#This bitch really deleted on me.
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Why the hell, shit, you damned bastard son of a bitch
#personal#delete later#before you ask “why're you posting on reddit bix of course you're gonna get comments like this”#it's cuz it's really low stakes and easy to just throw your art on subs for visibility#and i legitimately love getting batshit insane comments like this because they always read like a copypasta#this isn't hatemail to me this is a reason to live laugh love#like we ALL know independent_lime4943 is misogynistic and racist we don't need to discuss it we can just laugh at him#thank you independent_lime4943 your comments were immediately deleted by moderators but i was lucky enough to#catch them as an email notification. damned bastard son of a bitch
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Hot take but the aggressive hardline separation of asexual and aromantic is actually EXTREMELY harmful to a lot of ace/aro people.
Angry rant under the cut
It's one to thing to go: "okay yes sometimes they go together but it's important to remember that for some people they can be different things and you can be one and not the other"
And go: "These are TOTALLY DIFFERENT 100 always separate there is no intersection EVER and if you DARE to be both then you have to piecemeal your identity to not uwu invalidate others(we do not care that we are invalidating you though lol) Don't you DARE ever experience them together you are CONFLATING"
It's like yall just want asexual to = alloromantic only and aromantic to = allosexual only.
You don't give a shit about aroaces, aces who aren't alloromantic but don't ID as aromantic or aros who aren't allosexual but don't ID as asexual.
The aspec community despises us. We get talked down to demanded to split our identities apart for your comfort. We can't exist in certain spaces because our presence there is a personal affront to allo-aspecs. Shout out to the alloaros that bitch about those disgusting aroaces just clogging up the aromantic tag ☺. Shout out to the alloaces who can still love and aren't totally heartless monsters 🥺.
Don't talk about ace shit in the aro tags, Don't talk about aro shit in the ace tags...what's that you're both? And can't neatly separate them and it brings you comfort to be able to discuss your whole orientation? SHUT THE FVCK UP YOU CONFLATING IGNORANT SHIT HEAD.
If you want to be in the aromantic community you have to leave your ace-ness at the door same for asexual community and disregarding your aromantism.
A personal example was an Aspec discord server I was in that had two media recs channels one for sex repulsed people and the other for romance repulsed. Now the issue came is that they didn't acknowledge someone could be both i.e both sex & romance repulsed/just looking for media that had neither sexual nor romantic content, what this lead too is that the romance free media channel was filled with graphic hookup erotica or sexually explicit songs and the sex free channel was just fade to black romance books 🙃...wonderful.
Or when polls/forms will ask you to pick your orientation but only things listed are het,gay,bi/pan yes even the ones made by aspecs, and what they actually mean is use the one that correlates to your romantic/sexual attraction...so fvck aroaces and non sam aces & aros?
And don't get me started on how you treat non sam aces & aros. You at least tolerate the self IDing aroaces, because they have the "curtesy" of separating themselves from the real proper aces & aros.(let's not question how many aroaces would prefer to just ID as just asexual or just aromantic but are forced into aroace identity because that would be "conflating" and they don't want to deal with the harassment).
"UwU don't say asexual when you actually mean aromantic" Some bitches don't use to SAM fvck off with allo-splaining my own sexuality to me.
It would be so much easier and save a lot of pain if yall just went : "asexual for some means no sexual attraction and it says nothing of your romantic attraction AND some people use it to mean no attraction generally". And "aromantic for some means no romantic attraction and it says nothing of your sexual attraction AND some people use it to mean no attraction generally" and "for some they are separated but others not so much as there isn't always a strict separation. Just be chill about it don't accuse people of being ignorant or conflating they know their identities better than you". But no ya chose violent aphobia instead.
But ultimately nobody cares because this shit is only harming the undesirable aces/aros the ones who are harmful stereotypes the ones that make you "look bad".
I know deep in my heart there are a lot of alloaces & alloaros that who would be happy if aroaces & non sam aces/aros didn't exist, there I said it. How can I not come to that conclusion when at every turn they shit on us. They talk about how the worst thing in the world is to be mistaken for one of us. That our representation is actively harmful.
