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stonebutchwritings · 26 days

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"femmes generalizing butches to be good at assembling furniture/driving/maintenance/strength-based tasks is butchphobic!!!" is genuinely like wow you hate dykes huh

#and before you ask: i am terrible at many of those things #honestly i’m only good at assembling furniture #text #mine #lesbian #lesbiansafe #cw d slur reclaimed #butch/femme #butch/fem

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haunted-thing · 9 months

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here are some various dyke flags I made since I’m finally more happy and comfortable with my identity now!

transmasculine dyke

transfeminine dyke

transneu dyke

non-binary dyke

my interpretation of boy/man dyke

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First row: The left flag has five equal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are dark blue, bright blue, turquoise, light green, and pale green. The left flag is black with three diagonal stripes going from the bottom left to top right and a white downwards-facing axe on the right side. The colors from top left to bottom right are dark blue, turquoise, and light green.

Second row: The left flag has five equal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are pale yellow, light orange, pink, bright purple, and dark indigo. The left flag is black with three diagonal stripes going from the bottom left to top right and a white downwards-facing axe on the right side. The colors from top left to bottom right are bright purple, pink, and light orange.

Third row: The left flag has five equal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are bright indigo, dark indigo, dark purple, dark magenta, and magenta. The left flag is black with three diagonal stripes going from the bottom left to top right and a white downwards-facing axe on the right side. The colors from top left to bottom right are dark magenta, dark indigo, and bright

indigo.

Fourth row: The left flag has five equal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are dark grey, black, dark blue, indigo, and bright purple. The left flag is black with three diagonal stripes going from the bottom left to top right and a white downwards-facing axe on the right side. The colors from top left to bottom right are dark blue, indigo, and bright purple.

Fifth row: The left flag has five equal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are dark blue, blue, dull teal, turquoise, and light turquoise. The left flag is black with three diagonal stripes going from the bottom left to top right and a white downwards-facing axe on the right side. The colors from top left to bottom right are dark blue, blue, and turquoise. End IDs.]

tagging: @accessmogai & @mogai-sunflowers !

#hewhohaunts ☆#tw d slur #d slur reclaimed #d slur tw #d slur cw #d slur mention #mogai #mogai positivity #mogai heaven #mogai friendly #mogai community #flag coining #mogai safe #pro mogai #mogai blog #mogai pride

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genderoutlaws · 2 years

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Members of the Fort Hill Faggots for Freedom, featured in the pages of Boston’s Gay Community News in 1976 | ph: Jane Picard

The Faggots were a militant commune and activist group consisting largely of draft dodgers, closely associated with the adjacent anarchist collective and zine publishers FagRag, who lived communally not only for economic purposes but also to “overcome [their] heterosexual conditioning as men” through domestic work. They are known for a number of actions, including picketing a local gay bar that refused service to drag queens and dykes who attempted to enter.

In one flyer passed around during Pride month, they wrote under the masthead REMEMBER STONEWALL calling for a return to radical solidarity. “…Even the most conservative demands of civil rights have not been met, let alone the more radical demands of gay liberationists. We cannot accept non-commitment. To the straight community we, the Fort Hill Faggots for Freedom are presenting a posture of militant solidarity. To the gay community, we are making a show of support and reacting to differences in a spirit of loving confrontation.”

#op #photography #jane picard #fort hill faggots for freedom #boston #fagrag #bostons gay community news #gay community news #1970s #1976 #reclaimed slurs #f slur cw #brief history #d slur cw

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mogayis-socool · 6 months

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Edgy Fagdyke / Dykefag pls? Love ur flags ^^

🦈Edgy fagdyke / dykefag

― For fagdykes/dykefags who are edgy, se love you please keep being who you are.

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subkitter · 11 months

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phaggots,,,

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hersquishydyke · 2 months

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Reblog if you love dyke dick

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dunmeshi · 10 months

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don't get what's up with people getting upset over others tagging their posts with cws for reclaimed when they're using reclaimed slurs. just respect people who don't want to encounter them casually it's not that hard

#idk i think it is primarily younger people who block these cws which probably comes from their exposure to these words being by far #primarily negative #i used urls with dyke in them for years and people regularly tagged my content as d slur. it was fine.#that said if reclaimed slurs bother you probably are best off filtering the word itself

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dreams-your-smp · 1 year

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Cw slurs under the cut

Oook. I want to try this bc I think it’ll make me feel more comfy in my own skin, and feel less scared when I hear people saying jt in a derogatory way. im a faggot and a dyke and I am proud of it

Im a faggot !! And a dyke!!! And I am!!! Proud!!!

