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#and why she's SO important and amazing
aro-aizawa · 2 years
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i hate that when i have such a passionate belief of an aro headcanon, i viscerally hate anything that insinuates otherwise. even if i force myself to tolerate it, i’m never going to be 100% okay with whatever contradicts it and it’s so hard to let go of that hate.
#shut up danni#i mean. my url probs speaks volumes lmao but in this case it's not that#im rewatching doctor who bc i need to get caught up again i've p much missed all of 13 except the beginning#so i decided that i'd start from clara to ease into 12 but i forgot that my mortal enemy river song is in that season finale rip#bc i v passionately believe that the doctor is generally aromantic#like there are a few exceptions to the rule like ten was deffo demiro#and i don't think i know anything about classic who to give my opinion on them but i might go back and watch them#i've been meaning to but i'm worried it'd be too different to what i'm used to and i won't like it#which is a shame bc i've grown up w doctor who i don't wanna dislike anything abt it#anyways back to my point - the doctor is deffo aro#and bc of that i hate river song w a passion and i don't like hating characters it makes me sad#maybe its because literally all of the episodes besides her debut episodes focus all on her#and why she's SO important and amazing#and SHE'S the only one worthy of marrying the doctor#urgh#if anything i think that sure she might be 12's wife but none of the others#look they can't have it both ways in that every doctor is the exact same in romantic/sexual orientation#but also say that every doctor is different and every incarnation is different in personality#anyways river song makes me sad and i wish she didn't exist but i hope that she stays forever gone#her last episode was a good ending for her and i hope i never see her again
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I feel like I highly underestimated how dumb humans are and how smart Aabria Iyengar is
My dumbass really thought that it'd be impossible to describe things or concepts in such a way that would only work in an animal framework, and not immediately be like oh yeah that's just [insert thing]
Because Aabria found a fucking genius way of communicating and describing things in such a way that truly translates the absolute mystery and scariness of the world in the eyes of an animal. Like truly feeling the core of scared humility that's at the heart of an animal just trying to survive and understand the world.
Because yeah there is a reason we have words for everything, and that there's always a way to present a concept in a way that it seems alien to you, even if it's something you encounter every day.
Which is really fucking hard mind you, so I'm just really impressed that she made me confused about wtf a hazmat suit is
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eerna · 5 months
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The Oleander Sword is so good. literally feeling like kicking my feet and giggling rn. what happened to Tasha Suri in that year between book 1 and book 2
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baeshijima · 4 months
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i dont think anyone understands just how mad i am at the fact i just missed the roses and muskets event, all bc i didnt finish furinas story quest 🧍‍♀️
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letthestorieslive · 2 years
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”And let it go”  -  Nikita Gill, How to Deal with A Painful Experience
Asked by @momentofmemory : Kira + lavender, gold and black
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arsonist-chicken · 8 months
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Do you ever like.. get a sudden surge of love and admiration and just general happiness because of a friend, so much so that it's almost overwhelming, and you are just so, so glad you met them and hope you'll never have to let them go and get to keep them in your life forever? Yeah ❤️💖🐗🧚‍♂️🦄
#i should go to sleep#but these are the moments i wonder again if i know what a crush feels like and if i can tell the difference between periodical very strong#but platonic affection for a friend and having a tiny crush on them#oh well. in the end does it matter?#but it would still be nice to be able to tell the difference. if nothing else then to know when i actually have a crush on someone i'm not#that close to like that friend or that fond of#fucking hell god please never let me have to let them go. i don't think i've ever met someone i'm that comfortable around and around whom#it's so easy to just be myself#or rarely. maybe with two other friends i don't feel the need to hold back myself from blurting stuff out and interrupting them and#apologising and asking them to continue or just like.. say whatever comes to mind or touch electric pasture fences to see if it still stings#(it does btw but in a sensorally really nice way 10/10 would recommend)#why do amazing people often live so damn far away? last time i met a bunch of people i really got to love was almost lifesaving and#definitely mental health saving. we used to talk every day and now i barely know what any of them are up to :( covid really fucked us over#with everyone just trying to survive and stay sane. we really lost touch and now it#*it's hard to get that back because we're strewn across europe and brasil and the us and everyone's an adult with responsibilities now#i miss them :( gotta try harder to rekindle that#anyway @the universe or whatever fuckers listening: if you put me in circumstances that make me lose touch with her like with them#i'll set the world on fire. she's become far too important to me to let that happen#okay as always i couldn't damn shut up in the tags alright bye bye good night whatever my cat's purring now instead of snoring#scientists of tumblr invent a teleportation machine now. i want to lie in a park and watch dogs and read side by side and remember how good#life can be#mine
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"this extremely femme character would be better if she was butch" you can put as many disclaimers as you like on that but it will never stop reading to me as real women don't wear dresses style misogyny
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hauntingblue · 23 days
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Buggy worrying so much about roger....
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wayfinderships · 9 months
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I love my childhood friend so much-sjfnsnfjsnd
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hardtchill · 5 months
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yeah people overstate the differences between afab and amab people and even forget intersex ppl exist. Some women have a lot of testosterone, some men don't. And then when someone has medically transitioned, the 'differences' become even less visible. It's such a non issue because people are vastly different regardless of gender which can make them better at a sport.
discrimination based on assignment at birth ends up hurting everyone else too because everyone is now looked at under a microscope. this often affects women of color because racism has determined what ideal femininity is and that means woc are targeted. (also because people are more worried about amab people in women's sports so women's sports are more affected by this)
in conclusion gender is literally just a thing that conservatives are being annoying abt and i just wanna watch good footy.
Yup.
The thing is also that for a situation to occur where a trans woman competes as a pro athlete the stars literally need to align.
In basically every major sport you can't just pick it up at 22 and become world class. Like let's look at the fear conservatives are putting out there. They think that any 'man' who is pretending to be trans can just walk into a women's football match and dominate. Like what?
To be a pro athlete you need so much more than just speed and strength, not to mention that the differences are already huge. Players like Anouk Dekker play someone like Mana Iwabuchi. Anouk is 30cm taller than Mana and i'm pretty sure Anouk could crush Mana's bones with her thighs. That is considered fair play because hey, everyone has different qualities. But a trans person joining that squabble is completely out of the question because omg that would be unfair.
The fact that this unit of a woman could smash a lot of guys into the ground is of course an unheard of fact in conservative circles because she is just a girl.
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eternallovers65 · 2 years
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Look you saying to me that its weird shipping the 15yo teenager with the 30s dude, i hear you. You are absolutely right.
BUT
The whole "it's his niece" argument is so shitty to me like just stop watching the show then idk what do tell you, it's the targaryens!!! Unfortunately, healthy family standards went out of the window a long time ago
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uncaught-coolfish · 8 months
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ykno. the more I think about it. the more I realize that anti critics who vehemently praise “canon” sienna would not like bhwf HEIWOWNSJSBSHSVS
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The funny thing about Marinette is that her plans of wooing Adrien would actually work, if, you know, she didn’t have the worst luck known to man...
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bookwyrminspiration · 2 years
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one time I was going to make a new green chile stew recipe, but was too busy the day I planned to make it so my mom offered and I, a fool, was like cool great here’s the recipe I was going to use! And then my mother. chose to omit…the green chile, from the green chile stew. The recipe called for 1-2 cups of diced chile. she used none
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yakshagaana · 2 years
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my mums still kinda weird abt it tho.....
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shinehyuk · 2 years
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what the hell
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