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onewomancitadel · 1 month

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The archetypal shipper is the partisan Team Edward/Team Jacob braindead fangirl who reduces everything down to romance but if you saw the fanboys beating each other to shreds over Tifa and Aerith...

#tbf this is rwby fandom too.#put all your tiresome misogynistic stereotypes to rest #breaking boundaries

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lillys-flower-garden · 7 months

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3: Does your s/i have a full backstory yet? Or is it still in the works? If it's done can we see it?

Multiple that depend on the universe I'm in!

Everyone is probably fairly familiar with Rian's (@chaos-shipping) Villain AU(s), one of which I show up in, but mostly I desperately cling to our Hero au! The TLDR version of the story goes:

When I'm roughly a toddler and Rian is a teen, All Might saves us from an abusive home situation. Ri has mostly emotional and mental scars, but our in-universe sperm donor ripped up my back pretty good with his quirk. YEARS LATER after Rian has been adequately inspired to become a hero and a teacher, we end up in Japan in the hands of UA, conveniently living next door to my brother's butt-fuck tall soulmate! I assimilate into UA's class 1-a and get what some people consider to be uncomfortably close to Bakugo, Midoriya, and Todoroki... But mostly Bakugo.

And that's about it for background story stuff.

#Lilly's thorny business #breaking boundaries #petals scatter #seasons change #proship selfship

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dawntrailing · 1 year

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#breaking boundaries #tokyo philharmonic orchestra #nikikai chorus group #final fantasy series #final fantasy xiv #final fantasy xiv: online #ffxiv #ffxiv: music #eorzean symphony: final fantasy xiv orchestral album vol.1

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ququoquaw · 10 months

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i know that i am getting my hopes too high, but imagine if this were gero with his boyfriend and girlfriend and some random kid

#he got upset so now hes doing his candy thing btw #this is so good and shonen jump would NEVER let it happen #he could literally be the first male character with a bisexual harem #breaking boundaries #going above and beyond #but jump is too pussy #marriagetoxin

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courtlymayhem · 1 year

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do not mourn the loss of a limiting title but embrace being a worm who no longer boxes wormself into a singular category

#worm #breaking boundaries #crossing lines #towormselfbetrue #andasnightfollowsday #wormcanstbefalsetoanyworm #outofthefishbaitcontainer #andintothedirt #ahbutaverycuteworm #makealltheboywormsgo*wriggle*#worm discourse #funny

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powdermelonkeg · 1 year

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Fun fact: We know the size of the Pokémon world because Scarlet and Violet has framerate issues

I'm not answering any more questions

#i watched boundary break and have Feelings and Questions #pokemon sv #*sigh* very close to deleting this. sick of the outdated ver popping up in my notes #wait. i can turn off reblogs can't i

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venting-town · 6 months

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I’m tired of having to play therapist with others

Especially my own father

He’s used me as an emotional crutch my entire fucking life and I’m sick of it

And HAVE been sick of it

I shouldn’t have to constantly console HIM about how much he “ misses me “

I shouldn’t be made to NOR gaslight to constantly cradle him and hug him when I don’t want to or look him in the eyes if I don’t want to or hear him constantly say how “ great “ I am

He needs to STOP overriding my boundaries and STOP USING ME AS HIS THERAPIST/SPOUSE!!!!!

That is NOT my job! Even if it “ is supposed to be “, I reject and deny it. Even though I still do it because I’m fucking exhausted of my boundaries constantly being overridden my entire life/before life/ /etc. And because I care about others too much

#vent #tw vent #tw existential angst #tw existential dread #tw existential bullshit #tw existential crisis #tw realities #tw reality #tw simulation #vent 10/25/23 #tw dad #tw parentification #tw enmeshment #tw emotional incest #breaking boundaries #tw child abuse #parents. STOP RELYING ON YOUR CHILDREN TO MAKE YOU HAPPY!!! STOP RELYING ON THEM TO MAKE YOU WANT TO LIVE!!!!#and before anybody says anything: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ENJOYING THAT YOUR CHILD MAKES YOU HAPPY!!!#THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH ACKNOWLEDGING AND ADMITTING THAT THE REASON YOURE ALIVE IS BECAUSE OF YOUR KIDS!!!#what IS WRONG is when you force them to obey you. don’t allow them to question you. you overriding your kids boundaries because ‘ yOu ArE #tHe PaReNt AnD mAkE tHe RuLeS ‘. when you use your child as your therapist instead of finding an ACTUAL THERAPIST to discuss your issues #with. when you hit your kids because they ‘ disrespect or disobey ‘ you or anger you or sadden you. when you gaslight your kids. etc etc etc #NO. people ARENT PERFECT. and that STILL doesn’t make it okay or excuse you from not trying to do better or be better! and that doesn’t only #go towards parents. it goes towards EVERY/SOME/ANY/NOBE/ALL beings/non beings spirits//non spirits. entities realities worlds identities #whatever other bullshit there is isn’t was wasn’t will be won’t be used to be etc #tw spiritual #tw non spiritual #tw beings #tw non beings #tw voices

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headlinehorizon · 8 months

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Ethan Hawke and Daughter Maya Hawke's Latest Film Adventure: Breaking Boundaries Together

Ethan Hawke directs his daughter Maya Hawke in intimate scenes for their upcoming film 'Wildcat', breaking boundaries and proving their professionalism. Despite the potential for skepticism, they prioritize their creative partnership and aim to deliver impactful work.