#cw reclaimed slur #Cw f slur #cw d slur #F slur #f slur reclaimed #d slur #OH MY GOS #thus genuinely helps me feel #So much more comfortable in my own skin #I AM a dyke!!!#AAAA

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colorisbyshe · 2 years

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‘bi femme dyke’ is not a real thing girl. femme and butch r not lesbian inclusive words but dyke most definitely is, its a slur and you look like an asshole

Dyke as a term was created before there was a meaningful distinction between lesbian and bisexual and bisexual women have been called it as a slur (and have reclaimed it) since its conception.

People who hate women who love women don't suddenly stop calling bi women dykes just because they might, theoretically, be with a man because they also believe lesbians might, theoretically, want to be with men too.

Bisexual women have an identical history (and trauma) with the word dyke and can reclaim it all they want.

And if you're mad about that, you can either kill yourself OR you can examine why you think bisexual women are less hurt by the word dyke when it is aimed at them or why their century long history with the term doesn't matter.

If you are unable to either kill yourself or develop empathy for bisexual women, I want a five page essay on the actual, meaningful damage done to lesbians by bisexual women using a term thrown at them. Cite your fucking sources.

You're gonna need a loooong list to justify the splintering of the lesbian/bisexual woman community. Cause we've done that shit before and it was stupid.

#d slur cw #i am well aware of it being a slur #which is why bi women can reclaim it love

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flugame-mp3 · 7 months

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no longer post limited :D

apotheosis (theo), he/ze/they/whatever, in my 20s

pronouns.cc / cohost

free palestine

tags + blinkies + more under the cut :)

blinkie/stamp IDs in alt! ^^

this is my main blog but it ends up mostly fall out boy and supernatural! known decaydance/bandom freak and stump club vice president, also enjoys things like spn, doctor who, ttrpg (incl. baldur's gate, just roll with it, etc.), the legend of zelda, and long walks on the beach

beware: i use suicide jokes and reclaimed slurs. ask me to trigger tag stuff with "cw thing" and i will

no dni i will just block you. however: terfs/radfems kys. zionists are not welcome here. wincest & waycest shippers, brendon urie apologists, mcr "fans" who are racist towards ray, and people who are weird about pete wentz + his writing get blocked on sight. also post-hiatus fob/MANIA haters youre weird and wrong.

previous urls include will0wpark, vengolorbraad, and raytorologist

mutuals pls ask for my discord! also feel free to dm me ab anything, im not the best about keeping up conversations but i enjoy talking to y'all :)

i have many tags that i use inconsistently. however here is a little metaphorical charcuterie board of stuff i use a lot

PERSONAL/BLOG STUFF theo.txt - my original posts n whatnot asks - exactly what it says on the tin cool art - pretty much any art i reblog important - useful, uplifting, life advice, etc. nsft - pretty much anything i wouldnt want my manager seeing if they glanced over my shoulder at work queer stuff - similar vein to my trans tag but wider umbrella trans tag - catchall tag for trans stuff art history stuff - catchall tag for things relating to art history (my field of study!! its me and dutch post-impressionist painter vincent van gogh against the world) me and queue setting in a honeymoon - queue tag. if u want that for some reason

FALL OUT BOY STUFF fob - fababoi tag :3 pstump - patrick tag pwentz - pete tag joe trohman - its so trohver (joe tag) andy hurley - andy tag p2 - exactly what it says on the tin. i got tired of typing out "half doomed and semi sweet" every time maniaposting - loveposting about the hit 7th studio album from american rock band fall out boy yayy !! ioh - im making an ioh tag but she's not done yet soul punk - ask me about debut solo studio album "soul punk" by american musician and national treasure patrick stump

MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE STUFF mcr - my chem tag ray toro - ray tag :) gerard way - gerard tag mikey way - michael romance real...? (mikey tag) frank iero - frank tag bullets - ibymbmlymblymblymyl tag :3 danger days - tangentially related to mcr, mostly killjoys fanart

i will generally tag other bands/artists that i like (e.g. thursday/geoff rickly, ricky montgomery, mitski)

