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#catboyspeaks#catboycassie#idk man#actually autistic#autism#autistic things#autism poll#mental health#poll#autistic experiences#autistic community
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#catboyspeaks#catboycassie#idk man#comfy#comfort#warm and comfy#smth fun ig#poll#hyperspecific poll#tumblr polls#tumblr poll#(enter tags for reach here)#actually autistic#autism#autistic things#autistic community#autism poll#autistic experiences#t4t#lgbtqia#mental health#literally putting every tag i've ever used
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"im soooo empathetic" "im an empath" SHUT UP. SHUT UP. "i saw an old man eating alone at a diner today and my heart broke for him🥺" THAT IS CALLED PITY AND THAT DOES NOT MAKE YOU A GOOD PERSON "i literally feel so much for other people" YOU ARE THE AVERAGE NEURODIVERGENT HUMAN BEING, FUCKING VIRTUE SIGNALING. AND FOR WHAT. FOR WHAT??? the "empaths" need to feel special SO FUCKING BAD to the point where they will say, at the very least, highly stupid shit, and at the most, JUST START SPOUTING STRAIGHT UP ABLEISM. WHY DO YOU NEED EVERYONE TO KNOW HOW NICE OR GOOD YOU ARE??? like wouldn't a nice or good person display that through DOING NICE THINGS??????
#idk who needs to hear this#but#demonizing low/no empathy folks#is also dehumanizing a LOT of nd folks#a person who actually cares abt others#wouldn't be fvckin ableist#catboyspeaks#catboycassie#idk man#cluster b safe#npd safe#aspd safe#actually autistic#actually npd#actually aspd#low empathy#no empathy#anti empath
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things i cant get, but would help:
paper plates/bowls
pre-washed/chopped veggies + pre-prepared food(ramen is great but not nutritionally too great and i cant eat nothing but that lmao)
a gallon of water in my room so i don't have to get up to refill my water bottle
similarly, safe foods in my room so i don't have to get up to get them/prepackaged snacks in general
a cane
noise canceling earbuds/earplugs/something to help with sensory issues
id love a working dishwasher, but those cost money, but i think a chair to sit in while i wash dishes would be really helpful
similarly, a chair in the shower
a place to sit/lay that isn't the floor or my bed. it's hard to get up off the floor, and my bedframe is broken- besides, my therapist recommended i only use my bed for sleeping, but i have nowhere else to sit/lay
a weekly pill organizer- although i anticipate struggling with remembering to refill it, it would be so much easier to remember to take my meds+vitamins if they're all portioned out and in my room
dry shampoo. i really struggle with showering already, and now my shower water smells weird and there's a several inch gap in the floor that smells moldy. however, greasy, stiff hair is a sensory nightmare, and the thought of going outside with hair so greasy it looks soaking wet makes me feel really insecure and ashamed.
here's a slight rant:::
a lot of these things are really accessible- like a pill organizer or a gallon of water, but im unemployed. i cant afford a one-time, ten-dollar purchase, let alone a weekly purchase like gallon jugs of water. im in college full-time and it's exhausting, but i feel like i can't leave.
i still live with one of my parents. i was supposed to move out after graduating but i was in the hospital seven times last year so i couldn't hold down a job and move out. my mother really wants me out of the house, and i understand why- i struggle to keep myself and my environment clean, to the point where it inconveniences her. because of this, she only pays for the essentials, which means she'll buy me "staple foods" like bread and eggs, and she pays my phone bill. i appreciate both these things- they help me a lot- and they're not the only things i need to be able to take care of myself. im hopefully moving in with my partner by the end of the year, but even then, i feel terrible inconveniencing her by asking her to buy me so many things when she works minimum wage. i've been trying to apply for disability but the process seems daunting.
rant over!!! i hope you all have a lovely day, and remember to drink some water!!!