#Ethan Hawke #Maya Hawke #Wildcat #Breaking boundaries #Professionalism #Creative partnership

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andthebeanstalk · 11 months

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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epicstoriestime · 10 months

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Embracing Musical Freedom: Breaking the Boundaries of Genre

What is your favorite genre of music? Introduction: Imagine a world where the barriers of genre vanish, where you are not confined to a single favorite genre but rather explore the vast landscape of musical expression. In this realm, every note, rhythm, and melody becomes an opportunity for discovery and enjoyment. Embracing musical freedom means breaking the boundaries that limit our…

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#breaking boundaries #cultural connection #dailyprompt #dailyprompt-1991 #genre exploration #music #music appreciation #musical diversity #musical freedom #sonic adventure #stereotype breaking #unity through music

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focusgroupentertainment · 10 months

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Breaking Boundaries: Chioke Dmachi's "Grown Ass Kids" Inspires Authenticity and Diversity in Entertainment

In today’s entertainment industry, there is a growing need for diverse voices and authentic storytelling that challenges the status quo. One artist who is breaking boundaries and inspiring change is Chioke Dmachi with his project “Grown Ass Kids.” As a black LGBTQ actor, singer, and songwriter, Dmachi’s work not only showcases his immense talent but also serves as a testament to the power of…

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#authentic self-expression #black LGBTQ artist #breaking boundaries #Chioke dmachi #diversity in entertainment #empowerment #Grown Ass Kids #inclusive content #industry recognition #marginalized communities #positive change #representation #social progress #storytelling #transformative impact

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miikpal · 2 months

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#erm (shy). the theme i was going for was boundary breaking. also just rly wanted to draw sth for the trilogy..love these games #harry mason #heather mason #cheryl mason #james sunderland #maria silent hill #silent hill #silent hill 1 #silent hill 2 #silent hill 3 #blood cw #and before anyone gets any ideas the water in the james pic is just because i thought itd look cool thematically #i dont consider that one the true ending so #;drawn #fanart #Youtube

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lillys-flower-garden · 7 months

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For Bakugo 3. Who was the first to fall in love? You or your f/o?

Actually, it was Bakugo. In a truly "him" fashion, he realized he was catching feels and then promptly made the decision to ignore them. Like completely. "Hmm, she's attractive" led directly into "I'll become immune over time".

But he pretty quickly had a chance of heart. Thankfully.

#breaking boundaries #Lilly's thorny business

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dawntrailing · 2 years

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#breaking boundaries #tsuyoshi sekito #final fantasy series #final fantasy xiv #ffxiv #final fantasy xiv: a realm reborn #ffxiv: music #a realm reborn: final fantasy xiv original soundtrack #final fantasy xiv: online #before meteor: final fantasy xiv original soundtrack

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q-nihachu · 3 months

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International QSMP streamers being nominated for the Streamer Awards, which has historically only had English streamers involved, really goes to show just how boundary-breaking the QSMP is. Quackity is succeeding at what he set out to do like crazy, and it's amazing to watch.

#qsmp #the streamer awards #ordem paranormal got nominated for goodness sake!! this is crazy! <3 #EVERY streamer in the international category is from the qsmp!!#is there still progress to be made? absolutely. are they still snubbing mcrp for rp? sadly yes. but you break one boundary at a time

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my-breakup-playlist · 4 months

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Took a chance, turned my dating app back on, and immediately matched with a person who, within the first few days of chatting,

dropped feelers about moving in together

mentioned a debilitating fear of dying alone

responded to learning I was divorced with asking my thoughts on remarrying sometime in the (totally hypothetical lol) future

Please, lovelies, don't do this.

Because I'm looking at this behavior and I'm seeing one of three outcomes:

Some people will run for the hills because it's clear that any relationship with this person will be sorely lacking in healthy boundaries

Some people without healthy boundaries will decide that this person can be fixed with the power of love, which is... pretty much a back-of-the-box recipe for unhealthy codependency

Certain people will hear the siren song of someone with low self-esteem and no boundaries to speak of, and they'll make a beeline for their next victim.

Especially with that advertised willingness to entangle themself legally and financially with somebody that they barely know.

It's totally healthy and normal to want to be in a relationship, or to prefer to be in one rather than not. But you need to be comfortable enough with being alone to not swan-dive into a dangerous relationship just because it's the first one that presented itself.

#the way things break down #not about my ex for once #boundaries

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