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sonnburn · 4 months

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Oh Jeez, I knew this episode was gonna be divisive since we finally got an answer to the question: What happened between Day and Night? Full disclosure, I got pretty emotional about it too! I've calmed down now and after some reflection, I've ultimately concluded that whichever brother you find yourself sympathizing with more, neither of them is undeserving of criticism.

This situation isn't black and white. There are no heroes or villains here. Neither Day nor Night are at fault for what happened, it was an accident and the resulting situation is complicated. Between unhealthy family dynamics and the individual characters flaws, there are A LOT of factors here making the conflict actively worse (not to mention they both suck at communication). It can't be resolved so simply by deciding which one of them is right or wrong.

It’s fine to feel a bit defensive over them —Day and Night are both good characters— but please don’t equate criticizing either of them with dismissing the characters feelings. Those are not the same thing nor are they mutually exclusive. I am not condemning Day for feeling what he feels and acting out because of it, but I am pointing out that how he’s choosing to react to his feelings is not healthy and is ultimately hurting both his brother and himself. Someone else would not be condemning Night for saying that him not explaining himself better is exacerbating Day's pain, they would simply be pointing out that his lack of communication skills is contributing to the problem and he needs to work on it. Criticism does not equal dismissal of the underlying reasons for why they act the way they do.

Analyzing these behaviours and criticizing them isn’t disrespectful, it’s a process that teaches us how to identify these behaviours in real people and in ourselves. That’s the entire point of stories, the author is trying to convey a message— to teach a lesson. Hopefully one you can take with you once the story is over and apply to your real life.

I don’t want Night OR Day to be stuck hurting each other forever. I like both these characters. I want them to get a happy ending. I hope we can all agree on that much, at least.

#last twilight #last twilight the series #last twilight ep 9 #night and day #Night Kopnopphakhun #Day Kopnopphakhun #we all need to chill #I myself was really reactive about Day’s reason for being mean #I am not perfect #i am biased #I’m only human #but the us vs them mentality is so unnecessary here #this situation is NUANCED #it cannot be simplified

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socks-wizard-money-gang · 5 months

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My grades have worsened wich apparently mean that I should be treated even worse that I already am

#vent #do none of those people care about my mental health is this fucking optional to you #i am your CHILD why the fuck do you treat me like i should be perfect all the time and like i am not a person #i am alive #I'm fucking alive #TREAT ME LIKE SUCH FOR FUCK'S SAKE #I AM NOT PERFECT #I CAN'T BE PERFECT #I'LL NEVER BE PERFECT

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euesworld · 1 year

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"I don't need to be perfect, that's what I have you for.. you are the missing pieces of me and with you I am more."

That's why people say we are perfect together.. we are like a puzzle, missing pieces fitting together to make a beautiful picture.. picture perfect - eUë

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jahsontodd · 1 month

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listen. i do not pray for max's downfall. i am not one of those people manifesting him to crash or whatever. however. i did in fact stand up and start yelling when the red bull started smoking

#i am not perfect #i love max i want him to do well always but i was like #ohhhh now the racing begins #formula 1 #formula one

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wordsicanonlysaytostrangers · 11 months

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There’s still a little girl in me who wishes she was a ballet dancer.

There’s still a ten year old in me who wishes she was a black belt.

There’s still a teenager in me who wishes she was beautiful.

Here I am. I am. I am. Not those things but I am still here.

There’s no longer a part of me that wishes I were dead. It’s enough.

#I am. isn’t it enough?#it has to be #i am not perfect #not who I thought I’d be #but I’m here #and that’s what matters #that’s enough #i am #thoughts #on growing up

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deliverance-guy · 1 year

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Haddie explores an abandoned asylum and becomes aware of an evil mind lurking between the worlds.

#haddie kaur #dead by daylight #the nurse/ sally smithson #nea karlsson #investigating haunted places #crotus prenn asylum #I write for fun #i am not perfect

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saetoru · 2 years

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i like when anons try to attack me from an academic standpoint bc clearly theyve not seen my gpa LMAO

#⚠︎︎ tw: tee is talking!#i am not perfect #but my grades sure are <3

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his-glorious-artwork · 2 years

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How defective I am. But how perfect you are, oh God. You do everything wisely. Let your power work best through my weakness.