#catboyspeaks#catboycassie#idk man#actually autistic#chronic pain#invisible disability#mental health
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i had an appointment to start the process for gender affirming care!!! i have a follow up in a couple months to start t and im wildly excited :3
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so tired. tired of disability. tired of no support or help. tired of only support being far away.
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a couple things rq!!!
im so sorry for leaving other diagnoses out of my original post!!! i was going largely off of my friends/moots/my experiences to see how common they were, however, i've since realized that i unintentionally left a lot of people out. thank you guys so much for bringing that to my attention!!!
similarly, i got a lot of people saying i was leaving out young-dx'ed autistic folks. again, i failed to make a fully accurate poll in my attempt to see how common my friends/moots/my experiences were. i should have qualified not only the intents of the poll, but also that the "none" option was for both early AND late dxed autistic folks.
lastly, i saw a comment saying that i was turning this into a game. i completely understand that in my attempts to make my posts/polls funny and relatable, i sometimes come across as trivializing mental illness, neurodivergence, etc.- i take my, and others, issues very seriously. yes, it's debilitating, yes, it's traumatic, yes, other people can make us feel dehumanized and alienated, and(in my opinion) none of that carries the implication that we can't/shouldn't talk about these things candidly and casually.
ok that's it!! have a great day n thx for reading/voting!!! 🩷🩷🩷
#catboyspeaks#catboycassie#idk man#actually autistic#autism poll#autism#poll#tumblr polls#autistic things#autistic community#tags for reach
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hey y'all!! my name is cassius, cassie for short <3 i use it/it's pronouns :3
TW WARNINGS:::: discussion of eds, sh, and substance abuse in the context of recovery; rants abt politics, mental health, and other random things; occasional cursing though i'll be trying to censor myself. PLEASE dni if you're pro ed/sh!!
im rebranding my acct to just be alllll my silly lil thoughts, so here's some things about me!!!
im engaged to my partner of two and a half years!!
i love to cook, make lil crafties, n go on walks/forage!!!
im learning how to play guitar, speak ukrainian, and be better at baking :3
im OBSESSED with bluey, sanrio, studio ghibli, internet drama, the color pink, and last but not least, trinkets and jewelry boxes
my favorite music artists are noah kahan and hozier
my favorite book series are twilight and the mortal instruments
i collect crystals, vintage candles, lighters/pocketknives, and vintage matchbooks
im a psych student, n i wanna be a therapist one day!!
im currently saving up for a van so i can road trip around
my favorite animals are cats and snakes but i love all animals and hope to go vegan once im further in recovery from my ed <3
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tw/// vent!!
the last two weeks, in a row, i've gotten plans cancelled and this time when they told me, they didn't even sound like themselves. im not great with tone but i know how they talk and text, i guess.
anyways. my meds aren't working as well as they were and i've been doing really really poorly and i just. i cant do this. they're my only friend. they're the only person i talk to on a daily basis.
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so obviously i love my fiancée very much i just... this gorgeous beautiful amazing woman has no concept of time. this spectacular stunning awe-inspiring woman will say "idk soon? like ten minutes?" and i automatically know nothing will be happening for 48-72 business hours.
#like wdym when u say soon#ten minutes??#five hours???#i need a time conversion chart#catboyspeaks#catboycassie#idk man#sapphic#t4t
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my beloved wife(girlfriend of two years) has been in a decades-long slumber(she's been asleep for ten hours) and i simply cannot continue under these conditions. it's been ages(less than a day) since i've received a letter(text or reblog) or any communication at all. i feel my willpower leaving my body, i am withering away. i pray she may awaken soon.
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me very rarely using tags other than the ones i made for this blog is like meowing into the void. if anybody ever sees one of these posts it's basically guaranteed that they're my target audience.
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my girlfriend has this obsession with the idea of taking in stray cats and nursing them back to health and i think that's EXACTLY what she did with me. she saw me and went "this is very clearly a neglected catboy that needs a new home". idk man. she wasn't wrong.
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i love freaks or weirdos. please interact if you're a freak or a weirdo.
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