A last parting spicy take it's either "asexulity and aromantism are full identities on their own and aren't modifiers" OR "actually neither asexual nor aromantic can stand on their own they need to be paired with another orientation and they actually are just modifiers" you can't have it both ways. 🤭
#asexual#aromanticism#aro#ace#non sam aro#aphobia#acephobia in the aro community#arophobia in the ace community#vent#i love how no matter what alloaces & alloaros can take a break from being aphobic to eachother and join forces where it really matters#being aphobic and hateful towards aroaces! I LOVE that aspec solidarity#the community also despises sex & romance repulsed aspecs but that's a rant for another day#also can we talk about how this has embolden full on allos to talk shit on aroaces??? excuse me???#when an allo bitch is talking down to you about how you're using asexual or aromantic wrong#bitch who the fvk are you? gtfo outta aspec spaces now interloper#aroace#non sam ace#I'm pissed so i might delete later lol#never forget the time on reddit i made a long post pleading with the community not to force the sam on all aces#and that non sam aces aren't ignorant or invalidating anyone and we should be shown grace and acceptance in the community#...only for an (allo?)ace to basically say it's my fault if people assume I'm alloace or accuse me of conflating if i ID as just ace#lol get bent#i just might start saying aces & alloaces/aros & alloaros#bc yall allo aspecs aren't the default ace/aro and it's time you learned that :)#you do not get to stomp over the “undesirables” and call it advocacy
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Let me just preface this by saying I am a huge Spiderverse fan and I largely love the fan community, but I swear to all things holy that the latter will not remain the case if this is what gets y'all to push back against the strike. I get it, I'm hyped for Beyond too, but we knew even before the strike that crunch time was a huge factor in making these movies.
I want to believe a lot of you in the fandom are putting your money where your mouth is when it comes to social issues, but I've also seen how the strike has affected other fandoms and fan entitlement overall. So I'll only say it once: if you sing Spider-Punk's praises in one breath and try to shut down strikes for delaying your fave movie franchise in the other, you're a massive hypocrite. End of story.
#spiderverse#wga strike#writers strike#writing#am i being a little harsh with this one? probably#is it bc i've seen at least five other fandoms bitching about the exact same thing? yes#sorry but this kinda behavior REALLY annoys me and i don't want to see it happen to spiderverse too#will delete if this gets too controversial#my post
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yk i probably should have gotten my stomach pumped a few(?) hours ago but i passed out instead and now im making myself chicken nuggets and if that's not a sign that god is playing me like a kazoo then idk what is
#ugh im like#most of the way through ...processing?? the contents of my od and so it def wouldn't do shit to either admit myself or try to diy it right?#idk#anyways the point is that im still nauseous but im also really hungry so that's also making me nauseous? idk this sucks#wow what a revelation overdosing sucks?? who would've guessed#god i feel like a fucking idiot lmao#idk i just need to bitch to ppl that don't know me irk#*irl#anyways my nuggets are done sooo#delete later#it wasn't even that bad of an overdose (fucking obv lmao since im writing this)#crazy that you can just. wake up from one tho that's actually insane#did not fucking expect that#ew
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really wish people would read blog rules more, it makes running blogs like this very low reward and you feel like a machine if people aren't commenting and aren't even abiding by one of the, honestly, very few and politely phrased rules i even have
#then i'm left trying not to respond like a bitch when the rules are there in the first place so i don't have to have negative interactions#with the people who come to this blog#like keeping it 100 you write for yourself but you write for ENGAGEMENT and COMMUNITY#and these days in fandom there really is no community#for any fandom across the board#people see something and move on#that's bad enough at killing fandoms#but the fact that a creator can have really only one super hard rule and it gets disregarded every day#day in and day out! and i really mean it this rule gets broken in my inbox DAILY man!#i write for a lot of small fandoms or smaller characters i love the characters i'm happy to do it#but i have an adult job. college. friends. family. my own original creative projects#and even if i don't respond to the asks where people are blatantly violating /again/#one of my FEW rules#it's exhausting to even see it !!!#it makes me not feel like a person#who cares what the girl behind the screen asked me not to do? right?? but i'm about done#i'm only at my breaking point because i've had this blog now for what three or four years??#and no matter how i phrase the rule people break it#no matter how many reminder posts#it's exhausting because it's an every day daily thing#idk maybe i'll feel better abt it in the morning but i'm getting exhausted tbh#exhausted as in this blog might be going BYE BYE i wont delete i think you'd have it up until tumblr goes away but i am getting pissed off#TRULY pissed off bc it's been years of me asking cmon now
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gf officially went through being gaslit at the doctors with me 🎉🙈 held me while i cried afterwards so that was a nice little touch