SUPERNATURAL STUFF spn - supernatural tag yay (ive entered my cas lover era be aware.) sammy - my love my light my sweet psychic mentally ill nerd antichrist girlfriend (sam tag) dean - eldest daughter (terminal diagnosis) ...but in a cool leather jacket (loving). cant express my heartfelt feelings if my arteries are clogged due to HAMBURGER (dean tag) cas - silly queer autism angel captivates me mind body and soul. more at 10:00. "but he murdered half of heaven" what do you want me to do about that. and he looked good doing it! (castiel tag) the brothers winchester - crying over Tragic Siblings (salmondean sam + dean tag) tfw - one ex-blood-junkie, one drop-out with six bucks to his name, and mr. comatose (sam + dean + cas/team free will tag) destiel - i can't stop thinking about those tragic little gay men /ref (dean x cas tag. why are they like that.) i do other spn tagging too, like sastiel, but mostly character names (like bobby or crowley), and also jackles/misha <3 (and jarpad mostly for filtering purposes. he gets on my damn nerves.) have fun!

MISC FANDOMS STUFF dw - doctor who tag (a lot of 9/10/15 and donna. and rose) loz - legend of zelda tag (specific games are also tagged) jrwi - just roll with it tag (bitb, riptide, fated, etc. are also tagged) bg3 - baldur's gate 3 posting (lots of karlach and astarion. and gale. astarion fans be normal challenge) ttrpg - d&d/pf2e/coc/vtm posting (i have separate tags for some of my characters and campaigns as well please please please please please talk to me about tabletop stuff it is my entire life outside of tumblr aughhhhhhhhh)

and the award for world's longest pinned post goes to...

#pinned #woe. tag list be upon ye #updated 4/24/24 #<- added my new pronouns.cc and cohost!

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stonebutchwritings · 6 months

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i've been seeing a really annoying, lesbophobic, homophobic, and transphobic post going around lately so i wanted to comment on thay if you’re uninterested keep scrollin but free blocklist below

so basically i’ve been seeing this piece of shit post

like wow defining ppl in terms of how cis they look, lesbians fucking (trans) men is revolutionary, people who are encouraged to fuck the opposite gender against their sexual identity are fucking the opposite gender!!! you did it you broke oppression! like stop inventing problems, ppl are just upset when you refuse to give people the only english term which means "i’m a woman or sapphic nby person who only loves other women or sapphic nby ppl". you think being fucked by two bioessentialist women who refuse to let lesbians have a word with a stable and clear definition is an example of beauty in the world or something. fuck you.

but then i also saw this comment!

and yeah! that's exactly what they’re advocating for! label anarchy! anyone can call themselves whatever they want even if they don’t actually belong to the group it's describing, because who cares about tma people having words to describe their experiences, build community, and delineate their specific oppression when an afab woman thinks it would be really mean to not let her use the word when she feels like it? wouldn’t that be just as bad as homophobia? wouldn’t that reinforce gender roles, to say that trans women need a word for their specific experiences? seems like people really love all these labels :/ i thought we were trying to Break the mold guys!!! but ppl just keep hanging onto making things all about race i mean sexuality!!! but that’s not a recycled oppressive argument? El Oh El. you just want to take away language from oppressed ppl in order to make those unoppressed feel better. moving on.

more lesbians can fuck men and gay men can fuck women nonsense. yeah my mom would say they can and should too you're not special.

WOAH??? the person who advocates for oppressed ppl not being able to use words to describe their experiences wants to water down and revoke the power of the word transmisogyny, and believes in the transmisogynistic idea that butch lesbians and trans men have some sort of connection (hint: it's their agab!)? they deny that oppression against a marginalized group exists? in other news, water is wet. scratch a lesbophobe and a transmisogynist bleeds. anyway block this literal fucking idiot

#cw transmisogyny #blocklist #mine #nsft #cw lesbophobia #cw transphobia #cw q slur reclaimed #cw d slur

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haunted-thing · 9 months

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abinary dyke

transxenic dyke

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First row: The left flag has five equal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are off-white, yellow, light orange, red-orange, and red-magenta. The left flag is black with three diagonal stripes going from the bottom left to top right and a white downwards-facing axe on the right side. The colors from top left to bottom right are red-orange, light orange, and yellow.

Second row: The left flag has five equal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are dark teal, teal, pastel green, bright green, and darker green. The left flag is black with three diagonal stripes going from the bottom left to top right and a white downwards-facing axe on the right side. The colors from top left to bottom right are teal, bright green, and pastel green. End IDs.)

requested by @starznvoidz ! tagging @accessmogai & @liomtext for da ids :3

additional tags: @mogai-sunflowers !

