middle sister is trying to talk my younger sister into reading my Malcolm/Leandra fic so they can talk about it.

I’m so lucky to have an awesome family.

#I love my sisters

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oceanera12 · 2 years

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Look I love my sisters, right? But they come up with the craziest things. For instance, I got the following message from them at ten o'clock at night:

"Sis, we have a problem:

Peter Pan is Link.

Think about it--"

Peter Pan has a Shadow self. Link has a Shadow self (sure Link and his Shadow try and kill each other most of the time, but not ALL the time, which is how Peter and his Shadow get along).

He's got a pet bird or a pet fairy, depending on who you ask (In the play, "Peter and the Starcatcher", which is the origin story of Peter Pan, Tinkerbell starts as a bird and then magically gets turned into a fairy--and this is from the original story. Link has a Loftwing, which gets subbed out for a fairy later down the line.)

They both wear green. Self-explanatory.

...Okay, this is a weird thing. Wendy's Mother Molly, fell in love with Peter Pan. And when she did, but realized she couldn't stay with him forever, she wished that Peter would fall in love with all of her daughters, granddaughters, and great-granddaughters. For all time. And Link and Zelda got that whole "eternally bonded for all time" (Side conversation: "You know, Molly is Ganon!" *laughter*)

They are both CHILDREN (okay, Peter is eternally a child but Link is usually a child when he's called to adventure)

They are both orphans.

They both use swords.

"So we have ruined Link but made Peter Pan better because Peter is annoying." (their words, not mine)

(Random Fun Fact for Peter Pan: Captain Hook gave Peter his first name and magical mermaids gave him the Pan part of his name.)

Me: ... what in the name of HYLIA???

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ship-of-skitties · 3 months

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#i love my sisters

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lazylittledragon · 4 months

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you know what fuck it we’re doing dadstarion

#bg3 #baldur’s gate 3 #astarion #tavstarion #idk if this is canon to the dorianverse yet but he looks like a little hobbit!!!#this is a Long long long time post brain i think. since they’ve sorted out the daywalker thing #i don’t think he’d be affectionate but i think he’d be VERY protective #they’re not bad parents in the way that they neglect or mistreat him or even just don’t love him #i think they love him to death but you just shouldn’t give your small child a KNIFE #this one is my favourite sister bc she reminds me of robin

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xiewho · 2 months

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complaining about high elves and sharing inside job gossip. the sisters ever actually

#fantasy high #dimension 20 #fantasy high junior year #adaine abernant #aelwyn abernant #fhjy #d20 #looking @ my art is like art style roulette #will i render next time? will i abuse the lasso tool? stay tuned !#i love the abernant sisters they are everything 2 me #dimension 20 fanart #also im madly in love with aelywn. just so u guys r aware #my art

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andthebeanstalk · 11 months

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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identitty-dickruption · 10 months

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beating allegations of being an eldest child by relentlessly posting about how I will literally explode if someone tries to compare me to my siblings

#I love my sisters #but I’m special and different and unique >:(#also still weirded out that some people on here think that I’m an eldest child #$10 if you can guess my enneagram number and MBTI lmaoo #not really. it’s pretty obvious I think

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incohesiveramblings · 10 months

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Felt like sharing an old conversation between my sister and I about her sneaking out of the house.

Classic sibling shenanigans

#i love my sisters #but my mom?#not so much

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spiderzlover · 4 months

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Onaga kids with their quirky names🔥🔥

#who names their children like that😭#at least it's another coin for my frye-beika sibling headcanon hehe #Frye's sisters are Sear and Simmer! finally named them somehow lol👍#I love Onaga fam💛💛💛#splatoon 3 #frye splatoon #leyko drawz

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lingeringscars · 1 year

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prue is mad at phoebe for being callous with wanting to sell the house; she doesn't understand that position phoebe is in and that phoebe needs the money. she had to give up everything to take care of her sisters, and so she expects phoebe to be able to get her own life together without any help.

#i love my sisters #phoebe hearing piper say repeatedly that prue practically had to sacrifice her childhood to raise them #so that she can repeat it back verbatim #because she knows ofc she knows and she also knows that there is immense pressure on her because of that #to be worth that #but she doesn't have the same connection to this house because she was so young #muse: phoebe halliwell #dyn: the charmed ones #dyn: phoebe x prue #dyn: phoebe x piper #dyn: prue x piper #muse: prue halliwell #meta: prue halliwell #meta: phoebe halliwell #anyway charmed won the poll if you couldn't tell

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anawkwardgalnamedtarazan · 2 years

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Still life at my sister's place

Kudos to @frootychick for the setting🍎🏬

#aspiring artist #sketchbook art #pencil #graphite #new york #i❤️ny #sisters #i love my sisters #apartment #still life #real life #artist on the rise #self taught artist #artists on tumblr #papermodel

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