#she thinks my surgeon is a bitch and has an ego#i cant say i disagree after today#she was more concerned about the state of my incision than anything#babe it’s been six months#it’s too late#i told you it was an issue two weeks after surgery when you could’ve helped me#and you told me it was normal#and now you’re concerned because it looks ridiculous#i’m so drained from dealing with doctors like this#it’s every single one these days#i really can’t do it anymore i’m just gonna let my body eat itself alive and i’ll see how long i last lmfao#only concerned because she sees the e scar as a direct reflection of her work#well maybe if you acknowledged me when i said i have a heritable connective tissue disorder that’s complicated surgical procedures#you should’ve at least written it down#delete later i’m just beyond defeated
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Not the antiblack, transphobic troll blog doing a classic dirty delete... Can't delete dumbassery love, that stays on the internet forever 😂
Dumbass already forgot the teen life stage exists, misgendered me in a random post showing both they ass cheeks, doubled down about it with a classic "he/she/it whatever they are", made fun of a black person's black sim's lips being "too big" while randomly hyping up a black sim made by a white simmer, posted 90% black sims making fun of their features while reblogging posts w/black celebrities like ice cube and Rihanna (probably the only black ppl they know) to add to their lil act, said "i don't only make fun of blacks" and blocked when confronted about it (soooo obvious), which was all pretty boring and expected and not worth acknowledging... but then they deleted all of that cos the big bad honest troll blog got no spine! which has me fucking rolling HELP 🤣
How ya gonna act like the voice of the ppl and delete all your bad takes? Didja get too many mean asks about them, baby boy? 🥺 can't stand by all ur meaningless dick swinging? feeling insecure about having no comeback skills on top of that? 🥺 every time someone bucks up at you you do a delete and stop acknowledging them and its so damn funny for someone pretending to be so hard and real. I mean I knew you were gonna mention me once you saw I said you have no skills, I was waiting to see what you'd come up with, but I didn't expect it to be this weak... imagine being a troll and taking obvious bait 🤭 just to confirm u got no talent. soooo sorry 😂
So much for "honesty" 😢
#ceci speaks#nonsims#text#delete later#not some of yall rallying around an obvious bigot pretending to be black#just say u want an excuse to talk about ppl sims instead of making it a civil rights issue#id respect u more if u did#but got theres nothing worse than a weak troll that got no skills#still aint gonna mention ur name bc i know its driving u wild not to get the free advertisement#you might as well stop deleting cos screenshots are forever sweetheart#sorry to address a troll yall but all this deleting is tickling me so bad#'it feels so good to be honest!!! im having a blast!!! really!! im so cool someone believe me!!!'#*deletes everything they say the minute they get backlash*#😂😂😂#these 20 year old minors aint never gonna learn the game#if ya get mentioned dw that lil bitch babie will delete it within 24 hrs#before mommy checks they internet history#🤣🤣🤣#i know i preach about not feeding trolls but yall got NOTHING to worry about with this one#im sorry love but some ppl got it and some dont... and u dont
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...... mehhhh personal complaining in the tags (tw illness)
#bro I'm on day 17 of a crazy severe mystery illness and I'm so fucking gagged#like my lungs have hurt for over two weeks I can barely walk more than five minutes before getting exerted#and can't have a conversation without wheezing#tumblr have you ever been so sick or incapacitated that it causes you to rethink everything#like i have been so severely sick that it's inspired me to drastically change my entire life#i feel like my body and a large part of me has died and i've metamorphosed jesus i'm a phoenix bitch rising from the ashes#yea is this normal? have other people experienced this?#like an illness so severe that it just makes you go ok ok#this isn't working#the old ways aren't working#the universe really knocks you so far on your ass sometimes to bring you where you need to go next#but god fucking damn#i just want to breathe and be able to walk down the god damn street#ok rant over#hang in there sick tumblr#maybe delete later im just sad girl today#i just want to go on my hot girl walk and do my hot girl dancing but my body won't let me :(
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apologies for bringing up joke karen rowling but there's one lesson her bullshit has taught me besides 'fuck terfs': all of this could have been avoided if she had just said nothing. she could have simply not torpedoed her reputation with all queer and jewish people and not poisoned all discussion about her franchise. the old adage about what to say if you have nothing nice to say is very true
#personal crap#i may make fun of steven moffat but at least he was smart enough to delete twitter in like 2013#bc he kept saying stupid shit about minorities and it was making people hate him#he also should've not said that stuff (and ideally neither of them should think this stuff) but at least he stopped#quite frankly i think a lot of creators probably think shit as stupid as that they're just smart enough not to say#because they know they'll end up like joke karen rowling or bitch fartman#that's also why it doesn't really surprise me when they mask off i kinda assume most people are bigoted in some way
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why is it whenever one of my beloved mutuals gets a new interest and starts posting about it i’m happy to see how excited or interested they are in something and meanwhile i’m over here fighting myself to stop myself from constantly posting whatever my new obsession is for fear of becoming the most annoying person alive
#anxiety really is that bitch#realistically who is going to actually hate me for constantly giffing wot?#like i posted them too much this month and now ive got to gif some other shows alsbfjsksl#anyways ill probably delete this its too vulnerable#hella.txt
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Genuinely asking, because I'm so conflicted on this emotion.
