Listen, I often don't follow people back for a lot of reasons, from stuff that squicks me out, to being overwhelmed, just forgetting, or anything in between. And there's a lot of importance placed on moots on this site, but if I see you regularly in my notifs, if you chat with me, leave comments in reblogs, you're a Tumblr friend To Me. Even if you just like a bunch of stuff I reblog now and then, seeing your icon makes me smile. Just giving everyone who hangs around and puts up with my insanity a big, giant hug
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I don't know if it's because it's been too long since I last watched Stranger Things, but I genuinely don't remember a happy Nancy scene post Barb...
This is such an interesting thing to think about because it's not as if Nancy looks miserable in most scenes of the show. In fact, she often looks determined and occasionally excited even. She has smiled before, but excitement about progress in a case, something she's passionate about because of Barb, isn't necessarily happiness. So this is something you have to look beyond face value for.
Nancy suffers quite plainly with survivors guilt and with a lot of trauma. She isn't healed from what happened in Season One, and I don't think she even let herself really start until after season three. Not with so much unresolved. She also hasn't had the help she really needs either. However, Nancy has experienced happiness since Barb's death. There are moments she forgets. It’s only healthy that she's not so obessively mired in her misery that she can't have moments to breathe.
It's been a while since I've watched the show, too, so I can't say if there's a Jancy scene where she's just happy. Their get-together scene was very in the middle of Barb trauma, the wake up together scene is very stressed and rushed. Jonathan has been good to her, but all their scenes are a very mixed bag of emotions with happiness not really being the predominant one.
There are three small scenes from season four that come to mind. The first is Lucas's game. Nancy is quite genuinely proud and happy for Lucas in that moment of success. It's such a small shot, but it's one of a few scenes that show us that Nancy cares a whole lot more about Mike’s friends than she ever says.
The second is the scene with the dog, right before the plot plummets Nancy right back into her guilt complex. She's starting to live, and she lets herself be, for just a second, when she steps away from a murder investigation to just play with a dog. This is the first real evidence that her passion for her work is not just about Barb anymore.
The last scene is the officially friends scene with Robin. It's simply a moment of establishing connection, and both girls are just so warm in that moment. It's another sign of Nancy starting to actually heal. She's happy to have a new girl friend, not scared or guilty like she would have been before.
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we all bring our own stuff to the art we read/watch/listen to/play/etc., it's inevitable. and it's understandable that, when we pick up on a whiff of something that aligns with the ideas we enjoy thinking about most, our first response might be to grab onto that and tear apart the whole work looking for more of it, until we can reconfigure it into a collage that reflects all the stuff we like most.
but you've got to at least try to take each work of art you newly encounter on its own terms. to consider that it was made by a human being with a wholly unique life experience, with a likely very different perspective and opinions than yours.
and even - especially - if that art feels like it's speaking directly to you or is something you would have made, it's worthwhile to seek out those points of friction, and to consider it from other angles. not every angle/lens will provide something fruitful (some stories are just Not About certain things), which is why you shouldn't limit yourself to just a handful.
because if you come to a work of art and immediately overwhelm it with all your ideas and everything you want it to be, then you might miss out on the chance to hear something new.
maybe to you prisons are an obvious metaphor for loneliness. that doesn't mean that every work of art that features a prison is about loneliness (and it certainly doesn't mean that any person who features prisons in their art is suffering from crippling loneliness).
tl;dr play (or watch an lp of) the beginner's guide. i am no longer asking.
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