#hewhohaunts ☆#d slur #d slur cw #tw d slur #d slur tw #d slur reclaimed #mogai #mogai positivity #mogai friendly #mogai heaven #mogai community #flag coining #coined by me #mogai coining #identity coining

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genderoutlaws · 2 years

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just got my first ever paycheck (i’ve only done babysitting and tutoring until now) and bought a secondhand copy of the essential dykes to watch out for happy fucking pride

heck yeah, thats so exciting! happy pride anon :)

#asks #anonymous #d slur cw #in the reclaimed/dtwof context

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mogayis-socool · 6 months

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🦈 Edgy dyke

― For dykes who are edgy, se love you please keep being who you are.

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hexagonopus · 5 days

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CW: discussion of slurs, uncensored use of the r slur and the f slur

i wanted to talk about the way people use the R slur and are like, "no uwu its ok im reclaiming it"

like, just as a disclaimer (i consider this basically unrelated to my actual point):

but like, if someone tells me they arent comfortable with me using the r slur when around them, obviously im gonna not use it around them.

thats not really related to the topic at hand imo, though. id do the same thing with words like queer which have been unambiguously reclaimed but do still make some people feel targeted or upset.

if someone asked me not to talk about dogs when around them because their dog passed away id think about it the same way, and its not super about the semiotics of the word dog or smth

but we can observe that the word "retarded" used to describe neurodivergent people comes from a medical field that was, at its base, hostile to a vulnerable minority population. the inception of the word was not neutral, it was aggressive. it was also imposed from above onto that same minority group, and used to discriminate them out from the in group.

thats the historical basis of the word being a slur. as the medical field has advanced over time, we've shed that term in an academic context, because our treatment of and understanding of neurodivergent people has advanced to a point where "mentally slow or halted in mental progression" is not an accurate description of how the medical field understands neurodivergent people as a group.

ill admit, we can also observe that terms like "stupid, lame, moronic, imbecile, idiot", etc also have similar roots and an argument can be made that they also used to be slurs, even if they aren't used in that way anymore. so like theres a path that i think a lot of people want to take the word retarded down, and a lot of people also relate to having used it in that sense basically their whole life. i dont super want to discount that

but

so many people who use the r slur posture so much about "oh im reclaiming it", and i guess i find that pretty absurd.

like. "queer" is reclaimed bc we use queer as a neutral, descriptive word. the n word is reclaimed as a display of comradery. sometimes people will call themselves like the f slur or the d slur to say just, "im so gay" in a positive way. these are words who have a tangibly different use than they had as slurs, they are not being used to slur people.

but ive never actually seen someone use the r slur that way? its always being used derogatorily. it is fundamentally still being used as a slur. and we agree that slurs are bad. so why doesnt that compute?

you cant just continue to call things the r slur as an insult to say its stupid as hell and consider that reclamation bc its like, identical to how the slur has been used for decades

like if i say "im such a fag" im not rly saying "im degenerate and not masculine" im saying like. god i like boys and im gay and im gay. yknow??

this isnt like the word retard. ive LITERALLY never in my entire life seen someone use the word retard to mean smth other than an insult. if someone used "retard" in a like self affectionate sense to evoke comradery w/ other neurodivergent people. thats groovy imo that would be a case of trying to "reclaim" it.

my beef is with people who use the word "retard" in a way indistinguishable from how people have use it for decades, just to say "thats stupid, thats low, i dont like that" and then are like "no u dont get it; im neurodivergent so its reclaimation"

finally, a note addressed to the people who want to use the r slur as a word for "stupid" not directed at neurodivergent people:

if someone is using the r slur they should be honest about why they're saying it. and that is, always:

because its an insult, they're trying to insult something by calling it stupid.

they're trying to neutrally describe a neurodivergent people bc they think its still the 1960s

they're specifically trying to insult neurodivergent people

and like, HOPEFULLY we can agree that 3 is just bad.

2 is also bad, if arguably well intentioned. its smth to be corrected, and thats what things like Rosa's Law was passed for.

and ig in that context, i dont personally see the appeal of using it in the case of 1.

why would u want to share that kind of linguistic company w/ 2 and 3, yknow???

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hersquishydyke · 9 months

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Content warning - Slur usage (D slur) - Reclaimed

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To all the boys thought calling me a dyke in school was bad....

Why yes, thank you. I'm the biggest fucking dyke you'll ever see.

Now let me get back to drooling over my wonderful & hot girlfriend

you wish you had & actually being respectful towards women.

#randonothings💚#lesbian #wlw #nblw #reclaimed slurs #d slur reclaimed #d slur cw #transgender #trans #agender #enby

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