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SJS!!!!!! I celebrated my birthday (early) with my childhood bestfriend, we've known eachother since we were kids and she made me a knited dachshund which is my pup's breed and its so cute and it was sooo fun to spend the day with her!!!!!! 🥰
awww happy early birthday!! i’m so glad you got to spend it w your best friend!!
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sjs: i went to five below and got a bunch of stickers and a blind box!!! and i got the character i wanted from the blind box!!!
YAYYYY that’s the BEST!!
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if a friend is experiencing/has experienced a loss and is grieving, and you don't have any experience in the arena of loss, please allow me to offer some advice on navigating conversations about the deceased loved one.
not every mention of their person is the saddest part of their day. sometimes saying "this was their favorite song" "oh they would have LOVED this" "God I wish they could hear the conversation happening at the next table" "I wish they were here" is lighthearted. the mention of their person can be joyful. or melancholic. or, of course, sad. it can be all of those things at once. but no matter, react to the sentiments as just another piece of the conversation.
you don't need to drop a 55 pound weight onto the conversation and stare at us in pity or silently stare in a combination of confusion and discomfort and sadness.
it's okay. we know they're dead. you acknowledging that in an equal state of nonchalantness will not shock us to death, it's not tasteless or crude. it's a relief. our dead people are still parts of our lives just like anything else, and giving your loved ones the space and comfort and safety to talk about their person is huge.
you can always respond by asking to hear more, by mimicking their tone. your friend laughs and says "they would have LOVED this", take it as a chance to learn why! was their favorite color yellow? did they love kitschy little throw pillows? did they utterly DESPISE kitschy throw pillows? are they referencing a specific story?
if they see someone that looks like their person and get a little sad, ask what reminds them of their person. what was their favorite feature of their person? does it make them mostly sad to see someone who looks like their person? did it make them feel a little bit happy for a moment?
we want to talk about our deceased loved ones. we yearn to mention people who shaped us. the way our society has conditioned us to behave around grief, to respond to the grieving, and to grieve ourselves is so backwards and void of empathy, so we often don't say what we wish we could say. (bell hooks has a wonderful chapter on this in all about love, new visions (ch 11))
by offering opportunities for people to reminisce you are truly making an impact and fostering a safe environment for those around you to grieve in ways we're often not offered.
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Messages of support and strength from Rafah, Palestine to the US student movement.
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i don’t have rizz i have big brown eyes and a loving heart
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idk who needs to hear this but your body is loveable
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sjs: it’s independent bookstore day so a friend and i are participating in a bookstore crawl!! and i think later we are gonna make breakfast for dinner!
YAYYYY have the best time!! i hope u get some amazing books!!
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sjs: spending time in the city with my love and friends 💕
yayyy i hope you’re all having a blast!!
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small joys saturday had a bagel before work!!! its my favorite the bagel place by my work is so good.
BAGEL ‼️
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SJS ZENDAYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA (everyone go watch challengers NOW) 🩷
ZENDAYAAAAAAA
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sjs : gave my bunny a million kisses and now i'm listening to some awesome music d(^_^)b
please give your bunny a million kisses from me too!!!!!!
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yayyyyy i made my bf do a resigned sigh of amusement yayyyyy
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Sjs! I made plans with a new friend to get dinner tonight and go play board games at a local store 😁 I love making new friends 🫶
aw YAY i hope y’all have a blast!!
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sjs made it to the cafe that’s two miles away from my campus and my favorite table was free 💐
YAYYY !!!
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i asked my friend if it’s okay if i refer to her baby as my nephew and she said “it would be weird if you didn’t!” I LOVE MY FRIENDS
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sje BED ROTTTTTTT
oh you already knowwww bestie
#small joys saturday#virgovirgo#u already know bestieeee#also the spotify link u sent me didn’t work can u resend it :(#side note my bf is also a double virgo im scared of y’all lol
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sjs: i have a new job and despite all the fears and the "new kid" anxieties, i'm really excited because my coworkers seem really cool!
YAY i’m so proud of you!!!
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