[Esp.] Cuán imperfecta e insuficiente soy. Pero cuán perfecto eres tú, oh Dios. Tú haces todo sabiamente. Que tu poder sea perfeccionado en mi debilidad.

English verse

Versículo en español

[October 16, 2022 5:09 PM]

#rainbow #clouds #god's creation #sky #nubes #sky photography #sky video #arcoiris #verse #versículos bíblicos #bible #diary #video diary #imperfección #perfect #i am so tired #i am sad #there is hope #i am not perfect

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lucywrites02 · 2 years

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if someone where t read the entire wayne family adventures webtoon in one night after saying that they were going to bed

would you be concerned

As someone who binged a 100k fic in one night before having to wake up at 5.30 for work I don't think I should be the one to judge

#ask time!#kimoralov<3 #the one who never sinned can throw the first stone or whatever #i am not perfect #as you can see

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 5 days

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Expertise can't help you here.

#dungeon meshi #kabru #laios touden #falin touden #Happy Thistle Thursday once again. Have I been holding on to this comic for several weeks? Sure have!#I forgot how long it takes for Chimera Falin to come into play.#I still really love my 'better drawn' art of her - unfortunately it was several weeks too early for the anime only folks.#Slowly getting the hang of drawing Laios. I don't know why I struggle so much but I am getting...somewhere.#Meta time: God damn I love how the chimera shows off the expertise and gap between Kabru and Laios.#The truth is: they are both *right* and they are both *wrong*.#This creature is a combination of monster and human and they only have the skillset to deal with one of those.#Kabru goes for all the human vitals - but she isn't human.#Laios tries to approach her as a monster and is struck down by the humanity he sees in her.#She is something new that defies what they *both* understand about the world. And that makes her such a perfect antagonist.#The damsel was the dragon all along!#...She is really so cute though. Terrifying! But adorable. I am so excited to see the boom of fanart for her.

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hantu-burung · 6 months

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every image of a tawny frogmouth is perfection. i've never seen a single picture of a tawny that dissapoints.

#they're stunning. theyre dignified. theyre old and scruffly. they're invisble. theyre adorable. theyre sillygoofy.#theyre adorably grouchy. theyre full of love. theyre ugly as hell. theyre gorgeous. theyre scared little animals. theyre wise storytellers.#and i genuinely am not saying this to be XD quirkyty or anything but. podargus strigoides is the cutest latin name i've EVER heard.#theyre perfect. everything to me. make me smile in the darkest of times #tawnies

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andi-o-geyser · 9 months

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a full SAGA of chaos choices at the diner in the centre of your mind

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mysticmingle · 3 months

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#I am not perfect

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ethereal233 · 3 months

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#I am not perfect

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euroclydonn · 5 months

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I think sometimes we forget that at the end of the day I'm 18 years old.

#and ultimately its my fault for wanting to be treated like I'm older #but seriously I'm a fresh adult #I'm not 30 I dont have a degree I'm lacking in a lot of life experience #i am not perfect #i am human #i am trying to survive #did i mention I'm 18?

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spiderversegf · 1 year

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one important thing that Must be understood about interpersonal relationships is that you have to stop interacting with people who love you like they’re one slip-up away from leaving you. you have to trust that the ppl you love mean what they say. you have to believe that when they say “this hurt my feelings,” that they’re also saying, “can you please love me this other way next time?” and you have to wrap your head around the fact that even if you don’t understand Why someone loves you, you can accept that that they do. true, honest, & open love does not function like hp in a video game !!!!!!

#🍜#wish i could remember this more. trying to rmr that when ppl are honest w ways they are hurt it’s bc they love me enough to be honest ab it #i am not perfect. but i can do my best to love people well and to apologize when i mess up #i do not have to punish myself! i can apologize and do better in the future #the love i feel increases when people tell me how to love them. the love i feel increases when people tell me how to love them. the love i-#sueñito tag

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