Is it normal to be a little pissed that someone hears something bad happen in the house (Like a loud noise of something breaking) and they call out "Are you okay" and proceed to not check on you. Like at all. No follow up.
And in my defense I really didn't respond because after the thing snapped and broke my brain had to catch up to anything that followed, and by the time I realized what happened I also realized "Oh wow thanks I guess I'm glad nothing worse happened and I'm not hurt or anything"
Like am I little irritated? Yes. Very much so. But I'm also not going to make it a problem. I'm just sorta silently sitting here wondering if maybe I'm just a neurotic bastard.
#I struggle with knowing I have some social issues and wondering what's me overreacting#and because I'm always worried about overreacting I will then underreact#and I genuinely just never know how I should interpret or react to a situation#and I usually settle with doing absolutely nothing because what if I do make a scene and I shouldn't have#And I also feel like when I try to explain emotional moments like this to people they think I'm some mentally ill fuck#and like They're right but my feelings matter right? I'm not trying to bitch at anyone either I just want to express myself#I want to express that I feel like I didn't really matter in that moment#and a game someone was playing was more important than checking on me#like yes what if I wasn't ok#what if I passed out or fell and hit something and couldn't respond#I know that's not what happened but how would they have even known#personal#I'll probably delete when I figure out processing this situation
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#very annoying in a story that hinges on trauma and ptsd when the author kind of (and i really dont want to sound like a bitch) doesnt know#what theyre talking about at all#nothing that annoys me more in fiction than fucking cognative behavioural therapy you know#like the premise of this fic im reading is really good which makes me keep reading it but the execution is so disappointing#anyway im going to delete this proto i just needed to complain
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Pretty like the wind chapter 12 is coming out today!✨💨🫧
#have I went through all the emotions with it? yes#yes i have#my brain really hates it for some reason#and i was close to deleting it all#so i hope it's just me being a bitch to myself#and not that it actually sucks
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sorry yall that i complain a lot.......i try to keep the vent posts to a minimum cause i dont want to be all completely negative and stuff. and also my problems are unimportant compared to other people's struggles and world issues and human rights violations like. Palestine and shit. i just like posting things. and it makes me feel better. also i want my few followers to care to kno that im having hard times and thats why i cant post new art or projects. i know anxiety and depression and financial troubles and just existing in america is a struggle for a lot of people and i dont mean to bring everyone else down by being. pathetic abt things so sorry for posting venty stuff all the time
#i know things could be worse for me and i understand that others have harder shit theyre dealing with#so im sorry for being a lil bitch about mental illness and such#i really want to stop posting sad things about my dumb life all the time i know its not the most productive thing ever#delete later
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Not my friend joking abt me reading tcest fan fiction and saying MM!April got “Velma’d” and then being upset that I haven’t gone to see the movie with him yet thats crazyyyyy
#honestly I don’t think I fucking want to bitch#I already don’t feel like I can really be myself around you I don’t think I could share something that close to me with you#we’ve been friends since 3rd fucking grade what the hell happened to you#not saying that I’m starting to dislike my friend just for this#there’s been a lot of build up and I just think I’m about to lose it yk#jeez sorry I probably shouldn’t be venting this much here but#I’ll probably delete this later#sleep vents
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“i can’t imagine” we know bitch. we know
#dan be like ooOOo i can’t fathom having to brave the horrors of small talk#and the same conversation 5000 times over again only for them to ghost me before the first date#he's really like rip to all you sad single bitches have fun getting the 'omg youre so pretty!' 'omg no u!' *user deleted account*
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